Spring Carolina Litogether

[sueanninct]

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Oops...missed the vanilla one...vanilla is what is commonly referred to as non-bdsm activity. Going on vanilla, or nilla, date - going out with someone who is not into the "lifestyle".

Is there anything you don't know Lunar?

 

[gunf1ght]

Re: Re: A tardy post? Where?

UGH! 23 shopping days and I haven't even started yet!
May have to come in my birthday suite!

and the problem would be?????

 

[Margaritaville]

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and the problem would be?????

Well.....I guess maybe it wouldn't be a problem for some

 

[LunarKitten]

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Is there anything you don't know Lunar?

Oh, lots and lots I just know a lot about bdsm

Spank me, beat me, make me beg for more!!!

 

[1sexylady]

Dang. Am I that easy to read?

Well took me a while to get back here but I did..ok now where was I...............Oh yeah.

No...but you sound sweet even if you don't share..play well or follow the rules...

 

[1sexylady]

But you still didn't say you wanted to.


~eases over to the corner to pout~

Don't worry she will...

 

[1sexylady]

You sound like a good Dad DD. Mine are older (15 girl, 24 boy) and I can assure you that taking that approach will almost guarantee they'll grow to hate you and shut you out. Then again, 'bout the time they turn 22, 23, 24, they'll have this "revelation" (what we call maturity) where they look at you with new eyes and see someone who really does love them and is willing to sacrifice for them to protect them.

So just stay the course. Realize that they might really hate you during those last years of high school and maybe right on through college or their first career. In the end though, especially when/if they have kids of their own, they'll start to see you for who you really are: the loving Dad who did his best to protect them and prepare them.

And I can tell ya after having my son go through that, you'll get a dear friend for life as a result. They really do grow up into adults and come to see the light after a while. That's when it "sticks" forever and you know you've made your mark.

MG

I have three older children and they still hate me but I stood my ground and still do. Someday they will realize they were raised right and be thankful Mom was there. I always say....say goodby at 13 and hello at 23..

 

[1sexylady]

My parents went through enuff with the things they found out about me, which was only about an eighth of what I actually did. So far, my two have been fairly reasonable. One good thing is they know they can talke to me about everything, and that I'm fair. Like my daughter. She's taken an interest in a youngman, who happens to be black (or african american if you want me to be PC) This area looks down strongly on the aspect of inter-racial relationships. She was worried I would get mad, but was stunned when I told her, "As long as he treats you right, it's fine with me." I don't see color or race, I see people.

Well believe it or not I was good then....out of control now...lmao. I talk frank to my kids and tell it like it is. I to don't see color but I will see a bad attitude.

Thank god you don't see me I am purple...

 

[1sexylady]

You sound like a good Dad DD. Mine are older (15 girl, 24 boy) and I can assure you that taking that approach will almost guarantee they'll grow to hate you and shut you out. Then again, 'bout the time they turn 22, 23, 24, they'll have this "revelation" (what we call maturity) where they look at you with new eyes and see someone who really does love them and is willing to sacrifice for them to protect them.

So just stay the course. Realize that they might really hate you during those last years of high school and maybe right on through college or their first career. In the end though, especially when/if they have kids of their own, they'll start to see you for who you really are: the loving Dad who did his best to protect them and prepare them.

And I can tell ya after having my son go through that, you'll get a dear friend for life as a result. They really do grow up into adults and come to see the light after a while. That's when it "sticks" forever and you know you've made your mark.

MG

MG.... You sound like a good Dad yourself...

 

[1sexylady]

Nope. And him stopping to pick up the penny between him and I proved it. Guess I was just having a bad hair day or something. LOL.

It is ok to have a bad hair day there ...Grandpa

 

[1sexylady]

Sorry, guys... didn't mean to drop out of sight so quickly last night!! I was enjoyin the male perspective from you, DD and MG!! As I'm not married, I'm "dad" and mom... don't always know how a man would think... YES... I DID ADMIT I DON'T KNOW WHAT MEN WOULD SAY/DO!!! lmao

Ya'll have a fun Hump Day!!

Laters....

Liza... Your a wonderful mother and father. Its not easy even with a spouse around...

 

[1sexylady]

Afternoon ((((((((((((((((sis))))))))))))))

I was busy playing catch up that I didn't see this..

{{{{{{{{{TONIE}}}}}}}}

 

[1sexylady]

He does I've heard his voice *grins* but his is a bit different from mine. he's a flat lander *giggles*

What the hell is a flat lander????

 

[1sexylady]

As long as they have fun it really don't matter well except to the parents Most of them get all worked up over the win /lose thing. the kids really wouldn't care.

I don't care what he does as long as he has fun. I tell him I am proud of him win or lose and I am. He's a really wonderful kid and such a joy in everyway. He does tell me to calm down in the stands...lol lol

 

[1sexylady]

What we having?? i'm hungry too

I do lunch duty at my son's school on Weds. They have pizza and let me tell you it is very hard not to get a few pieces but I am good and just stand there smelling it..

 

[1sexylady]

Re: Re: A tardy post? Where?

3 weeks from today for me!!!!

 

[1sexylady]

Re: Re: A tardy post? Where?

UGH! 23 shopping days and I haven't even started yet!
May have to come in my birthday suite!

Wow you'll be the hit at the party...

 

[1sexylady]

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Oops...missed the vanilla one...vanilla is what is commonly referred to as non-bdsm activity. Going on vanilla, or nilla, date - going out with someone who is not into the "lifestyle".

One thing I do is always learn something..

 

[1sexylady]

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Ah, but bdsm isn't necessarily about pain. There is tickle torture *snickergiggles* And not all activities have to leave marks. For me, feeling the falls of a flogger on my back makes me start to float almost immediately *what we call sub space*. It's not painful, but very erotic and stimulating. That said, for me, personally, sex isn't involved at all in my play. But, again, that's me, for many many others, it's an active part of their play. I don't have a Dom and I've never been comfortable with sex outside of a serious relationship, so when I play with friends I trust one of my rules is no genital or anal contact. *Always, always, always negotiate before a scene, please!!!!*

As for the power trip....that's debatable. We call it an Exchange of Power. The submissive/slave giving their power over to a Dominant/Master/Mistress who in turn gives their power back to said submissive/slave. Example: When I'm being flogged, I want to do the best I can to ensure that the scene is exciting the Dom I'm playing with for that scene. If He likes responses, I will be more vocal. In turn, the Dom wants to be sure I'm enjoying the scene. So if he knows I like it hard for a few strokes and then the feel of hands on my skin, that's what He gives me. Which in turn makes me want to please Him that much more, which in turn...see what I mean?

I also have a saying that may help. A Dom is someone who is dominant, not domineering.

Like I said always learning.... thanks Lunar...

 

[1sexylady]

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Oh, lots and lots I just know a lot about bdsm

Spank me, beat me, make me beg for more!!!

 

[yourdestonie]

Re: A tardy post? Where?

There are 23 shopping days remaining until Charlotte.

*grins* better late than never

 

[yourdestonie]

Re: Re: A tardy post? Where?

UGH! 23 shopping days and I haven't even started yet!
May have to come in my birthday suite!

I'm betting the men won't mind *grins*

 

[1sexylady]

Ok I didn't answer every post here because some just didn't apply to me but want to send out kisses to ....

Angel
Tonie
Lunar
Liza
Kayte
ZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
DD
MG
Margaritaville
and anyone else I might have missed...

 

[yourdestonie]

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Now worries...Littles are the players that take the part of the younger role in the roleplaying....as for what age play is, well you could sum it up with Daddy and little girl or Mommy and little boy or Daddy and little boy or Mommy and little girl. Age play is simply roleplaying in some way pertaining to age. There is "infantilism", which is adults acting as babies. You can also play schoolgirl or schoolboy with headmaster or headmistress, and every conceivable age in between. Keep in mind, though, that these are ADULTS posing as children...no one in the BDSM community advocates child abuse or pediphilia.

That said here is the class description written by our presenters Master Rickford and kimmie, who are the Southeastern Master/slave of the year *I'm getting together a list of class descriptions and teacher bios*

Ageplay: Myths and Legends of Littles:

A fun and educational look into the world of Ageplay, through a
presentation, including audience participation, skits, interesting facts and laughter. There will be coupons given to those "Non-Ageplayers" who attend, and helpful hints to those "kids-at-heart" folks. They will open doors to not only the kink of Ageplay but will also talk on Ego Play (AKA Humiliation Play), other Role-play situations and scene prep. So as Mr. Willie Wonka sang, "Come with me and you'll see a world of wild imagination."

thanks lunar when you get then all together I'll Pm them to everyone

Your doing such a great job.

 

[yourdestonie]

OMG The age of consent in New Mexico is 13!!! *thud*

Age of Consent in the United States, by state.
As of August 6, 1994

Alabama 16
Alaska 16
Arizona 18
Arkansas 16
California 18
Colorado 16
Connecticut 16
D.C. 16
Delaware 16
Florida 18
Georgia 16
Hawaii 16[3]
Idaho 18
Illinois 16
Indiana 16
Iowa 14
Kansas 16
Kentucky 14[1]
Louisiana 17
Maine 14
Maryland 16
Massachusetts 18
Michigan 16
Minnesota 16
Mississippi 18[2]
Missouri 16
Montana 16
Nebraska 16
Nevada 16
New Hampshire 16
New Jersey 16
New Mexico 13
New York 17
North Carolina 16
North Dakota 18
Ohio 16
Oklahoma 18
Oregon 18
Pennsylvania 14
Rhode Island 16
South Carolina 16
South Dakota 16
Tennessee 18
Texas 17
Utah 14
Vermont 15
Virginia 16
Washington 18
West Virginia 16
Wisconsin 18
Wyoming 18

What are the states thinking???

Shoot I didn't even know what sex was till I was almost 18 and didn't get any till I was almost 20