The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

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Etoile said:
Yikes, if you're looking locally for a RL relationship, then that definitely cuts down your pool...sorry I can't be of more help? Maybe we should start a niche personals site JUST for Daddies/Mommies and boys******? (Gotta be open to all orientations though...no eHarmony-like shenanigans!)

Yeah...there is no real pool out here at all...just a tiny little puddle it seems for subs like me. i have been telling myself that i only want a RL relationship, and that is fundamentally true...i'm just realizing that may be harder to obtain than i thought...and it's making me consider other options...ONCE AGAIN.

The personals site sounds great!
 
Life is short. I'm fucking done wallowing. I've been through worse than this, and I like life. I'm ready to live it, and have fun. Everyone else can go to hell.
 
So let me just check...even if they don't bother to collect my badge when I leave on Thursday, it's still not appropriate to come back and leave a "gift" on somebody's desk?
 
Etoile said:
So let me just check...even if they don't bother to collect my badge when I leave on Thursday, it's still not appropriate to come back and leave a "gift" on somebody's desk?

If I'm reading this right, and you're leaving a job... never cut professional bridges.

Ever.

You never know when you may need a past employer as a reference or when someone from your old place of employment could get relocated to a future place of employment... and people talk.
 
Not to change the mood so drastically....BUT....

4 yrs ago today my only daughter Rhiannon was born. She lived for one minute, twelve seconds and then passed away in my arms.

i wish we were having a birthday party today and that she was all dressed like the little princess i envision in my head... :(
 
HottieMama said:
Not to change the mood so drastically....BUT....

4 yrs ago today my only daughter Rhiannon was born. She lived for one minute, twelve seconds and then passed away in my arms.

i wish we were having a birthday party today and that she was all dressed like the little princess i envision in my head... :(

I wish I could comfort you.

Would it help to have some kind of special ritual to mark the occasion? You know, like throwing like a bouquet of flowers in the water or, I don't know, something that has meaning for you.
 
HottieMama, my heart goes out to you. Would you be up for the type of ritual that Zusub suggested? For some reason, commemorative rituals don't make the pain go away for me, but make it easier to bear. Please be gentle with yourself, and I hope that others are gentle with you. Today I hold you in my meditations and my heart. :heart: Neon
 
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HottieMama,

I'm so very sorry for your loss. As a mother, I cannot imagine how you must feel, so I won't use the cliche' "I know how you feel". But my heart does ache for you, and you are in my thoughts today. :rose:
 
HottieMama said:
Not to change the mood so drastically....BUT....

4 yrs ago today my only daughter Rhiannon was born. She lived for one minute, twelve seconds and then passed away in my arms.

i wish we were having a birthday party today and that she was all dressed like the little princess i envision in my head... :(

*hugs* I'm sorry, honey.
 
zuzub said:
Grace, how was your day?

Better than yesterdays. I went to bible study, we all prayed for Miss and that I would be able to sleep without nightmares. Then I went to Melissa's and cleaned her kids room. That gave me such a bad allergy attack that I came home and napped - no nightmares! :nana:

I got a bit of a start when I got there. Evidently miss' husband had been there, but I didn't know that at the time. Their were things moved. I nearly left right then, especially since the briefcase that the gun was kept in was open. :eek:

But nothing like getting a good nights sleep to help me feel better. I've only cried once today, and that was when I told the bible study what happeend. Thank you, though! *hugs*
 
graceanne said:
Better than yesterdays. I went to bible study, we all prayed for Miss and that I would be able to sleep without nightmares. Then I went to Melissa's and cleaned her kids room. That gave me such a bad allergy attack that I came home and napped - no nightmares! :nana:

I got a bit of a start when I got there. Evidently miss' husband had been there, but I didn't know that at the time. Their were things moved. I nearly left right then, especially since the briefcase that the gun was kept in was open. :eek:

But nothing like getting a good nights sleep to help me feel better. I've only cried once today, and that was when I told the bible study what happeend. Thank you, though! *hugs*

You made it through today. CONGRATS! :nana: Pls keep us (me) posted. *hugs* My prayers are with you, your sister, her children & Hottie. Keep the faith - it is a gift. <smile>
 
graceanne said:
Better than yesterdays. I went to bible study, we all prayed for Miss and that I would be able to sleep without nightmares. Then I went to Melissa's and cleaned her kids room. That gave me such a bad allergy attack that I came home and napped - no nightmares! :nana:

I got a bit of a start when I got there. Evidently miss' husband had been there, but I didn't know that at the time. Their were things moved. I nearly left right then, especially since the briefcase that the gun was kept in was open. :eek:

But nothing like getting a good nights sleep to help me feel better. I've only cried once today, and that was when I told the bible study what happeend. Thank you, though! *hugs*
{{{{{{{{{{{{{ BIG HUGS! }}}}}}}}}}}}
 
RawHumor said:
If I'm reading this right, and you're leaving a job... never cut professional bridges.

Ever.

You never know when you may need a past employer as a reference or when someone from your old place of employment could get relocated to a future place of employment... and people talk.
Oh, no, I know. I was just silly. :)
 
Gracie and HottieMama, I am just now reading this thread. I am so sorry for both of your losses. You are both in my thoughts. :rose:
 
I feel like a rude bitch.

Gracie, I'm sorry for not sending condolences for both of your events recently. I was in and out of Lit sporadically for a few weeks and not paying too much attention.

I hope you will forgive me for not saying something sooner. The loss of your grandmother especially touches me. I am very, very close to mine and the day I lose her will be a dark, dark day in my life.

For your sister, I pray for emotional healing and peace. Suicide is devastating ... to those left behind.

(((((((((huggles)))))))))) to you for strength! :rose:
 
Thank you, sprinkles and calli. And don't worry about it - you're allowed to have a life outside of lit. lol
 
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