Suck or be sucked?

[CandiCame]

To me, this is a case of apples vs. oranges. Like most men, I enjoy being on the receiving end of a good blowjob, but curiously enough, only from a woman. Fortunately, my wife loves sucking my cock. almost as much as I love sucking off other men. Not only do I like sucking cock, I also really like "being" a "cocksucker", which is not exactly the same thing. I don't want to get a blowjob from the men whose cocks I suck because that would mitigate for me, the delicious, submissive and slutty feeling I get from being the only one down on my knees while having a thick cock stuffed deep in my mouth.

THIS!!!!!!!!

 

[cockconoisseur]

Loving both

I would have to say that while i enjoy getting my dick sucked, especially from a guy that has a mustache. There is just something about seeing my cock disappear under a nice stache that turns me on, I really enjoy having a nice cock going deep down my throat. Making love to it. Mmm nothing better than that.

 

[WV_me]

I alway want to be sucking. But I would never turn down the chance to be sucked either. I do love the thouht of a cock in my mouth.

 

[Bbb13]

I alway want to be sucking. But I would never turn down the chance to be sucked either. I do love the thouht of a cock in my mouth.

Ditto, just fantasies

 

[aconsenter]

I suck cock

I enjoy being the sucker. I was with a guy a couple weeks ago and he told me to strip down while I was blowing him....it took me off guard. He had not said before that he sucked. I stripped down and we got in a 69 and he blew me. I havent been sucked in awhile, as i usually just hunt for guys that only want to blow. it was okay, i came quick and hard. he came hard too, i swallowed, he didn't. he talked and called me a bitch, etc. that was cool.
Suck on men.

 

[mwmbham]

I would prefer sucking. I get off on the submissive part of going down on another man.

 

[raiinn57]

Flexible like both

Give or receive I like both!!!...

YIM rain1957

 

[cdatj2]

suck for sure is the best part, giving pleasure is always more of a turn on then getting, but i dont turn down a bj either

 

[dluvstoread]

sucking......definitely!!!

 

[deucie]

As much as I like to be sucked what I really want is to feel a cock harden in my mouth and do to him what I like done to me.

This........and to swallow a big load.

 

[NotAHippie]

My fantasies are always a bit more ambiguous I guess...sometimes I'm a top, sometimes a bottom, sometimes giving and sometimes recieving.

 

[mr_db]

Sucking

To the bi and bi-curious here, do you think more about sucking cock or being sucked by another guy? To the women who like bi men, do you want your man to be the sucker or suckee? I have my own preferences and reasons, but I wanted to hear from other people about their turn-ons.

Honestly I think more about sucking a guy....but if he sucks back that's a bonus hahah

 

[toutdoors]

Depends

If it is nice thick hung and especially uncut I prefer to suck. Other times I prefer receiving

 

[Niko408]

One of my favorite things... a good long 69. There there is no question needed

 

[Hitchiker69]

Honestly I think more about sucking a guy....but if he sucks back that's a bonus hahah

I totally agree. I look forward to sucking a guy more than anything else. But 69ing is a definite bonus. Taking turns fucking each other is a dream date.

 

[bi_ian]

I prefer sucking, love getting my tongue then lips all over a beautiful hard shaft

 

[CJontherocks]

Sex is a shared act for me. It is mutual pleasure; giving, receiving, and enjoying. I enjoy either experience when it is a shared thing. But I don't really enjoy sex with an exclusive agenda... I don't like a guy to just blow me. And I'll get really horny if I blow a guy, so somebody's gonna have to feed my little monster somehow.

It's fun to get a blow job just because your partner wants to give you one. And it's fun to give one for the same reason. But as a general sexual preference, I need more than just top or bottom oral sex. I need passion and connection, mutual pleasure and sharing the experience. I would not be fully satisfied with anything else.

 

[ImprovSpirit]

To the bi and bi-curious here, do you think more about sucking cock or being sucked by another guy? To the women who like bi men, do you want your man to be the sucker or suckee? I have my own preferences and reasons, but I wanted to hear from other people about their turn-ons.

The way I envision it in my fantasies I am strictly a sub/bottom. Therefore: sucker. How this may eventually (hopefully) play out in "real life' remains a mystery.

 

[ImprovSpirit]

Seems to me the beauty of male/male sex is that both men can do both if they want. A dude can bottom one time, top the next-- if he wants. That's what excites me about the notion, that the roles don't have to be so damned written in stone.

Agreed. In all facets of life, folks tend to get too tied into certain roles. I believe it was Robert Heinlein who said "Specialization is for insects."

 

[ImprovSpirit]

Sex is a shared act for me. It is mutual pleasure; giving, receiving, and enjoying. I enjoy either experience when it is a shared thing. But I don't really enjoy sex with an exclusive agenda... I don't like a guy to just blow me. And I'll get really horny if I blow a guy, so somebody's gonna have to feed my little monster somehow.

It's fun to get a blow job just because your partner wants to give you one. And it's fun to give one for the same reason. But as a general sexual preference, I need more than just top or bottom oral sex. I need passion and connection, mutual pleasure and sharing the experience. I would not be fully satisfied with anything else.

Extremely well said.

 

[howbo]

69

To the bi and bi-curious here, do you think more about sucking cock or being sucked by another guy? To the women who like bi men, do you want your man to be the sucker or suckee? I have my own preferences and reasons, but I wanted to hear from other people about their turn-ons.

gay here. luv 69

 

[wallio]

suck suck

 

[sureimbicurious]

For me, anytime I jerk off, I'm thinking about sucking.
There's something about a warm, throbbing cock bulging in your mouth and hand that is so much sexier then you getting off. And when he's ready to blow and you choose to spit/swallow or take it on your face and see his reaction/taste his gooey cum, all the better for me!

 

[mega dB]

Selfish...definitely prefer to be sucked.

 

[sterculius]

I'm also selfish.....I insist on being the cocksucker!!