Sexless Marriages

[lumpyrutherford]

lumpyrutherford said:
I know I should keep trying, keep approaching, but it's discouraging when a guy gets shot-down each.and.every.time.
So he gives up.

So sorry to hear.

Was there a time when her libido was much higher? ..If so, then maybe this is one of those instance where the loss of interest in sex is a symptom of an underlying health condition. And if it is indeed a bottomed out testosterone level, well.... she stands to feel a whole lot healthier if she gets it addressed.

There was, when we dated in our LDR (2 hours drive away) on weekends.
One afternoon in a city known for cafes, arts and crafts, in the mountains, we took a break from the heat in the afternoon and returned to the hotel to make passionate love.
Was the best sex I ever had, and told her. She still remembers that.

We stopped having sex about 6 mos before our wedding (well, mostly hehe), recommended by her Catholic church premarital counseling (all the couples admitted they were).
After we married, we had sex but it was never anything like before.

 

[Treeview]

He never sees me naked either .... his choice btw

Terrible choice