The reality of happy ending massage parlours (from someone who's worked in one)

[Winchester3030]

Wow that’s amazing. I would love to Sit around and listen to some of your stories!
I wonder how many clients just wanted to be touched by another person? And sexual touched was even better
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I have gone for a massage just because I longed to be touched all over and for the most part it was just a massage but it still helped that longing to be touched

 

[Stromer]

Sorry, but I don't want to be outed

I think we all can respect that. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us.

 

[JCSTREET]

Thank you so much, what a lovely comment xxx

Thank you. Meant to say that young girls often DON'T cut it in the conversation department

 

[nedthebundler]

I've had a few LMT/RMT visits.

Nothing, not even an hint of anything sexual.

I'm quite OK with that, and as long as I can walk out of the appointment feeling better I'll call it a Happy Ending.

 

[Mike130]

Note at all. I'm saying that often, we don't believe we are. A lot of us had trouble beleiving we were sexy when we were younger, so how can we be sexy when we've gotten older. So, if we can't beleive ourselves, how can we don't beleive it when someone tells us we are?

What goes further is that there are so many messages that tell us only girls under 25 can be sexy. How many times are we told (by women no less) that we are wearing something too young for us, too revealing, too slutty, too too too something. So we constantly have to fight to hold on to what we might think about our selves, hold on to a different message that we are in touch with our sensual side? It's a real challenge, especially when we are surrounded in a place that tells us we are only for baby making, that there is a proper way to act and if we don't, we're going to hell.

That's why Lit is so important. So many here would like to see us. They could get any amount of porn, but real people always wins out. And what we see as glaring imperfections, the guys here, who have no reason whatsoever to lie to us, well, they see the beauty and sexy in us - and they are the beginning of helping us beleive it too.

Definitely believe that an older woman can be sexier than a younger one. For me that’s very true, thinking about my wife of 30 years. I think she is sexier now than ever. Yes, she’s gained a few pounds since her younger days and yes it’s flannel pajaMAs instead of sexy underwear now. And I ask myself “Why is this woman still so attractive to me? “
I think the attractiveness of a woman (for me) is broken down into 3 things:

1. Physical beauty- perhaps the most fleeting. She is still beautiful, but in a more mature way. And when I look at her, I still see traces of the young girl I fell in love with. Seeing her as young and older is hot!

2. Brains- We seldom notice this at first because when we see a person for the first time we are attracted by their physical attributes, but a smart woman is sexy and imaginative in bed. Initially I had no idea how smart my wife was, but the longer I was married to her, the more I respected her for her brains, and the sexier I think she is.

3. Sensuality- This is the hardest concept to describe. Some women have a natural sensuality and some try to attain it with sexy clothes or makeup or any number of ways. My wife, and probably yourself and a few other woman have a natural air of sensuality. They don’t try to be sexy, but they naturally are. My wife could be wearing flannel pajamas with her hair messy, and if she bends over in front of me I instantly want to ravage her! I can’t really explain it, but I guess it was expressed simply by one of my friends when I introduced him to my future wife for the first time. He described her as “Innocent yet filthy”, and I knew exactly what he meant. Such an innocent face, yet somehow the look or promise of a girl that would be wild in bed.

So I guess my point is, when you look in the mirror, you only see one aspect of your attractiveness to the opposite sex. There are many more!

 

[dkak001]

1. Physical beauty- perhaps the most fleeting. She is still beautiful, but in a more mature way. And when I look at her, I still see traces of the young girl I fell in love with. Seeing her as young and older is hot!

I think most women get a lot more beautiful as they age. A few small wrinkles that become visible with a smile can make the smile even more beautiful. Many smile more easily, and with bigger smiles as years pass. To me, that's the inner beauty showing through. That is what society should be focused on, not the fleeting youth that we all (men and women) loose over time.

 

[Nekidinaz]

And who doesn't shower before a massage? I shower right before I do anything that might involve nudity or closeness, including doctor appointments, eye exams, dentists. and haircuts. I'm the best smelling client they get all day.

I do too...Like you, I like being all fresh and clean and smooth...

 

[JenniZinc]

So I just found this thread, read the whole thing in one sitting and loved it. Had one question for Jenni. You said your establishment at one point offered male and ladyboy providers. I think that most men who are bi-curious would leave pretty frustrated with just a handjob because they certainly would want to look at and touch a penis and in all likelihood suck one. I know you said there were cameras but do you suspect maybe the lines were crossed more frequently with male/trans providers?

The cameras in the room where there first and foremost for safety, and there were two other panic buttons on either side of the room. The second was to ensure our studio was an 'exotic massage venue' and not a brothel. The owners would review the tapes if they suspected a massage worker was providing intercourse or oral sex to their clients. If a trans worker was happy to have their penis touched, it wouldn't have been seen as an issue.

I had always encouraged my male clients who wanted to explore options that didn't have a vagina, to instead be massaged by our male massage workers. I do know quite a few trans people in the wine industry who are generally nice natured and just get on with life. Trans women in the sex industry, I hate to generalise, are not people I would want to spend time with. So, if a client was massaged by a male, they could be touched and touch back, however trans workers would see this as a gross invasion of their privacy.

Honestly, in all my experience with trans workers, I never met one I liked, or was even mildly popular.

 

[JenniZinc]

Definitely believe that an older woman can be sexier than a younger one. For me that’s very true, thinking about my wife of 30 years. I think she is sexier now than ever. Yes, she’s gained a few pounds since her younger days and yes it’s flannel pajaMAs instead of sexy underwear now. And I ask myself “Why is this woman still so attractive to me? “
I think the attractiveness of a woman (for me) is broken down into 3 things:

1. Physical beauty- perhaps the most fleeting. She is still beautiful, but in a more mature way. And when I look at her, I still see traces of the young girl I fell in love with. Seeing her as young and older is hot!

2. Brains- We seldom notice this at first because when we see a person for the first time we are attracted by their physical attributes, but a smart woman is sexy and imaginative in bed. Initially I had no idea how smart my wife was, but the longer I was married to her, the more I respected her for her brains, and the sexier I think she is.

3. Sensuality- This is the hardest concept to describe. Some women have a natural sensuality and some try to attain it with sexy clothes or makeup or any number of ways. My wife, and probably yourself and a few other woman have a natural air of sensuality. They don’t try to be sexy, but they naturally are. My wife could be wearing flannel pajamas with her hair messy, and if she bends over in front of me I instantly want to ravage her! I can’t really explain it, but I guess it was expressed simply by one of my friends when I introduced him to my future wife for the first time. He described her as “Innocent yet filthy”, and I knew exactly what he meant. Such an innocent face, yet somehow the look or promise of a girl that would be wild in bed.

So I guess my point is, when you look in the mirror, you only see one aspect of your attractiveness to the opposite sex. There are many more!

Very well thought and I wish others thought like you. Unfortunately the massage business is filled with men wanting to have their penis touched by someone younger than their daughters. It's a sad reality but so true

 

[JenniZinc]

Thanks for a good yarn on your experience, Jenni. Considering how many people seem to enjoy MILF and GILF porn I would have thought that as a woman aged she would attract not fewer customers, but just different customers, those who were aroused by women at different stages of their beauty. There are a lot of men (even if they're a minority), who enjoy conversation and banter with their massaging, caressing and petting and young girls often cut it in the convo department. Good luck with al your endeavours. You bring pleasure to the world and I hope it gives back.

Thank you, and sorry I missed this post earlier. It's hard to describe but I found the level of disrespect shown to older male clients by the young workers was horrible. Not to their face, but once they returned to the common area. I guess if the client was unaware then no harm done.

 

[JCSTREET]

Thank you, and sorry I missed this post earlier. It's hard to describe but I found the level of disrespect shown to older male clients by the young workers was horrible. Not to their face, but once they returned to the common area. I guess if the client was unaware then no harm done.

meant to say "young girls often DON'T cut it in the conversation dept" Take care, Jenni.

 

[JenniZinc]

meant to say "young girls often DON'T cut it in the conversation dept" Take care, Jenni.

Ha ha, we're both on the same page!

 

[Gory]

Ha ha, we're both on the same page!

Jenni. Have you ever let a Client pay you for a Massage only to find out he wants to give it to You instead? I did it once to see if I had any talent. Well she said I should switch jobs and Get my license. Well that Did not Fly well with My boss . Thanks.

 

[Crios]

Right after my first wife and I split up, I was told about a happy ending massage parlor in a large industrial area. I found the place, but since it was illegal, I chickened out and left. A few blocks away, I noticed several marked and unmarked police vehicles sitting in a parking lot.
The following morning it was all over the news that the authorities raided several massage parlors in that area shortly after I chickened out. Glad I followed my instincts that night.

It's unfortunate that here in the States, jurisdictions would rather try to eradicate the trade rather than just regulate it. Puritanical local officials do their best to enforce their morality on the rest of us.

 

[ynhmai]

To happy ending customers, some pieces of advice.

Firstly, don’t always go for the pretty or sexy girls - I describe myself as plain and chubby, but back then I was plain and average. I would get picked last, but had a very good return of clients due to my massage technique.

I have been wanting to try a happy ending massage for so long, but I live in the states and in a conservative state to boot. That said, my preferred type of woman to get this type of service would be someone warm and nurturing, and i already have an affinity for older women. The thought of having someone’s mom/aunt rubbing my body and stroking me while talking sweetly in my ear really does it for me.

Also, I want to shoutout your hustle. It’s not easy to make enough money to buy land even with a nice, on-the-books job.

 

[JenniZinc]

Jenni. Have you ever let a Client pay you for a Massage only to find out he wants to give it to You instead? I did it once to see if I had any talent. Well she said I should switch jobs and Get my license. Well that Did not Fly well with My boss . Thanks.

No, that never happened, and if it was asked I would have said no. I'm surprised a massage worker allowed you to do it as not having control is never a good thing!

 

[JenniZinc]

It's unfortunate that here in the States, jurisdictions would rather try to eradicate the trade rather than just regulate it. Puritanical local officials do their best to enforce their morality on the rest of us.

There are a couple of states in Australia where massage centres not licensed as brothels are illegal, but the trade still flourishes. I would be very surprised if it was difficult to get a happy ending massage in any state of the USA - you just have to look in the right places

 

[JenniZinc]

I have been wanting to try a happy ending massage for so long, but I live in the states and in a conservative state to boot. That said, my preferred type of woman to get this type of service would be someone warm and nurturing, and i already have an affinity for older women. The thought of having someone’s mom/aunt rubbing my body and stroking me while talking sweetly in my ear really does it for me.

Also, I want to shoutout your hustle. It’s not easy to make enough money to buy land even with a nice, on-the-books job.

Ha ha, my job was always on the books, it just happened to pay well and I worked long hours. As I just mentioned to another poster, if you really want a happy ending massage they will exist, just don't expect it to be in a shopfront. Plenty of massage workers are home based, just apply caution as you would going to any stranger's house. If you're looking online and the same ad has been repeated over a series of weeks, it's a good sign that it's legitimate.

 

[Crios]

There are a couple of states in Australia where massage centres not licensed as brothels are illegal, but the trade still flourishes. I would be very surprised if it was difficult to get a happy ending massage in any state of the USA - you just have to look in the right places

Yes you can find places however they’re subject to being raided by police so you’re taking a chance. Places that provide happy endings are conducting prostitution in the eyes of most jurisdictions. Both clients and employees are arrested. And with our open records laws, anyone can find out the identity of the clients.

 

[Gory]

No, that never happened, and if it was asked I would have said no. I'm surprised a massage worker allowed you to do it as not having control is never a good thing!

It was All business and I did not touch any places and would not ask for any . But thanks for the Reply

 

[Plain_Vanilla]

It's unfortunate that here in the States, jurisdictions would rather try to eradicate the trade rather than just regulate it. Puritanical local officials do their best to enforce their morality on the rest of us.

Is it really an attempt to eradicate it? I'm inclined to believe it's usually 'show' for political posturing and extortion for profit.

 

[Crios]

Is it really an attempt to eradicate it? I'm inclined to believe it's usually 'show' for political posturing and extortion for profit.

Probably depends on where the rousting takes place. In non-metropolitan, ultra-conservative areas, it's likely an attempt to stop it. Local law enforcement doesn't have the resources to constantly clamp down on places that offer happy endings but, if they do it enough, it will drive clients elsewhere and eventually put the massage parlor out of business.

 

[Nellie60]

Although my partner (allegedly) doesn't receive happy endings anymore, he says the best he ever had was from a women in Thailand that would have been in her 70's. He said that was why he chose her, he just knew anyone still working at that age was there for a reason. I finished at 42, and was getting very self conscious sitting next to the young & hotties, it can be quite demoralising!

Excellent experience you have had and so well written! I was in Thailand once and choose from a stage full of girls. I choose a very pretty Russian red head ( not what you wanted to hear! ) The first thing I did was go down on her then full sex. It was absolutely fabulous. But I wanted her to finish me with her hand...it was mind boggling to be honest. She was exceptional fast and it was one of the most memorable happy endings. And yes being the little exhibitionist I am I sort of imagined the cameras were there

 

[JenniZinc]

Excellent experience you have had and so well written! I was in Thailand once and choose from a stage full of girls. I choose a very pretty Russian red head ( not what you wanted to hear! ) The first thing I did was go down on her then full sex. It was absolutely fabulous. But I wanted her to finish me with her hand...it was mind boggling to be honest. She was exceptional fast and it was one of the most memorable happy endings. And yes being the little exhibitionist I am I sort of imagined the cameras were there

No problem at all with your choice of girl - you're in the majority. I just always put forward the idea of trying a mature woman or even a man for a better happy ending, most of the time. You took a big risk though in going down on a working girl in Thailand as venereal diseases are widespread and you can pick up a myriad of them orally. I find it unusual that a Russian would work in Thailand, as they tend to be higher up the pecking order when it comes to income expectations. Thai girls don't earn much hence why they always want to move to the west.

 

[Nellie60]

No problem at all with your choice of girl - you're in the majority. I just always put forward the idea of trying a mature woman or even a man for a better happy ending, most of the time. You took a big risk though in going down on a working girl in Thailand as venereal diseases are widespread and you can pick up a myriad of them orally. I find it unusual that a Russian would work in Thailand, as they tend to be higher up the pecking order when it comes to income expectations. Thai girls don't earn much hence why they always want to move to the west.

Thank you for the advice but at the time probably desired her too much cause she was just gorgeous. As it turned out I was fine and the hj at the end was extraordinary..just having her lie next to me....