Some Q&A For the Ladies

[DaisyGirl]

I had always felt more turned on during my period (not that I'm a slouch the rest of the month!). Not having a partner (another story), I would masturbate like crazy. I noticed the relief I'd feel from cramps and just plain bitchiness after I had an orgasm.

The first time I had my period after meeting my b/f (now husband) he indicated he wanted to make love. I was kind of stunned, because he knew I was having my period. But he said "That's a problem?" I was floored. I didn't know people still "did it" while the woman was having her period. He brought out a towel and we...um...did it *blush*. It was awesome!

We continue to make love during my period. Sometimes it's just oral (me to him) and hand (him to me) depending on whether we want to deal with the potential mess or not. Any way we go about it's wonderful.

Oral (him to me) during my period hasn't come up for discussion and I'd rather it didn't. Doesn't sound like my cup of tea at all.

 

[Guest]

I do get hornier...but dont approach it differently..i am available to my b/f and a few friends anytime and anyplace they want me

 

[Guest]

i never noticed any change in the way i act during my time... maybe it's just because i'm normally mellow anyway.. i dunno

 

[ninian]

Squishy Dirty Hot Sex

I love fucking while on my period. My Master is the same, we live far apart, but if He knows that I am on my period, he makes an effort to come down. I love that man. And yes it is hotter, dirtier, rougher ... much more vocal ... which is saying something because i am always vocal.

I wouldnt say I am more open to trying new things during this time, because I am always very open about new things. Especially when they are Masters ideas ~grin~

Have not tried the oral dring my period, but from some of the responses i read .. i think maybe i'll talk to Master about it, though Hes expressed he has no interest in it, which is fine with me ... I much prefer pleasuring him anyway ....

I dont know about the relieving of cramps ... (dont hate me ladies) I dont get cramps

 

[ericred50]

All I can say is that I'm glad that I am a guy, sweet, caring, thoughful, in fact a gentleman. You ladies go through a lot during your monthly time, but why must most of you be bitches to us men. Im always horney.

 

[morninggirl5]

You ladies go through a lot during your monthly time, but why must most of you be bitches to us men. .

Do you really want an answer to that question????

 

[Honey_B]

It is that time of the month, my body sensitized beyond all imagining. Each touch feels like white-hot heat. Red blood mixes with the juices of my desire. My lover bends low to lap at my prurient spendings, staining his chin and lips deep crimson. I gasp at this show of ultimate acceptance and caring even as his tongue drives me over the edge into ectasy.

I awake from my dream and notice immediately that I've got my period and I am intensely aroused. I look at my sleeping husband with regret. Damn! No sex for awhile.

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Hope that answers some of your questions about the deep longings of this lady.

 

[Abacab89]

Yanno, Drive, my husband says the same thing about my natural smell. He also says that whoever told me that I smelled bad should be take out back and shot. Of course <blush> he always tells me <except when I'm on my period> that my taste is like a really sweet honey. Now I ask you <cause I've tasted women> can you really describe the taste as honey??? I admit I like the taste of a woman, but I don't think I could describe it as honey, more like sweet-tarts.

My wife says its like pencil shavings.

 

[lilfrk]

Why...

...Are we bitches? Because we can be. That's like asking why all men have Male Pattern Blindness...because they can.

Abacab...Your wife tastes pencil shavings?

 

[DriveSouth]

Originally posted by Honey_B


Hope that answers some of your questions about the deep longings of this lady.

Yes Honey -

That about gives me the picture.

Ladies, good answers, I think this thread is hot and erotic.

DriveSouth

 

[Nightshade]

Ummm

Actually before and during I get very very excitable so to speak.

A breeze can arouse me

 

[cymbidia]

I'm sub, and so my sexuality is tuned to my Master's needs and expectations. That said, i am definitely more apt to respond immediately and flare more wildly into flame the week prior to my period. He loves the way i smell, the way my vaginal area looks, and the whole experience of me being on my period, so we're almost always extremely sexual with each other during my flow. At that time, he's far more likely to do more nilla kinds of fucking (missionary, oral - him to me, manual masturbation - me with him watching) and less bondage/whipping BDSM stuff. I respond to his need for me; my sexual needs are ignited and flame into passion most wildly when i am doing that which pleases him.

My period only goes for a couple days and i never have cramps. I do have some PMS but he understands my grouchiness and tolerates it as a natural part of my chemistry as a woman. When i go too far with it, he orders me naked and fucks/flogs the grump out of me. That always works, too.

 

[Shylady]

Well my answer is like alot of the ladies here the week before I am easily aroused. Not alot during but that might be cause of the fact my husband doesn't like it.

 

[Andra_Jenny]

You should read between the lines when members post.
I was a marine and a boy scout. I do not get periods.
Androgeny.
My heroes were of the 60's - ziggy stardust and all that.
I am just here to have fun.

 

[White_Tigress_]

same here

like many others...
I get very excited the week before, and act much worse than the rest of the month (thats hell too...since it is ALWAYS on my mind...32 is such a rough age).
During though...nahh...the first 3 days are pretty much off limits, to painful for me. He don't care for it while I have it anyhow. But I do look out for his needs and told him there is more than just that
no complaints I don't think. at least not to me.

 

[SunnyGirl]

I am more easily aroused two or three days before my period. But while I'm actually on it...stay away, I'm grouchy and mean and nasty.

 

[curvacious]

I used to get really horny the few days before my period and the first few days of but since I've been on the pill things seem to be on an even keel (which means I want sex most of the time). I used to really bother about having sex while I had my period but then I had a partner who was very supportive (and the pills helped to decrease the amount of flow too).
Also, having sex does seem to help with the cramps.

 

[daisyduke21]

Im not horny at all during my periods because my cramps make me wanna sit in a clocktower armed to the teeth (kidding of course)

Right before my period, I get pretty easily turned on, thats how I know my period's coming, because I will want sex constantly for about a week before my period. Thank You Ovulation

 

[SexxyLady]

Well, it seems my input on this subject has been requested. I've been thinking about this thread DriveSouth, I just didn't really have answer for you.

I've never really paid attention. Hell, I have a hard enough time getting hubby to 'play' when I'm not OTR (incase you've never heard that expression it means On the Rag).

Anyway, I've paid extra attention just for you... I'm just plain horny all of the time. As hubby puts it, I'm just ready willing and able all the time.

I will admit, I fantasize more about rougher more controlling sex during that time of the month. But I usually settle for nightly blowjobs for hubby during my period, that way I get my cum quota. I guess he gets complete blow jobs about 4 days a month. Then anytime he does something special for me, I always repay with my mouth. He does not touch me in anyway sexual during that time of the month. Even when I'm blowing him he only pulls my hair... because he knows I can cum from that while I'm blowing him. But he will hardly even kiss me during that time of the month

Enough complaining.

SL

 

[PacificBlue]

so enlightning...

I've never had the opportunity to discuss this with other women and I'm sitting here in complete amazement. WOW!

I get completely horny the week before my period. I refer to it as the "week of insatiability". I definately am more vocal during that time and want it rougher. I don't have a lover right now so I make do with masturbation and the orgasms are so much more intense, not that they aren't good the rest of the month, it's just that everything is soooo sensitive during that time.

Great thread...I'm getting an education! Whoo Hoo!

 

[Guest]

I get way more horny during my period. My husband loves it! He has indeed "earned his redwings". Initially I felt really embarrassed when I was on my period but he really made me feel comfortable, so now when I'm on my period it's a week of sex sex sex

 

[Rambling Rose]

Cramping caused some major discomfort in my earlier years (I am 36 now) and a lover used to ask me to lie down on my stomach on a firm surface while he straddled the small of my back and slowly rocked back and forth. Soon after, the cramping dissipated but we were often aroused by the intimate activity. This often led to more passionate embraces and we made love with an animalistic intensity. It is a very primal experience.

Since then, I have had lovers who were not interested in sex during menses and I do not insist on sexual attention during that time, but I am not shy about engaging in lovemaking (penetration or orally) during my period. A lover who is aroused by me during that time is a treasure worth keeping.

 

[DriveSouth]

Dare I?

Bump Bump!

I know there are lots of ladies out there new to the board. Post your reply here please.

 

[Mindy2]

Gosh what a looong thread!

...Very interesting though, so I thought I’d add my two cents worth…. Ummm… What was the question again? O yeah, now I remember.

Well let’s see. Like so many, just prior to onset I am one horny little devil. Perhaps it is my imagination, but I think I enjoy it just a little rougher during this time. I know I am more vocal in expressing my pleasure. And I think during that couple of days I’m ready almost any time.

“Really?” you say. Yep, once DH was in my office during lunch on the day prior to my period, and I attacked the poor guy. He never even saw it coming. I was on him and closing the door as soon as he walked in. Understand that this was a very bold move on my part as I tend to be very prim and proper at work. This was one of those crazy moments I think we all tend to have from time to time. I wish I could tell you it was totally spontaneous, but it wasn’t… not quite. It was on a Saturday and there was virtually no one else on the floor. DH had called to tell me he was on his way with some fast food for us. So I actually sort of planned the whole thing . It all worked fairly well… we both had smiles on our faces when the dust settled and who the hell cared about cold french fries anyway!

Sex during my period is another story though. I think I would enjoy it, but my husband is just too nasy-nice in this regard. Actually, I normally would be too, but churning hormones do strange things to us don’t they? We have discussed this more than once, but that stubborn man will neither gee nor haw on this issue. What’s a girl to do in these situations except see to her own needs… and those are some darn intense orgasms too, even if I do say so myself.

...Mindy2

 

[RisiaSkye]

Yep...

Like most of the ladies here, the week before is increasingly intense. I'm turned on easily, I'm thinking about sex constantly, and I orgasm repeatedly at the slightest stimulation.

I have endometriosis, so the first few days of my period are a little slice of hell. After that, though, I'm ready to go again. However, it takes a little mre work to get me interested, because my body's tired and hurting from the internal bleeding that comes with endo. (And I respond badly to hormone treatment, so there's very little that can be done for it). Hubby's learned to lose some of his inhibitions over the years, though, so sex during can be very rewarding and exciting for us both.