Showing wife's pics

[marriedpervert]

Hi All,

Well im a newbie here and find this forum interesting.

Well im a married man and have 1 kid , my wife covers her self while we go out cause we are from middle east. She is gourgeous woman and i really love her.

But seeing her covered all the time when go outside makes me think that what would other men have comments about her if she goes out with not too much covering her self.

This idea arouses me a lot and many times at home i have taken her pics in night suits and some naked ones and some giving bjs . and made cyber connections.

I also shown all the pics to these cyber guys and they go like crazy seeing her and have really good comments about her.

This surely made me aroused too much and made me do over and over again by taking more pics of her.

Does anybody here shares the same kind of interest and if do then tell me if we are doing right or wrong here. surely my wife doesnt know of my this dark secret.

Regards,

 

[wicked woman]

That you want to do it...no problem.
That you actually share intimate pics of your wife without her permission...is a big problem.

Don't think you'll get much support for your actions here. Not that we're opposed to such pics...but it's the violation of your wife's trust and lack of respect for her (especially considering you are from the Middle East and she covers up for all but you and your pleasure).

btw if you're thinking of posting any of her pics here (which I admit you didn't suggest) you should know it's against Lit rules to post pics without the person's consent.

 

[SweetErika]

If you asked your wife if it was okay to show her pictures to random people on the Internet who might save, or even post them on websites, what would she say?

If your wife found out you were sharing her pictures without her consent, how would she feel and react?

Answering those questions will tell you if what you're doing is right or wrong. It sounds like, however, she gave you permission to take the pictures, but did not say you could share them, so you have betrayed her trust and done something that could be very hurtful. I would suggest not sharing her photos without her consent anymore, and asking her if she'd like to share them if you have the urge.

 

[CarpeNoctemV]

Things like that should be done with her consent...

(However, I'd love to see these pictures in question myself)

 

[Eilan]

I'll link to the thread even though the thread starter insults me. Don't do anything without your wife's permission.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=373861

 

[Hinemoa]

I can only ditto what has been said, but I would be hurt and angry, if you did it to me withiout my permission. It is however flattering that you wish to do so, just talk to her first.

 

[marriedpervert]

Thanks all

Tried to talk to her to bring her to this fantasy of mine but she strongly disagrees making me feel more guilty.

Though I have this urge always to show but i guess i cant do it.

 

[HeavenCanWait]

r-i-i-i-i-g-h-t

well, never mind.

 

[M's girl]

But seeing her covered all the time when go outside makes me think that what would other men have comments about her if she goes out with not too much covering her self.

I understand this part. You love her and you think she looks wonderful and you are probably proud. You want to show her off somehow and it builds your self esteem to hear what a lucky guy you are. It's a western world thing and there's nothing wrong with that but she comes from a different background where different values count. You married her knowing this. And unless she tells you it's OK (which she does not!) you need to respect her wishes.

Hell, you would even need to respect her wishes no matter where she came from. It's her body and pictures of her you are publishing against her will. Do you even remotely realize what could happen to her if her family would find out? In some parts of her culture it could be her death sentence...

I also shown all the pics to these cyber guys and they go like crazy seeing her and have really good comments about her.

You are not woth her trust and love, let me tell you that. You are a selfish asshole.

 

[stairwaytokevin]

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[marriedpervert]

You are not woth her trust and love, let me tell you that. You are a selfish asshole.

Ok i agree with ur initial comments but it doesnt make me selfish asshole of simply showing her pics and loving her and satisfying her all the wishes.

I dearly love her and will always and im not being selfish with her ever.

 

[nymphee]

Ok i agree with ur initial comments but it doesnt make me selfish asshole of simply showing her pics and loving her and satisfying her all the wishes.

I dearly love her and will always and im not being selfish with her ever.

Uh, yeah you are.

She doesn't want you to show the pictures. You do want to show them. You do it anyway, because you decide that you want is more important than what she wants.

I'd say that just about equals selfish to me.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Tried to talk to her to bring her to this fantasy of mine but she strongly disagrees making me feel more guilty.

Though I have this urge always to show but i guess i cant do it.

The only way you will ever get your wife to join you in your fantasy world is if she can completely trust you and feel totally comfortable. I totally understand your desire to show off your wife. I've been taking photos of my wife for years and would have loved to show her off, but never did because she did not want to. I had to respect that feeling. Eventually we posted a few pics here on Lit a while back as kind of an experiment. She had rules, not showing her face, no recognizable locations, basically protecting her anonymity, which was totally cool with me. In the end, though it really wasn't as exciting as either of us probably hoped, it was a good experience because it was totally consentual.

I could not imagine posting pictures of my wife, or anyone else for that matter, without their permission. It is a breach of trust and it is selfish. While you may want to show of your beautiful wife, she obviously wants to keep that part of her private. Whether it is because she wants to reserve that for you alone or because she is scared to have her pictures all over the net is irrelevant. If she is uncomfortable with the idea, then posting or trading pics of her is breach of trust and privacy.

She finds out you are trading pics, then she stops letting you take pics, next she stops letting you see her uncovered, and next she stops letting you touch her. That's how the progression goes, just insert any kind of fantasy in there and it is the same thing. Trust me dude, it's not worth it.

If you really want to try and get her to let you post pics, then you have to start with the trust. Bring her to somewhere like lit and show her the way people are trading pics. If she starts to become interested, set ground rules which make her more comfortable, like not showing her face. Finally don't EVER violate those rules without her permission. If she says no or at anytime decides she wants to stop, you MUST respect her wishes. That's how you build trust and share your fantasies. You can't force them or "talk her into it", it has to be a willing journey. It becomes a way to strengthen instead of weaken a relationship, and it is so much more rewarding that way.

 

[Chicklet]

Tried to talk to her to bring her to this fantasy of mine but she strongly disagrees making me feel more guilty.

Though I have this urge always to show but i guess i cant do it.

It sounds like you know that now she has said no, you can't do it anymore. It's unfortunate that you did it in the first place, but I wouldn't go so far as to say you're a selfish asshole. A selfish asshole is more the type that goes and sleeps with other women and doesn't tell his wife.

I would say stop the practice now, even though it means squashing your desire to show her off. Stop showing the pictures. If it is going to be too hard keeping them for yourself, stop taking them, too.

I also don't think you should tell her that you ever did show her pictures. I don't approve of dishonesty but I don't think you should rock the boat at this time. And please, for me, don't push her into agreeing to let you show her off when she's uncomfortable with it.