The 50 Plus Cafe, Pub, All-Nite Greasy Spoon and Dive Bar

I think it should probably be me! I am the most normal person I know (and I know at least 7 people) and have the experience, wit, charm, gravitas, sang-froid, acumen and perspicacity (oh, and modesty) to make a success of this role. In fact, I shall publish my manifesto (Norman Normal's Notes On Normality) on TikTok next week so you can all read it! ;)
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Good morning Cafe dwellers! So glad Lili is getting better and posting again!

The old dog and I slept about 9 hours. He is cuddling next to me and seems to be pain free. Drugs are wonderful that way😃.



I read that as "cave dwellers" and identified instantly. I must be channeling my Inner Neanderthal this morning.


I dozed off early last night and now my sleep schedule is cattywompus.
 
Some cafes are indeed caves! šŸ˜‚. I used to frequent of few of them.


Years ago, when I lived downtown, I was near the university and there was a dead-end/college dive bar. Neighborhood drunks and frosh girls-n-boys. Most eclectic crowd ever. There was several of us who used to meet there regularly for food-n-fun. They drank - I didn't. There was this very unhappy sarcastically funny woman named Pamela who hung with us because we didn't hit on her and let her drink in peace. One late summer early evening, she made a comment about all the frosh girls out and about and the stink. We asked, what stink is that?


She answered, "hymen!"
 
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Hey, everyone! Did I miss the dance party? šŸ’ƒ šŸ•ŗ

I thought I would drop in to give you all an update and let you know I've MISSED you! I'm hoping I'm on the tail end of whatever-the-fuck-this-is! šŸ˜¤šŸ˜–šŸ™„

If you haven't gotten your Flu shot for this season, it's not too late. Also get any Covid boosters you may need. I'm glad I got mine in October. Flu is NOT a benign illness! I think we tend to forget that 10s of thousands die in this country from it; many were previously relatively healthy. Millions die worldwide. There were a couple of days I thought I was going to be one of them. OK. The PSA portion of this post is over!

Thanks to a detailed Reader's Digest version of the thread from W and Likes, I feel like I am sorta-kinda-maybe caught up. There is NO WAY I'm going back 100 pages! Whew! You lot are prolific! 🤣🤣 Many others of you have reached out in DMs, and believe me, it really bouyed my spirits! I tried to give OM, B2, and Miss K more detailed info about how I'm doing.

I've gotten good care from my IRL friends, most of whom are nurses, my family, and my neighbors, and my care team.

I'm going to try to come back and post more often, building up to my full OCD mode. That might take a while. In the meantime, I'll drop in like I am tonight.

XOXO,
Lili
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My liliamma... I have missed you so.... so glad you are feeling a bit better....

Xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
 
Your images come out so good when you post them. Is it your camera or imgur? Any tips on getting imgur to behave for resizing?
Hmmm. I don’t know.

When I take pics of flowers for my gardening thread I always edit them and make them all look nice and perfects. Then when I switch em over to imgur, they look awful.

These I just took the pic and put em over to Imgur, so I don’t know. šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™‚ļø

For whatever reason I can’t make my pics a smaller size on my iPhone which is why I use Imgur to begin with.

It’s an older iPhone. (11 or 12 I think)
 
Hmmm. I don’t know.

When I take pics of flowers for my gardening thread I always edit them and make them all look nice and perfects. Then when I switch em over to imgur, they look awful.

These I just took the pic and put em over to Imgur, so I don’t know. šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™‚ļø

For whatever reason I can’t make my pics a smaller size on my iPhone which is why I use Imgur to begin with.

It’s an older iPhone. (11 or 12 I think)
I got the 16 Pro with IOS 18.11; works swell with Imgur.
 
Hey, everyone! Did I miss the dance party? šŸ’ƒ šŸ•ŗ

I thought I would drop in to give you all an update and let you know I've MISSED you! I'm hoping I'm on the tail end of whatever-the-fuck-this-is! šŸ˜¤šŸ˜–šŸ™„

If you haven't gotten your Flu shot for this season, it's not too late. Also get any Covid boosters you may need. I'm glad I got mine in October. Flu is NOT a benign illness! I think we tend to forget that 10s of thousands die in this country from it; many were previously relatively healthy. Millions die worldwide. There were a couple of days I thought I was going to be one of them. OK. The PSA portion of this post is over!

Thanks to a detailed Reader's Digest version of the thread from W and Likes, I feel like I am sorta-kinda-maybe caught up. There is NO WAY I'm going back 100 pages! Whew! You lot are prolific! 🤣🤣 Many others of you have reached out in DMs, and believe me, it really bouyed my spirits! I tried to give OM, B2, and Miss K more detailed info about how I'm doing.

I've gotten good care from my IRL friends, most of whom are nurses, my family, and my neighbors, and my care team.

I'm going to try to come back and post more often, building up to my full OCD mode. That might take a while. In the meantime, I'll drop in like I am tonight.

XOXO,
Lili
šŸ’āœØļøšŸ„°šŸ’ž
Lil!!!!!!

(Giant hug like the kind you give when you haven’t seen someone in years.)

Fuckin giphy… but here’s my hug. šŸ‘‡
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Whose to determine what and who normal is? Aren't we all individuals with our own thoughts, and desires? Our own feelings and lives that vary dad to day? If we were all the same would we even be here, would we even think or feel the way we do? I think our normal is our own our normal makes us unique. And we have to be true to who we are and what we think and feel to be our own normal.
This is super well written.

I have never been ā€œnormalā€ and I ain’t starting anytime soon!!
 
Aww...nice kitty and people that throw away cats should be reincarted as mice..... bastards

He was the boss.... aren't animals great...
Our animals become our family and companions. Hopefully the tosser awayer did it in a good way and didn’t just abandon them. Those people should come back as mice!
Morning all have a marvelous day.
I get the pleasure of waiting for the insurance to say okay so the pharmacists can hand me the pill experience today. It's only taken three days. Marvelous improvement in customer service.
that is totally unacceptable. The whole medical insurance industry and system is COMPLETELY broken. Hope you don’t have to wait too much longer.
Same - nostalgia and some funny moments
Polar Vortex is arriving ahead of schedule. Will need to up my game to avoid a migraine, but so far so good. My plans for the weekend are all indoors as well. Just stocked up on groceries yesterday so should be good there.
Main task: rearrange home office so the desk is no longer against the external wall and under the window 🄶 :LOL:
Be careful, L2. My buddy in WI sez it’s gonna be -4, -7 and warming up to 0 for the high on Wednesday. Your temps are prob the same.
I love being out on the hill with my boys but with just two weeks of our pheasant season left I am just about done in. It’s getting tougher to get the enthusiasm for early mornings and days climbing hills but I know when it ends I will miss it…….and so will the boys. I think though we are all ready for a rest
first off - you must be in amazing shape!! And the boys too.

But I can imagine that this takes alot out of you and the boys each day.

Good luck hunting tho!!! Send pics if you can.
My dog needs to be on some pain medication for his painful joints. He’s on gabapentin. And hopefully that will work all right. Otherwise he’ll be on trazodone for sleep. He doesn’t have an apparent virus disaster. Looks positive now.
>WHEW<. so glad to hear that B2! I know you guys are great companions.
And we both get sleep!
even better! ā¤ļø
We go pheasant quail dove duck and geese hunting
Love that!! So many Canada geese wintering in the fields next to our farm. Like thousands of them!
Just got back from taking Mom to her heart doctor. No changes there thank goodness. Went over her med schedule with him and now that we have done that with both docs, I am ready to put her back on her original schedule with the two of them. She was skipping three meds and taking two she shouldn't have

This will bump up her meds to 4 times a day instead of the two times she was doing, which was easier for the house keeper to keep up with but not what she needed. Not the house keepers fault, I just was being compelled to get here and take it over is all. I didn't get here as fast as needed apparently.

That's what happens when you don't listen to the universe. Even when it's tearing down your world around you. I tend to flow from one tragedy to the next over and over before I ever stop and take a look around.
Glad you’re keeping an eye on her! And keeping her meds up to date!

I think that’s abt it from yesterday. Now I’ll get all caught up from today!
 
Hey, everyone! Did I miss the dance party? šŸ’ƒ šŸ•ŗ

I thought I would drop in to give you all an update and let you know I've MISSED you! I'm hoping I'm on the tail end of whatever-the-fuck-this-is! šŸ˜¤šŸ˜–šŸ™„

If you haven't gotten your Flu shot for this season, it's not too late. Also get any Covid boosters you may need. I'm glad I got mine in October. Flu is NOT a benign illness! I think we tend to forget that 10s of thousands die in this country from it; many were previously relatively healthy. Millions die worldwide. There were a couple of days I thought I was going to be one of them. OK. The PSA portion of this post is over!

Thanks to a detailed Reader's Digest version of the thread from W and Likes, I feel like I am sorta-kinda-maybe caught up. There is NO WAY I'm going back 100 pages! Whew! You lot are prolific! 🤣🤣 Many others of you have reached out in DMs, and believe me, it really bouyed my spirits! I tried to give OM, B2, and Miss K more detailed info about how I'm doing.

I've gotten good care from my IRL friends, most of whom are nurses, my family, and my neighbors, and my care team.

I'm going to try to come back and post more often, building up to my full OCD mode. That might take a while. In the meantime, I'll drop in like I am tonight.

XOXO,
Lili
šŸ’āœØļøšŸ„°šŸ’ž
I've read all good things about you and hope to read some of your thoughts here in the diner someday soon. Hurry back!
 
Home defense? Whatever gun you get, put a laser on it. When they invade, put the laser on the perp. The cats will do the rest.


e/t/a: I just touched the laser and got three cats into this room from that one, and I hadn't even lit the thing.
Death by panther, TDK and (Fred?? Can’t recall his name… geezer???)

They’re classically conditioned like Pavlov’s cats. ā€œHe’s got the laser!!! Let’s go!ā€
 
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