Submissive/Slave Haven

Hi. I'd love to be a member of this group. I'm in the middle of a weekend of difficult *sub training* from my Sir. If anyone needs a a little support and TLC at the moment, it's me.
 
Just sayin hi, ,and I will be availble to give friendly thoughts from a Dom/Master perspective.
 
hello my sweeties!!!

Yes, SG is just now 18 posts away til my av is available. I don't think WD can wait.

*giggles*

how are you lovelies doing this evening??

My how I've missed being here. We had a BBQ for my birthday-- I got to serve everyone... it was heaven. I got a new pretty collar and a a gorgeous new dress to add to my collection. He told me I have three more gifts for tomorrow.... hopefully one of those will be an orgasm!!! We all had a lot of fun and ate til we were all sick. Tomorrow we will have loads of fun-- we are going to play Team Trauma and hose them all. (paintball... don't ask) then I am suppose to 'keep my day free and clear'. We will see what that brings. How is everyone else tonight? How is your training going, Brandii?

*kisses all*

catch you soon!!
 
Brandii said:
Hi. I'd love to be a member of this group. I'm in the middle of a weekend of difficult *sub training* from my Sir. If anyone needs a a little support and TLC at the moment, it's me.


I can sympathize with you Brandii....

i hated training that went bad quick and i couldn't fix it as fast as i could keep fucking it up.... i'd start getting flustered and then it would spiral

hang in there, better days are ahead :nana:

pet
 
alas...

I was just shot down in my quest for a connection with a wonderful woman...

She does not want anything to do with this submissive...

It is a tough place to be... a male submissive...
 
Another tough place to be is a fem sub wanting a fem Domme, I should know.. *Laughs* But I am not giving up JUST yet...

Oh yeah, hi I popped my head in here too... lol
 
Awe, don't give up, y'all... there is someone out there that is perfect for you. I just know it!!

*huggles for all*


its my birthday.... squee!!
 
SweetGigi said:
Awe, don't give up, y'all... there is someone out there that is perfect for you. I just know it!!

*huggles for all*


its my birthday.... squee!!

Thanks...
 
I hope this is the right place...

I am here because I seek experience as a submissive.

I was introduced to all this by a submissive and I learned to top pretty quickly, and enjoyed giving her the experience she desired...

Long story short, I realized that I wanted to receive the same things I was giving her.

Am I a switch, submissive, top, bottom... I don't like labels, I like to explore...
 
wouldloveto said:
I am here because I seek experience as a submissive. ...
This is exactly why I subscribed to this thread. I'm so incredibly new to all of this that one could consider it a joke. I want to learn as much as I can to be a good sub. Master seems to adore me the way I am. But, I'm a perfectionist. Things can always be improved. ;) At least, for now, I'm good at making him laugh!
 
I feel lucky to have him! :D I'm truly enjoying His company so far. Master is very laid back. Probably a good thing for a new sub! LOL

Edit: Speaking of being new, is anyone else under direction to be nude all the time at home? If yes, does it affect you in any way (what way)? I ask because it makes me think constantly of Him, and sex. And the constant state of arousal is getting really annoying (I can't do anything about it). Any suggestions on how to turn it off? Or will I just get used to being nude in time and it will quit affecting me this way? Thank you, in advance, for any help!
 
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Velvet Bubbles said:
I feel lucky to have him! :D I'm truly enjoying His company so far. Master is very laid back. Probably a good thing for a new sub! LOL

Edit: Speaking of being new, is anyone else under direction to be nude all the time at home? If yes, does it affect you in any way (what way)? I ask because it makes me think constantly of Him, and sex. And the constant state of arousal is getting really annoying (I can't do anything about it). Any suggestions on how to turn it off? Or will I just get used to being nude in time and it will quit affecting me this way? Thank you, in advance, for any help!

Yeah, naked all the time at home. I like it, but it is very powerful. It seems like he should give you a break sometimes. He would if he knew what was best, I think.

I really like the dom thing, but I wish mine was really here. It would make a world of difference. I don't know how much longer I can do the online thing. It's kind of painful because I don't know if we will ever meet.
 
I'm kinda new to all this, but thought I'd add my 2 cents. CutieMouse is a wise girl, and her advice should be heeded (SP?) I wrote in wondering about this stuff I was feeling, and she taught me all about sub_frenzy. (Not sure I LIKE that term, but it's about as accurate as it gets, in regards to how I'm feeling) I think you should feel relieved, to have a potential dom who is so thoughtful, and intelligent, and aware of such things, as to help you do what is best for you. You seem to really like him, I hope so and that it works out for you. Keep us posted.
As for me... I've got to find a way to occupy my time. Sir is away on business and I just don't know what to do with myself! Even when he's not, I'd like to be able to take care of myself without this dire need to talk to him driving me bananas! So, I've started writing again. This could be a good thing. I'm writing about our first meeting currently. We'll see where it goes from there. Thanks Gigi for making this thread. I have been hoping to meet other more experienced subs. Ok, I'll stop yacking now. Quite a bit of words for my 2 cents. ya know what they say, more BANG for your buck!
 
wow Gigi, you are one lucky girl! One brave one too! I KNOW I couldn't handle more than one dom. (I just wish mine lived closer) Have fun and keep us posted. ps I can see your glowing hiney from here
 
Tell me more about this "training gone bad" thing? I have no idea what you're talking about. I really AM green, I guess.
 
I did discuss the constant nudity thing with Him. So we've adjusted the "rules" on it a little. Not that I don't still constantly think about him though. Heh. It's only been two weeks as of today. I'm sure I'll get more used to things as time goes on. I already am, to a point.

I'm just glad this thread is here. :) It's a nice hang-out. :)
 
I am under the orders to be nude at all times as well have the BLINDS up at all times. I get small 'reprieves' here and there and of course I am to be fully dressed when we leave the house. Both Amato and Guardian hold this standard for me and enjoy it to its fullest. I think the lesson I have learned in this is to be constantly aware of my body and my sexuality. I even still have a tendency to be overly shy sometimes instead of proud of being who I am. Its a never ending battle. Now at first I hated it... but now that I have been doing it for such a long time, its like second nature to me. I even sometimes feel awkward when one of Them has me dress for dinner or some other task now. The uncomfortable nature will pass soon and you will just learn to enjoy yourself as you are. Just don't forget you are nude and accidentally answer the door that way.

*deep blush*
 
Just checking in to say happy saturday too all my fellow subbies.
 
wenchhh said:
wow Gigi, you are one lucky girl! One brave one too! I KNOW I couldn't handle more than one dom. (I just wish mine lived closer) Have fun and keep us posted. ps I can see your glowing hiney from here

heheh, thanks!!

Amato is away a lot so that is why He allows me to have Guardian in my life. Guardian offers a more formal, traditional lifestyle while Amato is much more liberal and more 'off the cuff'. I am truly lucky... but when I get in trouble.... shew.... lets just say that its not pleasant.
 
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