Take THAT Ladies

[reignophelia]

I stand corrected and I apologize for that. It was more defensive than was necessary.

I did have in mind a couple of the other posts. Yours was not one of the personally insulting ones, and I hope you'll accept my apology to you.

I should have been a bit more specific with the things I said so as not to ruffle so many feathers. I was just trying to be too cute.

Apology accepted. So you're still not taking me up on the dollar challenge eh?
LOL

 

[SweetErika]

I stand corrected and I apologize for that. It was more defensive than was necessary.

I did have in mind a couple of the other posts. Yours was not one of the personally insulting ones, and I hope you'll accept my apology to you.

I should have been a bit more specific with the things I said so as not to ruffle so many feathers. I was just trying to be too cute.

I just reread all of the posts before Cutie's, and still can't see where anyone has attacked you personally or implied you have mental problems. Of course I'm also still having difficulty figuring out what the aim of your original post was since you didn't answer our question about that. Maybe I'm just really slow tonight.

For the record, nothing I've said in this thread was intended to be a personal attack. My first post did contain wild guesses as to the motive behind the OP and examples of actual facts, but I'm having trouble seeing how a reasonable person would construe those as personal attacks.

Then again, perhaps I'm a heartless bitch in addition to being really slow tonight.

 

[reignophelia]

I just reread all of the posts before Cutie's, and still can't see where anyone has attacked you personally or implied you have mental problems. Of course I'm also still having difficulty figuring out what the aim of your original post was since you didn't answer our question about that. Maybe I'm just really slow tonight.

For the record, nothing I've said in this thread was intended to be a personal attack. My first post did contain wild guesses as to the motive behind the OP and examples of actual facts, but I'm having trouble seeing how a reasonable person would construe those as personal attacks.

Then again, perhaps I'm a heartless bitch in addition to being really slow tonight.

Noooo You're fine, and completely correct.

 

[M's girl]

I should have been a bit more specific with the things I said

This is NOT the GB, you know?

 

[Dreamliner]

pariste, I believe you are incorrect in your ascertions and assumptions.

This is based, admitedly on non-scientificaly gathered data, my own observations which may be considered biased. I have found personally that many woman have just as high, if not higher libido and sexual drive than men. Often, all that is required, is for a woman to let loose the shackles of "moral" expectations that society often has of them and enjoy their bodies and sexuality as they would like and to express themselves accordingly.

I have found it makes for far more honest relationships.

 

[midwestyankee]

Sweet tea? SWEET TEA?

Eeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!

I got to Texas as quickly as I could, but my parents were Yankees, and sweet tea was a huge no no in my house growing up. I drink Sun Tea - ½ raspberry zinger with hibiscus and rose hips, ½ green tea, thin sliver of lemon.

Now I'm even more bummed that you're running off to the Caribbean with someone besides me.

 

[Guest]

oh boy

Not only your statement is untrue, you chose "the place". Literotica is a place where (men and) women who are comfortable with themselves come to write and read stories, exchange ideas, joke around.

Most women I know don't go around telling their friends the status of their sex drives. What for?

The answers from the ones I do know would surprise you.

Now, if I so easily lost my interest, would I even be here?


Maharat

 

[pariste74656]

Hey Reign, being a somewhat normal though eccentric man, I'd take your bet. I'm no coward. LOL

 

[Guest]

Hey Reign, being a somewhat normal though eccentric man, I'd take your bet. I'm no coward. LOL

No, you're still here and talking after taking your medicine like a good boy.

Let's keep him - he's cute.

 

[pariste74656]

Thanks, I think.

 

[CutieMouse]

Now I'm even more bummed that you're running off to the Caribbean with someone besides me.

...

 

[kimbernee]

Every man I've ever dated has accused me of using him for sex

I've been having trouble with that myself lately. It's funny how little they like it when the shoe is on the other foot.

 

[southernsky]

Actually, I was going to post last night such things that may have implied that you closely resembled a piece of genitalia, or that you did indeed seem to be sliding towards a mental illness, but I restrained myself. Or was restrained. Or something like that

However, it seems that you may not be all that bad upon second glance. I am curious though, how you came to those particular conclusions? I promise not to bite if you tell me.

 

[pariste74656]

Please don't be offended, as I am merely attempting to be objective.

I DO agree that there are many women out there with much higher sex drives than men. At least I've known my share. All I was saying that there is some merit to the statements I have made. I'm not bashing women, far from it.

I know from experience that women are cosmically more compassionate and caring than men. That comes from millions if years of caring for husbands and children. It's part of human history, and it's not meant to be a sexist remark.

I've also learned that when a woman wants sex, there are times when it's used simply to escape real life for just a short time, and that's very fair. Women do 100 times as much as a man on any given day.

I was merely commenting on the physical parts of us, not the mental and emotional parts. All too often we as a people tend to mix emotions with other parts of our thinking. I agree it's difficult not to do that.

I also know that a woman uses her emotions for some of the best things in life, such as WILLINGLY doing a small thing like baking a cake (I'm male, and I bake cakes too). It's her way of saying thank you at least some of the time, Maybe only because her man rant to the store and did some of the shopping for her so she didn't have to. Is that sexist? I think not, and I would gladly accept that kind of thanks any time.

I don't need a woman's thanks or gratitude, for lack of better words. But they ARE nice things, and to me they're better than sex much of the time. I don't have a woman's sex drive, probably never will. But it is those and many other differences that make us coexist without killing each other. LOL

That's why I'm such a big fan of times like Mother's Day. Maybe I can do something for a woman to show MY appreciation.

Suddenly John Lennon's song Woman comes to mind. I wonder why.

 

[midwestyankee]

While my original comment here was partly tongue in cheek to get a rise out of Cutie Mouse and partly as a dig at the OP, let me address this post more directly. My comments are in red below.

Please don't be offended, as I am merely attempting to be objective.

I DO agree that there are many women out there with much higher sex drives than men. At least I've known my share. All I was saying that there is some merit to the statements I have made. I'm not bashing women, far from it. You may not see your original post as "bashing women" but the thread title and the central attitude of the OP clearly indicated that you meant to be antagonistic.

I know from experience that women are cosmically more compassionate and caring than men. That comes from millions if years of caring for husbands and children. It's part of human history, and it's not meant to be a sexist remark.
Perhaps true, but this is completely irrelevant to your OP and so what's it doing in your justification essay?

I've also learned that when a woman wants sex, there are times when it's used simply to escape real life for just a short time, and that's very fair. Women do 100 times as much as a man on any given day. It's often true of men that sex is used as a release from the pressures of the day, or as an escape from reality. So what?

I was merely commenting on the physical parts of us, not the mental and emotional parts. All too often we as a people tend to mix emotions with other parts of our thinking. I agree it's difficult not to do that. But we already know that men and women are different physically. This is true just as much at the hormonal (testosterone level was the core of your original argument, wasn't it?) level as much as in gross anatomy. What's the point?

I also know that a woman uses her emotions for some of the best things in life, such as WILLINGLY doing a small thing like baking a cake (I'm male, and I bake cakes too). It's her way of saying thank you at least some of the time, Maybe only because her man rant to the store and did some of the shopping for her so she didn't have to. Is that sexist? I think not, and I would gladly accept that kind of thanks any time.Not all women behave in any one way, and this is no exception. You just can't expect people to respect your thinking if you continue to use unsupported generalizations.

I don't need a woman's thanks or gratitude, for lack of better words. But they ARE nice things, and to me they're better than sex much of the time. I don't have a woman's sex drive, probably never will. But it is those and many other differences that make us coexist without killing each other. LOL Nice, but irrelevant.

That's why I'm such a big fan of times like Mother's Day. Maybe I can do something for a woman to show MY appreciation.

Suddenly John Lennon's song Woman comes to mind. I wonder why.This is beginning to sound like a whiny apology in hopes that the strong women of Lit will let you remove the tail from between your legs which you so capably put there in your OP.

The thing is, sometime after your original post you claimed that you wanted to spark a conversation. Well, in this forum you'd better bring your A game to the table because around here people like to trade fact for fact and logic for logic. Gross generalizations get chewed up faster than a mouse in a cage full of pissed-off cats.

 

[Guest]

The thing is, sometime after your original post you claimed that you wanted to spark a conversation. Well, in this forum you'd better bring your A game to the table because around here people like to trade fact for fact and logic for logic. Gross generalizations get chewed up faster than a mouse in a cage full of pissed-off cats.

Damn.

That's sig line worthy!

Love it!

 

[CutieMouse]

While my original comment here was partly tongue in cheek to get a rise out of Cutie Mouse and partly as a dig at the OP, let me address this post more directly. My comments are in red below.

The thing is, sometime after your original post you claimed that you wanted to spark a conversation. Well, in this forum you'd better bring your A game to the table because around here people like to trade fact for fact and logic for logic. Gross generalizations get chewed up faster than a mouse in a cage full of pissed-off cats.

Thank you for making all my points for me while I was busy working. LOL

 

[Daes_Althor]

I really do feel for this guy here, all he did was put a point across which he believed, and some, NOt all, HAVE attacked that view point, not him personally, but have attacked it with a personal view, not a generalistic. True, I believe that woman can enjoy sex as much as many men, but why is it that you always here about 'guys going on the pull' instead of ladies? Scoiety's still biased in this way i think.

It was a flawed view to begin with, but it's just a view from his experience, maybe where he lives it is actually true. I just think women can exploit sex more than men can; who can make money out of sex more easily? In Scotland its far more acceptable for a woman to go about feelin guys arses than a man is, the guy would most likely get a slap, whereas the women are more likely to get away with it.

But tbh, sex is supposed to be enjoyed equally from both sides. My girlfriend and I have a real good time in bed, even though id like it more often, but she likes to masturbate as much as me, so we both enjoy it equally in my view.

everyone's entitled to their own views, without being told they are completely wrong, which some of you have done. lets just agree to disagree

 

[Chicklet]

Contrary to what sexually empowering shows of the past few decades (eg: Sex in the City) may lead you to believe. Women do not crave sex as much as men.

How To... ?

The statements are fodder for discussion, whereas what kind of person I am is not.

And either of those are appropriate for a "How To" forum because...?

I'm not attacking the statements, which I *do* think were very aggressive, and even the title of the thread seems like an opening for an argument, but this is NOT a debate forum. This is a "How To" question and answer forum...

 

[Daes_Althor]

oh btw, is this even the right section for this post, in the how to?

ps. im a 23 yr old in scotland livin with my 21 yr old GF for 3 years lol, just joined a few nites ago, be nice

 

[cele2flowers]

oh btw, is this even the right section for this post, in the how to?

ps. im a 23 yr old in scotland livin with my 21 yr old GF for 3 years lol, just joined a few nites ago, be nice

I also wondered if this was the right place for this post. The only "How to" I've seen is how to piss off a bunch of women. *shrug*

 

[cele2flowers]

While my original comment here was partly tongue in cheek to get a rise out of Cutie Mouse and partly as a dig at the OP, let me address this post more directly. My comments are in red below.



The thing is, sometime after your original post you claimed that you wanted to spark a conversation. Well, in this forum you'd better bring your A game to the table because around here people like to trade fact for fact and logic for logic. Gross generalizations get chewed up faster than a mouse in a cage full of pissed-off cats.

Thank you so much for all of those points!! As CM said, you got it while I was away and took care of it so eloquently!! I do not see how this essay is trying to back up the original OP. I would really like to know where the generalizations originated from.

 

[Eilan]

Please don't be offended, as I am merely attempting to be objective.

I guess you've figured out by now that your attempt failed miserably.

 

[SweetErika]

oh btw, is this even the right section for this post, in the how to?

ps. im a 23 yr old in scotland livin with my 21 yr old GF for 3 years lol, just joined a few nites ago, be nice

The most appropriate places for this thread are the General Board, HT Cafe (the discussion part of How To), or perhaps even The Playground. If anyone thinks the OP got lambasted here, they'd be wise to remember HT is almost always a far more forgiving and polite place than the GB.

Welcome, and be sure to check out the stickies at the top of the main HT page, if you haven't done so already. There's a thread for introducing yourself and a couple of great resources for interesting subjects and learning the ropes.

 

[reignophelia]

Damn.

That's sig line worthy!

Love it!

That and this:

"Life's far too short to have to read the ramblings of a misguided pissant."
-sweetsubsarahh