So......................... I'm straight-curious

[kendo1]

Just rambling aloud here, but what do you like in women, outside of their physical attributes?

Look for those in a guy. Despite popular misconceptions, we're as variable as women. Some are bound to have what you're looking for.

Man boobs!

 

[Guest]

That we can do.
I've not strayed in thirty years. Not about to start now.

Your place or mine?

good man


Both?

 

[Guest]

Man boobs!

like those sumo wrestlers? ?

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

 

[Trombonus]

Ok, so this is just an idea, and I'm not trying to joke around or anything, but maybe it might be easier for you if you had a threesome with a man and another woman. I think it would make it more comfortable with you if you had another woman there to share the experience and give you support. It'd probably be best if you were with a woman who had experience with men as well. I think it would be a lot less scary, and a lot mor fun for you if you did that. Not that I know of such things.

Good luck.

 

[CharleyH]

So men have their turn on? I don't even recall the original question because of the AV and then the dumb posts.

 

[Guest]

Ok, so this is just an idea, and I'm not trying to joke around or anything, but maybe it might be easier for you if you had a threesome with a man and another woman. I think it would make it more comfortable with you if you had another woman there to share the experience and give you support. It'd probably be best if you were with a woman who had experience with men as well. I think it would be a lot less scary, and a lot mor fun for you if you did that. Not that I know of such things.

Good luck.

now that u mention it.......

its been one of my fantasies

u have a point here. BUT would that be a typical straight experience? isnt is about being with a guy and thats it?

I dunno. what if i get distracted cause theres a naked chick with me?

 

[Guest]

So men have their turn on? I don't even recall the original question because of the AV and then the dumb posts.

was there a original question?



oh yes

 

[rgraham666]

Not sure there is a typical straight experience any more than there is a typical gay one.

And If you want innocence, may I suggest going back to university? There might be a few interesting freshmen there.

Or send me an airline ticket. I get some about once every fifteen years so I hardly qualify as experienced.

 

[CharleyH]

was there a original question?



oh yes

All I recall is lesbos

 

[Guest]

Not sure there is a typical straight experience any more than there is a typical gay one.

And If you want innocence, may I suggest going back to university? There might be a few interesting freshmen there.

Or send me an airline ticket. I get some about once every fifteen years so I hardly qualify as experienced.

I dont think innocence will work for me where a guy is concerned

 

[Trombonus]

now that u mention it.......

its been one of my fantasies

u have a point here. BUT would that be a typical straight experience? isnt is about being with a guy and thats it?

I dunno. what if i get distracted cause theres a naked chick with me?

Well, I was thinking it could be like an intermediate transition, you know, to make it easier. You have the threesome, and then move on to one on one when you feel more comfortable with it. I think throwing yourself into a new situation right off the bat might be scary.

 

[Guest]

All I recall is lesbos

isnt that all there is that matters?

*checks theme of the thread* get these lesbians out of me mind please!

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I would volunteer, but I do have doubts as to whether I would impress a lesbian. I always fear in such cases that I would give an awful first impression for my sex. Then again, one never knows. The trouble is that I don't know what would appeal to someone who has no taste for cock. Aside from cunnilingus, that is.

 

[Guest]

Well, I was thinking it could be like an intermediate transition, you know, to make it easier. You have the threesome, and then move on to one on one when you feel more comfortable with it. I think throwing yourself into a new situation right off the bat might be scary.

*runs off the start thread on threesomes with a guy and a chick *

i like u

 

[Guest]

I would volunteer, but I do have doubts as to whether I would impress a lesbian. I always fear in such cases that I would give an awful first impression for my sex. Then again, one never knows. The trouble is that I don't know what would appeal to someone who has no taste for cock. Aside from cunnilingus, that is.

no taste for cock??

Can you say DILDO???

ok i know its not quite the same thing but i have zero issue with being penetrated

 

[Trombonus]

*runs off the start thread on threesomes with a guy and a chick *

i like u

I try.

 

[rgraham666]

I'll tell you this much, fem. I can take directions. Of the non-BDSM kind.

I'm always more concerned about my partner's enjoyment than my own.

See if you can find a guy like that, one whose ego won't be crushed if you tell him not to do something. Or that you've changed your mind. Kinda rare, but not unknown.

 

[Guest]

See if you can find a guy like that, one whose ego won't be crushed if you tell him not to do something. Or that you've changed your mind. Kinda rare, but not unknown.

but how do you know??

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

no taste for cock??

Can you say DILDO???

ok i know its not quite the same thing but i have zero issue with being penetrated

True. Valid point. But I am just saying that I am a little intimidated by the prospect of doing it with a lesbian. If it ever happens, I'll need some liquid courage. On the other hand, I admit to finding the notion more than a little appealing, albeit scary.

 

[rgraham666]

but how do you know??

Spend some time with him, get to know him.

From what I've seen the relationship thing isn't all that different between straights and gays.

It really isn't all that different from what you've done before. Except for anatomy.

 

[Trombonus]

but how do you know??

RGraham has a point in his other post. The only way you're really going to know is to give the guy some time, and be open and honest with him. Obviously you wont be looking for a serious relationship with him, but at the same time you don't want to dive right in to the sex. You want to do this with someone you trust and feel comfortable with, someone who will do everything he can to make it the best experience for YOU. Starting the open and honest dialogue is the first step. Talk to him about how you're feeling, what you want from him. The two of you should discuss what you want to do together. Listen to his suggestions, and make sure you tell him what you want him to do. If you're not sure, ask him what he thinks you guys should do. If he seems hesitant or even resistant to your desires, then it's probably not a good idea to go through it with that guy. Hopefully that shouldn't happen. I'm not sure who to ask though. I was thinking you might want to ask a good friend of yours, someone you trust and feel comfortable with. But then again it might make your relationship awkward. Then again you may become closer knowing that this person did something very selfless for you. It depends on the person.

Once again, good luck fem.

 

[3113]

I like the idea of going with a chick and a guy. That makes a lot of sense as you'd have the experienced girl there to help out and instruct you both.

The problem with getting to know a guy and all is that is that the guy is going to have to accept that:
1) It *may* be a one shot deal; you're just curious not interested in a relationship (which may be fine with him, but there are guys who want more)
2) He's not going to change your orientation
3) He's probably not going to give you the best fuck of your life (one never knows, but odds are not in his favor).
4) You're probably not going to give him that good a fuck either (again, one never knows).

So, the guy has to be ready to accept all this as well as being attentive to your needs and wishes while sating your curiosity.

By the by, when a "taste for cock" was mentioned--it's not a matter of liking being penetrated. A dildo is a bit different. It doesn't respond to you. It doesn't rise or fall or throb or twitch when you touch and stroke it, and it usually doesn't come with pubic hair and sensitive, swinging, tightening, wrinkling balls. It doesn't smell all sweaty and musky and manly, it doens't get all salty and slick with precum and it doesn't ejaculate.

At least, not any of the dildos I've seen, but I'm very out of touch on that score.

One assumes that you're going to be interested in investagating and playing with the thing, not just allowing the guy to penetrate?

Which raises the question again: what kind of guy?

Try this: consider what kind of guy would make you most afraid, and what guy least afraid. Obviously, you don't want one to sweep in, throw you over his shoulder and take command. But what about this: if the guy kisses you and he hasn't shaved, will his stubbly cheeks freak you? If he hasn't washed and smells very pungently like a guy, will that turn you off? How about chest hair? Would it be easier if he had love handles and was soft? Or if he was slender and fairly hairless? Older or younger?

Finding the right guy who wants to do this with you/for you is more important than looks, of course, but given your anxities, it might be nice to know what would make you less afraid of a man.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

RGraham has a point in his other post. The only way you're really going to know is to give the guy some time, and be open and honest with him. Obviously you wont be looking for a serious relationship with him, but at the same time you don't want to dive right in to the sex. You want to do this with someone you trust and feel comfortable with, someone who will do everything he can to make it the best experience for YOU. Starting the open and honest dialogue is the first step. Talk to him about how you're feeling, what you want from him. The two of you should discuss what you want to do together. Listen to his suggestions, and make sure you tell him what you want him to do. If you're not sure, ask him what he thinks you guys should do. If he seems hesitant or even resistant to your desires, then it's probably not a good idea to go through it with that guy. Hopefully that shouldn't happen. I'm not sure who to ask though. I was thinking you might want to ask a good friend of yours, someone you trust and feel comfortable with. But then again it might make your relationship awkward. Then again you may become closer knowing that this person did something very selfless for you. It depends on the person.

Once again, good luck fem.

Excellent thoughts. Any neophyte, and I'm not trying to be mean by calling you that, Fem, just stating facts, should be treated with more care and a little more consideration. Someone should be willing to exercise patience and give you an excellent first experience. Not that his needs shouldn't be considered too, but common sense says that he should take care not to lose the point. This would be primarily for your benefit (to satisfy curiosity and such). It's how I would want to be treated when I experience a man for the first time (since I am bi, but haven't acted on it yet).

I hope that it works out well, and your first (and possibly last) heterosexual experience is what you desire.

If I had the power, I'd probably set you up on a date with Rob, since he seems like he would be ideal for the role.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I like the idea of going with a chick and a guy. That makes a lot of sense as you'd have the experienced girl there to help out and instruct you both.

The problem with getting to know a guy and all is that is that the guy is going to have to accept that:
1) It *may* be a one shot deal; you're just curious not interested in a relationship (which may be fine with him, but there are guys who want more)
2) He's not going to change your orientation
3) He's probably not going to give you the best fuck of your life (one never knows, but odds are not in his favor).
4) You're probably not going to give him that good a fuck either (again, one never knows).

So, the guy has to be ready to accept all this as well as being attentive to your needs and wishes while sating your curiosity.

By the by, when a "taste for cock" was mentioned--it's not a matter of liking being penetrated. A dildo is a bit different. It doesn't respond to you. It doesn't rise or fall or throb or twitch when you touch and stroke it, and it usually doesn't come with pubic hair and sensitive, swinging, tightening, wrinkling balls. It doesn't smell all sweaty and musky and manly, it doens't get all salty and slick with precum and it doesn't ejaculate.

At least, not any of the dildos I've seen, but I'm very out of touch on that score.

One assumes that you're going to be interested in investagating and playing with the thing, not just allowing the guy to penetrate?

Which raises the question again: what kind of guy?

Try this: consider what kind of guy would make you most afraid, and what guy least afraid. Obviously, you don't want one to sweep in, throw you over his shoulder and take command. But what about this: if the guy kisses you and he hasn't shaved, will his stubbly cheeks freak you? If he hasn't washed and smells very pungently like a guy, will that turn you off? How about chest hair? Would it be easier if he had love handles and was soft? Or if he was slender and fairly hairless? Older or younger?

Finding the right guy who wants to do this with you/for you is more important than looks, of course, but given your anxities, it might be nice to know what would make you less afraid of a man.

Thanks, 3113. That's the point I was trying to make about the penis issue.

 

[The_Fool]

There is a blurt in this thread too, but I have to ponder it.