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Balladeer08 said:
It's amazing how many people here can see through early morning fog.

May I have that seat?
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Yep.....*holds out joint* makes me miss mah grampy....used to watch MASH with him back in the late 80's, one of my fonder memories. COPS too oh man big fan when that hit. Still love COPS

BAD BOYS BAD BOYS!!
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WHAT CHA GONNA DEW!?!?!?!? WHT CHA GONNA DEW WHEN THEY COME FOR YOU!?
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BAD BOYS BAD BOYS!!
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NOW POLICE DON WAN NO RAYYYYEHHH, BAN NEEp NOM NOW POLICE NO BE ME NOW BON DEY HEY HEY
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BAD BOYS BAD BOYS!!
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"GET ON THE GROUND!!! NOW!!"

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Rogue25 said:
Thank you again Debbie for sharing and setting it in some perspective. It is funny how many people come here and tell you just to "get on with it" or think it's amusing - until of course it happens to them or one of their family members then they will be in the same position as you or I. Thank you for sharing you are helping develop a context and some reasoning. I appreciate your sincerity amongst all the other silly comments.
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If sharing a little of our pain and story when we are a very private family helps you in any tiny way then that is a small blessing. :rose:

I dont know you but to me most people here aren't just faceless beings on an erotic website. You are real people with life stories and so much to share.

Please take care and ask for help.
 
Balladeer08 said:
I suppose I shouldn't make a pig out of myself and hog all the possibilites.
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Looking at those gifs, I think I should call the cops. I got run down by a mob of deer. The Bambi...nos. :eek:

Thank you, I know that was hilarious. You don't have to say. :rolleyes:
 
Rogue25 said:
No, not yanking anyone's chain Debbie so thank you for your reply. The moment my family have to be told is what stop me from doing it most but does my pain outweigh their grief? I don't know. But thank you for a constructive reply.
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Whatever you're going through isn't bad enough to put your loved ones through suicide.
 
I had suicidal ideations, it seems like, all the time when I was young. I didn't know that word, but worse, I did not know that everyone does not have them, much less with that kind of frequency.

Lot of different reasons I never acted on any of them. No attempts, ever.

I didn't know the words for things like suicidal ideations, or cognitive and behavioral therapies. I simply acted as my own suicide counselor.

I would look at the situation and the feelings with a spock-like emotional detachment. I would switch off long enough reason out what m actually real-world, concrete options were.

I have always been very good at brainstorming and outside of the box thinking. I could always see at least a temporary solution to ever potential one of life's disappointments.

Broke, and thinking of killing yourself? Rob a bank with a note. What is the worse that happens? You hang yourself in your cell? A silly example because the other ones are too personal.

Probably helped to that I have always been very verbal. I never shared that I had such thoughts not even with counselors until I mentioned it in passing to my wife about what I wouldn't ever do and why after years of marriage. Even keeping that inside, I did talk to people. Even when I felt withdrawn inside, I tended to verbalize something.

You talk to enough people in a day and someone will make you smile. Sometimes their smile is enough.
 
I'll admit i often have terrible thoughts.


but i would hate to put my family through that.
 
query said:
I had suicidal ideations, it seems like, all the time when I was young. I didn't know that word, but worse, I did not know that everyone does not have them, much less with that kind of frequency.

Lot of different reasons I never acted on any of them. No attempts, ever.

I didn't know the words for things like suicidal ideations, or cognitive and behavioral therapies. I simply acted as my own suicide counselor.

I would look at the situation and the feelings with a spock-like emotional detachment. I would switch off long enough reason out what m actually real-world, concrete options were.

I have always been very good at brainstorming and outside of the box thinking. I could always see at least a temporary solution to ever potential one of life's disappointments.

Broke, and thinking of killing yourself? Rob a bank with a note. What is the worse that happens? You hang yourself in your cell? A silly example because the other ones are too personal.

Probably helped to that I have always been very verbal. I never shared that I had such thoughts not even with counselors until I mentioned it in passing to my wife about what I wouldn't ever do and why after years of marriage. Even keeping that inside, I did talk to people. Even when I felt withdrawn inside, I tended to verbalize something.

You talk to enough people in a day and someone will make you smile. Sometimes their smile is enough.
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Kind of sounds like me.
 
If you're considering suicide because you feel trapped in an unhappy life: If you're willing to end your life (which is drastic), why not do something less-drastic? Drop everything you're doing, take whatever money you have, buy a plane or bus ticket to somewhere new, start over. Or get in your car and drive to South America (if you're in the U.S.) or somewhere else in the E.U. if you're in Europe. Find a small town in the south of France, learn French working as a dishwasher. Hitchhike across the country. Go take crazy chances. Maybe you'll find something to make life worth living.

If you're considering suicide because you're totally lacking in any feeling at all anymore - like, nothing makes you happy or unhappy, you're just numb all the time and you don't know how to change it: you may be clinically depressed.

Periods of stress, isolation, and other bad habits can change our brain chemistry, drop us into a low feeling that feels insurmountable. Luckily, this is a physiological chemical imbalance that can be fixed. Sometimes you need medication to give you a temporary boost, but statistically medication doesn't "cure" depression. That takes lifestyle and habit changes. I highly highly highly recommend this book:
http://www.amazon.com/The-Depression-Cure-Program-without/dp/0738213888

I'm not a self-help reader, but when I was going through a low point a few years back (over-work and stress dug me into a deep ditch) a friend shoved that book in my face. For a month test I reluctantly tried its suggestions and to my utter surprise it completely turned things around for me. I still follow it to this day.

It's a quick, easy, and common sense read, so buy it (it's on Kindle), sit down, and read it. It describes 6 steps toward getting out of the slump you're in - and staying out. It's all about reversing the biological trends that have gotten you where you are.

Before you decide to take your life, please read this book and give the 6 steps two extra months of your life. I'm betting you'll be glad you did.

Best of luck :rose:
 
Rogue25 said:
Your thoughts on it?
Destructive or for some people a release from personal circumstances?

Religious views? Impact on family?

weighing up my options.
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Suicide effects everyone connected, not just the person taking their life. This impact can be destructive, long lasting and profound.
If you are feeling like this is an option then I urge you to see a councillor of some kind to share your problems with.
I am not religious but I think suicide is a terrible thing. Please get some help :)
 
Lovetogodown said:
Suicide effects everyone connected, not just the person taking their life. This impact can be destructive, long lasting and profound.
If you are feeling like this is an option then I urge you to see a councillor of some kind to share your problems with.
I am not religious but I think suicide is a terrible thing. Please get some help :)
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To me, the worst thing about committing suicide is it lets the people who drove you to it win.

Unacceptable.
 
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