The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[Stegral]

Sensation junkie?? See from that pov it sounds like you like to bottom or your a masochist.

One woman I serious lust after I told her I wanted to fuck her, got mixed results there. But with some others I have gotten a warmer reaction. People know what I want because I tell them exactly.

if I need a label... I do Bottom...
He Dom's & plays as I ask.... so I kinda top from the bottom...
he says it is because he wants to go at my pace, so I am comfy

I don't mind... I love his touch... he actually put small short kisses on my shoulders as we played with the wheels on saturday.
He knows I like bites too * nipped me lightly a few times too...a bit harder & I likely would have cum...
When I was on such a high I really wanted him to tie me to the X & just take me, but there is a no peneration rule in that play area I think... it seemed like he wanted to but I don't know if I am reading the way he plays me wrong or if the attention he gives me is different than anyone else, I have never seen him play...

 

[Etoile]

Am I the only one that is mildly offended by the practice of capping and lowercasing pronouns when someone other than other parties in the relationhsip are being addressed? I sort of equate that to a random Dominant expecting me to call him Sir or some other honorific.

I hate it. I have had whole rants on it in the past. I have gotten to a point where I can handle the "i" and "He" stuff, but W/we still makes me want to scream. I can almost handle when it refers to other people, I still twitch but it's okay. But when I see things like "Hello A/all" I just want to barf.

 

[graceanne]

I hate it. I have had whole rants on it in the past. I have gotten to a point where I can handle the "i" and "He" stuff, but W/we still makes me want to scream. I can almost handle when it refers to other people, I still twitch but it's okay. But when I see things like "Hello A/all" I just want to barf.

LOL I've been known to stop reading a post the first time I run into A/all, W/we or the like. I know it's gonna keep happening through the rest of the post and it drives me batty.

 

[CutieMouse]

I hate it. I have had whole rants on it in the past. I have gotten to a point where I can handle the "i" and "He" stuff, but W/we still makes me want to scream. I can almost handle when it refers to other people, I still twitch but it's okay. But when I see things like "Hello A/all" I just want to barf.

Lit isn't nearly as bad as some online forums... but it does make me want to correct the grammar in people's posts, in a nice red font. I know it's some sign of devotion or strange kink-ettiquite or something, but yech.

 

[callinectes]

I hate it. I have had whole rants on it in the past. I have gotten to a point where I can handle the "i" and "He" stuff, but W/we still makes me want to scream. I can almost handle when it refers to other people, I still twitch but it's okay. But when I see things like "Hello A/all" I just want to barf.

Yep, the U/us and W/we thing drives me nuts as well. Besides being annoying I find it distracting.

It doesn't bother (much) me if two people in a relationship are addressing each other than way in a public forum. But when I am being addressed by someone else, especially by a Dominant, there is no reason for him to write "I went to My favorite restaurant in My car. We ordered chicken but Mine was too dry" Grrr. Save the caps for your submissive, dude.

 

[callinectes]

Lit isn't nearly as bad as some online forums... but it does make me want to correct the grammar in people's posts, in a nice red font. I know it's some sign of devotion or strange kink-ettiquite or something, but yech.

I agree Cutie, I was lurking on another site not too long and and it was nearly impossible to read. I can't criticize other's grammar as mine is awful..but everyone knows the proper way to use caps.

 

[Etoile]

Yep, the U/us and W/we thing drives me nuts as well. Besides being annoying I find it distracting.

It doesn't bother (much) me if two people in a relationship are addressing each other than way in a public forum. But when I am being addressed by someone else, especially by a Dominant, there is no reason for him to write "I went to My favorite restaurant in My car. We ordered chicken but Mine was too dry" Grrr. Save the caps for your submissive, dude.

Yes! I don't mind the people who do it - MasterPhoenix does it and he's a perfectly decent guy - but it still makes my brain stutter when I see it.

 

[callinectes]

Yes! I don't mind the people who do it - MasterPhoenix does it and he's a perfectly decent guy - but it still makes my brain stutter when I see it.

Agreed!

 

[graceanne]

Yes! I don't mind the people who do it - MasterPhoenix does it and he's a perfectly decent guy - but it still makes my brain stutter when I see it.

LOL

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Yes! I don't mind the people who do it - MasterPhoenix does it and he's a perfectly decent guy - but it still makes my brain stutter when I see it.

Why thank you...

Its a habit from chat days.... didn't realize it irritated people...

 

[JMohegan]

It doesn't bother (much) me if two people in a relationship are addressing each other than way in a public forum. But when I am being addressed by someone else, especially by a Dominant, there is no reason for him to write "I went to My favorite restaurant in My car. We ordered chicken but Mine was too dry" Grrr. Save the caps for your submissive, dude.

For a detailed discussion on the pronoun capitalization thing, see this thread.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Lit isn't nearly as bad as some online forums... but it does make me want to correct the grammar in people's posts, in a nice red font. I know it's some sign of devotion or strange kink-ettiquite or something, but yech.

LOL, yep, it crossed my mind the other night when I was trying to read something here. I must be getting old....if I find a post which does the capitalisation or all lower case thing, and forgets there is a thing called paragraghs, I often skim the first couple of lines at most and then give up as it just becomes a jumble on the screen for me.

Catalina

 

[CutieMouse]

I am officially, thankfully, happily, blissfully settled again in Dallas... and I get to go to a Matisse exhibit tonight.

*bounce bounce bounce*

 

[graceanne]

I am officially, thankfully, happily, blissfully settled again in Dallas... and I get to go to a Matisse exhibit tonight.

*bounce bounce bounce*

Hooray! *hugs* Glad you got in safely and that your'e so happy to be home.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Hmmm, I was last night contemplating being extra brave (for me the needle phobic), and surprising him by laying out all the needles etc., for a play piercing session, but he surprised me this morning with a special wake up call and now more than 12 hours later my butt is still throbbing, stinging, and pulsing so I am not feeling quite as brave.

Catalina

 

[Stegral]

Hmmm, I was last night contemplating being extra brave (for me the needle phobic), and surprising him by laying out all the needles etc., for a play piercing session, but he surprised me this morning with a special wake up call and now more than 12 hours later my butt is still throbbing, stinging, and pulsing so I am not feeling quite as brave.

Catalina

Yes, but you say that with an embarrassed smle
Kudos to you for contemplating a session with your fear, without prompt.
Is it possible he caught wind & was punishing you ?
(please forgive the newbieness, but could you 'surprising Him', be "topping from the bottom"??)

I am officially, thankfully, happily, blissfully settled again in Dallas... and I get to go to a Matisse exhibit tonight.

*bounce bounce bounce*

Excuse the ignorance again.... what is a "Matisse" exhibit?
I am am glad you are happy & settled again

I will attach the pics of the "tree" I had done on my backside with thre warternburg wheels, once I can figure out how to downsize them...
(anyone's help would be sweet I am not very computer smart)
It was the BESTEST session yet !!! I have since added 2 more oddities to the sessions toys... a cathair brush & a baby bottle brush.
I am still new & the standard implements of joy scare me still...

 

[catalina_francisco]

Yes, but you say that with an embarrassed smle
Kudos to you for contemplating a session with your fear, without prompt.
Is it possible he caught wind & was punishing you ?
(please forgive the newbieness, but could you 'surprising Him', be "topping from the bottom"??)

Nah, he was totally oblivious and just in a sadistic mood which isn't unusual, but time does not always permit indulging. As for the TFTB thing, no again as he knows it is something I have problems with when we do it (no matter how many times we have now) and as I haven't been feeling great lately, and very unpredictably so, he asked me to lay them out on a day when I felt as ready as could be expected to go to the next step with it. It will happen soon I expect as I know how much he is looking forward to it and that overrides my own issues.

Catalina

 

[callinectes]

I am officially, thankfully, happily, blissfully settled again in Dallas... and I get to go to a Matisse exhibit tonight.

*bounce bounce bounce*

YAY! I am thrilled for you Cutie. And a bit envious..lucky you living in a city large enough to have real museums. How was the exhibit??

 

[Stegral]

Nah, he was totally oblivious and just in a sadistic mood which isn't unusual, but time does not always permit indulging. As for the TFTB thing, no again as he knows it is something I have problems with when we do it (no matter how many times we have now) and as I haven't been feeling great lately, and very unpredictably so, he asked me to lay them out on a day when I felt as ready as could be expected to go to the next step with it. It will happen soon I expect as I know how much he is looking forward to it and that overrides my own issues.

Catalina

That is awesome

thanks for being patient with my meanderings...
I never mean any disrespect.

I know my "Top" is patient & wants to go further but is willing to go at my pace with slight prompting...

 

[CutieMouse]

The museum stays open late one Friday a month for live music/cocktails/viewing the galleries. The current traveling exhibit is of the artist Matisse's drawings/paintings; another museum in town is showcasing his (rarely seen) sculptures. It was hideously crowded (the admission line was at leat 75 people long), so we skipped it. I'll wander through both exhibits at some point before the show closes (probably by myself with a sketchbook LOL).

 

[Sprinkles22]

There are a few Doms who post around here that I find mysterious and intriguing .... and they don't know me from a nail in the door post

 

[graceanne]

There are a few Doms who post around here that I find mysterious and intriguing .... and they don't know me from a nail in the door post

Then nail 'em. hehe

I'm sorry I couldn't resist.

 

[Stegral]

There are a few Doms who post around here that I find mysterious and intriguing .... and they don't know me from a nail in the door post

Hello Sprinkles...
make yourself known, some of them don't search out, but if you banter with them, you get to know them & vice-versa. A few still won't give me the time of day because I am a n00b to the lifestyle... some are getting better, others have spoke with me from the get-go
Others may not want to openly chat due to Raven... no intruding?

Then nail 'em. hehe

I'm sorry I couldn't resist.

yes, you are a troublemaker LMAOOO

 

[graceanne]

yes, you are a troublemaker LMAOOO

*smiles patented kc angel smile* moi?

 

[Stegral]

*smiles patented kc angel smile* moi?

yes you... & if I ever figure out who your Dom/me is....
or are you just "freerange" subbie??? LMAOOO