Sub guys community

[actorsub]

Hello,

I've been a lot of ads here from sub guys - including myself - in search of Mistress/Domme. I was thinking to combine our efforts here so create a community so that the Mistress/Domme could choose us based on their preferences etc.

My other idea is for the subs who want to expose themselves on cam. We could do 3-4 way cam sessions with interested Mistress/Domme with the chat program called ooVoo.

Thank you and please PM me if interested.

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[actorsub]

Bumping

 

[Argetlampuppeh]

I like the idea, being in the same boat.

 

[bronco20]

i would also be interested in this. 21/m here

 

[actorsub]

thank you guys for your replies. That should be the spirit. we are all in the same boat. let's help each other out

 

[Scentofawoman]

I'm going to give you guys a bump and my support. There are Domme and female Dominants out there. Don't give up.

(I am currently not looking for a sub sorry.)

 

[actorsub]

Thanks for the support, let's see all the DOMMEES and subs

 

[hank890]

sounds great - id be up for the cam version too. great idea. yahoo IM / mail me at

 

[malstroem]

So what about the subs who aren't looking to just cam?
I happen to know of Dommes (myself included) who would never participate in this as cam isn't everything. Also, I find it shallow to pick a sub purely based on looks.
Of course, if you only look for jerking off on cam for a Domme with nothing more in it than that, it might work.

 

[rick_j21]

I'll join the roster...31/m sub

 

[MadaamMeg]

yea It can be hard to find someone who is a good fit.

 

[addict4you]

Young man here, willing to do anything to please my future mistress, 18 and very submissive, pm
If you're interested in dominating my young, desperate body

 

[malstroem]

Young man here, willing to do anything to please my future mistress, 18 and very submissive, pm
If you're interested in dominating my young, desperate body

When somebody says they're willing to do "anything", they're either suicidal, retarded or just extremely naive.
In BDSM, limits are a good thing if you want to come out alive and well.

 

[actorsub]

many thanks for the useful advice, would you like to be the mentor of the group??

When somebody says they're willing to do "anything", they're either suicidal, retarded or just extremely naive.
In BDSM, limits are a good thing if you want to come out alive and well.

 

[malstroem]

many thanks for the useful advice, would you like to be the mentor of the group??

If somebody has questions, he's welcome to ask them. But don't be a fucktard in doing so and don't expect me to hook you up with anybody

 

[ChainsawHands]

I've never really been the one to be dominated before, but the idea of being the one to please a woman and to obey her commands has always been a turn on. I'd definitely be interested in trying this at least once to see if it would be something I'd want to continue to do.

As far as limits go I do have some. Nothing gross or disturbing. Pain is something that if handled correctly can be pleasing, but too much is unwelcomed. I don't want someone smashing my nuts with the heel of their shoes, lol. I'm more of a servant and a lover, not a chew toy. Though, that idea could be interesting as well.

 

[rick_j21]

If somebody has questions, he's welcome to ask them. But don't be a fucktard in doing so and don't expect me to hook you up with anybody

I'm glad you said that. I agree with you about limits.

 

[malstroem]

I'm glad you said that. I agree with you about limits.

Well, you just hear about enough freaky fantasies, like being eaten alive, fetishes for amputees, castration and snuff. Of course it's rather rare that you actually meet those people, but it does indeed happen that you need to point out k9 or scat as hard limits.

 

[OregonVirgin]

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[TheJakeMan]

Count me in.

 

[lilcuriouscatt]

Interesting Thread

So, are you all looking for a real time Domme or just someone to play around with online? I agree with malstroem that a sub's looks are not the most important part of the relationship.Is anyone interested in putting in the time to develop a real one?

 

[westin00]

im new to the whole BDSM thing but i want to be an online sub to a women who can help teach me mre. my name is westin and i am 18 if you would ike to teach me pm me -i bow down waiting-

 

[Scentofawoman]

Wow,

So many of you are such young guys. I really have to question is this what you really want? Words of advice.

1) a real Domme is not going to take your opnions onto consideration when the time come. But you have the right to say NO at anytime.

2). You have to build a relationship with the Domme. We are not the stupid ones that punish you by writing sniviling punishment threads in the BDSM section. Like those "Dom wanna be". We want men.

3). Most Domme want a trust relationship. If you think just jacking off in the camera is all that will happen, then re evaluate your wants.

4) like Mealstrom said, have some hard stops.

 

[rick_j21]

Well, you just hear about enough freaky fantasies, like being eaten alive, fetishes for amputees, castration and snuff. Of course it's rather rare that you actually meet those people, but it does indeed happen that you need to point out k9 or scat as hard limits.

Yes very true. As with any relationship complete honesty is the key. Though the online wide open fantasies are fun to think about.

 

[2TitsNoWaiting]

Certainly a thread worth watching.