SouthEastern US Lit Gathering?

Uhhhh, huh?

So did any of you ever meet?

Can y'all do another one a little more...north?
 
Rox_shybutcurious said:
I started out pretty far north, but somehow ended up in NC & SC meeting people. LOL

I've always wanted to go to North Carolina.

And I still want EG to beat my tush! And yet I don't want to drive that far. Oh how I suffer! Er, or, not suffer!
 
I'm still waiting for Sir Winston to come respond! How bored am I? It doesn't even involve me. :eek:
 
I am glad to see I am not the only one ITW, I have been stalking this thread to see if he responds too.
Way to much time on my hands lately..
 
LunarKitten said:
Oh, I doubt he will....

Really? Bummer. He seems real enough. I mean hell, how do I know Papa Shank really likes women's panties. He might just be frontin'!
 
northwoods_sub said:
I am glad to see I am not the only one ITW, I have been stalking this thread to see if he responds too.
Way to much time on my hands lately..

Dude - for me - it's the curse of my crazy crappy life. All I do is try and distract myself!
 
intothewoods said:
Really? Bummer. He seems real enough. I mean hell, how do I know Papa Shank really likes women's panties. He might just be frontin'!


Let's just suffice it to say that a lot of bad stuff when down behind the scenes with SW and it wasn't very pretty. So, if he does respond, I will be very surprised.
 
LunarKitten said:
Let's just suffice it to say that a lot of bad stuff when down behind the scenes with SW and it wasn't very pretty. So, if he does respond, I will be very surprised.

I am really sorry to hear that, I was just honestly surprised to see someone make such an attack in such a forum. They could have at least picked one of his own threads to attack. At least that is what I would have done. Not that I would have made my angst public.
 
We can do that, so EG scares the hell out of me with all of his toys, but he really turns me on and makes me want to grovel at his feet waiting for his every command, (yes I know I already have a Dom and I love Him) is this a bad thing? Or is it just the common feeling of the subs around here?
 
Actually EG's not very scary in person at all. (Sorry EG, but it's the truth.) He's very comfortable to be around and easy to talk to.

Of course maybe it's one of those lull them into a false sense of security, come into my parlor type things. :catroar: :eek:

Hmmm. LOL
 
northwoods_sub said:
We can do that, so EG scares the hell out of me with all of his toys, but he really turns me on and makes me want to grovel at his feet waiting for his every command, (yes I know I already have a Dom and I love Him) is this a bad thing? Or is it just the common feeling of the subs around here?

Nope, me too. I'm not afraid of him anymore though. Actually, I don't want to grovel at his feet either.
 
<Sigh> I was trying *not* to respond... but I see that it will be necessary, again, to air out the laundry. Almost two years ago, I made a really poor decision that badly hurt someone I cared about, through loneliness and tiredness. That was leaving here, and cutting contact with a really wonderful person with whom most of you are familiar - Kajira Callista, or KC. The reason I left and broke off with KC ended about six months later, because (as I said in the thread referenced below) I tried to deny who and what I am for the sake of having someone physically in my life, and it didn't work.

During the more than a year that I stayed away from Lit after that, I took a close look at my 50+ years of life, and the relationships I had had - and lost - during that time, and realized and accepted that I am not wired for long-term relationships, and certainly not for long-distance relationships. It's a fault in me, or a part of me, not a reflection on my past partners. I also realized that it was not possible for me to deny the Dominant/Sadist part of my life, because it is such an integral part of my makeup. Thus, I decided to see if it were possible for me to return here, where I had made a good number of friends/acquaintances with whom I enjoyed talking, discussing and bantering.

When I decided that I'd like to come back and be myself, I contacted KC and asked her if she would have any objection to my return, but told her I didn't expect her, and was not asking her, to forgive me or to feel she needed to interact with me any way. She responded promptly that she had no objection at all... and that I had been forgiven long ago. That touched me deeply - and still does. I didn't and don't deserve the forgiveness and consideration she has shown - but I am certainly grateful for them, and for the forgiveness and consideration that many, many of you have shown as well.

This is the thread from when I came back a little under three months ago. Apparently Victoria, who has long considered herself KC's friend and protector, didn't bother to do any research on the issue, or contact KC to see how *she* felt about my return, before she broke into this moribund thread to vent her spleen. I understand that she was angry and hurt that I had hurt her friend, and that she might have wanted to remove substantial portions of my anatomy when I left in 2005, but time has passed, and if KC has no problems with my being here....
 
Well just hoping get to go to one of EG's events. Hated missed last few but FetishCon and all the deliciously decadent fun called and I went for my second time. :)
 
Evil_Geoff said:
For July 14th, 1763 has a "Kinky Party" listed on their newsletter. However, according to the email that Master Dave sent me...
I'm a regular attendee at 1763 and I'm familiar with the Flesh and Fetish parties having gone to all but one since they started (there have only been a few).

1763 is a BDSM club... on most nights, there is no sex. Flesh and Fetish is one of the exceptions. Having said that, the results is not typical of swing clubs. The crosses and spanking benches are still available for use and see much more action than the mattresses.

If you are planning future events and you'd like an opinion from a lit-ster that goes there regularly, let me know.

For those that really need a spanking... I'll bring floggers, canes, paddles and my hand... to lend Geoff a hand if the lineup gets too long. Yeah... I know my nickname is housetoy... don't be misled.
 
Sir Winston, I am very sorry that such a painful memory had to be brought back again. I hope that in time the past will become just that, the past and you will be able to move forward with something learned rather than something hanging over your head.
Thank you Sir for the explanation for all of us noobies.
 
northwoods_sub said:
Sir Winston, I am very sorry that such a painful memory had to be brought back again. I hope that in time the past will become just that, the past and you will be able to move forward with something learned rather than something hanging over your head.
Thank you Sir for the explanation for all of us noobies.
I'm sorry, too - but more that it had to interrupt the "business" of the forum than that it brought back painful memories. Those painful memories are and will be with me, and hopefully will help me stay true to who and what I am, so that I don't cause such pain to anyone else again.

I'll say it again: I apparently am not "wired" to succeed in long-term or long-distance relationships. In the first, it's mostly a matter of selfishness and inability to *continue* to give as one must to make a long-term relationship work - perhaps a function or side effect of my adult ADHD, though I won't blame it on anything other than that I just don't do long-term well. As for long-distance relationships, I've learned that while I can really "get into" one for a certain period of time, I not only have the same problem as with a long-term relationship, but added to that is the frustration of not having the physical contact/relationship that I crave. Either way - they don't work for me, or I don't work for them.

Thank *you* for your kind thoughts.
 
Rox_shybutcurious said:
Actually EG's not very scary in person at all. (Sorry EG, but it's the truth.) He's very comfortable to be around and easy to talk to.

Of course maybe it's one of those lull them into a false sense of security, come into my parlor type things. :catroar: :eek:

Hmmm. LOL


*nods* I agree with this :)
 
Snoozebutton2 said:
Well just hoping get to go to one of EG's events. Hated missed last few but FetishCon and all the deliciously decadent fun called and I went for my second time. :)


He's going to be up in Raleigh next weekend :)
 
LunarKitten said:
He's going to be up in Raleigh next weekend :)
Gonna be a bit to recover from FetishCon as was a bit eager with wallet as truly enjoyed myself. lol
 
Rox_shybutcurious said:
Actually EG's not very scary in person at all. (Sorry EG, but it's the truth.) He's very comfortable to be around and easy to talk to.

Of course maybe it's one of those lull them into a false sense of security, come into my parlor type things. :catroar: :eek:

Hmmm. LOL


Well I totally meant scary in a good way. :p
 
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