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hangdawg said:
Well, Temptress, that may sound great on paper but how many women do you know that will just say "oh yeah, go ahead and have sex with other women because I don't have the same drive as you"? I don't think that's a common thing. At the very least that isn't going to be happening here.
What's weird to me is that when she does manage to get into it she nearly always has an orgasm. I know she gets horny too because sometimes it's been so long that she'll orgasm from foreplay. And I know what some of you will say, but, really there's no reason for her to fake it. And she's been like this for the whole time of our marriage, even years ago when sex was a couple times a day and incredible and wild and anywhere the mood hit. I think that may be the worst part about my current situation. Sex used to be crazy. I used to brag about her at work. Now? Not so much.
However, if you'd like to have that conversation about sex out of marriage with my wife you are welcome to. Maybe you could involve djyak in that too? ;)
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I think YOU need to have the conversation with her. Explain how you feel and how you miss how it used to be. We all do get older and tired, and perhaps your needs are unreasonable? But if you don't think that, and frankly from what you said before, she's having all the benefits without having to put out, then you have a problem. Either you say look if you aren't interested I'll find it elsewhere but everything else can carry on as before. Or you say I'm off because what we have isn't what I want anymore. Or you decide that you like the status quo, and just quietly have more sex elsewhere.

djyak said:
I'm up for a hands on approach. Maybe show her what she's been missing, then involve her.....

Tifani
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Or there's that.
 
I've read through all of this, and come to realize that there are others out there in my same situation. Is it that common, or are we just the squeaky wheels?

The only time I get attention is when she needs something done. The attention consists of "Hey, can you let the dog out?", or "Don't forget trash day is today.".
 
CorridorBoy said:
I've read through all of this, and come to realize that there are others out there in my same situation. Is it that common, or are we just the squeaky wheels?

The only time I get attention is when she needs something done. The attention consists of "Hey, can you let the dog out?", or "Don't forget trash day is today.".
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I'm thinking of starting a problem page thread ....

In my experience it IS quite common. But I think some of it is down to the guys letting it become the norm. Some of it is down to the woman feeling tired especially after children. Sometimes it is a medical issue. And sometimes you can talk till you're blue in the face but nothing ever changes.

This is the point at which you have to decide your plan of action. You can continue with the status quo. You can leave, find someone else who may or may not turn out to be the same in the long run. You can surf lit and find pleasure there. You can appear to continue with the status quo and find someone just for pleasure. Only you know what you (and your partner) can live with. Some women seem to be happy as long as the bills are paid and they have a nice wardrobe, the kids are fed and watered and there's a nice summer holiday to look forward to, and dictate when/if there is any sex in the relationship, but expect fidelity nonetheless. Personally I think this is unreasonable and unfair.

I can't tell anyone what the solution is, because everyone is different, and only they know what will work for them. All I can say is I'm very sorry.
 
CorridorBoy said:
I've read through all of this, and come to realize that there are others out there in my same situation. Is it that common, or are we just the squeaky wheels?

The only time I get attention is when she needs something done. The attention consists of "Hey, can you let the dog out?", or "Don't forget trash day is today.".
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I've known that one well.
The other trick is to have sex so you're in a good mood and get asked to do or pay for something they want.
 
How it can feel.

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Okay here is mine!

I am embarrassed to tell how many years without sex for me, but here are a few pics.
 
Sexless Wife

To all those suggesting that the guys talk to their wifes about having sex, please remember that will not change things with many women who just aren't interested in sex, for whatever reason. Best advice I have is to find a FWB or two that still enjoy sex instead of jacking-off in the shower.
 
Small pics

Sorry about the size of the pics. I will try and resize them. Have a few more that are a little bit naughtier.:)
 
Small pics

I will see if I can resize those pics and I have a few more that are a little bit naughtier that I can post.:)
 
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