Some Q&A For the Ladies - Fingering

[fkarl]

My lady loves this!!!! I love watching her lose all control. I like making her wait for it..... stopping when she gets too close, then starting again. When I get that third finger in, its all over for her..... lol. She loves me penis too, but I like being able to watch and focus totally on her and her pleasure. Even if she just falls into exhaustion and I have to wait till later for "my turn". I love to tease just on the outside, pressing backwards a bit. I also tease her ass, but she doesn't care for entry, but loves the tease!!! Someday I hope to get my whole hand in, but she always cums way to early for that. She also isn't a multiple gal so a second shot isn't really an option. On the rare occaision she has done the multiple, its like a 5 minute refractory period before she's even ready for me to get near her again. She runs the button though..... Not that I do a bad job of it, its just that she has better control than ever I could.

 

[fkarl]

[QUOTE Look for a sensitive guy who gets turned on by turning you on, who puts your pleasure first, knowing that if YOU are happy, HE will surely be satisfied also.
Good luck. [/QUOTE]

Times 2!! There are still some guys like us out there!!!

 

[literotica_guy]

Yes

Just found this thread. A delight.
Love giving pleasure and fingering a lover as she presses back against my hand, and more, is almost the best.

 

[dawncwu97]

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[desertslave]

Fingers are so much more...precise than penises. Not that I'm not fond of a sound fucking, but fingering is just delightful for that "ohhh, yes, right there" kind of contact. Dipping inside, teasing my clit, slipping back in, curling those fingers just right to send me out of my mind.

Yeah, um...I'll be back later.

 

[lovetoinstruct]

I remember one of the hottest times I fingered a girl. We were in highschool, the gf that I lost my v-card to. We were watching Titanic at the theatre (have I dated myself?) and I had my hand in her pants for what had to be about 2 hours. I kept alternating between pumping my fingers in and out of her and teasing her hard clit with the tip of my finger. About an hour and half in she grabbed my wrist and stopped me. I looked at her in the dark and smiled. She loosened her grip and I started again, same pace, same rhythm, and minutes later her nails were digging into my arm. Her pussy was so wet, her clit was harder than I had ever felt it. My cock was straining against my pants, but her hand was on my forearm, stopping me again. I stopped and waited for her grip to relax. She relaxed and I pushed my fingers back into her and pumped them in and out fast and hard. She grabbed my wrist again, but I felt her pussy tightening up around my fingers and kept going. She pushed her hips forward and I saw her make her "I'm cumming" face. I almost came in my pants as I watched her have a silent orgasm, her hips rolling, her pussy grasping and sucking at my fingers.

When she was finished she pulled my hand out of her pants and cuddled into me for the remaining half hour of the movie. She told me that every time she got close it felt like she had to pee, and that was why she stopped me. When I took over she squirted in her pants and had to sit through the rest of the movie with a soaked ass. She told me it was the most intense orgasm of her life (we were quite young, but still made me feel like a king) and showed me. Her whole ass was wet. I have her my sweater to tie around her waist while we rode the bus back to her place. It was so hot to make her cum that hard in a room full of people.

 

[jmkrak]

I remember one of the hottest times I fingered a girl. We were in highschool, the gf that I lost my v-card to. We were watching Titanic at the theatre (have I dated myself?) and I had my hand in her pants for what had to be about 2 hours. I kept alternating between pumping my fingers in and out of her and teasing her hard clit with the tip of my finger. About an hour and half in she grabbed my wrist and stopped me. I looked at her in the dark and smiled. She loosened her grip and I started again, same pace, same rhythm, and minutes later her nails were digging into my arm. Her pussy was so wet, her clit was harder than I had ever felt it. My cock was straining against my pants, but her hand was on my forearm, stopping me again. I stopped and waited for her grip to relax. She relaxed and I pushed my fingers back into her and pumped them in and out fast and hard. She grabbed my wrist again, but I felt her pussy tightening up around my fingers and kept going. She pushed her hips forward and I saw her make her "I'm cumming" face. I almost came in my pants as I watched her have a silent orgasm, her hips rolling, her pussy grasping and sucking at my fingers.

When she was finished she pulled my hand out of her pants and cuddled into me for the remaining half hour of the movie. She told me that every time she got close it felt like she had to pee, and that was why she stopped me. When I took over she squirted in her pants and had to sit through the rest of the movie with a soaked ass. She told me it was the most intense orgasm of her life (we were quite young, but still made me feel like a king) and showed me. Her whole ass was wet. I have her my sweater to tie around her waist while we rode the bus back to her place. It was so hot to make her cum that hard in a room full of people.

mmmm this made me want to be fingered like a highschool girl again

 

[yuna1981]

mmmm this made me want to be fingered like a highschool girl again

Yeah me too... H.O.T.

 

[natasha6]

i love being fingered. my ex boyfriend was amazing at fingering me, i loved it when he'd do it when i least expected it in public. in the cinema is definately the best though, i love how you're so close to being seen, but it's still dark enough to make you forget about other people being there. he once rubbed my clit and gspot through almost an entire movie, i squirted 3 times, having some of the best orgasms i can remember

 

[jmkrak]

I just wish all men were really good at it. To do it right you really have to be able to read a woman, start out slow and teasing, and then build the intensity as she gets worked up. Know how to back off a little when she gets too close so you can keep building it higher and higher

 

[munch2much]

I just wish all men were really good at it. To do it right you really have to be able to read a woman, start out slow and teasing, and then build the intensity as she gets worked up. Know how to back off a little when she gets too close so you can keep building it higher and higher

It can be tricky, but i love it when i get a girl really close and then get slower and slower until i am barely moving. It makes bodies tense, breath being held, desperately trying to get there. Then if I move just a little bit faster there will be a sudden gasp, and that body will be jerking and groaning. Love it.

Get it wrong though and I'm stuffed lol.

 

[tinawill77]

I just wish all men were really good at it. To do it right you really have to be able to read a woman, start out slow and teasing, and then build the intensity as she gets worked up. Know how to back off a little when she gets too close so you can keep building it higher and higher

I think this is why some of my best experiences with being fingered happened when I was in high school when the boys were a little shy about fingering me so we'd make out for a long time and they would slowly feel me up everywhere else while working the courage to slide their hands down my panties. And even after they did, they would spend time exploring before sliding their fingers in me. The whole making out and being felt up and anticipation would drive me so crazy.

 

[azgirl40]

For me sometimes being fingered is almost as good as being fucked. I agree the guy has to be good at it. But I have had some of my best orgasms from being fingered.

 

[Juliewife]

fingering

I like it when I am fingered under my skirt or dress through my panties. First rubbing my clit but after a while moving my panties aside to finger inside my vagina. Of course, after a while I want and need my panties off for some good sex.

I got some good fingering from my high school boyfriend, but I would never let him touch me inside my panties. Sometimes I think I should have.

 

[yuna1981]

I just wish all men were really good at it. To do it right you really have to be able to read a woman, start out slow and teasing, and then build the intensity as she gets worked up. Know how to back off a little when she gets too close so you can keep building it higher and higher

It suddenly struck me that reading is such a good analogy for fingering; it's so intimate isn't it, to be known in such a way. I liked this description a lot.

 

[curiousisjane]

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If the man can do it yes, but I have found over my many years, few can and always need encouragement.
Most girls will tell you, they do it best, thats why we enjoy self pleasure.
The same must go for the men...?

 

[wellnow]

Great thread with excellent, open comments benefiting all.

 

[MissHolly]

love fingering...especially is your sucking my clit at the same time...as many fingers in my pussy as you can fit. move them in and out....around and around...wiggle those fingers...I guarantee you...I will cum!

 

[DriveSouth]

love fingering...especially is your sucking my clit at the same time...as many fingers in my pussy as you can fit. move them in and out....around and around...wiggle those fingers...I guarantee you...I will cum!

Do you prefer those fingers one at a time or, easing into all four or would you prefer Beginning with all four from the go ....

 

[MissHolly]

Do you prefer those fingers one at a time or, easing into all four or would you prefer Beginning with all four from the go ....

well..I enjoy it both ways....but since I prefer to extend sex play as long as possible...why not start with one...and work up from there. I love the feeling of fullness...especially if my clit is in your mouth!

I have fantasized about what it would feel like to be fisted...I bet I would love it!

 

[MissBecky2011]

Mmmmm

Such a naughty idea. Such naughty memories of sneaking a feel, sneaking fingers into panties. Sneaking legs apart, sneaking, probing ...

Ladies, do you like to be fingered? If so, how? When? While being licked and sucked and tongued? Or from behind as he has you pinned against the bed, pinned against a wall.

So ladies - your feelings, wants, desires, fantasies involving fingering?

Mmmmm, I absolutely LOVE 2 b fingered! I like all 5 fingers (is it still considered fisting if the whole hand doesn't go in ur pussy?), & I like it HARD & FAST! I start cumming almost instantly & won't stop until she/he pulls them out!

 

[jennifer036]

Such a naughty idea. Such naughty memories of sneaking a feel, sneaking fingers into panties. Sneaking legs apart, sneaking, probing ...

Ladies, do you like to be fingered? If so, how? When? While being licked and sucked and tongued? Or from behind as he has you pinned against the bed, pinned against a wall.

So ladies - your feelings, wants, desires, fantasies involving fingering?

Yes I liked to be fingered. But please do not forget my ass. I like a finger there too.

 

[DAVIDSride656]

Love being fingered .. Now more than ever.. Slow on the clit double tapping.. Sliding down inside me.. Makes me insta slip n slide

 

[NaturistLouise]

Oh Yes

I love being fingered. As well as feeling a tongue, feeling a finger is an essential part of the foreplay for me. Fingering gets the juices flowing for the main event.

Remember, the years of high school dating when fingering was the main event? I'm old enough to have had the fun of drive in movies ....... wow, such pleasant memories of being fingered.

 

[DriveSouth]

If the man can do it yes, but I have found over my many years, few can and always need encouragement.
Most girls will tell you, they do it best, thats why we enjoy self pleasure.
The same must go for the men...?

I think I speak for many guys on this thread- I seem to get it correct more often than not.