Should Fantasies Stay Fantasies?

[jet_nebula]

Some,yes. We all have fantasies that we can share while others should be left in the dungeon. Making a fantasy a reality is usually risky because of high expectations and it's a rare when the reality mirrors the fantasy.

 

[Hoot47]

The stories I write often start out being true experiences, but along the way I like to insert a fantasy or two. Not saying this makes them better, but it does allow me to include things I probably would never do. As with everyone else commenting, it just depends on the fantasy.

 

[madmatt618]

That's a tough question. If you're not sure if the fantasy will live up to your expectations, it is probably best to just leave it be. When you know the fantasy would be everything you wanted it to be and more, but there might be repercussions involved, so you can't go forward with it; That it is tough.

 

[Ex Princess]

Hmm, most of my fantasies stem from what I have experienced. Sort of the opposite of everyone else.

My reality may have been super hot and heavy, my fantasies seem to take it just a few steps further. What I would do now if I could relive those times once again.

 

[Genus69]

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[tekgirl]

That's a tough question. If you're not sure if the fantasy will live up to your expectations, it is probably best to just leave it be. When you know the fantasy would be everything you wanted it to be and more, but there might be repercussions involved, so you can't go forward with it; That it is tough.

I hear this. But sometimes in not making a fantasy a reality something else comes of it. Like a beautiful friendship that you couldn't see because of all the lust.

Once that smoke clears, you see your best friend right in front of you.

 

[ThinkWrite]

I hear this. But sometimes in not making a fantasy a reality something else comes of it. Like a beautiful friendship that you couldn't see because of all the lust.

Once that smoke clears, you see your best friend right in front of you.

What a beautiful comment! Thank you tekgirl.

 

[Ex Princess]

I realize my reality is a fantasy for many people which excites me...

 

[madmatt618]

I hear this. But sometimes in not making a fantasy a reality something else comes of it. Like a beautiful friendship that you couldn't see because of all the lust.

Once that smoke clears, you see your best friend right in front of you.

The lust part of the fantasy is always there, and always will be. At times, it kills to not be able to bring that to fruition.

However, when the tradeoff is finding one of the dearest, sweetest, most special people in the world, and knowing that I have that person as my dearest and best friend, I wouldn't change a thing.

But know it Tek, although you ARE my best friend, you will always be my fantasy too!!

 

[tekgirl]

The lust part of the fantasy is always there, and always will be. At times, it kills to not be able to bring that to fruition.

However, when the tradeoff is finding one of the dearest, sweetest, most special people in the world, and knowing that I have that person as my dearest and best friend, I wouldn't change a thing.

But know it Tek, although you ARE my best friend, you will always be my fantasy too!!

You're my fantasy too MadMatt.

I'd love to meet you for lunch someday. That would be my fantasy. And I specify lunch because I know we'd talk so much that if we met for dinner we wouldn't have enough time.

 

[madmatt618]

You're my fantasy too MadMatt.

I'd love to meet you for lunch someday. That would be my fantasy. And I specify lunch because I know we'd talk so much that if we met for dinner we wouldn't have enough time.

I know that we will meet someday. There is no way that you can have the relationship that we have without ever meeting each other in person. Its impossible I think.

Just don't be offended by the guy that I'm going to hire to stand behind me with a caddle-prod to shock me in case I veer out of line. To have you in front of me and still not want to jump you would be damn tough!!

 

[AmandaJane]

Of course not all fantasies should be pursued. For that matter not all fantasies should be shared with your partner. Fantasy should be a guiltless pleasure; mind candy for your own pleasure.
I think it is important to differentiate sexual fantasy from sexual desire. For example, sometimes I desire to be in complete control and have my lover be completely submissive. The fantasies off this one desire are many and often completely out of bounds, but thats ok, it just a fantasy. having my husband be my slave for the weekend..desire fulfilled.