Spring Carolina Litogether

[Angelofsex]

Usually most men are *grins*

Dammmm........tonie, you are so right.......they all are easy......lol

 

[Angelofsex]

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Let's see how much I remember...

Age Play - i.e. Male/Female couple. One playing a Mother/Father figure other playing a child figure.

Littles - all participants kinda act like kids in kindergarten/preschool. (not real sure if that's correct.)

vanilla - A person who is in the lifestyle (or claims to be) but is not really into it very strongly. Another deffinition is a person that is NOT in the lifestlye at all.

lifestyle meaning an Alternative Lifestyle other than what society deems as the classic normal family. i.e. Bondage & Discipline, Sadism & Machoism.

Geeeeeeee, you learn something new every day........thanks {{{{{{DD}}}}}

 

[yourdestonie]

Dammmm........tonie, you are so right.......they all are easy......lol

Well I won't say they all are but most are anyway *grins*

 

[TantaLiza]

Sorry, guys... didn't mean to drop out of sight so quickly last night!! I was enjoyin the male perspective from you, DD and MG!! As I'm not married, I'm "dad" and mom... don't always know how a man would think... YES... I DID ADMIT I DON'T KNOW WHAT MEN WOULD SAY/DO!!! lmao

Ya'll have a fun Hump Day!!

Laters....

 

[yourdestonie]

Sorry, guys... didn't mean to drop out of sight so quickly last night!! I was enjoyin the male perspective from you, DD and MG!! As I'm not married, I'm "dad" and mom... don't always know how a man would think... YES... I DID ADMIT I DON'T KNOW WHAT MEN WOULD SAY/DO!!! lmao

Ya'll have a fun Hump Day!!

Laters....

Morning Liza I so enjoyed being able to talk to you again last night look for that PM I promised it should be to ya soon I totally forgot to send it last night. *kisses*

Sis don't work too hard today.

 

[1sexylady]

SO? My baby cousin is 6'7" and tips the scales at 350, and I can still put him on his behind. Oh yeah, he's only 18. Guess experience comes in handy at times eh?

OMG ....running for them there hills...

 

[yourdestonie]

OMG ....running for them there hills...

Afternoon ((((((((((((((((sis))))))))))))))

 

[1sexylady]

I have several accents. But mostly all of them are mixed in with this "Deep south thing" I've been subjected to all my life. LOL.

Hummm I don't have an accent... I bet you sound all cute like
tonie and them..

 

[1sexylady]

Shoot DD I wasn't talking about Wrestling

Darn it .....

 

[1sexylady]

Hope they win/won.

Lost... But he looked really good getting hit with the ball... It was the first game everyone was nervious. They will get better..

 

[1sexylady]

Oppppsssss Lunch duty time...be back to finish later...

 

[yourdestonie]

Hummm I don't have an accent... I bet you sound all cute like
tonie and them..

He does I've heard his voice *grins* but his is a bit different from mine. he's a flat lander *giggles*

 

[yourdestonie]

Darn it .....

Well what I was talking about was much more fun *grins*

 

[yourdestonie]

Lost... But he looked really good getting hit with the ball... It was the first game everyone was nervious. They will get better..

As long as they have fun it really don't matter well except to the parents Most of them get all worked up over the win /lose thing. the kids really wouldn't care.

 

[yourdestonie]

Oppppsssss Lunch duty time...be back to finish later...

What we having?? i'm hungry too

 

[hnglkeahrse2002]

A tardy post? Where?

There are 23 shopping days remaining until Charlotte.

 

[sueanninct]

Re: A tardy post? Where?

There are 23 shopping days remaining until Charlotte.

3 weeks from today for me!!!!

 

[Margaritaville]

Re: A tardy post? Where?

There are 23 shopping days remaining until Charlotte.

UGH! 23 shopping days and I haven't even started yet!
May have to come in my birthday suite!

 

[LunarKitten]

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Ah, jeez. Another "newbie" thing for me.

Ok, I'm starting to get over the newbie stage of posting here, really warming up to the Litogether, but I'm a total virgin at BDSM. So help me out here, what's "age play" and who are the "littles?"

Guess I'll be attending the "vanilla" activities, which I assume is lunarsubmissive's way of describing the non-BDSM activities, right?

While I don't lean toward BDSM or have ever participated in it, if any ladies wanna teach me (especially as a group), I might become a real quick study w/such an offer.

Think about it girls...a blank slate...? Possibilities there? *eyebrows raised above hopeful, puppydog eyes*

I might need a thesaurus, though, to keep up w/ the conversation.

MG

Now worries...Littles are the players that take the part of the younger role in the roleplaying....as for what age play is, well you could sum it up with Daddy and little girl or Mommy and little boy or Daddy and little boy or Mommy and little girl. Age play is simply roleplaying in some way pertaining to age. There is "infantilism", which is adults acting as babies. You can also play schoolgirl or schoolboy with headmaster or headmistress, and every conceivable age in between. Keep in mind, though, that these are ADULTS posing as children...no one in the BDSM community advocates child abuse or pediphilia.

That said here is the class description written by our presenters Master Rickford and kimmie, who are the Southeastern Master/slave of the year *I'm getting together a list of class descriptions and teacher bios*

Ageplay: Myths and Legends of Littles:

A fun and educational look into the world of Ageplay, through a
presentation, including audience participation, skits, interesting facts and laughter. There will be coupons given to those "Non-Ageplayers" who attend, and helpful hints to those "kids-at-heart" folks. They will open doors to not only the kink of Ageplay but will also talk on Ego Play (AKA Humiliation Play), other Role-play situations and scene prep. So as Mr. Willie Wonka sang, "Come with me and you'll see a world of wild imagination."

 

[LunarKitten]

OMG The age of consent in New Mexico is 13!!! *thud*

Age of Consent in the United States, by state.
As of August 6, 1994

Alabama 16
Alaska 16
Arizona 18
Arkansas 16
California 18
Colorado 16
Connecticut 16
D.C. 16
Delaware 16
Florida 18
Georgia 16
Hawaii 16[3]
Idaho 18
Illinois 16
Indiana 16
Iowa 14
Kansas 16
Kentucky 14[1]
Louisiana 17
Maine 14
Maryland 16
Massachusetts 18
Michigan 16
Minnesota 16
Mississippi 18[2]
Missouri 16
Montana 16
Nebraska 16
Nevada 16
New Hampshire 16
New Jersey 16
New Mexico 13
New York 17
North Carolina 16
North Dakota 18
Ohio 16
Oklahoma 18
Oregon 18
Pennsylvania 14
Rhode Island 16
South Carolina 16
South Dakota 16
Tennessee 18
Texas 17
Utah 14
Vermont 15
Virginia 16
Washington 18
West Virginia 16
Wisconsin 18
Wyoming 18

 

[LunarKitten]

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LOL--How would I know? That's the plus side of being a newbie. I'd have to try both to make a decision, wouldn't I?



Then again, being a newbie, sub might come a little easier 'cause it's mostly responsive in nature, right? I could easily get into the dom role, though, with the right sub "feeding" me into it.

LOL--I'm actually more interested in the vocabulary lesson right now. (As a writer, words are very important to me.)

MG

Two of my favorite sites:

www.iron-rose.com

www.sexuality.org - they have a bdsm section

 

[LunarKitten]

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I'd say then if you really are wanting to lear a bit try the BDSM boards here. You'll find a link in the Lit Discussion boards section. From there go to the library and just read a bit.

it would be hard to discribe eather role to someone who knows very little about the lifestyle.

And as the offical CT *Carolina directory Thread* BDSM Information Representative, I would be more than happy to answer any questions you have.

 

[LunarKitten]

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It was back on the last page. It was Lunarsubmissive's post about the workshops. I replied to it, but guess you missed it.

"age play"

"littles"

"vanilla"

Awaiting translation.

MG

Oops...missed the vanilla one...vanilla is what is commonly referred to as non-bdsm activity. Going on vanilla, or nilla, date - going out with someone who is not into the "lifestyle".

 

[LunarKitten]

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Cool. That woulda been my guess, but only a guess. It's much better to have a handle on it.

Age play sounds like fun. I might even go to that workshop. "Littles" sounds a little weird, but OK--I can imagine that. Guess I'm just a "vanilla" kinda guy 'cause I always think of sex (no matter what kind) as fun and playful or soft and romantic. Pain, even pretend pain, just doesn't seem "fun" to me. I can appreciate the whole power-trip, control aspect of it being fun as a roleplay, but it's still a little beyond who I really am 'cause I fight against power structures and authority figures every day...so it'd be an uncomfortable stretch for me I think. I just don't see "power" as something to play with. That's something I take far too seriously for that. Of course, that's just me. No disrespect meant to those who feel different. I can even sympathize to some degree. I could see where it might be an outlet. Anyways...I digress.

Thanks for info DD!! It's a big help.

MG

Ah, but bdsm isn't necessarily about pain. There is tickle torture *snickergiggles* And not all activities have to leave marks. For me, feeling the falls of a flogger on my back makes me start to float almost immediately *what we call sub space*. It's not painful, but very erotic and stimulating. That said, for me, personally, sex isn't involved at all in my play. But, again, that's me, for many many others, it's an active part of their play. I don't have a Dom and I've never been comfortable with sex outside of a serious relationship, so when I play with friends I trust one of my rules is no genital or anal contact. *Always, always, always negotiate before a scene, please!!!!*

As for the power trip....that's debatable. We call it an Exchange of Power. The submissive/slave giving their power over to a Dominant/Master/Mistress who in turn gives their power back to said submissive/slave. Example: When I'm being flogged, I want to do the best I can to ensure that the scene is exciting the Dom I'm playing with for that scene. If He likes responses, I will be more vocal. In turn, the Dom wants to be sure I'm enjoying the scene. So if he knows I like it hard for a few strokes and then the feel of hands on my skin, that's what He gives me. Which in turn makes me want to please Him that much more, which in turn...see what I mean?

I also have a saying that may help. A Dom is someone who is dominant, not domineering.

 

[LunarKitten]

Re: A tardy post? Where?

There are 23 shopping days remaining until Charlotte.

Yay!!!!