The famous "Pulp Fiction" question

[clintclack]

For those who can't remember the "foot massage scene"or who don't know this scene.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWAPzkm3W10

Now my question, does a foot massage mean something, or not?
If a foot massage doesn't mean anything, what else, what body part can you massage of your friend, who is engaged in a different relationsship? How far can u go? Is stroking her hair still "legal"? How about a hand massage?

 

[Mac98]

I'm guessing it depends on you intentions...

 

[bailadora]

I have to say the "how far can you go" question raises a red flag in my mind.

However, in case this is posted with the honest intention of trying to avoid crossing the lines of friendship, I'll say that it's not only your intentions that count, but also the feelings/perceptions of the two people engaged in the relationship. Is the friend the affectionate (ie. touchy-feely) type of person? Does the SO have jealously/territorial issues? Lots of things to take into consideration.....

I, personally, would be uncomfortable with a friend (even a good, close friend) massaging my feet or stroking my hair. To me, those are acts that foster romantic intimacy and as such, would not be acceptable coming from anyone with whom I did not want or plan to be romantically involved with. And although I am the type of person who freely hugs and kisses friends on the cheek (male and female alike), there are a few friends with whom I don't do this. Even though I don't mean anything by those actions, their SO's are uncomfortable with it, so I refrain out of respect for the other person's feelings.

 

[infinity706]

Well, in my case, I'd have no issue going down on a friend. I have plenty of friends that are just like any other friendship except for fucking them sometimes. There's others, I literally haven't ever laid a finger on because of some issue. Where the line gets drawn varies widely from person to person.

 

[Tampafel]

I've been asked by female friends to massage them, there is a running joke about me being the "Foot Fuckin' Master."Honestly although I act like it's no big deal there's a turn on in seeing that blissful look on a female friend's face when I find just the right spot. And I know I'm a hypcrite because I wouldn't massage a guy's feet at all.

 

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[MichaelWest]

I have never massaged a man's feet, but I have massaged the feet of women. When it was a woman who was only a friend it was simply a massage, if it was someone I wanted more from or had a more intimate relationship with then it was more symbolic. To rub the feet is both an act of care, especially after they wear high heels, and an act of seduction, demonstrating your skills at touching her. I prefer it have more meaning if I am the giver of the massage. But, I have also received a foot massage from both women and men, often as part of a massage or pedicure, and those had no greater significance than a good massage. So it seems it is context that is my answer to your question.

 

[The Gimp]

The rules vary for this sort of thing. In some relationships, it's ok to have sex with someone other than your partner as long as you use protection. In other relationships, it will cause friction if you get caught looking at a member of the opposite sex. A foot massage falls somewhere in the middle. Personally, if I am in a relationship, I would not feel comfortable with some other guy massaging my woman's feet. Is that as bad as him eating her pussy out? No, but it's in the same ballpark.

 

[A_Kefka]

The only input I have on this is an expirience I had once.

First date with a woman, we had met for coffee and went back to my place. We were just sitting on the couch watching a movie. She had made it pretty clear before we got together that nothing would happen in the sex department, but its a first date so I wasn't looking for it to either. Anyway during the movie she puts her feeu up on the couch, so they are next to me, but not making contact. After a while I pick them up and slide over so they are on my lap, and start massaging her feet while we watch the movie. She seems to like it but I didnt' think much of it other than knowing her feet were sore and it felt good to rub them. After the movie ended, she pretty much dragged me into my bedroom and undresed me. Great sex.

Guess my point is, whether it means something or not is probably different for different people, but it got her horny and willing.

 

[infinity706]

Well, a foot massage would get me horny and willing. Of course, just about anything does.

 

[Reba67]

It totally depends on the situation and the person. I know a guy who is absolutely DESPERATE to give foot massages. Even to people he's barely met.....for example, my sister on the first time they met at a pre-wedding party that they were both in the wedding party. She felt it was in the slightly creepy stage ESPECIALLY since he just didn't let up about pestering her about it and she actually to curl up on the couch with her feet under herself.

 

[CrazyPrincess]

While I personally am a big fan of foot massages just for the fact that they feel really rediculously good after being on your feet all day, reflexology specialist believe that all of your major nerve groupings (along with other parts of your anatomy such as your digestive system and organs and whatnot) all have corresponding points on the bottom of your feet. It is said that using massage techniques on the correct spot will stimulate and help performance of the desired nerve grouping. One of these "special spots" on your feet is supposedly connected to a grouping of nerves near the genitals, and massaging the foot correctly is said to be possible to excite the person recieving the massage while relaxing them at the same time.

 

[IrisAlthea]

For those who can't remember the "foot massage scene"or who don't know this scene.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWAPzkm3W10

Now my question, does a foot massage mean something, or not?
If a foot massage doesn't mean anything, what else, what body part can you massage of your friend, who is engaged in a different relationsship? How far can u go? Is stroking her hair still "legal"? How about a hand massage?

I think that´s up to the friend. There is no way for us to know what rules he or she has in the other relationship.

 

[Somehowyou]

Well, a foot massage would get me horny and willing. Of course, just about anything does.

I just got back from Taipei. The Chinese get them all the time. It is a big deal for them. they think they are healthy. Now a real foot massage hurts like hell. There is nothing erotic about them.