Sleep Sex

[cartepostalelondon]

Another of my 'Genuinely Interest In People's Answers amd Experiences Rather Than purely Tittilation' posts. A little long, but I hope you'll bear with me.

I'm thinking of turning a very hot encounter with a former partner into a full blown story and maybe changing a few things about it while I'm at it. One thing that might work would be if the male character had sex with the female character while she was sleeping. Not my cup of tea, but I know some people like it.

Another former partner hinted on more than one occasion that it might be nice, but I was a little hesitant as I'm very careful around consent no matter how long I've been with someone. What happens if consent is given in the evening, but a bad dream or a bad night's sleep might have changed their mind and they wake up with me inside them? What then? Even if in law, I could not be blamed, what if I lost her or it somehow traumatised her? I never said anything to her or tried to discuss it, something I really regret now, not because it's something I now wish I had gone through with, but because I should have been grown up and at least acknowledged.

I thought about it some more this morning and I can see how, actually, it might be quite a nice way to wake up. Someone you love and trust not being able to wait for you to wake up, or just because they know you like it.

Am I making wild assumptions here?

I know the ladies of Literotica and more likely to be open to trying new thinks and exploring their fantasies, so any answers are not necessarily representative of any large group, but ladies, is this:

a) something you've thought/fantasised about
b) wanted to try but your partner won't
c) something you and your partner do or have done

If the answer is 'yesterday anyway of the above, what made you think you'd like to try it, why do you like it and do you like it for any reason other than it being a sexual act?

If anyone without a vagina has any experiences, thought or feelings they'd like to share, please feel free to answer too.

Who knows, I might change my mind.

 

[Chatty_Cheeky_Monkey]

My wife experiences night terrors and regularly wakes up in bed with some idea about seeing a face in the roof or a giant spider under the bed so I'm not going to risk my life and limb by waking her with my hands all around and inside her (although I would love that).

She is very lucid and usually wakes and calms back down to sleep right away

However, once a night terror had her basically jump me and we had amazing sex. Later said she had no idea what she was dreaming and wasn't even sure when she properly woke up but it was during her riding me and she came in top of me which is very rare!

Only happened once over 15 years together but each night I say a little prayer

 

[cartepostalelondon]

Thanks for your reply. Very interesting!

 

[Chatty_Cheeky_Monkey]

My pleasure. It's a fun memory to play over

 

[FeelingLikeMyself]

Another of my 'Genuinely Interest In People's Answers amd Experiences Rather Than purely Tittilation' posts. A little long, but I hope you'll bear with me.

I'm thinking of turning a very hot encounter with a former partner into a full blown story and maybe changing a few things about it while I'm at it. One thing that might work would be if the male character had sex with the female character while she was sleeping. Not my cup of tea, but I know some people like it.

Another former partner hinted on more than one occasion that it might be nice, but I was a little hesitant as I'm very careful around consent no matter how long I've been with someone. What happens if consent is given in the evening, but a bad dream or a bad night's sleep might have changed their mind and they wake up with me inside them? What then? Even if in law, I could not be blamed, what if I lost her or it somehow traumatised her? I never said anything to her or tried to discuss it, something I really regret now, not because it's something I now wish I had gone through with, but because I should have been grown up and at least acknowledged.

I thought about it some more this morning and I can see how, actually, it might be quite a nice way to wake up. Someone you love and trust not being able to wait for you to wake up, or just because they know you like it.

Am I making wild assumptions here?

I know the ladies of Literotica and more likely to be open to trying new thinks and exploring their fantasies, so any answers are not necessarily representative of any large group, but ladies, is this:

a) something you've thought/fantasised about
b) wanted to try but your partner won't
c) something you and your partner do or have done

If the answer is 'yesterday anyway of the above, what made you think you'd like to try it, why do you like it and do you like it for any reason other than it being a sexual act?

If anyone without a vagina has any experiences, thought or feelings they'd like to share, please feel free to answer too.

Who knows, I might change my mind.

My fiancee and I have sleepytime sex free use rules. I wake up to her doing various things to me, but I often just pretend to be asleep and enjoy the feeling of being the subject of so much lust.

For her I wake her up by going down on her under the blankets. Going inside her while she is sleeping is difficult and the objective is to wake her to something pleasurable for her.

Only rule is that we have to stop if asked. Hasn't come up yet.

This requires a whole fuck ton of trust, constant communication, a desire for your partner to enjoy the act as much as you do and the ego not to be insulted or hurt when your partner asks for you to stop for whatever reason.

Technically this is consensual non consent play and should be treated as such.

 

[Chatty_Cheeky_Monkey]

My fiancee and I have sleepytime sex free use rules. I wake up to her doing various things to me, but I often just pretend to be asleep and enjoy the feeling of being the subject of so much lust.

For her I wake her up by going down on her under the blankets. Going inside her while she is sleeping is difficult and the objective is to wake her to something pleasurable for her.

Only rule is that we have to stop if asked. Hasn't come up yet.

This requires a whole fuck ton of trust, constant communication, a desire for your partner to enjoy the act as much as you do and the ego not to be insulted or hurt when your partner asks for you to stop for whatever reason.

Technically this is consensual non consent play and should be treated as such.

This is beautiful on many levels

 

[FeelingLikeMyself]

This is beautiful on many levels

Thank you. I'm a very lucky human to have her in my life

 

[LoneMilf]

Many years ago, my husband and I were on very different sleep schedules for work reasons. To help things a bit, we made an explicit agreement that it was ok to wake each other up for sex. Most of the time, that would just be by caressing or kissing until the other one would wake up, but sometimes it's tricky to know exactly how awake your partner really is. I have tried waking up both with him licking me and with him inside me - in both cases, he had started with more foreplay-like activities, but I didn't become aware until later. That wasn't a problem for me, and I doubt it would be for most. You just have to be extra sensitive to how they feel when they do realize what you're doing. And be prepared to slow down

 

[soflabbwlvr]

When my wife and I first got together we were fucking 2-3 times a day. First thing in the morning, last thing at night, and often another in between. And even more on weekends. Despite all that, it was not unusual for one of us to wake up in the middle of the night feeling horny and initiating another round. We both did it, although in all honesty it was me more than her. We slept naked, so if we were spooning it wasn't at all difficult to slide it in from behind and get started. When she initiated she would use her hand to get me hard and then guide it in. One night we we were going at it, finished, and as we were going back to sleep I asked her what she was dreaming about that got her so horny. She replied "Me? I thought it was you that started that." We never did figure out who initiated that round.

 

[emme8]

My husband went through a spell of sleep fucking. I would wake up with him trying to fuck me. When I woke him he had no memory of if it. I truly believe it was sleep walking through it. I enjoyed it.

EXCEPT. I wasn't on birth control and I didn't want to be pregnant again. So I had to stop him, Sometimes inflicting pain with fingernails or bites to tender areas.

It was good sex.

 

[cartepostalelondon]

Thanks guys. From memory I'd sometimes wake her on a weekend morning with kisses to her neck and shoulders, some squeezing of a breast, gently grinding against her bottom or light running a finger up and down her pussy. She never complained that I recall, bit I just couldn't bring myself to go further.

 

[HornyLittleDevil2026]

I’ve awoken to a girlfriend giving me a blow job and I once began playing with a FWB pussy in the middle of the night while she slept. It got very wet so I don't know for sure if she was really awake or not but her pussy certainly was. Although I've never stuck my cock into a woman as she slept, I've nudged plenty of them awake with it.