So......................... I'm straight-curious

[lucky-E-leven]

Sex with guys isn't necessarily bad, but in my experience, if your brain is wired to wet your pussy when you look at women, chances are you'll find it less than satisfying.

 

[Guest]

Good point ... but the difference in exploring with someone of the same gender is that you already know how it looks, feels, smells, tastes. It's not foreign to you.

~ ~ ~

If you don't speak the language, but you're going to visit a foreign country for the first time, would you prefer to go alone or with a friend who is fluent?

wow i dont know how i feel bout that.

I dunno if i'd like to mix the experience. its a fantasy yet but if i'm going to do it - - - sex with a girl is one thing. sex with a guy is something different. or i think so. not sure.

im confused.

 

[Guest]

Hehehe, sure you can find some that had IT taken off.

(you're scary)

and yer cute

 

[Guest]

Sex with guys isn't necessarily bad, but in my experience, if your brain is wired to wet your pussy when you look at women, chances are you'll find it less than satisfying.

yes luv, i know what you mean.... but

after 43 years i know how i'm wired. im wondering if there are wires i dont know bout

 

[ltnsfr007]

yes luv, i know what you mean.... but

after 43 years i know how i'm wired. im wondering if there are wires i dont know bout

It's not a wire, it's a button

 

[Guest]

It's not a wire, it's a button

with a wire attached to it

 

[lucky-E-leven]

yes luv, i know what you mean.... but

after 43 years i know how i'm wired. im wondering if there are wires i dont know bout

It's worth investigating then. I never had particularly bad sex with men, I simply couldn't manage to get off. Signals crossed and all that. There are perks to it, and if you're curious then I say go for it. Ideally, though, it'd be cool to find someone that knew you were simply into the experience and looking to learn and experiment. I wish you luck.

 

[Guest]

It's worth investigating then. I never had particularly bad sex with men, I simply couldn't manage to get off. Signals crossed and all that. There are perks to it, and if you're curious then I say go for it. Ideally, though, it'd be cool to find someone that knew you were simply into the experience and looking to learn and experiment. I wish you luck.

thanks

 

[Guest]

I think you should try it, Fem - if only because it'll make you appreciate women that much more afterwards.

...

I slept with various guys up until the age of 20. It was an absolute chore. ... To be honest, having the TV on in the background was the only thing that kept me going.

I
I can't believe how tactful and diplomatic I'm being on this topic

We men aren't insulted, really, we're not.

I'd bemore comfortable with a man if he didnt have a dick

<sudden insight into Mrs. Joey Butttafuco>

 

[Salvor-Hardon]

IF you are still curious and looking for a guy to explore with, may I suggest the often overlooked "nice guy".

Oh so many straight women are completely missing out because they want the bad boy or some element of danger that will and always does hurt them in the end. IF it is about sex, for you, you want a nice guy. He'll listen to your concerns, adjust the situation to help you either ease in or jump head long. He'll make sure your needs are met rather than just fulfilling his own scorecard of "hey dudes I banged a lesbo!".

However, be careful to get one well versed in sensuality and sexuality, not a shy retiring inexperienced wall flower. He may be nice but he will turn you off men forever with is fear and hesitation.

To find a good one, go to a larger book store, and linger around the erotic books area and watch the guys and what teh pick up. If they see you and turn away, write them off. If they see you and leer because girls in the idrty books section must be sluts, write them off. If they smile, smile back. After a few moments go over and ask a question, preferrably one that is about whatever they are perusing. IF he is open and mildly forthcoming about what he is looking for, touch his shoulder look him square in the eye and say "This may sound far fetched but... I am exploring my sexuality and you seem like a wonderful person to explore with. Would you like to join me over a cup of coffee and talk about it?"

You may not get teh most amazing sex of your life, but I promise it will be more emotioanlly and intellectually stimulating then a random romp with some football crazed hooligan or cro-magnon macho chest thumping gorilla.

 

[ABSTRUSE]

Sounds like a gay mid-life crisis to me.

 

[Honey123]

Fem, I say try it out. But make sure it's with a guy who understands that this may just be an experiment of yours.

If you get a guy who is truly "into" you...that could be a problem that you don't want to have in your life.

I don't suggest doing it with just anybody...do it with someone you are definately comfortable with and one with whom you have sexual tension.

Don't have sex with a guy for the hell of it...have fun, make it a great experience one that you may choose to do again...

 

[Guest]

IF you are still curious and looking for a guy to explore with, may I suggest the often overlooked "nice guy".

Oh so many straight women are completely missing out because they want the bad boy or some element of danger that will and always does hurt them in the end. IF it is about sex, for you, you want a nice guy. He'll listen to your concerns, adjust the situation to help you either ease in or jump head long. He'll make sure your needs are met rather than just fulfilling his own scorecard of "hey dudes I banged a lesbo!".

However, be careful to get one well versed in sensuality and sexuality, not a shy retiring inexperienced wall flower. He may be nice but he will turn you off men forever with is fear and hesitation.

To find a good one, go to a larger book store, and linger around the erotic books area and watch the guys and what teh pick up. If they see you and turn away, write them off. If they see you and leer because girls in the idrty books section must be sluts, write them off. If they smile, smile back. After a few moments go over and ask a question, preferrably one that is about whatever they are perusing. IF he is open and mildly forthcoming about what he is looking for, touch his shoulder look him square in the eye and say "This may sound far fetched but... I am exploring my sexuality and you seem like a wonderful person to explore with. Would you like to join me over a cup of coffee and talk about it?"

You may not get teh most amazing sex of your life, but I promise it will be more emotioanlly and intellectually stimulating then a random romp with some football crazed hooligan or cro-magnon macho chest thumping gorilla.

thanks for tha advice - - - good advice

 

[Guest]

Fem, I say try it out. But make sure it's with a guy who understands that this may just be an experiment of yours.

If you get a guy who is truly "into" you...that could be a problem that you don't want to have in your life.

I don't suggest doing it with just anybody...do it with someone you are definately comfortable with and one with whom you have sexual tension.

Don't have sex with a guy for the hell of it...have fun, make it a great experience one that you may choose to do again...

fun

yes that keeps .............um........... coming up

 

[Guest]

Sounds like a gay mid-life crisis to me.

whatever

and if it is?

 

[Honey123]

fun

yes that keeps .............um........... coming up

Just make sure you don't jump off of him in the middle of sex and walk out the door

 

[ABSTRUSE]

whatever

and if it is?

We'll shake you until you snap out of it.

 

[Guest]

Sounds like a gay mid-life crisis to me.

So are you saying she'd be better off with a sports car?

Fem, thank you for one of the most interesting threads in a long time. I'm with Honey. If you are inclined, do you have a male friend you are someone attracted to, comfortable with, trust, and who regards you with affecton and not love?

When I lived in San Franciso it wasn't uncommon to hear of men in their 40's and 50's suddenly discovering they were bi. Who's to say it couldn't happen for you?

Best of luck in your curiosity.

 

[RebeccaLeah]

If you don't speak the language, but you're going to visit a foreign country for the first time, would you prefer to go alone or with a friend who is fluent?

lmao.....I you Imp.

Fem - I would recommend the idea of a threesome. Especially if you're thinking of a one time deal. You can do what you feel comfortable with, but you also don't have to worry (if you're one of those people who do worry about such things) about the guy being frustrated/upset if you back out.

Either way, threesome or twosome, one night or slightly more drawn out, the most important part is finding a guy who won't push or force anything. Make sure you trust him and that he knows the whole thing so that, like someone else said before, he knows it might not happen.

 

[Guest]

We'll shake you until you snap out of it.

promise???

 

[ABSTRUSE]

promise???

Anything to help a family member.

 

[Guest]

So are you saying she'd be better off with a sports car?

Fem, thank you for one of the most interesting threads in a long time. I'm with Honey. If you are inclined, do you have a male friend you are someone attracted to, comfortable with, trust, and who regards you with affecton and not love?

When I lived in San Franciso it wasn't uncommon to hear of men in their 40's and 50's suddenly discovering they were bi. Who's to say it couldn't happen for you?

Best of luck in your curiosity.

i dont have so many male friends and none i'd want to fuck.

i think thats part of my issue

 

[Guest]

lmao.....I you Imp.

Fem - I would recommend the idea of a threesome. Especially if you're thinking of a one time deal. You can do what you feel comfortable with, but you also don't have to worry (if you're one of those people who do worry about such things) about the guy being frustrated/upset if you back out.

Either way, threesome or twosome, one night or slightly more drawn out, the most important part is finding a guy who won't push or force anything. Make sure you trust him and that he knows the whole thing so that, like someone else said before, he knows it might not happen.

thanks luv

 

[Guest]

Anything to help a family member.

im not related to your snake nor do i find him attractive in any way

boy that sounds sexy

 

[Guest]

i dont have so many male friends and none i'd want to fuck.

i think thats part of my issue

That does make it tougher.

Maybe instead of actively seeking someone now then, you just admit to yourself that you are open to the idea. Then as new men come into your life, you ask yourself "Could he be the one I try it with?".

I suspect there have been men in your life in the past that would have been acceptable, but you weren't yet in "that place" yet and so never thought of them so.