Betticus
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It's an option but damnit then I might not be so devastatingly in the know, on the cutting edge of this rapidly changing interweb technology and lingo.
So, who's on Fetlife?
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It's an option but damnit then I might not be so devastatingly in the know, on the cutting edge of this rapidly changing interweb technology and lingo.
DVS
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I haven't been on as many...Lit, bondage, collarme, alt, etc. I stopped bondage a long time ago, because I wasn't getting anywhere, as I did alt for the same reason. Collarme is still active, but there is very little that's good going on there, either. I think all of these would work out better, if I had known someone there, going in. But, trying to meet up with someone, when they know nothing about you...it seems so difficult. Lit is the only place I've been able to actually make friends, and none of them are local.
I remember once on bondage, there was a submissive from my area there. She was posting a lot and I struck up a conversation with her. I didn't mention that I lived in the same city as she did until after I had broken the ice with her. When we were fairly friendly, I told her we didn't live far apart and wondered if she had noticed that (profiles mentioned this, of course, so I didn't think I was keeping secrets from her). She very quickly stopped all conversation with me, after that. I guess she had something to hide?
I even joined a dating site, somewhat like Adult Friend Finder, and it has had terrible success. They have something called "Online Cupids" (OC) which sounds much better than it actually is.
From the site's user agreement text...
You understand, acknowledge, and agree that the information, text, and pictures continued in the OC's profiles do not pertain to any actual person, but are included for entertainment purposes only. Nothing contained in any OC profile is intended to describe or resemble any real person - living or dead. Any similarity between OC user profile descriptions and any person is purely coincidental. Please also note that a single OC may be associated with more than one (1) profile on our site.
It goes on to say that OCs will email members from time to time to "stimulate conversation". I received quite a few emails from women, but at the time, I didn't know they were OCs. I didn't even know what an OC was. Their profiles were exactly the same as a real person's, always with cities local to mine, so I thought I had struck pay dirt.
But, when I wrote back to these women, none...NONE of them wrote back. I thought I was black listed or something. The only thing that allows you to know the person isn't real is a very little icon in the upper right hand corner of the profile..."OC". I happened to notice this icon and clicked on it one time. Up came the member agreement that I was suppose to read, when I joined the site. Does anybody ever read those things? I do now.
Here's the kicker. Not all OCs have that little icon, so you really don't know who you are getting an email from. And from the comments men have left under the pictures of these women, it's obvious nobody has a clue about that OC system. I'm sorry, I'm rambling now.
But, this Fetlife seems OK. I questioned the fact that it's free, though. Is anything really free? It's so easy for someone to fool you with the word FREE, on the web. It's done all of the time. But, I'll give it a go. The page layout is kind of difficult to figure out. I'm still finding out how to do things.
I'm connecting with friends from here, but local women I've contacted have yet to respond. Is it Déjà vu all over again?
Evil_Geoff
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Why, yes. Yes I have! Indeed, sir, I have considered it.
However, if I didn't join all the sites I could find, I would miss out on the chance to meet other witty, urbane gentlemen such as yourself, with which to match rapier wit with.
Or see more pics of satindesire in various states of undress.
Betticus
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Retro actually made me smile.
I know of some closets that you would be excited to explore.
Evil_Geoff
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Never underestimate the power of nekkie girlies.
Oh, I don't my friend, I don't. Having had the chance to meet several people off of Lit, I'm ALWAYS ready to go join a site if there is even the slightest chance I'll get to see naughty bits.
SirLeo
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satin is worth it
Its definitely worth the hassle if the reward is seeing more pics of satindesire
Why, yes. Yes I have! Indeed, sir, I have considered it.
However, if I didn't join all the sites I could find, I would miss out on the chance to meet other witty, urbane gentlemen such as yourself, with which to match rapier wit with.
Or see more pics of satindesire in various states of undress.
Its definitely worth the hassle if the reward is seeing more pics of satindesire
Evil_Geoff
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*pats the park bench next to him...* Wanna play checkers while we wait?fetlife said I added too many people and that I now have to wait.
darnit.
Betticus
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00Syd
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Retro actually made me smile.
I know of some closets that you would be excited to explore.
Care to point me in the right direction?
Primalex
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And I thought I was everything someone would need.
Or see more pics of satindesire in various states of undress.
Oh please.. you are into whores? I'm very very disappointed now.
Evil_Geoff
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WooHoo, I'm on. But it didn't give me an option for bi-curious or SAMmy subbie
Bi curious would be "Heteroflexible" on Fetlife.
SAMmy is a state of mind, not an orientation... *LOL*
kiten69
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Evil_Geoff
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And I thought I was everything someone would need.
Not to put too fine a point on it, old bean, but you may very well be "everything someone would need." You just aren't everything I need.
Oh please.. you are into whores? I'm very very disappointed now.
I'm also into cunts, bitches, sluts, Jezebels, suckers, fuckers, subs, slaves, dogs, pigs, sissies and most other terms of humiliation, degradation, and derision. I'd even put you up on the cross, dear boy.
Betticus
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Care to point me in the right direction?
In my memories sweetness. My mom had quite the collection of nifty stuff like that. Dad kept them for a few years but now I just don't know. He may still have most of it.
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Betticus
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kiten69
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You... Down by my feet!!!
Oh you know I don't do feet!!!
. . .actually if you promise to leave your socks on. . .
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Evil_Geoff
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kiten69
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Since you asked so nicely, absolutely, sweet kiten.
WooHoo!!!
Homburg
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So I'm hanging out with EG in ATL prior to the demo and he's breaking out the toys and hanging them in his room. I'm checking out this really nice signal whip that he's got, and ask how it feels. He grinned this absolutely evil grin and replied "Want to find out?"
I laughed, as it was funny, but there was some nervous in that laugh
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