So, I'm reading this book....

[on_the_verge]

Ok..so I'm kinda bored this afternoon and this came to mind for a thread..Please entertain me..Notice I said please.

The book is called The Erotic Mind. It has some interesting concepts in it and makes the reader think about sexuality in some new and different ways..

One of the questions posed in the book is :

Imagine yourself really wanting to be sexually aroused but, for some reason, you're not. Based on everything you know about your own sexuality, describe the fantasy that would be the very most likely to arouse you.

Ok, I know it might be a stretch for some of you to not be able to get aroused easily, but think about it. I think most all of us have times when we just aren't quite there sexually.

So what would do it for you? Describe with some details THE ONE that would get you there.

It's not a stretch, but I will entertain you later on that note. It looks like you walked into the right bookstore, no?

 

[Lance Hardrock]

bumping

Gheesh, I am always ready. So needing a fantasy is not usually required for me. However, I love fantasies and as most of you know, I write them down.

This weekend (Saturday morning in bed to be specific) I was lazily enjoying my favorite pastime of licking, when I began to think of this question.

It occurred to me, that thinking of some of my litmates or some of the pics they've posted or scenes they have described is a real turn on for me. I can't just pick one, but the hottest fantasies for me involve two ladies who start out with tying me to a chair. Then they perform various acts on each other until I'm about to explode from watching all the fun. The fantasy continues with them untying me and both of them sit on me, one on my cock, the other on my face. They change places at least once before I finally explode in an awesome cum.

Oh yea, this fantasy Saturday morning, sure led to even hotter fun than usual. Mmmmmmmmm.

 

[enjoyingitall]

One of the questions posed in the book is :

Imagine yourself really wanting to be sexually aroused but, for some reason, you're not. Based on everything you know about your own sexuality, describe the fantasy that would be the very most likely to arouse you.

So what would do it for you? Describe with some details THE ONE that would get you there.

Since I posted this on Friday, I was thinking about it. I suppose that THE ONE CHANGES OVER TIME..

Lately, the one for me has been slow, seductive, and sensual tongue play. When I want to really get stirred up, I visualize my lover's tongue roaming all over my body, very slowly. Starting at my neck and trailing its way down over my breasts, across my stomach, to my inner thighs. I visualize this while I see myself just reclining and enjoying the sensations. I don't move at all. I allow myself to think of how his tongue, moist and warm feels as it tickles my skin. In my mind I am thinking how much I want to feel it on my clit, but I don't want him to hurry. By the time I imagine he has made his way to my clit, I am extremely aroused and Oh so ready.


Edited cuz my copy and paste job didn't work..

 

[enjoyingitall]

NG and Rosie...glad you stopped in. Thanks so much for sharing with us.

Lance, good morning..so that's the one that's doing it for you lately? Nice one.

 

[enjoyingitall]

Re: Re: So, I'm reading this book....

It's not a stretch, but I will entertain you later on that note. It looks like you walked into the right bookstore, no?

I always seem to walk into the right places. Just a knack I have.

 

[sortacurious]

Re: Re: So, I'm reading this book....

Since I posted this on Friday, I was thinking about it. I suppose that THE ONE CHANGES OVER TIME..

I agree, sometimes The One, lingers for a while. Other times, it changes daily. Is that fickle or diverse of me?

 

[sortacurious]

I realized I'm never going to be able to look back and laugh at myself if I don't contribute here. But the last couple days The One has been the one that I posted on a thread in Feb. So I copied it from there. This memory of my ex sums up the relationship we had so well, too.

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Secretly meeting at a deserted parking area at the beach. The wind is howling and rain starts to freckle the windshield. My car door flies open and Voila! he's sitting next to me once again. As always there is a nervousness surrounding these few and far between moments. To break down the barriers that we keep putting around ourselves, we must touch. He takes my hands in his and we both smile. Relief that only comes from his reassurances washes over me. We hear the rain's tempo increase on the roof top. We naturally slide into an embrace and once again I am grateful for the beat-up boat of a car with the wide bench seat. Our hands slide over each other, confirming the other is truely there. I came straight from work and had dressed that day in the dress he requested. "How did you know I had this dress?", I ask. He smiles wickedly, "just because you don't see me, doesn't me that I don't see you". Shivers, what else has he secretly observed? No time to ask as he kisses me with such a passion. Only he can kiss me like that. He owns my mouth, molding it with his lips. Oh how I've missed this. Thunder in the distance. He know how much I love an electric storm, how hot they make me. At that moment, I believed he was capable of anything, including creating that storm, just for me.
I feel his hand slid down my waist to rest just below my hip. Somehow, he brushes across a ticklish spot. I didn't even know that spot exsisted. I giggle a little. "I love to hear you laugh", he breathes into my ear. His fingers go automatically back it that silly little place. He alternates from tickling and pinning me to one place to kissing and nuzzling me. I alternate from laughing and squirming all over the place to thrashing and panting. Tickling? I didn't know I could get so worked up by this kind of foreplay. But of course, he's always known me better than I know myself. Lightening brightens the sky for an instant. I see the look in his eyes and reach to feel his hardness. I moan softly. He pulls my dress over my head. I still have my silky slip on. Oh he found the matching spot under the opposite hip. Another mindbending kiss. My body is hot and moist, the windows steamed. He opens the car door and a cool blast of salty wind feels so exotic on my burning flesh. He takes my hand and I slid out his door. We are standing in the rain and soon are soaking and it's increased from showers to a downpour. He backs me against the cold metal of the car and grinds his pelvis to mine, we both groan in unison. My slip is clinging to my skin and steam starts to rise off our bodies, looking so unreal yet so beautiful. I feel the satiny fabric lifted from me. My tip toes are all that is on the ground, shoes long kicked off. He bends me backward as he leans over me, mmm his teeth scrape across my collarbone over the flesh of my breasts. On and on he manipulates my body, sculpting me. I know that anyone could drive up, their headlights showing the world our lust. I don't care, let them watch if they happen upon us. I only want this to last forever. My panties are whisked from my body as he easily picks me up and sets me on the hood. The water flies from the sky, my body slick, wet. He releases his painfully hard cock from his pants and glids the head across my lips, once, twice. In one hard thrust he is in me, stretching the flesh. I can only plead for him to make me cum. He groans loud, a warrior who has conquered. My legs wrap around his waist, my hands kneeding the muscles of his back as they ripple with his movements. Suddenly the pace quickens he hands go from the grip on my breasts to my hips. I hold on tight as he slams into me, harder and harder still. I feel him touching the very end of me. We both stiffen, time stands yet everything is happening at once. I contract around him, he releases his cum is great bursts, the world spins as the rain is stinging and lightening and thunder occur in unison.


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Yep, does it to me every time. Now why'd he have to go and move!?

 

[Lance Hardrock]

very true

The ONE definitely changes for me. That one of two ladies is an old fav of mine, but from time to time it changes. Right now, licking someone ALL over could be the ONE for me.


The main thing, the ONE, for me is knowing that my lady WANTS me to pleasure her. That is what really really gets my heart pounding.

 

[enjoyingitall]

Re: Re: Re: So, I'm reading this book....

I agree, sometimes The One, lingers for a while. Other times, it changes daily. Is that fickle or diverse of me?

Hiya SC!..Let's go with diverse..just has a better ring to it than fickle! LOL

I love the one you shared..Wow..very sensual. So glad you decided to share.

 

[Lance Hardrock]

I'm in AWE, SC

SC, not only was that a fantastic scene, but so vividly written. I bow in awe to you, my dear.

X 12

 

[enjoyingitall]

Re: very true

The ONE definitely changes for me. That one of two ladies is an old fav of mine, but from time to time it changes. Right now, licking someone ALL over could be the ONE for me.


The main thing, the ONE, for me is knowing that my lady WANTS me to pleasure her. That is what really really gets my heart pounding.

Oh..I agree..sometimes, I don't need to anything more than to hear him say, I want you.......and I am soooooo there..

 

[sortacurious]

Re: Re: Re: Re: So, I'm reading this book....

Hiya SC!..Let's go with diverse..just has a better ring to it than fickle! LOL

I love the one you shared..Wow..very sensual. So glad you decided to share.

LOL, Diverse it is!

Thank you, it's a very vivid memory.

 

[sortacurious]

Re: I'm in AWE, SC

SC, not only was that a fantastic scene, but so vividly written. I bow in awe to you, my dear.

X 12

I'm bowing to you in returned awe. I loved the one you sent me this morning. What a way to wake up and get all hot and bothered. You do that to me everytime!

 

[Tantanah]

An erotic massage would do it for me. Close attention being paid to the small of my back, rubbing up my spine to my shoulders and neck, warm breath on my neck, massaging up to my head...hot.

 

[enjoyingitall]

Hello Tantanah..So glad you stopped by. A massage is always a good way to relax the mind and get things ready, I would agree with you.

 

[Lance Hardrock]

Love the AV

I'm bowing to you in returned awe. I loved the one you sent me this morning. What a way to wake up and get all hot and bothered. You do that to me everytime!

Oh btw, I love your av. I wish I may, I wish I might, I wish.......

 

[lovemetender]

interesting question but one I can't really give a definitive answer to....it truly depends from day to day what will provoke these erotic feelings....

lately though thoughts of tender touching & slow strong passionate kisses is working very nicely

 

[enjoyingitall]

interesting question but one I can't really give a definitive answer to....it truly depends from day to day what will provoke these erotic feelings....

lately though thoughts of tender touching & slow strong passionate kisses is working very nicely

Very nice thoughts there, lmt..very nice indeed.

There is something special about imagining your lover to be just touching you ever so lightly and giving strong kisses at the same time..hmmmm.. I think I could use that next time I feel the need for a spark to get me going...

 

[naughtygirl]

NG and Rosie...glad you stopped in. Thanks so much for sharing with us.

Lance, good morning..so that's the one that's doing it for you lately? Nice one.

Thanks for the welcome Enjoyingitall...Nice to meet you, Ive seen you around but we havent formally met. *kiss*

 

[Lance Hardrock]

Don't I get a kiss?

Thanks for the welcome Enjoyingitall...Nice to meet you, Ive seen you around but we havent formally met. *kiss*

Hey I welcumed you too. Don't I get a kiss? <just kidding>

 

[enjoyingitall]

Thanks for the welcome Enjoyingitall...Nice to meet you, Ive seen you around but we havent formally met. *kiss*

Well, it's nice to have formally met ya now.

Hope to see you around.

 

[naughtygirl]

Re: Don't I get a kiss?

Hey I welcumed you too. Don't I get a kiss? <just kidding>

Thanks Lance! *lots of little kisses in your most special spots* YUM!

 

[enjoyingitall]

Thanks to you all for sharing your thoughts on that first question..


So..I'm still reading this book. Now, I've come across another interesting question..this one is shorter and we won't have to think so hard for answers..


Given the choice of any form of erotic material, what kind would you choose? And what theme would you most want the material to contain?

Thanks for playing with me.

 

[Ukin]

Thanks to you all for sharing your thoughts on that first question..


So..I'm still reading this book. Now, I've come across another interesting question..this one is shorter and we won't have to think so hard for answers..


Given the choice of any form of erotic material, what kind would you choose? And what theme would you most want the material to contain?

Thanks for playing with me.

I enjoy..or I would enjoy playing with you...but back to the question

Without doubt..for me it's a blue movie..or an erotic one at least. Content? Well....to be truthful..I love to watch ladies on ladies..anal sex...and ..well..anything I guess to do with sex..but that is too broad! No, it has to be the ladies on ladies...or watching them use toys or their fingers...that IS so erotic..and get's me going everytime.

 

[enjoyingitall]

I enjoy..or I would enjoy playing with you...but back to the question

Without doubt..for me it's a blue movie..or an erotic one at least. Content? Well....to be truthful..I love to watch ladies on ladies..anal sex...and ..well..anything I guess to do with sex..but that is too broad! No, it has to be the ladies on ladies...or watching them use toys or their fingers...that IS so erotic..and get's me going everytime.

Oh..you most certainly would enjoy playing with me..but then..everyone knows..I don't play here..lol well..not much anyway..

Thanks for answering the question..I think..if more people will answer it we can see lots of variety and it would be interesting to note the differences between female and male response.

Thanks again, sweetie..and yes..still using my very best southern accent for you..