Things your cheating wife did with her lover that she doesn't do with you . . .

[lifeis2short2b]

There is one thing that she has done that she hasn't done with all of you.

She got satisfied by her lover

 

[liqueur]

“I'm just concentrating on the good people I meet here.”

So why are you so incessantly spamming threads from people you don't like?

 

[KinkStevens]

Im sure all of the things come to mind: anal, huge orgasms, oral, cum swallowing, etc. I’m fascinated by the why your SO swallows his hot nut and not yours. Its sexy to me.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

So why are you so incessantly spamming threads from people you don't like?

You got me. Sometimes I can't help myself. Since when is stating the obvious spam ?

 

[Filipinahotwife]

I had never let a man cum in my mouth or have anal sex until my husband convinced me to try black. I found out that black men expect to use all of your holes for their pleasure

 

[KinkStevens]

I had never let a man cum in my mouth or have anal sex until my husband convinced me to try black. I found out that black men expect to use all of your holes for their pleasure

Love the thought of you receiving multiple loads of ebony sperm in your asshole

 

[Phatfeet]

Years back I went through a phase between girlfriends that I was fucking married ladies I found on AFF. Out of four ladies I did for several months each, three of them asked me to take their ass cherry as they had never given it up to their respective husbands. I have no idea why me and not hubby, but I did find it strange at the time.

I fully understand a cheating wife’s reasoning for saying yes to a lover on some things and yet not for her husband.

Sex is only a portion of marriage after all, so while married women are having kinky sex, that it is all they are giving. In that capacity they can relax and let go and be a little naughty, I mean what they are doing is against their vows anyway so why not go all the way on being wrong and do some dirty things they won’t let their husbands do to them?

But with their husbands? These are men they make dinner for. Go to church with. See the grandparents of their kids with. They are even the other half of their very own children. It is not exactly the man she wants sticking his cock up her bottom with, or letting him douse her in a huge facial. It is not that she does not want to try some of those naughty things, it is afterwards she wants respect, or equal treatment within her marriage.

One man represents wild passionate sex that she can disengage from life with, while the other represents stability. For some ladies, never the two shall meet.

And really that is too bad because men do not look at kinky sex the same way women do. Women are told from a very early age proper girls do not do those things. Unfortunately a husband who has a wife do them things with him, not only eliminates the risk of getting caught and possible divorce, but a strong marriage! It really is what most husbands want, a proper lady when meeting his mother granted, but in the bedroom his wife being a little slutty. She can have both sides of her sexuality slaked, but it takes trust in her husband that he will keep that side of her quiet from anyone else, and that he will still respect her even if she lets her kinky side go. It is vulnerability and trust, and some wives just do not FEEL they have that with their husbands, but do with a detached man.

 

[jimmyturtleman]

I fully understand a cheating wife’s reasoning for saying yes to a lover on some things and yet not for her husband.

Sex is only a portion of marriage after all, so while married women are having kinky sex, that it is all they are giving. In that capacity they can relax and let go and be a little naughty, I mean what they are doing is against their vows anyway so why not go all the way on being wrong and do some dirty things they won’t let their husbands do to them?

But with their husbands? These are men they make dinner for. Go to church with. See the grandparents of their kids with. They are even the other half of their very own children. It is not exactly the man she wants sticking his cock up her bottom with, or letting him douse her in a huge facial. It is not that she does not want to try some of those naughty things, it is afterwards she wants respect, or equal treatment within her marriage.

One man represents wild passionate sex that she can disengage from life with, while the other represents stability. For some ladies, never the two shall meet.

And really that is too bad because men do not look at kinky sex the same way women do. Women are told from a very early age proper girls do not do those things. Unfortunately a husband who has a wife do them things with him, not only eliminates the risk of getting caught and possible divorce, but a strong marriage! It really is what most husbands want, a proper lady when meeting his mother granted, but in the bedroom his wife being a little slutty. She can have both sides of her sexuality slaked, but it takes trust in her husband that he will keep that side of her quiet from anyone else, and that he will still respect her even if she lets her kinky side go. It is vulnerability and trust, and some wives just do not FEEL they have that with their husbands, but do with a detached man.

First of all, thank you Phatfeet, for such a well thought out, and well written response to this thread.

Being married for over 50 years now, I can fully appreciate your comments and observations, as I have been in some of those exact situations. At first, I didn't understand why my wife just wouldn't 'let loose' and do all the dirty, nasty things I fantasized about. Then, one day, she spelled it out for me, almost exactly as you outlined here. She was raised in a strict family setting where everyone went to church, manners were important, family came first, and if anyone in the family cheated, it was the husband. Moms were Saints, and sex wasn't engaged in for her pleasure. As the newness of sex wore off, after the honeymoon, I was looking for something new, and more exciting. The kind of things I read about in my Penthouse magazines. She went along with me, to an extent. She bought some sexy lingerie, and agreed to the use of a vibrator, but that was about her limit. One day she laid it out for me, in a very similar way to what you have written. She said that her upbringing taught her to be a good daughter, wife, mother, sister, grandmother, and all things made of sugar and spice. And then, here I am wanting her to be a wanton slut in the bedroom. It just didn't line up with her moral compass.

Then she meets another man, one who has no long term romantic interest in her, just a primal lust to have sex with her. For someone who has been faithful for 20 years, it is a giant leap to jump into bed with another man, but the temptation was just too powerful. At the time, I didn't quite understand the dynamics involved, but I did take the time to listen to her and I was able to better understand her reasoning, and how she can do things with another man, that she would never consider with me.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

So let me get this straight.
You tried to spice things up with your wife
She explained to you it was against her "Moral compass" to do the things you wanted.
You been married 50 years but she has only been faithful for the last 20
Her "moral compass" doesn't stop her from her "Lust" to be with another man.
She was able to convince you it was OK when she got caught.
Man do have a bridge to sell you

 

[artgorden]

Reverse cowgirl. She says I'm too small.

 

[jonjonz68]

Reverse cowgirl. She says I'm too small.

That's a good position for fuck licking them both, both her bf and her.

 

[Brittttlvr]

My wife cheated less than two years into our marriage. She denied it for a long time, but was basically caught. I’ve don’t everything I can imagine with her since. He may have been first in something, but I’ve certainly done everything he did by now.

 

[Dreamer110]

My wife cheated less than two years into our marriage. She denied it for a long time, but was basically caught. I’ve don’t everything I can imagine with her since. He may have been first in something, but I’ve certainly done everything he did by now.

Is he still enjoying your wife?

 

[SmallHubby7897]

My wife has being a hotwife for the past 7 years or so.

Since then I love how she clearly is more sluttier since she became a hotwife compared to when I married her,things like the way she dresses(at home and out) has completely changed, both her clothes and lingerie.

One of my favorite developments since my wife became a hotwife is that she often lets bulls act like they own her body.
So even when they're not fucking her, they constantly do things like,telling her how to dress (or when not to wear anything), expose her body, grope and rub her body openly.

More specifically in relation to sex acts, I've seen her do several things with other men that she never did with me.
Things like anal, regularly giving blowjobs, deep throat, cum swallowing and generally behaving in a much more sensual and slutty way.

 

[CEOescape]

She posed naked for him and let him keep the pictures , he sent to me !!!!!!!!!

 

[jimmyturtleman]

She posed naked for him and let him keep the pictures , he sent to me !!!!!!!!!

Did you ever tell her about the pics? I would love for some of my wife in action with another man, or better yet a video.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

That's a good position for fuck licking them both, both her bf and her.

LMAO ! Your right it is a good position to be in. He's fucking you both.

This thread is so pathetic. Its like watching a train wreck.

 

[Brittttlvr]

She posed naked for him and let him keep the pictures , he sent to me !!!!!!!!!

She gave him permanent ownership of her and proof of ownership of you wife.

 

[jonjonz68]

She posed naked for him and let him keep the pictures , he sent to me !!!!!!!!!

O yea! To me his taking the pictures and sharing them with you has a delicious sting to it
.

 

[artgorden]

Gag on his cock. Again, she says I'm too small for that.

 

[artgorden]

There is one thing that she has done that she hasn't done with all of you.

She got satisfied by her lover

That is why I would beg to blow him.

 

[policywank]

This seems to be a hot topic (in both senses) among cheated-on husbands. It definitely adds to the humiliation that your wife not only got fucked by another man, but was so turned on by him, so turned on by her illicit affair, that she enthusiastically did things with him, or for him, or let him do things to her, that she was never turned on enough to do with you. For me there are quite a few, and each one is a huge turn-on for different reasons. At the top of my list is that my wife routinely sucked her single coworker's very big cock to completion and swallowed every drop - literally drained his balls dry. The only time I ever came in her mouth was many years ago, we were both drunk, and she choked and spit it out. She was mad at me and it never happened again. Other cheated-on husbands and bfs, what are your go-to acts in this category?

Sometimes it isn't a matter of being more turned enough so much as it is that different guys resonate in different ways or circumstances are different. What women look for in a husband is often different than what we look for in a sexual partner. My gentle loving attentive husband turns me on in his own way. But if he tried to be the aggressive physical guy that manhandles me it just doesn't work. It isn't credible. But one isn't better than the other. Likewise, last week I sucked a guy of in the front seat of his car at lunch. If it was my husband I'd probably say let's wait until we get home because that is an option.

 

[jimmyturtleman]

Sometimes it isn't a matter of being more turned enough so much as it is that different guys resonate in different ways or circumstances are different. What women look for in a husband is often different than what we look for in a sexual partner. My gentle loving attentive husband turns me on in his own way. But if he tried to be the aggressive physical guy that manhandles me it just doesn't work. It isn't credible. But one isn't better than the other. Likewise, last week I sucked a guy of in the front seat of his car at lunch. If it was my husband I'd probably say let's wait until we get home because that is an option.

In the midst of my wife meeting up with her old H.S. boyfriend, we had many a discussion about what attracted her to him. One of those reasons was his aggressive, boisterous, dirty talking ways. When I tried to replicate his personality, it had just the opposite affect on her. She stopped me, telling me that I should just be me. That is why she married me, for being a kind, gentle, loving man.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

Same here. Policywank is spot-on. The few times I tried to mimic the way my wife's stud colleague fucks her, to do things and say things in a similarly aggressive, dominant, manly way, it was so artificial she ended up laughing and so did I. It's just not me. But it most definitely is him, and rather than laughter it inspires intense orgasms from her.

 

[policywank]

In the midst of my wife meeting up with her old H.S. boyfriend, we had many a discussion about what attracted her to him. One of those reasons was his aggressive, boisterous, dirty talking ways. When I tried to replicate his personality, it had just the opposite affect on her. She stopped me, telling me that I should just be me. That is why she married me, for being a kind, gentle, loving man.

Same here. Policywank is spot-on. The few times I tried to mimic the way my wife's stud colleague fucks her, to do things and say things in a similarly aggressive, dominant, manly way, it was so artificial she ended up laughing and so did I. It's just not me. But it most definitely is him, and rather than laughter it inspires intense orgasms from her.

I think that historically guys tended to see the sort of thing through a lens of "fairness". In other words, you did X with that guy, but not me.

But the reality is that I don't owe anything to anybody and there is no scenario in which a sex act is "earned" unless I say it is.

Different people inspire different responses. It is a bit like the way I engage in different activities with different friends or family members. Why am I inclined to go to the theatre with one friend and a nightclub with a different friend? I like them both. And either enjoys the theatre or the nightclub. But I relate to them in different ways and they each bring out different aspects of my personality.

When I first started dating my husband, I was dating other guys as well. I went out with him several times before we had any sexual relations. Whereas with some of the other guys I put out right away. There was no particular rhyme or reason and it certainly wasn't some contrived notion of wanting him to see me in a certain light because he was more likely marriage material (I wasn't think about being serious with anyone at the time). If anything I wanted him to know of my relatively promiscuous nature so that he knew what he was getting into. It was just that he inspired the social, talkative aspect of my personality and some of the others inspired the cock hungry aspect of my personality.