Str8 males and bi sex
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My husband was curious
My husband was curious about being with another man. We even posted a personal for a possible threesome.
To get him ready for it, I would rim him, sometimes massage his prostate while giving him a blow job, and occasionally using a strap-on.
Needless to say, he didn't go through with it, but we sure had fun getting ready for it.
My husband was curious about being with another man. We even posted a personal for a possible threesome. To get him ready for it, I would rim him, sometimes massage his prostate while giving him a blow job, and occasionally using a strap-on.
Needless to say, he didn't go through with it, but we sure had fun getting ready for it.
krspy, just agree to meet him but this time with no expectations. Then you can see what happens from there.
You are over the roughest spot - you know he wants to do you even after having met you, and you know that you would let him as long as you are not too afraid. If you let the pressure off you might find that you are less afraid.
Don't either of you drink?
You are over the roughest spot - you know he wants to do you even after having met you, and you know that you would let him as long as you are not too afraid. If you let the pressure off you might find that you are less afraid.
Don't either of you drink?
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krspy2001 said:
Grrrrrr you are a very bad boy.
Just you wait til I see you again!!!
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uh huh .. sorry indeed. Bend over.... *SMACK*krspy2001 said:sorry
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If you're anything like me, I have to establish some common ground with the person. Make friends. Get used to being with them. There will always be some emotional content to sexual encounters. I think you two should try some non-sex activities together first. Get to be good acquaintances. That should ease your uneasiness! Just my opinion!
You can cum take advantage of me anytime!
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The Voice of Experience
I spent about 20 minutes going through these posts and found some recurring themes. Let me address several of them:
1. The guys who "feel the urge" but are nervous about any situatiion that brings them into sexual proximity with another male. With Pee Wee Herman's problems well in mind, I nonetheless suggest that you check out your local XXX movie house (not porn shop booths). You are going to find other men masturbating more or less openly, not caring if you see them doing so. Go ahead and do the same thing -- take out your cock, play with it, let the men sitting near you see what you are doing. (Take along an old sock to catch your cum if you intend to jack off long enough to ejaculate.) If you like the sensation, go to step #2.
2. Look up a bi board on the internet. Some of these are arranged by ages, and most major cities have a local version (DC, Dallas, NY, etc). Get comfy with someone on e-mail, meet for lunch or coffee, take it from there. I think that getting to know the peso
I spent about 20 minutes going through these posts and found some recurring themes. Let me address several of them:
1. The guys who "feel the urge" but are nervous about any situatiion that brings them into sexual proximity with another male. With Pee Wee Herman's problems well in mind, I nonetheless suggest that you check out your local XXX movie house (not porn shop booths). You are going to find other men masturbating more or less openly, not caring if you see them doing so. Go ahead and do the same thing -- take out your cock, play with it, let the men sitting near you see what you are doing. (Take along an old sock to catch your cum if you intend to jack off long enough to ejaculate.) If you like the sensation, go to step #2.
2. Look up a bi board on the internet. Some of these are arranged by ages, and most major cities have a local version (DC, Dallas, NY, etc). Get comfy with someone on e-mail, meet for lunch or coffee, take it from there. I think that getting to know the peso
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I arranged a meeting w/ someone who used to post here. He lived in Ithaca which is quite far from Albany. I was nervous that he wouldnt show up (he didnt). Maybe he changed his mind because his g/f pressured him not to do it.krspy2001 said:
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There are a couple of different desires at play. There is the bi-fantasy, which emerges in environments like this, and sex.
If your friend, and you, find yourselves backing away from the real thing, then most likely you've discovered something. You, or maybe it's just he, want fantasy, and the fantasy may be very pliable-- a bit of this , and a bit of that.
Watching men jerk off in a porn theater...eeccch. Women have it better--so many neutral place to be erotic in a non-threatening way--changing rooms, the mirror in the ladies room, and so forth.
If your friend, and you, find yourselves backing away from the real thing, then most likely you've discovered something. You, or maybe it's just he, want fantasy, and the fantasy may be very pliable-- a bit of this , and a bit of that.
Watching men jerk off in a porn theater...eeccch. Women have it better--so many neutral place to be erotic in a non-threatening way--changing rooms, the mirror in the ladies room, and so forth.
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The Voice of Experience
I started writing this post yesterday afternoon; in mid-course AOL started acting up and cut me off in mid-sentence. So I am starting all over again, repeating what went up on Thursday and then continuing.
The Voice of Experience
I spent about 20 minutes going through these posts and found some recurring themes. Let me address several of them:
1. The guys who "feel the urge" but are nervous about any situatiion that brings them into sexual proximity with another male. With Pee Wee Herman's problems well in mind, I nonetheless suggest that you check out your local XXX movie house (not porn shop booths). You are going to find other men masturbating more or less openly, not caring if you see them doing so. Go ahead and do the same thing -- take out your cock, play with it, let the men sitting near you see what you are doing.
The theater I visit regularly tolerates mastubation (solo and shared) among customers, and I've seen no evidence of police interest. Again, with Pee Wee in mind, use your own judgment.
(Take along an old sock to catch your cum if you intend to jack off long enough to ejaculate.) If you like the sensation, go to step #2.
2. Look up a bi board on the internet. Some of these are arranged by ages, and most major cities have a local version (DC, Dallas, NY, etc). Get comfy with someone on e-mail, meet for lunch or coffee, take it from there. I think that getting to know the person in advance makes sex more comfortable. (Of curiosity, years ago I ventured into a "glory hole" club in San Francisco. The place was so dark I could barely see my own dick. Sucking on something that a faceless stranger stuck through a hole in the wall was not my idea of fun. I watched a bit, jerked off, came and left.)
3. Go the threesome route. One of the great sub-cultures of bisexuality consists of couples who like having a second man in bed with them. This I learned during a period when I was heavily into swinging with a female partner. (I was unwed at the time.) At parties, there was occasional casual bi play between some of the women -- fondling boobs, kissing, etc -- but nothing really heavy (cunnilingus). Male/male stuff was non-existent; the only intimate touch I received from a man came when a fellow fleetingly put his hand on my penis while guiding it into his wife's pussy.
I was pleasantly surprised one afternoon when a woman I had fucked at several parties called to ask if I could care to come over and have dinner with her and her huband. I asked if I should bring my GF. No, she said, come alone. When I arrived she greeted skimpily clad -- see-through nightie over nothng -- and said she had just gotten out of the shower; I should make a couple of drinks and come on back. I did, and I found her sitting naked in front of a mirror, doing her hair. She said her husband would be along in a bit. I handed her her drink, stroked one of her breasts, leaned down to kiss her -- and into bed we hopped.
We had just finished fucking when her husband arrived. She called, "Come on back, we're in here." Given that both of us were naked, and on top of the covers, what had happened was obvious. Peter was out of his clothes in an instant and in bed with us. He ran his hand over Joyce's damp pussy, then grabbed my cock. "I need a snack," he said, "and I think I'll start with this one." Whereupon he proceeded to take my cock in his mouth and suck me. At one point Joyce put her mouth down and helped him -- two on one.
Although he did not ask me to do so, after a bit I had him move aorund so that I could take his cock at the same time. When he indicated he was ready to ejaculate, Joyce came down and we took his load between our mouths.
He told me during a break what I have heard from countless other married men in the context of threesomes: Having the wife present when they suck a cock, or are sucked themselves, is a sort of Good Housekeeping of Approval -- that having her there means they are not "queer" or homosexual. The wife gets a good fuck out of the deal. And, finally, there are many women who are turned on at the sight of men having sex with one another.
Peter and Joyce passed me on to several other couples in the group who liked MMF threesomes. The unspoken agreement was that we would not do anything without at least one of the women being present.
How do you find such couples? Check out the swinger boards that are for "older sexuals" or "mature swingers" or the like. You will find a high degree of "pass-alongs" in this crowd if you are good in bed -- i. e., a couple who knows another couples who are into male bisex, and are willing to introduce you. Given that I travel quite a bit, I've been "passed along" to couples in perhaps a dozen cities over the years.
BE HONEST. If a couple advertises for a "bi man," be ready to suck cock if you meet them. I've heard stories of guys who claimed to be "bi curious" and declined to perform once they had fucked the wife. This won't cut much ice. Increasingly I find that the wife insists that I fellate her husband -- or let him have my cock -- before I get into her pussy.
I've gotten some great pussy out of such arrangements -- and also some great cocks to suck, and some super blow jobs. Given my voyeur-exhibitionist streaks, having sex in a threesome is also a visual turn-on. Moresomes are even better: when three couples decide, for instance, to invite a stray solo male to their beds.
4. A local pal of mine says that he meets a good variety of men by dropping into the bars of hotels that cater to travelling businessmen and salesmen. (Suburban Holiday Inns near tech parks, for instance.) He hits them around nine o'clock, when the post-dinner drinks are well along, and the out-of-town guy is beginning to think he is going to have to go up to the room and watch an XXX in-house video and jerk off if he wants any sex. My friend is so-so in appearance but a glib talker and he seems to have an eye for guys who want a little spice, and he claims that he "scores" about half the time he goes out. This is not my pot of tea, but think about it.
My estimate is that perhaps half the married men in the US above the age of 40 are amenable to a bi experience -- lack of opportunity and initiative are the sole barriers. So, steal an afternoon from work and visit your local XXX theater. See how you feel when you actually jerk off while sitting alongside a watching man -- and your reaction when he pulls out his cock and does the same. Step One.
I started writing this post yesterday afternoon; in mid-course AOL started acting up and cut me off in mid-sentence. So I am starting all over again, repeating what went up on Thursday and then continuing.
The Voice of Experience
I spent about 20 minutes going through these posts and found some recurring themes. Let me address several of them:
1. The guys who "feel the urge" but are nervous about any situatiion that brings them into sexual proximity with another male. With Pee Wee Herman's problems well in mind, I nonetheless suggest that you check out your local XXX movie house (not porn shop booths). You are going to find other men masturbating more or less openly, not caring if you see them doing so. Go ahead and do the same thing -- take out your cock, play with it, let the men sitting near you see what you are doing.
The theater I visit regularly tolerates mastubation (solo and shared) among customers, and I've seen no evidence of police interest. Again, with Pee Wee in mind, use your own judgment.
(Take along an old sock to catch your cum if you intend to jack off long enough to ejaculate.) If you like the sensation, go to step #2.
2. Look up a bi board on the internet. Some of these are arranged by ages, and most major cities have a local version (DC, Dallas, NY, etc). Get comfy with someone on e-mail, meet for lunch or coffee, take it from there. I think that getting to know the person in advance makes sex more comfortable. (Of curiosity, years ago I ventured into a "glory hole" club in San Francisco. The place was so dark I could barely see my own dick. Sucking on something that a faceless stranger stuck through a hole in the wall was not my idea of fun. I watched a bit, jerked off, came and left.)
3. Go the threesome route. One of the great sub-cultures of bisexuality consists of couples who like having a second man in bed with them. This I learned during a period when I was heavily into swinging with a female partner. (I was unwed at the time.) At parties, there was occasional casual bi play between some of the women -- fondling boobs, kissing, etc -- but nothing really heavy (cunnilingus). Male/male stuff was non-existent; the only intimate touch I received from a man came when a fellow fleetingly put his hand on my penis while guiding it into his wife's pussy.
I was pleasantly surprised one afternoon when a woman I had fucked at several parties called to ask if I could care to come over and have dinner with her and her huband. I asked if I should bring my GF. No, she said, come alone. When I arrived she greeted skimpily clad -- see-through nightie over nothng -- and said she had just gotten out of the shower; I should make a couple of drinks and come on back. I did, and I found her sitting naked in front of a mirror, doing her hair. She said her husband would be along in a bit. I handed her her drink, stroked one of her breasts, leaned down to kiss her -- and into bed we hopped.
We had just finished fucking when her husband arrived. She called, "Come on back, we're in here." Given that both of us were naked, and on top of the covers, what had happened was obvious. Peter was out of his clothes in an instant and in bed with us. He ran his hand over Joyce's damp pussy, then grabbed my cock. "I need a snack," he said, "and I think I'll start with this one." Whereupon he proceeded to take my cock in his mouth and suck me. At one point Joyce put her mouth down and helped him -- two on one.
Although he did not ask me to do so, after a bit I had him move aorund so that I could take his cock at the same time. When he indicated he was ready to ejaculate, Joyce came down and we took his load between our mouths.
He told me during a break what I have heard from countless other married men in the context of threesomes: Having the wife present when they suck a cock, or are sucked themselves, is a sort of Good Housekeeping of Approval -- that having her there means they are not "queer" or homosexual. The wife gets a good fuck out of the deal. And, finally, there are many women who are turned on at the sight of men having sex with one another.
Peter and Joyce passed me on to several other couples in the group who liked MMF threesomes. The unspoken agreement was that we would not do anything without at least one of the women being present.
How do you find such couples? Check out the swinger boards that are for "older sexuals" or "mature swingers" or the like. You will find a high degree of "pass-alongs" in this crowd if you are good in bed -- i. e., a couple who knows another couples who are into male bisex, and are willing to introduce you. Given that I travel quite a bit, I've been "passed along" to couples in perhaps a dozen cities over the years.
BE HONEST. If a couple advertises for a "bi man," be ready to suck cock if you meet them. I've heard stories of guys who claimed to be "bi curious" and declined to perform once they had fucked the wife. This won't cut much ice. Increasingly I find that the wife insists that I fellate her husband -- or let him have my cock -- before I get into her pussy.
I've gotten some great pussy out of such arrangements -- and also some great cocks to suck, and some super blow jobs. Given my voyeur-exhibitionist streaks, having sex in a threesome is also a visual turn-on. Moresomes are even better: when three couples decide, for instance, to invite a stray solo male to their beds.
4. A local pal of mine says that he meets a good variety of men by dropping into the bars of hotels that cater to travelling businessmen and salesmen. (Suburban Holiday Inns near tech parks, for instance.) He hits them around nine o'clock, when the post-dinner drinks are well along, and the out-of-town guy is beginning to think he is going to have to go up to the room and watch an XXX in-house video and jerk off if he wants any sex. My friend is so-so in appearance but a glib talker and he seems to have an eye for guys who want a little spice, and he claims that he "scores" about half the time he goes out. This is not my pot of tea, but think about it.
My estimate is that perhaps half the married men in the US above the age of 40 are amenable to a bi experience -- lack of opportunity and initiative are the sole barriers. So, steal an afternoon from work and visit your local XXX theater. See how you feel when you actually jerk off while sitting alongside a watching man -- and your reaction when he pulls out his cock and does the same. Step One.
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A wonderful piece--part short story, part essay, part advice column! The 'I need a snack, I think I'll start with this one' was a bit pulp literary, but I can go along with it as fiction.
Some real life reservations, though.
I think you could get hurt if you went to hotel bars and tried to pick up one in two guys. Homophobia (and its variants--biphobia?)is a violent disease. Same applies to any public space--a theater, a bathroom. Just be careful. You can get badly hurt, or worse, meeting the wrong person.
Anyway, sexy writing. I look forward to more.
Some real life reservations, though.
I think you could get hurt if you went to hotel bars and tried to pick up one in two guys. Homophobia (and its variants--biphobia?)is a violent disease. Same applies to any public space--a theater, a bathroom. Just be careful. You can get badly hurt, or worse, meeting the wrong person.
Anyway, sexy writing. I look forward to more.
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Not a fictional line...
Homonwhatever (can't spell your name from memory!!) the guy's line might sound pulp fictionish, but believe me, he uttered it, with a grin. (Both he and the Missus are witty people, and they are social as well as sexual friends these days.) And I suggest you misread a statistic: I did not write that my pal who roams Holiday Inn bars scores one out of two hits. Au contraire, he scores one of two EVENINGS, which is not the same as finding that every other bar stool is occupied by a covert bi male. He further tells me that over the years, he has developed a sixth sense as to who might be amenable to approach.
I share your feelings about propositioning strangers, and the thought of "making out" with a guy in a rest room -- or even approaching one there -- is repugnant. But in an XXX movie house, where the display of erect cocks is rampant, I don't think that sexual overtures are all that dangerous.
In any event, I expend most of my efforts these days matching up with couples, and I go to the XXX theater out in the burbs only rarely, and then when I have business in the immediate area.
I am glad you thought the post was useful. Perhaps I shall put up more in due course.
Homonwhatever (can't spell your name from memory!!) the guy's line might sound pulp fictionish, but believe me, he uttered it, with a grin. (Both he and the Missus are witty people, and they are social as well as sexual friends these days.) And I suggest you misread a statistic: I did not write that my pal who roams Holiday Inn bars scores one out of two hits. Au contraire, he scores one of two EVENINGS, which is not the same as finding that every other bar stool is occupied by a covert bi male. He further tells me that over the years, he has developed a sixth sense as to who might be amenable to approach.
I share your feelings about propositioning strangers, and the thought of "making out" with a guy in a rest room -- or even approaching one there -- is repugnant. But in an XXX movie house, where the display of erect cocks is rampant, I don't think that sexual overtures are all that dangerous.
In any event, I expend most of my efforts these days matching up with couples, and I go to the XXX theater out in the burbs only rarely, and then when I have business in the immediate area.
I am glad you thought the post was useful. Perhaps I shall put up more in due course.
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The point was that it wasn't particularly useful--as advice. As fantasy, I wouldn't say it was useful, but it was fun.
I stand corrected on the statistic. Anyway, those lacking a sixth sense (probably most people) should be careful.
The threesome scene sounds wild. Happy hunting.
I stand corrected on the statistic. Anyway, those lacking a sixth sense (probably most people) should be careful.
The threesome scene sounds wild. Happy hunting.
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I stand corrected.
I apologize. Your first posting said something about useful advice, your second posting said the opposite. I should be a better mind reader, I suppose.
My reason for posting it was to pass on some things that I learned over the years. So, keep doing whatever it is you do to come across suitable partners, and I shall do the same.
I apologize. Your first posting said something about useful advice, your second posting said the opposite. I should be a better mind reader, I suppose.
My reason for posting it was to pass on some things that I learned over the years. So, keep doing whatever it is you do to come across suitable partners, and I shall do the same.
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This what I said:
"A wonderful piece--part short story, part essay, part advice column! The 'I need a snack, I think I'll start with this one' was a bit pulp literary, but I can go along with it as fiction.
Some real life reservations, though. .."
And right below "though" I went on to give my caveat about the advice. That is, right below "though"...
Of course, what you inferred from "wonderful" is that the whole piece was wonderful.
I know you worked hard on the piece, and the sex part was fun. Even the advice, as fantasy advice, was fun. It would be dangerous, though, for most people to do what you advise. Right? If you had a son or daughter you wouldn't give such advice. So the point should be made that it isn't real world advice. Some people in this forum would actually go out and do what you suggest, and that's troubling.
"A wonderful piece--part short story, part essay, part advice column! The 'I need a snack, I think I'll start with this one' was a bit pulp literary, but I can go along with it as fiction.
Some real life reservations, though. .."
And right below "though" I went on to give my caveat about the advice. That is, right below "though"...
Of course, what you inferred from "wonderful" is that the whole piece was wonderful.
I know you worked hard on the piece, and the sex part was fun. Even the advice, as fantasy advice, was fun. It would be dangerous, though, for most people to do what you advise. Right? If you had a son or daughter you wouldn't give such advice. So the point should be made that it isn't real world advice. Some people in this forum would actually go out and do what you suggest, and that's troubling.
*raises hand*
A great place to look for a partner, couple, etc is www.sexyads.net . They have just about anything listed that you can think of, and over the years, I've found quite a few people in my local area (which is a very small town in Northeast Maryland). Anyway, its something to consider! Go for it Krspy... there's nothing to be afraid of!
A great place to look for a partner, couple, etc is www.sexyads.net . They have just about anything listed that you can think of, and over the years, I've found quite a few people in my local area (which is a very small town in Northeast Maryland). Anyway, its something to consider! Go for it Krspy... there's nothing to be afraid of!
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hmmmm and what about you?BlueGuyKy said:So,Anyone else besides Krspy willing to show what they have to offer???
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