The Art of Getting Lit Laid

[Hornymwtxn]

Casting about
With a wide net
Worn path or a new route?
Nothing firm or set
Hoping for something special, no doubt
Make it someone I can't forget
Smiling not a pout
Making each other hard and wet

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Now that the holiday season has passed and we ease back into our routines hopefully we can reflect back on some of the special moments that occurred last year and lock them away in our memory bank to be withdrawn sometime in the future and bring a smile to our faces.

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

Life is just the transition of one season to another. Each one brings new experiences, emotions, connections and it also brings about the end of one aspect or another. I only speak for myself, but 2025 was full of a ton of fun surprises and a few heartbreaks. It was a year where I met some amazing people, quit my job, and had to cut some toxic family out.

2026 promises to be full.... positive and negative.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Life is just the transition of one season to another. Each one brings new experiences, emotions, connections and it also brings about the end of one aspect or another. I only speak for myself, but 2025 was full of a ton of fun surprises and a few heartbreaks. It was a year where I met some amazing people, quit my job, and had to cut some toxic family out.

2026 promises to be full.... positive and negative.

It is always tough to cut people out of your life especially when they are family.

I have done it, as I assume most have, and the guilty feeling does subside once you realize you are happier without people that don't bring joy and happiness.

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

It is always tough to cut people out of your life especially when they are family.

I have done it, as I assume most have, and the guilty feeling does subside once you realize you are happier without people that don't bring joy and happiness.

Oh, I felt no guilt cutting them out of my life. It was more of "Why didn't you do it sooner?"

 

[Shygentleman2]

Oh, I felt no guilt cutting them out of my life. It was more of "Why didn't you do it sooner?"

I have a family member that I need to do that with. She's horrible. At least we currently only see her once a year because she lives on the East coast. But even that one time is a miserable experience.

 

[jacfox]

We don't choose our family, other than the partner(s) we select and the children we may have with them. If the rest aren't good people for us, why should we put up with them 'just because'? Sure, calculate the consequences of taking action, but if the balance is in favour, say goodbye.

 

[TrailerHitch]

Eliminating people from your life, including family, that only cause anxiety, pain, and sadness, is 100% proper and necessary for your own well-being. I am estranged from my sisters. I have tried over the years to mend the riffs and still I am the scape goat. I final realized that this is not within my control and as such not worth my time. I have ended all contact and will not attempt contact again. Honestly it has been freeing not to even think about them.

 

[eroticageek]

Personal example of getting lit laid: saw someone advertising in the lit forum and responded to their post. We DM'd a few times, with me sending her something that was nsfw, but not vulgar. We moved things to texting, because it was easier. We actually chatted, talked on the phone, etc. for over a month, but I made it clear I was actually interested in meeting at some point. We ultimately met two times, with me flying to a hotel near her each time (it was easier that way). It was a good experience, and hopefully will happen again with someone new. Truth be told, it's the only time this has happened in years of surfing lit, but it is possible.

 

[Shygentleman2]

Personal example of getting lit laid: saw someone advertising in the lit forum and responded to their post. We DM'd a few times, with me sending her something that was nsfw, but not vulgar. We moved things to texting, because it was easier. We actually chatted, talked on the phone, etc. for over a month, but I made it clear I was actually interested in meeting at some point. We ultimately met two times, with me flying to a hotel near her each time (it was easier that way). It was a good experience, and hopefully will happen again with someone new. Truth be told, it's the only time this has happened in years of surfing lit, but it is possible.

That is great that you had such a great experience. I have never met someone in person from lit. I don't know if I ever will even if given the chance. That being said the beautiful individual that I'm currently chatting with is truly amazing. Smart, funny, beautiful mind, and physically amazing. I always look forward to chatting with her and I consider myself blessed to be with her.

 

[base10]

I met one of my closest friends in the world here. Feel like I’ve already found the needle in the haystack here. She’s not around here anymore, and our relationship isn’t sexual these days, but we still talk every day and are very close

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Relationships change and online ones seem to be more susceptible to those changes since it is so easy to come and go without any real true consequences in our real life.

 

[cadman7777]

I met one of my closest friends in the world here. Feel like I’ve already found the needle in the haystack here. She’s not around here anymore, and our relationship isn’t sexual these days, but we still talk every day and are very close

Same for me///we don't talk every day but leave messages for each other and it's not as sexual as it use to be.....which I miss since our sexual connection was unreal....but the friendship is still there and we met around 16 years ago

 

[Hornymwtxn]

I met one of my closest friends in the world here. Feel like I’ve already found the needle in the haystack here. She’s not around here anymore, and our relationship isn’t sexual these days, but we still talk every day and are very close

Same for me///we don't talk every day but leave messages for each other and it's not as sexual as it use to be.....which I miss since our sexual connection was unreal....but the friendship is still there and we met around 16 years ago

Awesome! It gives hope to those of us interested in a long term relationship

 

[Shygentleman2]

Awesome! It gives hope to those of us interested in a long term relationship

It definitely does occur. I have been blessed with 2 long term relationships here. Both lasted around 2 years. All of the stars aligned. We would chat for hours on end and the intimate pieces were amazing. I still chat with one of them on a fairly regular cadence. The sexual pieces still happen a couple of times a year with her.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

When to reveal things to a new lit chat partner is something I struggle with a lot.

If you tell them too early that you are an axe murderer there goes your chances out the window

 

[Shygentleman2]

When to reveal things to a new lit chat partner is something I struggle with a lot.

If you tell them too early that you are an axe murderer there goes your chances out the window

That is definitely a challenge both here and in real life. Getting to know someone and what their intimate desires are can be tricky. I'm probably too reserved in that area and don't open as quickly as I should. I try to learn from her hints and suggestions. This is hard when the woman is truly submissive as she wants you to lead that conversation. My girlfriend here was patient as we sorted through it....and..oh my lord. She checks all my boxes.

 

[jacfox]

That is definitely a challenge both here and in real life. Getting to know someone and what their intimate desires are can be tricky. I'm probably too reserved in that area and don't open as quickly as I should. I try to learn from her hints and suggestions. This is hard when the woman is truly submissive as she wants you to lead that conversation. My girlfriend here was patient as we sorted through it....and..oh my lord. She checks all my boxes.

LIstening as hard as you can seems to be key to me. To pick up from the moods and language a partner uses, what their reactions are likely to be. Trust is all, and at some point you have to take your courage in both hands and reveal stuff based on what you think you've understood about your partner--but never knowing for certain how they'll react.

 

[Wwwajr666]

Playoffs Playoffs Playoffs. Talk to me about the Playoffs. Are you kidding the Playoffs. I hope we just win a game


Two good games yesterday . The rams barley hung on. And a come back for the bears. Looking forward to three good games today. Jaguars eagles patriots

 

[Hornymwtxn]

One game left on wild card weekend and all but one has been decided by less than 4 points and came down to the final seconds.

My team didn't make the playoffs so I console myself by thinking they would have lost the first playoff game anyway. Lol

 

[Shygentleman2]

One game left on wild card weekend and all but one has been decided by less than 4 points and came down to the final seconds.

My team didn't make the playoffs so I console myself by thinking they would have lost the first playoff game anyway. Lol

My team also got to watch the playoffs from the comfort of their own houses!
Packers only played one half. Rams should've blown them out but made it exciting down to the end. 49ers at least knocked out the eagles...
My super bowl picks remain Rams beat Denver...

 

[Hornymwtxn]

My team also got to watch the playoffs from the comfort of their own houses!
Packers only played one half. Rams should've blown them out but made it exciting down to the end. 49ers at least knocked out the eagles...
My super bowl picks remain Rams beat Denver...

Since my team doesn't have a chance I usually root for the team/s that don't have a Super Bowl Ring

 

[Shygentleman2]

Since my team does have a chance I usually root for the team/s that don't have a Super Bowl Ring

Amen to that! I love a good underdog story. (Unless they're playing my team).

 

[Wwwajr666]

Tonight's game I hope Pittsburgh gets knocked out. Being a Vikings fan I can't stand Aron Rodgers

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Tonight's game I hope Pittsburgh gets knocked out. Being a Vikings fan I can't stand Aron Rodgers

I have no dog in this fight so just hope it isn't a blowout