The Female Gaze

Marilyn Monroe dresses: 1 (Tatum)”
*blinks*

Channing Tatum wore a dress in a movie about male strippers? That's . . . unexpected.

If Channing Tatum, or any of the big name stars, went full frontal and it was actually them (no prosthetic) would that make the movie more appealing or less?
No.

I simply do not get the fascination with the appendage. Unless I'm getting ready to engage sexually, that is about the least alluring part of the male body. Arms, chest, thighs, a hot smile are far more enticing.
 

My Gratitude​

Like every Sacred Human, I stumble out of Love occasionally.

For those days when I don’t see you, or can’t see you, I ask for your forgiveness. And your patience.

For I will not be perfect in loving you. I will sometimes forget to see your brilliance. I will forget to remember my own.



But right now, while I stand in my own glorious Feminine Power, I can see the exquisite Masculine Power that resides in you. And I honour it. I welcome it.

I receive it.

For that is what the Sacred Feminine does. It receives. And welcomes. And loves.

I love you and I thank you.
Beautiful words in all three messages. Thank you. And you have nothing to apologize for in having the feelings you have had.

As for your Feminine Power, you certainly have a lot of it.
 
Certainly throughout time women were subjugated and oppressed, but there is nothing stopping women from fully objectifying men today, and they still aren’t (for the most part) doing it.
There is nothing good about being objectified. Perhaps, because women deal with it all the time in all areas of society it’s something they don’t want to do to others? They don’t want to feed that beast which in the long run hurts them.

Also, men (most men?) have no problem being objectified. It turns us on. But we also have control over it. We set the rules of our own objectification. Women for the most part don’t. When a woman objectifies a man it opens the door to her being further objectified. And again there is nothing good about that. We see this here all the time. That’s a door women are very selective about opening and save that for a man they want to be with and trust.

Just my observation.
 
In this capitalist society I think the disparity in pay between male & female adult performers & sex workers is an indication what we desire, as well as demand. Men & women are just different, and theres nothing wrong with that. But, for some reason, we're uncomfortable acknowledging it.

Men I've talked to on the subject admit that they will still have sex with a beautiful woman if she's mean, dumb, or they just don't like her. And, more maliciously, some will go so far as to convince a woman that they can't stand that they do like her as a means to get in her bed (then conveniently gjost her). Conversely, most women I'm acquainted with can be intensely physically attracted to a man but he opens his mouth and proves he's an idiot/mysogenist/rude and we dry up like Mojave desert. He might be pretty, but he can keep his turgid lap taffy to himself.

I do not need to desire male nudity, in the way men desire us, to feel equal & autonomous sexually, or feel comfortable with my own sexuality. Broadly speaking, we're wired differently, and there's nothing wrong with that. And yet, in our enlightened age men still get surprised when they learn what it was that completed the alchemist formula of physical-attraction/humor/kindness/safety that made us decide to take our clothes off with you. (I'm looking at you & your elk antlers @Lmizzler 🤭)

Very Well said 👍👍
 
In this capitalist society I think the disparity in pay between male & female adult performers & sex workers is an indication what we desire, as well as demand. Men & women are just different, and theres nothing wrong with that. But, for some reason, we're uncomfortable acknowledging it.

Men I've talked to on the subject admit that they will still have sex with a beautiful woman if she's mean, dumb, or they just don't like her. And, more maliciously, some will go so far as to convince a woman that they can't stand that they do like her as a means to get in her bed (then conveniently gjost her). Conversely, most women I'm acquainted with can be intensely physically attracted to a man but he opens his mouth and proves he's an idiot/mysogenist/rude and we dry up like Mojave desert. He might be pretty, but he can keep his turgid lap taffy to himself.

I do not need to desire male nudity, in the way men desire us, to feel equal & autonomous sexually, or feel comfortable with my own sexuality. Broadly speaking, we're wired differently, and there's nothing wrong with that. And yet, in our enlightened age men still get surprised when they learn what it was that completed the alchemist formula of physical-attraction/humor/kindness/safety that made us decide to take our clothes off with you. (I'm looking at you & your elk antlers @Lmizzler 🤭)
Well said… agree with both and also think the female body is just beautiful and more fun to look at! Male body’s and genitalia just isn’t pleasant to look at!
 
Well said… agree with both and also think the female body is just beautiful and more fun to look at! Male body’s and genitalia just isn’t pleasant to look at!

I'd agree, most of the time. I'm not particularly aroused by images of naked men, whether it's professional porn, or the odd balls that want me to click a link in my DMs, I don't want to see it. However, if I find you attractive AND you've figured out that aforementioned alchemy formula, I definitely want to see it. Suddenly, his dick is the most attractive thing on the planet.
 
I'd agree, most of the time. I'm not particularly aroused by images of naked men, whether it's professional porn, or the odd balls that want me to click a link in my DMs, I don't want to see it. However, if I find you attractive AND you've figured out that aforementioned alchemy formula, I definitely want to see it. Suddenly, his dick is the most attractive thing on the planet.
Yeah… but that’s the alchemy of personal relationships that make “it” attractive…. hard to monetize that. Men and women are different physically, mentally and emotionally and it’s wonderful!
 
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