Str8 males and bi sex

[Mstrskey]

something I've never understood....

why so many find two women engaging in sexual acts together to be pleasing and erotic, but two men to be some sort of invalid lifestyle.

Krspy I wish you nothing but the very best in this endeavor and only wish that you had a wife who would understand and support you in your journey of sexual discovery. I know I wasn't suprised by my husbands support of my wanting to have sex with another woman, but it was wonderful to know he had no hangups about it either.
I am very fortunate in that i have an open and supportive partner who understands that sexual exploration is normal and healthy and in no way detracts from my adoration of him.
I also commend you for taking such pains to not bring anything to your marriage bed that would be detrimental!

I will say that possibly one of the most erotic things I have ever had the pleasure of seeing was watching a male friend of ours who we sometimes play with stroke my husbands cock for me while I sucked it. I very nearly came just from the sight of it.

 

[SlyFox]

Re: something I've never understood....

why so many find two women engaging in sexual acts together to be pleasing and erotic, but two men to be some sort of invalid lifestyle.

I am very fortunate in that i have an open and supportive partner who understands that sexual exploration is normal and healthy and in no way detracts from my adoration of him.

I couldn't agree with you more "Mstrskey"... I, too, am extremely furtunate to have a wife with that same attitude. Lack of that support, understanding and concurrance was the ultimate downfall of my first marriage - but the very solid underpinnings of my present and forever one.

SlyFox

 

[zetacon4]

I just love the interaction and discussion we have going here.
My next life partner will have to be open and sexually free to be compatible with me. I want to be able to develop close ties with good Bi friends that we can have sex parties with.

I am looking forward to any of you sharing your feelings and experiences on this subject here!

 

[Bandit58]

I was married for 23 years to a man who was so conservative.....if he knew I was bi he'd be horrified. I hid it from everyone. I was so shy and ignorant when I was growing up I didn't even know what I was feeling. I pushed it away.......didn't want to know. Then when I left him last year it all came flooding back......how when I fantasised there was always a woman in there somewhere.......wondering what it would be like to actually make love to one. Needing to know, actually.

I still need to know.......my lover knows about my sexuality, he's very open minded and like Mstrskey's husband is not threatened in the least by it, he has told me that I need to experience it to be "complete" (his word). We are in a LDR and we have phone sex quite often, and it's part of our fantasy. One day it will be real, and I want him to be there for my first time. He's also fantasised about being with another man, he says it's just a fantasy for now but who knows what might happen if he wants it to We plan to always do these things together as a couple........

 

[krspy2001]

I may have to postpone my exploration for a bit. I received an email from my friend in response to one i had sent him. as i approached the time we would meet i had several questions that i wantde him to answer. basically i wanted to confirm information that he had told me before to ensure he was clean and it would be a safe meeting. apparently he got offended by the questions as he said i had asked them before and was now questioning that i did not believe him. well long story short......he does not want to meet now.......i sent him a reply and am awaiting a response. Am i wrong for asking again about his disease status etc. I have never done this before and and am a little nervous as you may imagine. Safety is another concern that i addressed. maybe i was wrong but i guess we will see if he responds.....stay tuned

 

[BlondBombshell]

i agree with you .....

Krspy....
your safety is always of utmost importance and i think that you were right to verify the information before jumping into something with someone you really don't know all that well. Plus, you have to think about your life.......anything that you get, you will be bringing home to your loved one. Maybe if you wait a bit, he will cool off and realize that you are just being cautious. I can imagine that he would want the same assurances about you that you are asking about him.

Sorry to hear that it may not work out... eventually you will find someone to experiment with..... being safe is worth the wait.

BB

 

[krspy2001]

believe me...the search is still on lol..........

 

[BlondBombshell]

=)

believe me...the search is still on lol..........

You go guy!

lol (grin)

BB

 

[SlyFox]

Don't give up Krispy

believe me...the search is still on lol..........

And I definitely agree with BB... YOU be safe - or don't play... It just ain't worth it. And anybody that questions that is someone you definitely don't want to play with - ever... (Want to cum to Colorado??? I guarantee you'll be safe...)

Sly

 

[krspy2001]

hmmm...lets see where is that airline site lol.....i consider this a minor setback

 

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[krspy2001]

i hope so...........i was so looking forward to sucking him off

 

[Guest]

 

[krspy2001]

where is there lol

 

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[drew62]

Bummer

Sorry to hear that it didnt work out Krspy. But it is better to be safe than sorry. I worry about finding someone who is clean also.

 

[Guest]

Re: Bummer

 

[zetacon4]

Sad to hear about your plans

believe me...the search is still on lol..........

But, you can't be too careful.

I'd be more than happy to play with you. It's just these darn couple thousand miles of plains and mountains in my way!!!
Wishing you a very happy first time, whenever it happens!

 

[BlondBombshell]

=)

But, you can't be too careful.

I'd be more than happy to play with you. It's just these darn couple thousand miles of plains and mountains in my way!!!
Wishing you a very happy first time, whenever it happens!

let me know when you meet up with Krspy, Zeta...... i'm coming to watch!!

BB

 

[zetacon4]

Re: =)

let me know when you meet up with Krspy, Zeta...... i'm coming to watch!!

BB

OH! Please do. Will you sit very close and run your hands over us?
Maybe kiss and spank our asses some too?
You could help us be so very naughty!

 

[serialicker]

First meeting

I like to plan to give or receive a massage for a first meeting with someone I haven't met. It is relatively safe but still enjoyable. Why plan to go "all the way" with someone you have never met? Now, who in south Florida would like a massage? Couples most welcome.

 

[drew62]

Re: First meeting

I like to plan to give or receive a massage for a first meeting with someone I haven't met. It is relatively safe but still enjoyable. Why plan to go "all the way" with someone you have never met? Now, who in south Florida would like a massage? Couples most welcome.

Not in Florida, but what kind of massage are you taking about?
Sounds like alot of fun. A few years back, I thought about finding someone who gave more than your normal massage, but never found the courage.

Hope it goes well for you.

 

[serialicker]

My massages

The massages I give are always enjoyable to me no matter what happens. I love giving pleasure of many kinds. I start with my "massagee" face down and massage entire back, arms, thighs, feet, hands, neck and buttocks, avoiding any specific erotic areas. I hope the spouse or partner of my "masagee" is watching. I'm always open to suggestions from him or her. Then I turn my "massagee" over. I massage the front of the same parts I massaged when he or she was face down, avoiding breasts or other erotic areas unless I see evidence of sexual excitement. If I see evidence of sexual excitement,I then do what I can to satisfy, following suggestions from the watching partner. If the watching partner wants, I then give a massage to him or her. I'm not a professional masseur but have had no complaints. I can do it without a spouse or partner watching if desired but he or she being present pleases me..

 

[johnffuk]

i dream of being licked played with.
rubbing together.
smell of cock. hot and smooth.

 

[drew62]

i dream of being licked played with.
rubbing together.
smell of cock. hot and smooth.

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Never had the pleasure of smelling a cock. First, Im not that limber and cant bend over enough to get my nose close enough to my own. Second, I havent been close enough to another cock, but very much want to. I bet yours would be fun to lick.

Ive always wondered what it would be like to lick up some sweaty crotch. Taste someone elses crotch juice.