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[Lilianna23]

Oh dear. I don’t like to give advice but i discovered something in my 50s that made the BS less significant. I finally realized that “I” needed to be put at the top of the list. You are the most important person to yourself. More than anyone else. It’s a hard thing because we are taught our entire life that everyone and everything else is more important. I spend money on me trainer coaches etc because i feel better. I’ve had the heart attack’s the stent and Missk love yourself first and foremost because your worth it.

THIS!!!

 

[Lilianna23]

So I just had a story published on here. Guess I'll be sticking around

Excellent! Please share the link!

 

[Lilianna23]

I went next store last night for M to cut my hair and sven (the big german shepherd) must have known i was upset.. he leaned against me the whole time

Dogs are just so amazingly intuitive!

 

[Adventurous_soul]

https://imgur.com/a/v8P2Tys

Ever seen the Rolling Stones movie, i think of their 72 tour. Cocksucker blues, wild times

 

[Adventurous_soul]

Night night folks - if any of you are up lol

 

[Greylag]

So I just had a story published on here. Guess I'll be sticking around

Well done!

 

[Greylag]

@likes2watchU make me laugh..ty
And yeah it's always hard.. it was unexpected and now I'm stuck w the shoulda coulda thoughts.. anyway nuff about that... my avatar misses u too..

Those thoughts are natural but decisions you made then were made for good reason. Those reasons haven’t changed now so don’t doubt yourself please!

 

[Greylag]

It's horrible... but I'm not going to drag u down w my drama

You aren’t dragging us down @kathyisgr65 we are here to help our friends

 

[Greylag]

Did you see/hear me? I tell my trainer everyone knows when Lili is in the house from all the shrieking! She took me to the "big kids" section again today. I did the Lateral Row with 50 lbs!

Wish I had been a fly on that wall Lili lol

 

[Greylag]

THIS!!!

I second this Lili

 

[Quimpossibility]

Congratulations!

You should be! Congrats!

Thank you

 

[nipplecaresser]

I have FINALLY caught up! I've been making a valiant effort most days but end up falling asleep before finishing. Please don't dock my pay!

Happy Tuesday, everyone! I need to get some sleep before I face my trainer.

Here's a picture of my lower deck. Springtime! It's overrun with clematis, roses, and honeysuckle. There are chairs and a table under all that! I love how wild it is! ️

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I wasn't sure what I was going to be looking at but...your lower deck is beautiful, Lili!!

 

[nipplecaresser]

We had another hot one today, albeit not AS hot. 82° for the high today. I'm ready for some rain. 🌧

88 here yesterday. Looking at 95 today!!

 

[lliicckkss]

looking at hopefully summer just goes away

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Ok PFOA/PFOS/PFNA Readings 3 1/2 times EPA federal standards for well water. How hard is charcoal point of entry treatment system to install... ?

Should not be difficult. Treatment of water was my career. Feel free to discuss more here or via DM.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

You're not "old" anything!

Awww

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Did you get back to sleep?

Yes for another hour.

 

[Lilianna23]

@likes2watchU make me laugh..ty
And yeah it's always hard.. it was unexpected and now I'm stuck w the shoulda coulda thoughts.. anyway nuff about that... my avatar misses u too..

Try not to let those thoughts live rent-free in your head. I think almost every woman has a complex relationship with her mom. Try to remember the good parts. The parts you enjoyed, that made you feel special.

It's so hard, I know. You have my support and that of many others here. It can be a comfort.

 

[Lilianna23]

Sleepy -
Yawning -
Eyes Burning -
In other words, "3pm - party of one?"

I hope you're sleeping well to make up for your missed nap.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Up for short time as tendinitis flared and ibuprofen and heat are starting to work.

In time to catch Lilli! Out comes the feather massage:
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[B2fromA2looking4U]

See you folks later for coffee. Going to catch some winks.

 

[Lilianna23]

Thoughts about recent posts:
Scottish lineage- yes my mother was a Campbell!
Complicated parental relationships- mother and sister had that and so did my late wife and her mother. I sided with my sister and my late wife every time whenever I was drawn in. I always supported them as both mothers were narcissists and placed sons on pedestals.
Air quality- not good here at all.
Adult orphan - for 20 years and still miss dad.

Have a good evening and see you in the morning.

Same with my mom. My dad died young; I miss him every day. I have complicated feelings about the death of my mom.

 

[Lilianna23]

... And now, your Daily WTF
because... goats

That's more of a WTA F!!!

 

[Lilianna23]

Apparently these are an unusual lilac. If you look closely they have double flowers...

One more obstacle to mow around!
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Beautiful! If you don't want them, send some to me!

 

[Lilianna23]

So pretty!
Growing up we had white and purple lilac bushes as a property divider between our house and our neighbor to the south. The colors and fragrances bring back some lovely childhood memories.

I could almost smell those flowers!