To cheat or not....

[just for fun]

I just wanted to say that you guys have offered some exellent advice.

Blahmangeorge

I can relate to your story because I was overweight when I was growing up and the chicks were'nt exactly lining up at my door either. I don't know about you, but myself I feel like I kind of missed out because of this. That's why my first thought as stated by others is that your ego is being stroked.

I was cheated on years ago by my wife and it is something I wouldn't wish on anyone. You can't know the pain until your it happens to you. As far as I can see (from a couple of paragraphs) it sounds like you and your wife have a good thing and you sound like a reasonable man. Don't worry about having "nasty thoughts", we all have them, including the wives it's part of being human.

Love honor and cherish your marriage, there's too many marriages falling apart and too many kids that have no concept of a stable family life. And worse yet the failure rate of second marriages is higher that first marriages

P.S. Your work friends may be fun they sound like total idiots.