The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[callinectes]

Even worse..why am I up so early, and why am I sitting at the computer rather than doing something productive?

 

[nowgirl]

Even worse..why am I up so early, and why am I sitting at the computer rather than doing something productive?

laughs - isn't that any time we're sitting here in Lit? there are always 20 other things i should be doing....

 

[Pixie]

well isn't that great...maybe I'll get another lovely surprise come Monday...just let me know already...it can't be worse than waiting and imagining... *sigh*

 

[graceanne]

Even worse..why am I up so early, and why am I sitting at the computer rather than doing something productive?

Cause you're lazy. At least that's why I'm sitting here doing nothing.

 

[Etoile]

IN ONLY 2 days, 21 hours, 20 minutes I WILL BE TAKING OFF FOR LAS VEGAS EEEEE

 

[h_i_s]

Great..
i'm browsing over threads and decide that this would be a good one to post to......

And everyone got here before me to say EVERYTHING i was ready to say ALREADY..... you people have some nerve. Not an original thought among the entire bunch of you crazy weirdos. .... geeeez.

 

[h_i_s]

IN ONLY 2 days, 21 hours, 20 minutes I WILL BE TAKING OFF FOR LAS VEGAS EEEEE

Have a fun/safe trip.



Nobody else said THAT yet!! whahahahahaaaaaaa.....

 

[catalina_francisco]

Oh I'm sitting on Lit because we just got back from a lovely dinner out with nice family members and am feeling slightly off, probably because I was before as well....despite that, it was nice to eat out, not have to cook, and have some pleasant conversation.

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/110/311536176_5753a95d7a_t.jpg Catalina

 

[h_i_s]

Oh I'm sitting on Lit because we just got back from a lovely dinner out with nice family members and am feeling slightly off, probably because I was before as well....despite that, it was nice to eat out, not have to cook, and have some pleasant conversation.

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/110/311536176_5753a95d7a_t.jpg Catalina

Good for you.. glad to hear it Cat.

... i'm sitting here waiting for my Master to get home. The kids are out. i don't think i'll need to cook. i don't know though because He chooses what we have for dinner each night.... and He hasn't told me what we are having.

So... i'm eating junk food while i wait.

 

[h_i_s]

< blurt >

Since first learning from online sourses that there are labels to apply to all of the <strike>perks</strike> perves that make me who i am....... i've learned a few things.

#1. There are a lot of caring people to be found online.

#2. Many are helpful and willing to offer advice to others.

#3. Far too many of those online who claim to know the most about BDSM and D/s and/or TPE or M/s or O/s relationships, have no offline experience and limit their so called knowledge and experience to a number of online sources.

Disclaimer: Those who are offended by this post fit nicely under description #3.

< /blurt >

 

[CutieMouse]

< blurt >

#3. Far too many of those online who claim to know the most about BDSM and D/s and/or TPE or M/s or O/s relationships, have no offline experience and limit their so called knowledge and experience to a number of online sources.

Disclaimer: Those who are offended by this post fit nicely under description #3.

< /blurt >

*snortchuckle*

 

[Etoile]

Hey sinn0cent, I just wanted to say YAY YOU for quitting smoking! Keep it up!

2 days, 1 hour, 15 minutes, 2 seconds

 

[esclave_PP]

When will this sniveling waif-like stringy ass mop of a bitch get over herself and go away?

Just talking outloud and about nobody here at Lit lol.


ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

 

[Etoile]

Goddammit Weather You Better Hold Out Until I'm At 30,000 Feet

*giggles*

it changed my all-caps to initial-caps-only!

 

[esclave_PP]

LOL that's cause you 'swore' at Mother Nature.

How about this instead:

I am protected by your might,
O gracious Goddess, day and night.
Thrice around the circle's bound,
Evil sink into the ground.

That oughta do it. Safe travels!

 

[graceanne]

LOL that's cause you 'swore' at Mother Nature.

How about this instead:

I am protected by your might,
O gracious Goddess, day and night.
Thrice around the circle's bound,
Evil sink into the ground.

That oughta do it. Safe travels!

Well, if the next time Evil_Geoff's flying his plane crashes we'll know who to blame.

 

[h_i_s]

Hey sinn0cent, I just wanted to say YAY YOU for quitting smoking! Keep it up!

2 days, 1 hour, 15 minutes, 2 seconds

Thank you Etoile.

It is a huge deal for me, for so many reasons. i'd go into a few of them if it were not so late here (it's a long story to explain... and kind of personal/touchy/emotion packed stuff). Valentine's Day will take me to the 12 week mark, and the end of the withdrawal stages.... and make me once again, an official non smoker.

i see you have a countdown there on your post too?
2 days, 1 hour, 15 minutes, 2 seconds ?

 

[Etoile]

Thank you Etoile.

It is a huge deal for me, for so many reasons. i'd go into a few of them if it were not so late here (it's a long story to explain... and kind of personal/touchy/emotion packed stuff). Valentine's Day will take me to the 12 week mark, and the end of the withdrawal stages.... and make me once again, an official non smoker.

i see you have a countdown there on your post too?
2 days, 1 hour, 15 minutes, 2 seconds ?

Whatever your reasons for quitting smoking, I am proud of you! I don't think I has EVER done something that difficult. It takes a lot of strength to give that up, and you're doing it!

My countdown is not nearly so interesting...it's when my flight is supposed to take off for Las Vegas. If malcah's prayer works, I will be leaving in 24 hours and 30 minutes. I'm really excited.

 

[callinectes]

Am I the only one that is mildly offended by the practice of capping and lowercasing pronouns when someone other than other parties in the relationhsip are being addressed? I sort of equate that to a random Dominant expecting me to call him Sir or some other honorific.

 

[CutieMouse]

Yay Sinn for quitting smoking! The closest thing to that I've ever done is attempting to give up caffeine... ain't. gonna. happen.

Etoile have a fantabulous time in Vegasand I'm adding good weather mojo to your countdown thingie!

Callinectes, no you aren't the only one (the cap/lower case thing just annoys me in general, however, so maybe i'm just sensitive...)

***

Now for the real random blurts:

Wise people should keep their PM access turned on so other people can drop them a note to tell them how much they rock in the wise (but not wise ass) sense.

I am stressed beyond measure.

I am out of patience.

I have too much to do.

I am sick to death of this stupid city and a million other things; I give up.

I'm moving home on Friday. My best friend has been saying "Christ woman- just come HOME and we'll work out details later" for the last 6 months, so I'm getting a wee bit ahead with work, tying up loose ends here, packing the car, and walking away from the dissapointing mess this whole "starting over" thing turned out to be.

I'm trying so hard to remind myself I'm not a failure... sigh.

 

[Stegral]

MY random blurt...
How do you tell someone you are playing with but not owned by, that you feel for Him alot & would like to go further than playpals, but are scared that it may be too soon & scare Him off??
He is the first one I really got to talk to about the lifestyle & since then I have grown alot & learned alot about it & myself.
Am I falling for him because he intro'd me & I feel very safe with him?
Within the "playgroup" I am in, I have done rope bondage with another very experienced person, pinwheels with yet another Domme & even tried to experience very, very GENTLE single stroke of a deerskin flogger on my back with a different very understanding pro Domme & felt the fear go thru me in a bad way and so I keep returning to Him...He isn't what I normally look for in a guy so I am really confused... but then again all what I normally look for in a guy ends up burning me anyway...

He is coming over today after work & the gym...
how do I open it up to ask him about how I feel without scaring him off ?
I would LOVE to be His, I would be hurt, but would understand if he didn't feel the same...

LOL that's cause you 'swore' at Mother Nature.

How about this instead:

I am protected by your might,
O gracious Goddess, day and night.
Thrice around the circle's bound,
Evil sink into the ground.

That oughta do it. Safe travels!

I use that same incantation every time I see my ex & his new.....
she practices & has NO guilt about harming me to help them...

 

[callinectes]

Wise people should keep their PM access turned on so other people can drop them a note to tell them how much they rock in the wise (but not wise ass) sense.


I'm trying so hard to remind myself I'm not a failure... sigh.

I've often thought the same thing about certain wise people.

You are not a failure...you took a risk and it didn't pan out the way you would have liked. Failure is the refusal to take that risk.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

MY random blurt...
How do you tell someone you are playing with but not owned by, that you feel for Him alot & would like to go further than playpals, but are scared that it may be too soon & scare Him off??
He is the first one I really got to talk to about the lifestyle & since then I have grown alot & learned alot about it & myself.
Am I falling for him because he intro'd me & I feel very safe with him?
Within the "playgroup" I am in, I have done rope bondage with another very experienced person, pinwheels with yet another Domme & even tried to experience very, very GENTLE single stroke of a deerskin flogger on my back with a different very understanding pro Domme & felt the fear go thru me in a bad way and so I keep returning to Him...He isn't what I normally look for in a guy so I am really confused... but then again all what I normally look for in a guy ends up burning me anyway...

He is coming over today after work & the gym...
how do I open it up to ask him about how I feel without scaring him off ?
I would LOVE to be His, I would be hurt, but would understand if he didn't feel the same...



I use that same incantation every time I see my ex & his new.....
she practices & has NO guilt about harming me to help them...

Can you just ask him bluntly if he wants to be more then playmates??

 

[Stegral]

Can you just ask him bluntly if he wants to be more then playmates??

LMAOOO Hello Lee....

well, that is what I thought of first...
he seems kinda shy for the Dom type, but I have spoken to a few & he seems to come across as a "soft" player... which is probably best for me right now. I seem to be a "Sensation Junkie" as He puts it, with a smirk on his face...

I think I will just blurt it out & see what happens...
sublty is NOT a strong point with me...

 

[leeroy jenkins]

LMAOOO Hello Lee....

well, that is what I thought of first...
he seems kinda shy for the Dom type, but I have spoken to a few & he seems to come across as a "soft" player... which is probably best for me right now. I seem to be a "Sensation Junkie" as He puts it, with a smirk on his face...

I think I will just blurt it out & see what happens...
sublty is NOT a strong point with me...

Sensation junkie?? See from that pov it sounds like you like to bottom or your a masochist.

One woman I serious lust after I told her I wanted to fuck her, got mixed results there. But with some others I have gotten a warmer reaction. People know what I want because I tell them exactly.