So, I'm reading this book....

[lilrosie lips]

Thanks to you all for sharing your thoughts on that first question..


So..I'm still reading this book. Now, I've come across another interesting question..this one is shorter and we won't have to think so hard for answers..


Given the choice of any form of erotic material, what kind would you choose? And what theme would you most want the material to contain?

Thanks for playing with me.

Stories.... for me its always stories... then I can imagine the action just the way I want, I control the gentle touch, the look of the characters, the setting, the voices, the sounds of the sighs and moans and groans, the sound of flesh meeting flesh.... movies are nice, especially if the soundtrack dosen't get in the way of the sounds.... But yeah for me its always stories....

 

[enjoyingitall]

yeaa..another one of my cali friends shows up here...

Thanks so much for answering rosie.

so..just that quickly..a man says videos and a woman says stories..I knew this could be interesting..

I'm gonna wait on my answer for a bit..

 

[lilrosie lips]

yeaa..another one of my cali friends shows up here...

Thanks so much for answering rosie.

so..just that quickly..a man says videos and a woman says stories..I knew this could be interesting..

I'm gonna wait on my answer for a bit..

LOL.... sometimes truisms are actually true...

 

[enjoyingitall]

LOL.... sometimes truisms are actually true...

Indeed they are....

But there might be some surprises..I'll have to get lance and lovemetender in here tomorrow..lol they are always interesting.

 

[enjoyingitall]

Thanks to you all for sharing your thoughts on that first question..


So..I'm still reading this book. Now, I've come across another interesting question..this one is shorter and we won't have to think so hard for answers..


Given the choice of any form of erotic material, what kind would you choose? And what theme would you most want the material to contain?

Thanks for playing with me.

Just bumping this, cause I want answers..

 

[Lance Hardrock]

men are visual

I think men are more turned on by eye candy more than women. Women seem to love aromas and soft words and love to visualize when they read stories.

I think this is why my stories are so wildly received and enjoyed by the ladies. And again, anyone who wants a story just PM me or email me and I'll happily send you a hot story, free of charge.

 

[lilrosie lips]

Re: men are visual

I think men are more turned on by eye candy more than women. Women seem to love aromas and soft words and love to visualize when they read stories.

I think this is why my stories are so wildly received and enjoyed by the ladies. And again, anyone who wants a story just PM me or email me and I'll happily send you a hot story, free of charge.

LOL lance... the consumate self-promotor....

 

[Lance Hardrock]

so true

LOL lance... the consumate self-promotor....

hey if I don't toot my own horn, who will?

<my horn needs tooting?>

 

[lilrosie lips]

Re: so true

hey if I don't toot my own horn, who will?

<my horn needs tooting?>

OMG... what I learn here on Lit....I never knew you were a contortionist Lance???

 

[Lance Hardrock]

I wish

OMG... what I learn here on Lit....I never knew you were a contortionist Lance???

That is high-larious. Lilrosie, you're sure living up to your name. Alas and Alack, I can NOT toot my own horn. Trust me, I've tried since I was maybe 16. Back then I could get a tongue on the tip, but no more. I hear that about 3% of men can suck themselves. I'm not one of the them. Sad to say.....


And may I say, I love your av. Wow.

 

[gr8dad2]

Hi EJ ... well first of all like others THE ONE thing will change from time to time.. but as most men I am very visual in my needs so looking is my basis... now the rest can vary from running every picture of "enjoyingitall" has posted for us to devour in our minds and those delightful long slender legs all the way up to those soft hips that make me ache to grab.... all the way to the voyueristic walking down a street at night and watching a couple exploring the delights of their bodies as I watch from a distance as they perofrm for me or even to the one where my partner brings in a third and I watch her having animalistic sex with either gender... The mind is a wonderful place to play.............

 

[lovemetender]

Thanks to you all for sharing your thoughts on that first question..


So..I'm still reading this book. Now, I've come across another interesting question..this one is shorter and we won't have to think so hard for answers..


Given the choice of any form of erotic material, what kind would you choose? And what theme would you most want the material to contain?

Thanks for playing with me.

well for me it would be words....I love to put the words into visuals in my mind...it would just have to have a mutual tone to it & it sure helps if it I can visualize someone I have a connection with in it

pictures are great too but I need something teasing that leaves a little to the imagination

 

[enjoyingitall]

Re: men are visual

I think men are more turned on by eye candy more than women. Women seem to love aromas and soft words and love to visualize when they read stories.

I think this is why my stories are so wildly received and enjoyed by the ladies. And again, anyone who wants a story just PM me or email me and I'll happily send you a hot story, free of charge.

I have to disagree just a bit there. This woman is very turned on by eye candy. Stories are great and they do leave things to one's imagination, but movies would be my first choice of erotic material. Something about seeing the people acting out desires I might have just sends a spark through me.

Now, that's not to say that your stories aren't wonderful, hon. They are.

 

[enjoyingitall]

Hi EJ ... well first of all like others THE ONE thing will change from time to time.. but as most men I am very visual in my needs so looking is my basis... now the rest can vary from running every picture of "enjoyingitall" has posted for us to devour in our minds and those delightful long slender legs all the way up to those soft hips that make me ache to grab.... all the way to the voyueristic walking down a street at night and watching a couple exploring the delights of their bodies as I watch from a distance as they perofrm for me or even to the one where my partner brings in a third and I watch her having animalistic sex with either gender... The mind is a wonderful place to play.............

Hiya gr8..good to see you stop by.

I'm with you on this one..Give me visuals and I'm a happy camper.

 

[Lance Hardrock]

Come up to my place?

I have to disagree just a bit there. This woman is very turned on by eye candy. Stories are great and they do leave things to one's imagination, but movies would be my first choice of erotic material. Something about seeing the people acting out desires I might have just sends a spark through me.

Now, that's not to say that your stories aren't wonderful, hon. They are.

Oh EJ, come over to my house. I have a giant screen TV and tons of hot videos. We can watch and even act out scenes portrayed on the screen. What time shall I pick you up, honey?

 

[enjoyingitall]

well for me it would be words....I love to put the words into visuals in my mind...it would just have to have a mutual tone to it & it sure helps if it I can visualize someone I have a connection with in it

pictures are great too but I need something teasing that leaves a little to the imagination

If I am connecting with someone that I don't actually have with me ...then yes, I want to visualize them in my mind's eye, too. Their words can really send me.
And it's powerful to put my imagination to work with their words.

But for just chosing erotic material as a boost, I want more than words or pictures...I want to see the scenes play out before and then I can visualize myself in them.

So glad you came by.

 

[gr8dad2]

My Dear EJ.... the thought of those legs wrapped around any part of my anatomy would be all it would take to send me to the pleasure zone.... what an erotic bit of mind stimulation you are

 

[enjoyingitall]

Re: Come up to my place?

Oh EJ, come over to my house. I have a giant screen TV and tons of hot videos. We can watch and even act out scenes portrayed on the screen. What time shall I pick you up, honey?

Hmmmm...what a wicked thought there..Alas, I think I'm booked up..

 

[enjoyingitall]

My Dear EJ.... the thought of those legs wrapped around any part of my anatomy would be all it would take to send me to the pleasure zone.... what an erotic bit of mind stimulation you are

Mind stimulation? I think I like that, hon.. thanks.

 

[gr8dad2]

UUUHHHmmm the mind comes first and then you make the rest of me cum later

 

[enjoyingitall]

UUUHHHmmm the mind comes first and then you make the rest of me cum later

A man with two good heads..and I would imagine he knows how to use them both so well..

 

[enjoyingitall]

Hmm..ok..only got an answer from one other woman on that last question..so...I'm still wondering about that question. Any others?

Thanks guys for answering. I can always count on my friends to share their opinions with me. Hugs to you all.

 

[naughtygirl]

EJ -- ok, erotic material...for me, its stories, words written on the page that usually get me the hottest. not sure exactly why, maybe its the words on the page that I translate to words in my head, and then I can imagine as I wish. Often when I fantasize, my fantasies change from one second to the next, like sex that is stream of consciousness...but some words, phrases always stay and I hear them over and over again. I also am extremely turned on by sound....pants, moans, HEARing the words being said to me...the whole deal, so I guess that ties into the stories on some level. The "dirtier" the words are the better.

I used to be extremely turned on by porn but I believe on some level I have become desensitized to it....an ex always watched porn and it constantly was playing in our apartment (ok he had a drug habit and would leave it on all the time as background, claimed it kept him sane...ok logic in that?? but I digress...). After awhile it all seemed the same to me....at times I will be turned on by it, usually when Im really horny or with a partner...but most of the time Im just not. I would rather my partner whisper dirty things in my ear than watch porn.

ok I rambled.

NG

 

[enjoyingitall]

Hiya NG..Hugs..

Thanks for your thoughts on this..

I guess most women do like the written word the best..Ah well..not the first time I've been in the minority..

I would imagine if I watched it all the time, I would find it rather monotonous..but it just adds a kick sometimes, when my honey winks at me and says, "Wanna watch a movie?"

 

[enjoyingitall]

Ok..further reading through this book prompts this:

One's sexual desires/expectations and performance has a direct link with one's self esteem.

Agree or not?

And how would you describe your self-esteem?

Again, thanks for playing.