sexually ignored married men

Married guy, currently deployed in Afghanistan and sexually deprived. I just thought I would throw a pic out.
 
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I've been watching this thread since the second page and lamenting life during the process.
This is now the fourth time I've typed this second paragraph and then deleted it because it sounds like I'm a whiny bitch. But, I'm not sure that it is possible to not come across that way though technically, yes it's possible I am whiny, it's not true.
Been married 21 years and I just had my 41st birthday last Thursday. Wife didn't remember/notice it was my bd until she got on Facebook around noon. Then puts posts up on FB saying happy birthday. She was probably 30th in line by that point. No birthday card much less a present.
I haven't had sex in 4 weeks I think. I stopped keeping track because it becomes too depressing. This in not the life I envisioned.
Sex isn't everything of course however I have to say that without it I, and I think most men, begin to question whether there is any love. It may sound petty but I believe that men need sex as an affirmation of love.
Oh and I know there's no pics of me here but I'm not a bad looking dude. Not super fit but certainly not overweight. Got a bad boy kinda look with shaved head and goatee. I own a business and wife doesn't have to work so she can live her life doing what she pleases without having to worry.
I have no idea why I'm typing this other than hoping for some release of the bad feelings I'm having and have been having.
Thanks for reading and sorry for sounding like a bitch
 
Totally agree

I've been watching this thread since the second page and lamenting life during the process.
This is now the fourth time I've typed this second paragraph and then deleted it because it sounds like I'm a whiny bitch. But, I'm not sure that it is possible to not come across that way though technically, yes it's possible I am whiny, it's not true.
Been married 21 years and I just had my 41st birthday last Thursday. Wife didn't remember/notice it was my bd until she got on Facebook around noon. Then puts posts up on FB saying happy birthday. She was probably 30th in line by that point. No birthday card much less a present.
I haven't had sex in 4 weeks I think. I stopped keeping track because it becomes too depressing. This in not the life I envisioned.
Sex isn't everything of course however I have to say that without it I, and I think most men, begin to question whether there is any love. It may sound petty but I believe that men need sex as an affirmation of love.
Oh and I know there's no pics of me here but I'm not a bad looking dude. Not super fit but certainly not overweight. Got a bad boy kinda look with shaved head and goatee. I own a business and wife doesn't have to work so she can live her life doing what she pleases without having to worry.
I have no idea why I'm typing this other than hoping for some release of the bad feelings I'm having and have been having.
Thanks for reading and sorry for sounding like a bitch


I think you expressed it well. But be thankful it's only been 4 weeks since last time!
 
Married guy, currently deployed in Afghanistan and sexually deprived. I just thought I would throw a pic out.

I don't think deprived is the same as ignored, but nice pic anyway.


Cute as a button, Fred!

I've been watching this thread since the second page and lamenting life during the process.
This is now the fourth time I've typed this second paragraph and then deleted it because it sounds like I'm a whiny bitch. But, I'm not sure that it is possible to not come across that way though technically, yes it's possible I am whiny, it's not true.
Been married 21 years and I just had my 41st birthday last Thursday. Wife didn't remember/notice it was my bd until she got on Facebook around noon. Then puts posts up on FB saying happy birthday. She was probably 30th in line by that point. No birthday card much less a present.
I haven't had sex in 4 weeks I think. I stopped keeping track because it becomes too depressing. This in not the life I envisioned.
Sex isn't everything of course however I have to say that without it I, and I think most men, begin to question whether there is any love. It may sound petty but I believe that men need sex as an affirmation of love.
Oh and I know there's no pics of me here but I'm not a bad looking dude. Not super fit but certainly not overweight. Got a bad boy kinda look with shaved head and goatee. I own a business and wife doesn't have to work so she can live her life doing what she pleases without having to worry.
I have no idea why I'm typing this other than hoping for some release of the bad feelings I'm having and have been having.
Thanks for reading and sorry for sounding like a bitch

You know, live is short. If you are unhappy with your life, do something about it. We're all entitled to whine and bitch once in a while, so I don't have a problem with it. And I think if you want more than your wife does she shouldn't mind if you go elsewhere if she's otherwise benefiting from your efforts. Guilt is also a pointless emotion.

A friend of mine went with out for 9 months! Cant even imagine!!

Its such a shame things like this happen! :(

Yeah, I couldn't do that. Would rather die.

It is: there is just this life and sex is one thing good for everyone

There are situations where it isn't good for everyone, but certainly if you've no medical reason why not, then get it while you can.
 
I've been watching this thread since the second page and lamenting life during the process.
This is now the fourth time I've typed this second paragraph and then deleted it because it sounds like I'm a whiny bitch. But, I'm not sure that it is possible to not come across that way though technically, yes it's possible I am whiny, it's not true.
Been married 21 years and I just had my 41st birthday last Thursday. Wife didn't remember/notice it was my bd until she got on Facebook around noon. Then puts posts up on FB saying happy birthday. She was probably 30th in line by that point. No birthday card much less a present.
I haven't had sex in 4 weeks I think. I stopped keeping track because it becomes too depressing. This in not the life I envisioned.
Sex isn't everything of course however I have to say that without it I, and I think most men, begin to question whether there is any love. It may sound petty but I believe that men need sex as an affirmation of love.
Oh and I know there's no pics of me here but I'm not a bad looking dude. Not super fit but certainly not overweight. Got a bad boy kinda look with shaved head and goatee. I own a business and wife doesn't have to work so she can live her life doing what she pleases without having to worry.
I have no idea why I'm typing this other than hoping for some release of the bad feelings I'm having and have been having.
Thanks for reading and sorry for sounding like a bitch

Damn! You need a new neighbor ;)

Tifani
 
Well, Temptress, that may sound great on paper but how many women do you know that will just say "oh yeah, go ahead and have sex with other women because I don't have the same drive as you"? I don't think that's a common thing. At the very least that isn't going to be happening here.
What's weird to me is that when she does manage to get into it she nearly always has an orgasm. I know she gets horny too because sometimes it's been so long that she'll orgasm from foreplay. And I know what some of you will say, but, really there's no reason for her to fake it. And she's been like this for the whole time of our marriage, even years ago when sex was a couple times a day and incredible and wild and anywhere the mood hit. I think that may be the worst part about my current situation. Sex used to be crazy. I used to brag about her at work. Now? Not so much.
However, if you'd like to have that conversation about sex out of marriage with my wife you are welcome to. Maybe you could involve djyak in that too? ;)
 
Well, Temptress, that may sound great on paper but how many women do you know that will just say "oh yeah, go ahead and have sex with other women because I don't have the same drive as you"? I don't think that's a common thing. At the very least that isn't going to be happening here.
What's weird to me is that when she does manage to get into it she nearly always has an orgasm. I know she gets horny too because sometimes it's been so long that she'll orgasm from foreplay. And I know what some of you will say, but, really there's no reason for her to fake it. And she's been like this for the whole time of our marriage, even years ago when sex was a couple times a day and incredible and wild and anywhere the mood hit. I think that may be the worst part about my current situation. Sex used to be crazy. I used to brag about her at work. Now? Not so much.
However, if you'd like to have that conversation about sex out of marriage with my wife you are welcome to. Maybe you could involve djyak in that too? ;)

I'm up for a hands on approach. Maybe show her what she's been missing, then involve her.....

Tifani
 
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