THe Stella_Omega & Very_Bad_Man Saga Thread

[Lizzie_Borden]

Gp = Vbm? Y/n?


eta: I totally did that in all capitals and got auto edited down. Ha!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Gp = Vbm? Y/n?

Mmm...no, I don't think so, actually. The semiotics don't point that way...

 

[Etoile]

Nope, I don't think they're the same. And VBM, thanks for popping by to share your thoughts on this debacle. I knew you didn't need anybody defending you!

As they say folks, save the drama for your mama! ~smiles~

Ew, those tildes make a smile seem dirty somehow.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

... <snip> I have tried and he definitely is not gay.... <snip>

Have you ever considered the thought that maybe VBM *is* gay... just not for you?

I logged on to a PM about this thread bringing it to my attention.

I am sorry about this post although it is not of my making. This Perv guy has a crush and feels the need to defend me anytime somebody attacks my person. I am a big boy and can take care of myself. I really do not give a rats ass what anybody thinks of me as nobody here really matters in real life. I post here for various reasons and for me it is not about seeking approval as again I just do not give a fuck to be honest. Perv I wish you would STFU and mind your own business but hey its a free country.

I did apologize to the forum for allowing myself to get dragged into a pissing match with Stella that belonged in the Fetish Forum and had nothing to do with this Forum. I think it was bad form by both of us. But sometimes shit happens that later after you cool down you want to kick yourself in the ass for.

I have been open an honest and like most people I have my character flaws but I do apologize for things I unintentionally do wrong as I am aware that I am not perfect. It is amusing to note that there are a lot of very judgmental people here who are very quick to point out others flaws and cast insult yet never admit to their own, but such is life.

I have never cast intentional insult unless I am insulted and attacked first, in this I always try to be a gentleman. I am quick to forgive, forget and move on. I neither hate nor am angry at Stella. She picked a fight in defense of somebody she thought needed help and it caused pain. In this I think she had good intentions but she made a mistake and unless she has no soul, which I do not believe to be the case, I know she feels bad it went bad like it did.

Galactic Perv you are being a douche and the rest of you that joined in this ridiculous thread and took potshots at me when I did nothing to you nor is this your affair are douche too.

I am sorry this thread came to be Stella.

VBM - While I haven't seen much of you around here (BDSM Talk/Café), what I have seen has led me to believe that you are a reasonably adult human being and generally okay, even if your choice of topics isn't necessarily my cuppa tea. That's quite all right, BTW - there are a LOT of folks around here that I quite often don't agree with, or have interest in the things they're interested in. Spice is the ... wait a minute... variety is the spice of life! (That's it... I knew I'd get it right one day!) Anyhoo, your post quoted here has upped your stock *with me,* at least, quite a bit. Good job of demonstrating adult behavior and attitudes.

Back at you, Big Guy.

SO - you and I sometimes agree, sometimes disagree, and sometimes I look at one (or more) of your posts and say to myself, "WTF?" For the most part, though, you're interesting and cogent and literate, and even when you're at your most abrasive (well, that *I've* seen, anyway), you generally make sense even if I don't agree with your POV. As for the "Back at you" above... good job on adulthood for you, too. Now maybe this thread can die and whatshisface can go back to propositioning folks in the Fetish Forum.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Yanno what gets me though, is when someone expects me to want to be nice.

I want to be right. and righteous, (as opposed to self-righteous, and of course that's a tricky tightrope walk. )

I want to be, on my best days, a hero. or The hero. Robin Hood, not Maid Marion.

Or an antihero like Batman, I'm good with that. Sometimes I manage to actually resemble Batman, sometimes I look like Dudley Do-Right.

"Adult" is worth trying for, thank you Sir Winston.

But "nice?" Not high on the list of things I aspire to, actually.

 

[Etoile]

I know I'm not the only one who has seen the threads VBM started in here, because y'all have replied to them! What's all this about not knowing who he is?

 

[where]

Is it bad of me to be perving on a threesome with Stella and VBM?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Is it bad of me to be perving on a threesome with Stella and VBM?

Really, really bad. Go to my room.

 

[o2bebd]

Is it bad of me to be eating ice cream and watching the whole thing?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Is it bad of me to be eating ice cream and watching the whole thing?

You mean-- after all these weeks?

Yeah, that's a lot of ice cream. I only say that because I worry about your health.

 

[satindesire]

I am completely shocked at the insane amount of self control tons of posters displayed by not coming in here and getting overinvolved in stuff. Generally speaking when some shit goes down in the BDSM boards, everyone's jumping on board the dramallama! Especially moi.

Seriously, it's like someone did a 180 with half the people here. What happened to everyone? Were we on vacay or something?

Ew, did I just say "vacay"?

 

[graceanne]

Ew, did I just say "vacay"?

You did, and I'm quoting it, for proof.

 

[BiBunny]

I am completely shocked at the insane amount of self control tons of posters displayed by not coming in here and getting overinvolved in stuff. Generally speaking when some shit goes down in the BDSM boards, everyone's jumping on board the dramallama! Especially moi.

Seriously, it's like someone did a 180 with half the people here. What happened to everyone? Were we on vacay or something?

Ew, did I just say "vacay"?

I think most of us have just hit the "Frankly, Scarlett..." stage at this point.

 

[satindesire]

You did, and I'm quoting it, for proof.

I suck today.

I think most of us have just hit the "Frankly, Scarlett..." stage at this point.

Maybe we all actually learned a lesson from ~smile~-guy.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I think most of us have just hit the "Frankly, Scarlett..." stage at this point.

yeah, this is an ancient thread, totally water under the bridge.

Kybele and her nasty fantasies...

 

[BiBunny]

yeah, this is an ancient thread, totally water under the bridge.

Kybele and her nasty fantasies...

For me, it's not just this thread. Though if I wanna perv on some of the posters, then so be it.

 

[where]

Really, really bad. Go to my room.

Score!

yeah, this is an ancient thread, totally water under the bridge.

Kybele and her nasty fantasies...

In my defense, I haven't been on for ages and I quite like some of VBMs post on the GB and you know I want you in my knickers, so it isn't much of a leap.

and you can be on top if you want

 

[SubmissiveBrat]

Just read this thread in it's entirety. The guy who started this thread is a dumbass. I hate when people meddle in others affairs. I have to commend Stella_Omega and Verybadman for being standup and burying the hatchet. I think it's cool that people can slug it out and still be cool and make peace.

I still did not get what the fighting was about. LOL

 

[o2bebd]

I am completely shocked at the insane amount of self control tons of posters displayed by not coming in here and getting overinvolved in stuff. Generally speaking when some shit goes down in the BDSM boards, everyone's jumping on board the dramallama! Especially moi.

Seriously, it's like someone did a 180 with half the people here. What happened to everyone? Were we on vacay or something?

Ew, did I just say "vacay"?

I was at work when the whole "thing" happened. I missed all of it. I came home to the whole thing resolved and over. Sorry.. I would have chimed in..Now... I just eat ice cream and watch...LOL