Things your cheating wife did with her lover that she doesn't do with you . . .

[liqueur]

the reality is that I don't owe anything to anybody.

This!

Different people inspire different responses.

And this, of course.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

I think that historically guys tended to see the sort of thing through a lens of "fairness". In other words, you did X with that guy, but not me.

But the reality is that I don't owe anything to anybody and there is no scenario in which a sex act is "earned" unless I say it is.

Different people inspire different responses. It is a bit like the way I engage in different activities with different friends or family members. Why am I inclined to go to the theatre with one friend and a nightclub with a different friend. I like them both. And either enjoys the theatre or the nightclub. But I relate to them in different ways and they each bring out different aspects of my personality.

When I first started dating my husband, I was dating other guys as well. I went out with him several times before we had any sexual relations. Whereas with some of the other guys I put out right away. There was no particular rhyme or reason and it certainly wasn't some contrived notion of wanting him to see me in a certain light because he was more likely marriage material (I wasn't think about being serious with anyone at the time). If anything I wanted him to know of my relatively promiscuous nature so that he knew what he was getting into. It was just that he inspired the social, talkative aspect of my personality and some of the others inspired the cock hungry aspect of my personality.

I'm beyond grateful that, through her business travel, my wife has met several men who brought out the cock hungry slut lurking just below her polished, professional surface. Finding that out well after the fact was tough, but now that it's out in the open we're both reaping the dividends in our respective ways.

 

[lauramilf]

So I wasn't a very faithful Wife when I was married. We had alot of issues and there were a few reasons why I had affairs but to answer the question yes there were things I did with "lovers" that I didn't with my husband partly to get back at him for being a shitty husband another to add to the excitement.

 

[gk6h]

So I wasn't a very faithful Wife when I was married. We had alot of issues and there were a few reasons why I had affairs but to answer the question yes there were things I did with "lovers" that I didn't with my husband partly to get back at him for being a shitty husband another to add to the excitement.

What where they

 

[Ed_Sumner]

What where they

Yes, please do tell!

 

[Lumpy2]

Back when my wife was cheating, the two things that I noticed she changed was that she started shaving her pussy, and she started wearing thongs and sexy bras. Both of those were things that I had suggested to her before but she declined. It wasn't until she started cheating that she found the motivation to do it.

You should find that guy and thank him for the shaved pussy

 

[Brittttlvr]

After my wife cheated and wouldn’t admit it for a while (basically caught, but trying to deny). I put her through every imaginable sex act. Anal in every way, made sure that she swallowed, made her pose for pics. Anything that I thought he might have done that I hadn’t. Of course, he may still have been first...

 

[TonyF862]

After my wife cheated and wouldn’t admit it for a while (basically caught, but trying to deny). I put her through every imaginable sex act. Anal in every way, made sure that she swallowed, made her pose for pics. Anything that I thought he might have done that I hadn’t. Of course, he may still have been first...

Did she ever admit and did it finally open your marriage up to include others openly?

 

[Brittttlvr]

Did she ever admit and did it finally open your marriage up to include others openly?

She didn’t admit her infidelity for years afterward. Even though her friend on the work trip had told me about her cheating the very night it happened. I would love to hear more detail about it, she is still not telling too many stories about the night (claiming it was only one). Did it open our marriage. Def not. She is a jealous one (of me). I’d love a threesome or something, but she prefers that she is the only one of the two of us to stray after marriage.

 

[Brittttlvr]

She didn’t admit her infidelity for years afterward. Even though her friend on the work trip had told me about her cheating the very night it happened. I would love to hear more detail about it, she is still not telling too many stories about the night (claiming it was only one). Did it open our marriage. Def not. She is a jealous one (of me). I’d love a threesome or something, but she prefers that she is the only one of the two of us to stray after marriage.

I will say this though. Having her finally telling me how he won her (beer and dancing) his words, her confession that she was a sober and “willing participant “ is a start!

 

[Nellie60]

After my wife cheated and wouldn’t admit it for a while (basically caught, but trying to deny). I put her through every imaginable sex act. Anal in every way, made sure that she swallowed, made her pose for pics. Anything that I thought he might have done that I hadn’t. Of course, he may still have been first...

After I caught my first girlfriend with another man out in a National park I was devastated.

When she came back home, I virtually did the same. Despite insisting she needed to shower, I committed every act on her and fucked her like I was possessed. In this occasion I didn't ask for a confession as I already witnessed her infidelity and promptly left. To this day she still doesn't know I saw what saw.

In hindsight I wished I had hung around longer to get a confession and incorporate it into our sex life.

 

[TonyF862]

I will say this though. Having her finally telling me how he won her (beer and dancing) his words, her confession that she was a sober and “willing participant “ is a start!

Yes! It’s basically an admission that she likes different cocks! A good start, no doubt

 

[artgorden]

She tells him how good his dick is.

 

[usse]

Back when my wife was cheating, the two things that I noticed she changed was that she started shaving her pussy, and she started wearing thongs and sexy bras. Both of those were things that I had suggested to her before but she declined. It wasn't until she started cheating that she found the motivation to do it.

One of mine gave herself away by suddenly wanting to suck my dick unexpectedly and begging for anal. I later found out she satisfied a number of her fantasies while cheating.

 

[TonyF862]

One of mine gave herself away by suddenly wanting to suck my dick unexpectedly and begging for anal. I later found out she satisfied a number of her fantasies while cheating.

Ive never understood why it’s so hard for some people to explore fantasies etc w their SO.

I get cheating can be a thrill in & of itself, but don’t get the whole “she hated anal w me but let her bull/lover fuck her ass and she begged for it” thing

 

[Nellie60]

One of mine gave herself away by suddenly wanting to suck my dick unexpectedly and begging for anal. I later found out she satisfied a number of her fantasies while cheating.

Like an equivalence to discovering for the first time what's she is like in bed or what she did in past relationships

 

[liqueur]

I get cheating can be a thrill in & of itself, but don’t get the whole “she hated anal w me but let her bull/lover fuck her ass and she begged for it” thing

Oh, I do! The erotic thrill of cheating invites and excites her to explore other things that up until now she's regarded as off the table. And the idea of giving to her lover things she has denied her man further intensifies that cheating thrill.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

Oh, I do! The erotic thrill of cheating invites and excites her to explore other things that up until more she's regarded as off the table. And the idea of giving to her lover things she has denied her man further intensifies that cheating thrill.

The fact that he's able to bring out her suppressed inner slut and get her to so enthusiastically do dirty things that her devoted hubby never came close to inspiring her to do, is super humiliating and arousing.

 

[Sgts19]

Not lover but a man we swapped with several times during our swinging adventures

Multiple penetration orgasms and squirting every time we swapped with them
Also mentioned how big his cock to him lol

 

[Rugburn349]

Not cheating wife, but so far my wife has done a few things with her “boyfriend” that she doesn’t do with me.

- receive facials
- cum from penetration
- lets him finish inside

 

[liqueur]

The fact that he's able to bring out her suppressed inner slut and get her to so enthusiastically do dirty things that her devoted hubby never came close to inspiring her to do, is super humiliating and arousing.

Yes, this....

or then again, maybe that “slut” is not so suppressed. Maybe there’ve been others before, and will be more after. Maybe devoted hubby is good for a homemaker, a bath-runner, maybe even a breadwinner... A sweet man to come home to. The “dinner's in the oven” sort of thing. But for her pleasure, she needs those bad boys, those hot-cocked tall-dark-and-handsome ne’er-do-wells who are more than happy to give her what she needs, what hubby's too tame for, and then send her home to him for supper. His supper, that is

 

[cuckoldbill]

Yes, this....

or then again, maybe that “slut” is not so suppressed. Maybe there’ve been others before, and will be more after. Maybe devoted hubby is good for a homemaker, a bath-runner, maybe even a breadwinner... A sweet man to come home to. The “dinner's in the oven” sort of thing. But for her pleasure, she needs those bad boys, those hot-cocked tall-dark-and-handsome ne’er-do-wells who are more than happy to give her what she needs, what hubby's too tame for, and then send her home to him for supper. His supper, that is

This is certainly the case for a few of my wife’s female friends.

 

[TonyF862]

This is certainly the case for a few of my wife’s female friends.

Oh? Do tell

 

[TonyF862]

I'm beyond grateful that, through her business travel, my wife has met several men who brought out the cock hungry slut lurking just below her polished, professional surface. Finding that out well after the fact was tough, but now that it's out in the open we're both reaping the dividends in our respective ways.

If she ever needs a “port in a storm” to quench her lusting slutness while on a business trip - I gotta guy!!

 

[artgorden]

Titty fuck. She says it takes a real man's dick.