Sucking and swallowing?

[Demon_in_love]

I love to suck my boyfriend, and I know he enjoys it, but I don't like the taste of cum! I don't know what to do! I've started avoiding sucking him to avoid the taste, but I don't want to keep that up for long. Someone please help me!

 

[SweetErika]

You two could try to change the taste of his cum through diet (there are threads on that in The Blank Manual sticky at the top of How To), or have him warn you when he's ready to come so you can replace the oral with manual stimulation or something else.

 

[artsmom]

Wow, Demon, that's too bad...I have always loved the taste of cum. Could you describe what your boyfriend's cum tastes like?

 

[mattly]

I'm sorry for him

My wife finally let me cum in her mouth a couple weeks ago. This was after 20 years of marriage. It was the most fantastic thing I have ever experienced. Although I basically know or quite firmly believe she has done this with another guy, nonetheless it was the first time she did it for me.
Anyhow, I hope you guys work this out so he can continue to enjoy this unbelievable pleasure.

Mattly

 

[luvitlong]

i didnt like the taste of cum either
but i found if he drinks lots of pineapple juice throughout the day it tastes a lot better

 

[tabbybaby]

drink lots of water, lots of pineapple juice, and lose the red meat and cigarettes.

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

I find a brand of bitter/ale called Caffreys works a treat, I don't mind it anyway, but with the drink I can't get enough.

 

[SweetErika]

drink lots of water, lots of pineapple juice, and lose the red meat and cigarettes.

I don't notice a difference between smokers and non-smokers, though dehydration, strong foods/spices, alcohol and coffee can certainly make for icky cum.

 

[Demon_in_love]

The Pineapple juice thing is a really good idea. Thanks!

 

[lesbiaphrodite]

Drink cranapple juice and eat celery.

 

[M's girl]

Cum isn't supposed to be yummie. It's not like you can expect a smoothie straight from the tap or something. I think you either get used to the taste and substance (because part of what makes it "taste" weird is the thickness combined with the taste - or non-taste almost), or you don't. I also think it has a lot do do with what you are willing to do for your partner and what you get in return. Personally I have never disliked the taste that much, plus you don't always have to swallow everything. I have found that the suggestion that you are swallowing at least some and then let the rest flow back over your lips works very well. "Everyone" satisfied

 

[Travel Bugs]

Alternatives to do

My wife of 15 years has only tried to swallow once and it turned out to be a disaster. After a year of marriage we started talking about past experiences and I told her of a girl I dated in high school that swallowed and it was a great feeling. I wanted my wife to try it and she forced herself on my and pumped and sucked hard until I shot my load into her mouth which resulted in her running into the bathroom and said she would never do that again. Since that time she still sucks me, and she is terrific at it, but can determine when I am ready to lose it and she ends up jacking me off onto her tits. I absolutely love cumming on her 36Bs.

My suggestion is to find an alternative to swallowing that will give him the pleasure he is looking for. She also refused to try anal and less than 6 months ago I had a finger in her ass and she erupted in a huge orgasm. This new discovery has led to anal sex (with a condom) and the best part of all. Doing anal while she has a dildo fucking her pussy. With age, confidence, and support things get better. I know eventually she will swallow and then the flood gates will open!

 

[mjl2010]

From a guys point of view anyway, you're either going to bring him to a amazing finish or a disappointing one. Stop what you're doing and switch methods of bringing him off and its just not the same. Like the others said, he can change his taste so it's not so bad.

Does he get you off orally? Does he stop just before you cum? If he did would you be disappointed? I'd say if he gets you off that way, then you should finish him that way too. If he won't do that then he doesn't deserve it anyway.

MJL

 

[SubNebGuy]

it can be just as erotic to cum all over her face, or tits, or both, or to just let it fall back out of your mouth while you keep sucking.

my wife's not a fan of the flavor of man juice either.

 

[necroerotica]

It's a persistent fantasy of mine, but I can't see it being fulfilled any time soon


BJ's are something I really, really enjoy (what man doesn't?) but my wife refuses to even let cum near her mouth. After years of being together, she did swallow once - and just the once. I was still hard as she dashed off to the bathroom to throw up

She's asked me why it's so important to me. It's not 'important', as in, it's not the be-all and end-all, but I've tried to explain it as - imagine the most wonderful, warm, wet, fantastic feeling in the world, taking you right to the edge, and just as you're about to cum, the moment you've been working towards and holding off for an eternity.... all of a sudden you're left flapping in the breeze (no pun intended) at that most critical of moments

 

[x_happyending_x]

I didn't like the taste and refused to let him cum in my mouth, we just switched to a hand job or he pulled out at the last second and came all over my chest. I also thought that if he really wants a blowie, then it doesn't matter if he cums in your mouth or not, but after reading the previous post i kinda understand. I also never liked the taste of pre-cum, but found using a thumb to gently wipe it off was quite effective.
Now, I'm ok with it if i don't think about the texture

 

[necroerotica]

I didn't like the taste and refused to let him cum in my mouth, we just switched to a hand job or he pulled out at the last second and came all over my chest. I also thought that if he really wants a blowie, then it doesn't matter if he cums in your mouth or not, but after reading the previous post i kinda understand. I also never liked the taste of pre-cum, but found using a thumb to gently wipe it off was quite effective.
Now, I'm ok with it if i don't think about the texture

Cool; I didn't think I'd described it very well.

 

[constantine1979]

My girlfriend loves to give head. She hasn't given me head yet because of some issues. I did ask her if she spits or swallows and her reply was that she doesn't like cum. Her last boyfriend she gave head to came in her mouth and she ended up puking according to what she told me.

 

[mjl2010]

My girlfriend loves to give head. She hasn't given me head yet because of some issues. I did ask her if she spits or swallows and her reply was that she doesn't like cum. Her last boyfriend she gave head to came in her mouth and she ended up puking according to what she told me.

She loves to give head but she doesn't give you head? Do you shower? She might may have choked and then puked if she really did puke. There's ways around the choking thing. NOT trying to shove it down her throat when you come does help.

MJL

 

[constantine1979]

She loves to give head but she doesn't give you head? Do you shower? She might may have choked and then puked if she really did puke. There's ways around the choking thing. NOT trying to shove it down her throat when you come does help.

MJL

See my first thread and you'll know why she hasn't given me head yet. And yes I do shower everyday.

 

[LadynStFreknBed]

wow. I never even heard of women vomiting after swallowing cum. That's kinda sad. Giving head is a huge turn on for me. I can't imagine not swallowing. It would take something away from the experience for me. There's something about savoring a lover's juices..

Pineapple juice is good for sweetening.. I eat fresh pineapple. I heard it works better and I'm always told that I'm the sweetest they ever tasted. I blame it on growing up so close to Hershey, PA. (shhh!)

 

[Sunny1003]

It's too bad you aren't a fan. I wasn't at first ... I guess it's something you have to get used to. My boy loves it when I swallow and that's how I started liking it.

 

[jcguild]

well

IMO, here's the deal. As someone else mentioned - you wouldn't want a guy to stop and change up when you are about to cum, and neither does a guy.

However, most women also have a change in taste when they are nearing their periods. And just after too. Personally, I only hit the clit during those few days (I'm not talking about the actual period days - won't even lick clit during those times). I mean, I may go further down but upon tasting what doesn't taste as good I come back up. For the other 22 or whatever days of the month I'm all over and into all of it.

That being said, it is not too much to ask that your guy does what he can to make it taste better. Fruits, real 100% fruit juices, stay away from junk, bitter foods, spicy foods, etc, as has been mentioned. You can also order stuff that your guy can drink that'll make it taste better if you wanna throw your money on something like that.

And also, tell him politely that there have been a couple times that it didn't taste good - obviously don't say, "YOUR CUM MAKES ME WANNA VOMIT!", just that it is too bitter or musky or something and it's difficult to swallow at those times just like it's hard to swallow a raw egg white. Then suggest the pineapple slices and juices and whatnot. If he doesn't see it your way tell him, "okay then, I'll swallow your cum each and every time but only if you swallow half of it out of my mouth first". Then hope he doesn't call your bluff. I mean, poke fun about the subject and get him to laugh about it but also be serious. Trust me, it's a huge incentive to eat more healthily and eat fruit if you know the payoff is a great blowjob and you swallowing his man juice, sucking out his balls while he hits ecstacy.

 

[CurlyWurly]

I think it's just one of those things to either get used to or not do! Personally, I don't like the taste but it's not enough to stop me swallowing.

Like others have said, diet seems to make a difference.

At the end of the day, if you don't like the taste, just suck him till he's nearly done and then make him cum some other way.

 

[wordofvirtue]

I've never thought cum really has much taste to it, which is why it is so devilishly hard for me to describe the taste when I write. When I was between husbands and gloriously single, I was the girl who would show up at the swinger's club and blow everyone, so I've had plenty of it in my mouth. I just don't think it has a taste! Texture, yes. Olfactory qualities, yes. But any particular taste? I don't think so. Only one time did I run across a fellow who genuinely tasted vile. Other than that, nada. Maybe my taste buds don't work ...