The Art of Getting Lit Laid

[LatinaCarmen1980]

Always friends first and if it happens it happens.

I couldn't agree more. I get some men and women are here to get off and take off.... If it works for them, great! Good for them! But for me? I like talking, like learning, like laughing.... It's what makes the human connection so much fun.

 

[SouthernMatureGuy]

Yes ma'am

 

[Midnight_Voyager26]

That's the thing isn't it? Availability and timing? I think that's what makes the special connections that much more special.

Yeh. I like like the strangers crossing paths in the wee hours of the day.....gives a little more mystery to it .

 

[cole4258]

I couldn't agree more. I get some men and women are here to get off and take off.... If it works for them, great! Good for them! But for me? I like talking, like learning, like laughing.... It's what makes the human connection so much fun.

I enjoy flirting so that is just my nature. Some go with it and have fun others not. Flirting and getting lit laid are two separate things to clarify

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

I enjoy flirting so that is just my nature. Some go with it and have fun others not. Flirting and getting lit laid are two separate things to clarify

100% true! A lot of people don't see that though.... Sad

 

[StrentWriter]

Exactly.

And don't be a creepy stalker type either. No one wants that drama!

And, as I am learning, be mindful of space, time and everyone has their own IRL issues.

Honestly, you need a manual to be a human on the internet - would have greatly helped me

I have felt foolish of late with aspects of my own behaviour too, and over thinking. Just a bit overwhelming.

 

[Doctor_Nobody]

I enjoy flirting so that is just my nature. Some go with it and have fun others not. Flirting and getting lit laid are two separate things to clarify

Unfortunately, this is a problem for many people. Those who just want to have sex don't respect those who flirt just for fun, to enjoy themselves with others who are in the same frame of mind. And sadly, we can miss out on lovely and respectable people because of these perverts.
So sad
Thankfully, some people keep their doors open, and that's appreciated.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

I couldn't agree more. I get some men and women are here to get off and take off.... If it works for them, great! Good for them! But for me? I like talking, like learning, like laughing.... It's what makes the human connection so much fun.

Well depends upon when the laughing takes place right?

I mean immediately after sending a dick pick you laughing might send the wrong signal or be poor timing.

 

[cadman7777]

There is no trick. This place is no different from a lounge, a bar, a club, or any other venue where you socialize. The "trick" is remembering to be yourself and to understand what it is you're looking for.

Can't win her over with charm if she's not into it or into you. Can't rush something that she may not want in the first place. A simple "hello" is all it really takes... Well, and a nice introduction of course.

This place forces everyone, if they're looking to establish a connection, of using their words to paint a picture... A scene. This place forces you to remember that there is no body language or facial expressions to help convey what you're thinking and feeling.

The "trick" is remembering there is another soul on the other side of the screen. Reading profiles, previous posts, etc, can give you a good sense about whether or not that other person might want to be pursued, contacted, and if they have a personality that may compliment yours.

The best part is that you can have fun even if nothing comes from saying "hello" in the first place. You miss every shot you don't take, right?

I agree with this.....well said. Although I think it's easier in a lounge, bar, etc......smiles and facial expressions make a difference

 

[Shygentleman2]

Good morning friends,
Hopefully you are staying warm as this cold weather is running through the US.
In keeping with this thread amazing things can happen in this realm if you're willing to take the chance. My lit girlfriend is absolutely amazing (you know who you are). Having found each other...chatting, sharing, the intimate pieces associated with her. Our desires align so well.
Take a chance, be yourself, and let her know exactly how much you appreciate her! What do you have to lose?

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Good morning friends,
Hopefully you are staying warm as this cold weather is running through the US.
In keeping with this thread amazing things can happen in this realm if you're willing to take the chance. My lit girlfriend is absolutely amazing (you know who you are). Having found each other...chatting, sharing, the intimate pieces associated with her. Our desires align so well.
Take a chance, be yourself, and let her know exactly how much you appreciate her! What do you have to lose?

It is a wonderful thing when you find a special person to share things with!

I am glad you found that person AND that person found you too!

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

My is an amazing guy, we've been us since summer of '24..

I knew he was different when we first had
e-sex (cyber sex).. He talked to me differently. He wasn't out to use me, he loves giving me compliments, and I'll be honest..I wasn't used to being treated so amazing!!

 

[Sct73]

I enjoy flirting a lot. This site works very well for that. As far as meeting, I’m not opposed to the idea if it went there but that’s really not what I’m after.

 

[Shygentleman2]

My is an amazing guy, we've been us since summer of '24..

I knew he was different when we first had
e-sex (cyber sex).. He talked to me differently. He wasn't out to use me, he loves giving me compliments, and I'll be honest..I wasn't used to being treated so amazing!!

Ours started out the same way! Even though our relationship is newer than yours we match on so many levels! She makes me feel alive.

 

[subdudeme13]

Well depends upon when the laughing takes place right?

I mean immediately after sending a dick pick you laughing might send the wrong signal or be poor timing.

There should be a thread for dick pics! I have only sent one, ever! She asked for it then said, no thanks, she liked bigger! i thought 10" would be enough! (10" is a lie LOL)

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

My is an amazing guy, we've been us since summer of '24..

I knew he was different when we first had
e-sex (cyber sex).. He talked to me differently. He wasn't out to use me, he loves giving me compliments, and I'll be honest..I wasn't used to being treated so amazing!!

That's great! It's such a wonderful feeling when you can connect like that!

 

[Shygentleman2]

That's great! It's such a wonderful feeling when you can connect like that!

To be able to share all those things that lovers enjoy.

 

[subdudeme13]

100% true! A lot of people don't see that though.... Sad

That's great! It's such a wonderful feeling when you can connect like that!

I recall hearing a program on NPR about cyber sex. I am not sure what program and it was long ago when the internet was just getting going with the WWW. The girl interviewed said it was masturbating but with someone else there mentally. The take away for me was it was the normal evolution of the medium or why not?

 

[Hornymwtxn]

There should be a thread for dick pics! I have only sent one, ever! She asked for it then said, no thanks, she liked bigger! i thought 10" would be enough! (10" is a lie LOL)

She should have said she was a size queen before asking for a dick pic imo

 

[subdudeme13]

She should have said she was a size queen before asking for a dick pic imo

I forget what the conversation was but I think she did. I have seen enough dicks in the Air Force and playing sports I know I am just average.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I know most women can agree...
Getting laid in any fashion (cybersex, IRL) is most enjoyable HOW your partner treats you outside of sex...
It's little things that can excite me in a non sexual way, the respect and patience he has for me, makes our sexy time together just so orgasmic

 

[Hornymwtxn]

I know most women can agree...
Getting laid in any fashion (cybersex, IRL) is most enjoyable HOW your partner treats you outside of sex...
It's little things that can excite me in a non sexual way, the respect and patience he has for me, makes our sexy time together just so orgasmic

Well if there is one thing I know it is life outside of sex. Lol

But yes sex is but a small slice of most relationships, online and irl.

Us guys seem to be at the ready at the drop of a hat and you gals know this so your teasing can be soooo good but agonizingly slow at the same time too. It’s all good!

 

[Shygentleman2]

I know most women can agree...
Getting laid in any fashion (cybersex, IRL) is most enjoyable HOW your partner treats you outside of sex...
It's little things that can excite me in a non sexual way, the respect and patience he has for me, makes our sexy time together just so orgasmic

So true! The sexiest organ on a woman is her mind. Seduce that, know her, love that about her! The physical package she is...it's amazing. But her mind is what she wants enticed and won't fully enjoy without that connection

 

[SissyBrandi19]

So true! The sexiest organ on a woman is her mind. Seduce that, know her, love that about her! The physical package she is...it's amazing. But her mind is what she wants enticed and won't fully enjoy without that connection

Sorry to be "that person" but I think you mis-spelled the word "smallest" - you meant to say "smallest organ" and you misspelled it as "sexiest organ". Maybe it was your autofill setting? Heh-heh...

 

[Shygentleman2]

Sorry to be "that person" but I think you mis-spelled the word "smallest" - you meant to say "smallest organ" and you misspelled it as "sexiest organ". Maybe it was your autofill setting? Heh-heh...

Lol. No....her mind is sexy! I had to reread it numerous times to make sure I said it right. Love and hate autocorrect at the same time!