The New Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[seela]

I understand. I used to be heels happy when I was younger too, being hardly 160cm tall I felt like a Pygmy and heels sure helped there.

Yep. I'm over 30cm (1') shorter than J. Heels help.

 

[IrisAlthea]

I understand. I used to be heels happy when I was younger too, being hardly 160cm tall I felt like a Pygmy and heels sure helped there.

But in time I just stopped caring and nowdays, even if I still do wear them if I have to and can handle even the really high ones, I am happy with my sneakers. They are just so comfortable

Heh, people still tease me about rock climbing in golden strappy sandals with heels in younger years.
Today I used my beloved Merrells hiking shoes though.

 

[ecstaticsub]

As a maybe random thought... There is a book by Ken Dychtwald called Bodymind that has an interesting take on the cause and treatment for flat feet. In case you have not heard of it and might find it helpful, I figured I would share.

Thanks. I may check it out. I have a little bit of an arch but my son is completely flat footed. So far he doesn't have any issues but I know he will later in life.

 

[cfuhrer]

Someone walked up behind me today that had his same weight and rythym of stride and I nearly fainted.

 

[Endless_Night]

There is dirt - permanently imbedded, I think - underneath my fingernails. I need a spa weekend...and rough, dominating sex.

Not necessarily in that order...heck, in any order...or even just one of the two....

 

[seela]

Why is J such a common first letter of especially male names?

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

Thanks. I may check it out. I have a little bit of an arch but my son is completely flat footed. So far he doesn't have any issues but I know he will later in life.

You are welcome. I am always fascinated to find the places that empower us to heal ourselves, or at the very least learn or consider a new perspective. Even if it helps marginally, it returns us to a place where we can "do" something instead of it just happening "to" us.

I know for me that more barefoot time in my life improved all sorts of life symptoms. Best of luck to you both.

 

[midwestyankee]

Why is J such a common first letter of especially male names?

Because yahweh?

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

Because yahweh?

Jesus! I was gonna say that!

 

[seela]

Because yahweh?

Jesus! I was gonna say that!

I thought of Jesus too, but there are lots of other names starting with J in the bible as well, so the weird J trend is present there already. Although Yahweh explains those J names.

We have also lots of native names here starting with J that have nothing at all to do with the Bible, but come from the local mythology instead.

 

[BiBunny]

I thought of Jesus too, but there are lots of other names starting with J in the bible as well, so the weird J trend is present there already. Although Yahweh explains those J names.

We have also lots of native names here starting with J that have nothing at all to do with the Bible, but come from the local mythology instead.

Possibly also because J's can make different sounds, depending on the language? There's the English "j" sound (like James), the sound it makes in Spanish that I can't even begin to write phonetically (like Javier), and then the German "y" sound (like Jan). So that's one letter that covers a whole bunch of different sounds, depending on where the name originates from. Maybe?

 

[CutieMouse]

Why is J such a common first letter of especially male names?

Because yahweh?

Jesus! I was gonna say that!

I thought of Jesus too, but there are lots of other names starting with J in the bible as well, so the weird J trend is present there already. Although Yahweh explains those J names.

We have also lots of native names here starting with J that have nothing at all to do with the Bible, but come from the local mythology instead.

Possibly also because J's can make different sounds, depending on the language? There's the English "j" sound (like James), the sound it makes in Spanish that I can't even begin to write phonetically (like Javier), and then the German "y" sound (like Jan). So that's one letter that covers a whole bunch of different sounds, depending on where the name originates from. Maybe?

Funny story...

It's been a running joke for the last several years, that I only get involved with men who have J names.

Married - James [Jim]
Post-divorce I've been involved with ... John, Joseph, Jeffery, another Jeffery, John and John [The Men™]. I've also casually dated a few more men who were either Johns, Jacks or Jims.

A few months ago I was briefly dating a fetish photographer, and we ended up meeting my best friend & her partner for drinks/ movie (we'd independently purchased tickets to the same show), and on the way to the theater her partner asked what the new guy's name was. I hadn't mentioned it, so she said she didn't know. The response? "Shit. I just know I'm going to call him John, whether it's it's his fucking name or not. We'll just have to hope he's another John."

 

[Netzach]

Possibly also because J's can make different sounds, depending on the language? There's the English "j" sound (like James), the sound it makes in Spanish that I can't even begin to write phonetically (like Javier), and then the German "y" sound (like Jan). So that's one letter that covers a whole bunch of different sounds, depending on where the name originates from. Maybe?

Isn't it what we did to the Greek and Latin "I"?

 

[Primalex]

Hm.

"Brazilian soccer" sounds much nicer than gangbang.

(Everyone gets to score).

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Hm.

"Brazilian soccer" sounds much nicer than gangbang.

(Everyone gets to score).

Best headline I saw was "Brazilians Waxed."

 

[Endless_Night]

Two hours of cardio will fix darn near anything!

 

[gypsy*seer]

Pain makes people fucking MEAN.

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

Pain makes people fucking MEAN.

*Hug*

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Pain makes people fucking MEAN.

We're sorry - we don't *want* to be mean (most of us)...

 

[HoHoBomb]

a few months back, the fortune teller said "2 years"

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Pain makes people fucking MEAN.

What do you mean by mean??







And I owe ya a PM!

 

[gypsy*seer]

*Hug*

We're sorry - we don't *want* to be mean (most of us)...

I know, I just spread myself out a little too thinly today. Can't fix everything (sometimes anything, sometimes nothing).

Hugs back you two!

Cranky-take-it-out-on-the-one-who-loves-you mean, DGE! From all directions, all three adults - brother, partner, mother. I just can't win!
Pppffftt!!!

 

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[Primalex]

Why do incest threads so frequently find themselves in the BDSM forums/BDSM personals?

It's close to non-consent?

 

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