Supporting Red...

[au_man]

Unload away hun...It's what we're here for!

^5's DL and I'll second that ((((((((((( Red ))))))))))))))...

I may not have time to post every day but I do check in daily...

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

^5's DL and I'll second that ((((((((((( Red ))))))))))))))...

I may not have time to post every day but I do check in daily...

((((((((((HUGS))))))))))) Pleasure to see you today.

If you check in daily, you probably roll your eyes a lot at my random blurty flirty posts.

 

[MrsDeathlynx]

I jsut wish I knew 100% what I wanted and where I wanted to be. It's so not fair to either of us for me to not know. He tells me often how he prays that he gets to "keep me". What do I say to that?

You tell him the truth. Tell him that right now you are not sure if that is how you feel. *hugs*

Don't worry, sometimes DL has to use toys on me, either that or he has to pleasure me first and sometimes that doesn't work. Just hang in there babe and follow your heart, that's what's most important.

 

[au_man]

((((((((((HUGS))))))))))) Pleasure to see you today.

If you check in daily, you probably roll your eyes a lot at my random blurty flirty posts.

Never sweets...

It's nice being seen too...

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

You tell him the truth. Tell him that right now you are not sure if that is how you feel. *hugs*

Don't worry, sometimes DL has to use toys on me, either that or he has to pleasure me first and sometimes that doesn't work. Just hang in there babe and follow your heart, that's what's most important.

*hugs*

You know... I hate the days I don't work or the days I don't work till late or the days I work days but I have nights off. I think too much.

I usually just give him an uneasy smile, I tell him.. "I know."

 

[MrsDeathlynx]

*hugs*

You know... I hate the days I don't work or the days I don't work till late or the days I work days but I have nights off. I think too much.

I usually just give him an uneasy smile, I tell him.. "I know."

Perhaps when the kiddies aren't around you should sit down and have another talk with him, tell him just how you feel. empty that head of yours and maybe make it a little bit clearer. If you ever need hubby and I we are either on IM or if it comes down to it even a phone call away. *more hugs*

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Perhaps when the kiddies aren't around you should sit down and have another talk with him, tell him just how you feel. empty that head of yours and maybe make it a little bit clearer. If you ever need hubby and I we are either on IM or if it comes down to it even a phone call away. *more hugs*

How many talks will it take? We've had so many and they all end the same. Me in tears and him too. No answers, just more pain.

 

[deathlynx]

I jsut wish I knew 100% what I wanted and where I wanted to be. It's so not fair to either of us for me to not know. He tells me often how he prays that he gets to "keep me". What do I say to that?

*nods* Hard to figure out sometimes...and then there's the uncertainty of whether or not he's going to keep any changes he does make...At least he seems to be putting forth some effort
*offers snuggles*

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

*nods* Hard to figure out sometimes...and then there's the uncertainty of whether or not he's going to keep any changes he does make...At least he seems to be putting forth some effort
*offers snuggles*

*takes the snuggles*

 

[MrsDeathlynx]

How many talks will it take? We've had so many and they all end the same. Me in tears and him too. No answers, just more pain.

*huggles and snuggles for Red* The answer will coem to you babe, it may take time but it will come.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

*huggles and snuggles for Red* The answer will coem to you babe, it may take time but it will come.

Time passes so slowly when you cry.

*brushes off the depressing conversation and turns to other things*

*bends down and pats your belly.... *

How are my sweet angelic babies?

 

[MrsDeathlynx]

Time passes so slowly when you cry.

*brushes off the depressing conversation and turns to other things*

*bends down and pats your belly.... *

How are my sweet angelic babies?

I think things are going well, lol. Lastnight hubby fell asleep spooning with hand on tummy. Tomorrow I have my 16 week appointment, up to 35.5 inches on my waist, which is a couple of inches growth though I'm not sure, think it's near three or four, lol. No movement yet, can't wait for that.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I think things are going well, lol. Lastnight hubby fell asleep spooning with hand on tummy. Tomorrow I have my 16 week appointment, up to 35.5 inches on my waist, which is a couple of inches growth though I'm not sure, think it's near three or four, lol. No movement yet, can't wait for that.

The first time my first one moved I was washing dishes. It surprised me and thrilled me. When the second moved, I dismissed it as gas, because I just knew I couldn't be that pregnant. Little did I know I was already 17 weeks along and not the 8 I thought I was.

 

[MrsDeathlynx]

The first time my first one moved I was washing dishes. It surprised me and thrilled me. When the second moved, I dismissed it as gas, because I just knew I couldn't be that pregnant. Little did I know I was already 17 weeks along and not the 8 I thought I was.

Hehe, my mom told me it would be incredibly wierd and I'm sure it will be. But just like hearing the heartbeat for the first time I'm sure it will probably be the most amazing thing in the world. Someone at work said I've felt it already, but I'm not so sure. The closest way I can describe what I felt it putting hand on tummy and feeling the single pulse of a heartbeat as if I was trying to take my pulse. *shrugs*

 

[deathlynx]

*bends down and pats your belly.... *
How are my sweet angelic babies?

Fun to snuggle with
Then again, so are you!
*snuggles happily with Red and the bulge*

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Hehe, my mom told me it would be incredibly wierd and I'm sure it will be. But just like hearing the heartbeat for the first time I'm sure it will probably be the most amazing thing in the world. Someone at work said I've felt it already, but I'm not so sure. The closest way I can describe what I felt it putting hand on tummy and feeling the single pulse of a heartbeat as if I was trying to take my pulse. *shrugs*

You may have felt it, but dismissed it simply because it is a soft rolling motion and really can feel like a bit of gas in the tummy or a soft fluttering. Just be patient, it'll happen and/or become way more noticable soon. Then when the six of them are pounding on your ribs you'll say.... "Settle down in there!"

My last baby, dropped early and kicked often. I was soooo ready to deliver him. lol

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Fun to snuggle with
Then again, so are you!
*snuggles happily with Red and the bulge*

*chuckles*

 

[MrsDeathlynx]

You may have felt it, but dismissed it simply because it is a soft rolling motion and really can feel like a bit of gas in the tummy or a soft fluttering. Just be patient, it'll happen and/or become way more noticable soon. Then when the six of them are pounding on your ribs you'll say.... "Settle down in there!"

My last baby, dropped early and kicked often. I was soooo ready to deliver him. lol

Hehe, I'm sure it will happen. Apparently if baby is like hubby it'll act like a soccer player. The one thing that seems a little odd to me is the tightness in my lower ab right above the hairline, it's not too big of an area and there aren't any cramps but it seems wierd to me...

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Hehe, I'm sure it will happen. Apparently if baby is like hubby it'll act like a soccer player. The one thing that seems a little odd to me is the tightness in my lower ab right above the hairline, it's not too big of an area and there aren't any cramps but it seems wierd to me...

You've got a kid growing in there. . .There isn't a lot of room. I bet they'll be other weird things happening soon for you.

 

[MrsDeathlynx]

You've got a kid growing in there. . .There isn't a lot of room. I bet they'll be other weird things happening soon for you.

More wierd than us having to use lube? *goes to emotionaless expression* Sorry, just a little odd for me, in fact most odd about this so far considering how normally things are, lol.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

More wierd than us having to use lube? *goes to emotionaless expression* Sorry, just a little odd for me, in fact most odd about this so far considering how normally things are, lol.

Yes. Women's bodies change and every pregnancy can and will probably be different. Some women are more sexually charged, some aren't. Some are too wet (if there is such a thing) and some dry.

With the girls, I wanted sex all the time. lol.... With my son, it was don't touch me. The girls = nightmares every night. Horrific ones, where the spouse would stay up and make sure he was awake to wake me up from them. My boy - one nightmare, I believe it was at that moment, God was deciding... male baby or female. I never had another nightmare during that pregnancy. Cravings were odd too. You know the ol' pickle/ice cream. I craved ice cream one night and one night only. So much so that we had bought some with our groceries. On the way home I had him stop at a gas station. I bought long, thick, pretzel rods and used them as a spoon for my ice cream, which was in a gallon box! LOL ... I also craved walnuts one time. We were on our way to dinner with the In-Laws and suddenly I wanted walnuts. We were only 3 blocks from Pizza Hut, where we were meeting. But it didn't matter I NEEDED those walnuts and yep. . .I got them.

Nipples are going to itch. Breasts are going to get heavy. You may develop a line on your abdomen near your belly button. It'll be darker than your skin. All normal. Mood swings.... I cried during diaper commericials and Foldger's coffee commercials!! You're in for a lot of weird stuff.

 

[MrsDeathlynx]

Yes. Women's bodies change and every pregnancy can and will probably be different. Some women are more sexually charged, some aren't. Some are too wet (if there is such a thing) and some dry.

With the girls, I wanted sex all the time. lol.... With my son, it was don't touch me. The girls = nightmares every night. Horrific ones, where the spouse would stay up and make sure he was awake to wake me up from them. My boy - one nightmare, I believe it was at that moment, God was deciding... male baby or female. I never had another nightmare during that pregnancy. Cravings were odd too. You know the ol' pickle/ice cream. I craved ice cream one night and one night only. So much so that we had bought some with our groceries. On the way home I had him stop at a gas station. I bought long, thick, pretzel rods and used them as a spoon for my ice cream, which was in a gallon box! LOL ... I also craved walnuts one time. We were on our way to dinner with the In-Laws and suddenly I wanted walnuts. We were only 3 blocks from Pizza Hut, where we were meeting. But it didn't matter I NEEDED those walnuts and yep. . .I got them.

Nipples are going to itch. Breasts are going to get heavy. You may develop a line on your abdomen near your belly button. It'll be darker than your skin. All normal. Mood swings.... I cried during diaper commericials and Foldger's coffee commercials!! You're in for a lot of weird stuff.

It's not that I don't want the sex, it's just I'm much drier than normal. Which doesn't help with hubby...*blushes* It's not that I can't orgasm, cause I can, I'm just much drier than normal. Which for someone who is usually the opposite it's rather odd, lol.

No cravings as of yet, or rather not real ones. I've had meals I've been in the mood for, but nothing I absolutely had to have. But then again hubby has gotten a snack from just about every variety of snack possible so we have plenty of stuff stocked in the house, lol.

My boobs got heavy early, have to be careful when I take the bra off or it hurts, lol. As for mood swings we're both used to them, I'm bipolar after all.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

It's not that I don't want the sex, it's just I'm much drier than normal. Which doesn't help with hubby...*blushes* It's not that I can't orgasm, cause I can, I'm just much drier than normal. Which for someone who is usually the opposite it's rather odd, lol.

No cravings as of yet, or rather not real ones. I've had meals I've been in the mood for, but nothing I absolutely had to have. But then again hubby has gotten a snack from just about every variety of snack possible so we have plenty of stuff stocked in the house, lol.

My boobs got heavy early, have to be careful when I take the bra off or it hurts, lol. As for mood swings we're both used to them, I'm bipolar after all.

Well... grab some lube and enjoy yourself. I like Johnson and Johnson's warming oil and their tingling sensation oil. The tingling one is similar to Ben Gay muscle cream, but not so intense and doesn't smell like peppermint. lol.

Snacks are great, though I wonder if the point will come when you want the one thing he doesn't have on stock. lol. Anchovies anyone? lol.

I'd trade ya boobs but I know his preference so he'd turn his nose up at mine.

 

[Papa-Joe]

Good Moaning {{{Red}}}
just squeezing in here to wish you a happy Hump Day

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Good Moaning {{{Red}}}
just squeezing in here to wish you a happy Hump Day

Good morning PJ. (((HUGS))) I hope you have a good one too.