threesome advice
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Ezzy
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Do you really mean MMF (male on male on female, all able to touch suck and fuck everyone else), or do you mean MFM both guys servicing the girl and not interacting between themselves.
Depending on which you are wanting and are willing to participate in, talk through what you are willing and are prepared to do, if you expect to not have contact with the other guy avoid calling it MMF or you will be sending mixed signals!
Communicate and understand what each of the 3 are expecting, and especially the areas that they are not happy with happening.
Depending on which you are wanting and are willing to participate in, talk through what you are willing and are prepared to do, if you expect to not have contact with the other guy avoid calling it MMF or you will be sending mixed signals!
Communicate and understand what each of the 3 are expecting, and especially the areas that they are not happy with happening.
Eilan
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Good point. Sometimes people don't realize there's a difference.Ezzy said:
I second the idea of communication, as well as setting ground rules beforehand (which I suppose goes along with communication).
More detail about your specific situation might be helpful. . .
Mansa Musa
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pushpin said:
The woman comes first! Anything else is icing on her cake. Mirror play is most effective, where both men try to mimic each other as accurately as possible. Or you can go for the "opposites" angle, where the men work fromopposite ends of the body, meet in the middle, then switch positions and head to the head/feet. Go slow, listen for good noises, and pick a guy who´s comparable in size. don´t go for Long Dong Silver!
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What is your interest?
We are in a similar situation and have wanted to engaged in a threesome (MFM) for some time. As the male I really want to do this as it has created a desire in my wife that is amazing. We are married for 15 years and have just done about everything there is. We are also moving in this direction and have communicated openly about the consequences and how we would feel afterwards. Once he goes in he doesn't cum out. Do you plan on wearing protection? What exactly are you looking for with this experience? We both have never had anyone else so for us it is the feel of another. She has agreed to do FMF after this for the experience as well.
pushpin said:
We are in a similar situation and have wanted to engaged in a threesome (MFM) for some time. As the male I really want to do this as it has created a desire in my wife that is amazing. We are married for 15 years and have just done about everything there is. We are also moving in this direction and have communicated openly about the consequences and how we would feel afterwards. Once he goes in he doesn't cum out. Do you plan on wearing protection? What exactly are you looking for with this experience? We both have never had anyone else so for us it is the feel of another. She has agreed to do FMF after this for the experience as well.
Puman
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Thank you for this thread... my PYL has expressed an interest in this, so we've started playing with some FFM and FMF ideas.... what I'm curious to know (from others experience in the matter) is whether it's better to do this with a stranger (as in a personal ad) or with someone you know. We cannot seem to agree on which is better, so I thought I'd come and ask the experts...
SunshineLdy
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I did it long ago with my boyfriend's best friend, and roomate...who also was my bestfriend's boyfriend 
. We had a wonderful time changing partners and such. When the time came I was the only one that could "Handle" both at once 
OMG it was amazing and over far too quickly. Granted they were both average size, had they have been larger Ida died
Lots of communication with your SO!!! I can't express that enough. Rules of behaviour before, during, and after must be discussed. With MMF OR FFM any one of the significant others (SO's) can get hurt feelings, jealous, angry for no reason. TALK TALK TALK, if you can't be open about it, then you're not ready for the feelings it can evoke.
(I know, I shoulda listened/remembered my own advice for my last excursion into swinging)
I've had some good FFM for my SO's, but they were for them. I didn't get much into the females...I had toys, drinks, and sweets for the times one female wasn't being involved LOL! It can be fun, but not when you don't go over the rules to each other's satisfaction and peace of mind.
My 2 cents anyhow.
. We had a wonderful time changing partners and such. When the time came I was the only one that could "Handle" both at once OMG it was amazing and over far too quickly. Granted they were both average size, had they have been larger Ida died Lots of communication with your SO!!! I can't express that enough. Rules of behaviour before, during, and after must be discussed. With MMF OR FFM any one of the significant others (SO's) can get hurt feelings, jealous, angry for no reason. TALK TALK TALK, if you can't be open about it, then you're not ready for the feelings it can evoke.
(I know, I shoulda listened/remembered my own advice for my last excursion into swinging)
I've had some good FFM for my SO's, but they were for them. I didn't get much into the females...I had toys, drinks, and sweets for the times one female wasn't being involved LOL! It can be fun, but not when you don't go over the rules to each other's satisfaction and peace of mind.
My 2 cents anyhow.
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Travel Bugs said:
Protection... ABSOLUTELY!!! What I'm looking for??? Just something different... something new... it's quite an exciting prospect for me! I met a couple through some online friends... we have been emailing pics and im back and forth for a few weeks now... we're just trying to get all the ground rules settled... on the other hand though, I don't want to over think this whole thing... I want it to feel spontaneous... not rehearsed... but we have discussed it a lot and we all have expectations.
