To Much Hate | Do, Say or show something nice

[The_Dragon_Tamer]

Well thank you sir and I wish the fleashy orbs of a thousand fair ladies upon you (location of your choice)

And the image you posted is outstanding

As for your rambles as you called it, not so. I can become pretty blackhearted this time of year and while I might not take heed to all the spirited aspect of it's meaning, your story along with AA helps remind me that there is some good out there if only we'd all alow it to happen daily.
Feel free to tell a tale and know we're hear to listen and enjoy it along with you.

I wish to thank you sir for your kind words. I have a tendency to ramble on, but I try to paint a picture with my words, for words are the tools of my trade. Again I thank you Sir and all others who may have enjoyed it.

 

[The_Dragon_Tamer]

" "I sometimes wonder why it is that the holidays prompt this outpouring of love and charity, when it can be used 24/7/365...i.e., every day and ALL the time." "


Whatever the reason for the outpour; some do live this way 24/7/365! All it take s is for us to remember how good it feels.

We're all into feelin' good now ain't we?

Fair One it is truly possible to have this feeling and charity if you want to use that word as you say 24/7/365. You see we are in control and responsible for how we feel and react to the things adn people around us. It was a New Year's resolution that I made several years ago, and that is I would try to help people less fortuante and try to be kind to all. A little kindness on your (our) part takes very little energy or money from us, but we will never know the impact that had on the person and how many other people were impacted by that one small deed. To have this 24/7/365 depends on each and every one of us. If we are not too busy now to do it , why are we too busy during the other months? Sorry for putting my 2 cents worth in, but I like your sentiment. Thank you for reminding me again of a long ago Resolution I made to myself.
Have a Happy and Joyous Holiday Season Fair Maiden.

 

[jazey_43]

Fair One it is truly possible to have this feeling and charity if you want to use that word as you say 24/7/365. You see we are in control and responsible for how we feel and react to the things adn people around us. It was a New Year's resolution that I made several years ago, and that is I would try to help people less fortuante and try to be kind to all. A little kindness on your (our) part takes very little energy or money from us, but we will never know the impact that had on the person and how many other people were impacted by that one small deed. To have this 24/7/365 depends on each and every one of us. If we are not too busy now to do it , why are we too busy during the other months? Sorry for putting my 2 cents worth in, but I like your sentiment. Thank you for reminding me again of a long ago Resolution I made to myself.
Have a Happy and Joyous Holiday Season Fair Maiden.

Hello DT, my friend!

I'd like to take a minute and put my 2 cents in...and give you all a glimpse from someone on the other side of the fence, if you will.

There may be some of you here that know my story. for those of you who don't, bear with me while I recap a bit.

A fairly recent seperation(which left me in financial disaster), the loss of my home, no child support...combined with a major back problem that requires another surgery (I'm still recovering from the last one) has left me without my job. Due to the fact that I can't get off of medical leave, and my disability has run out, I was terminated. I have been forced to depend on other means to keep a roof over my daughters head and food on the table. Awhile back, a thread was started for me by someone I have never met in person....asking for help in the form of monetary gifts, prayers, cards and good wishes. The contributations that have come in, along with all the emotional support has literally kept me going!! You see, I have always been on the "giving" side...now the tables have turned and I am "receiving"
While the embarassment of my situation was extremely hard to bear, especially being as heavily medicated as I am... the kind words, thoughts and well wishes from the Lit members involved meant more to me than any of you can imagine!! To know that there are caring people out there, ones I've never even met, has been overwhelming!! It has made me feel like a whole person again! It has made me feel still productive, and much less of a failure...and to be safe in those thoughts once again, means the world to me. So, to all you people who "give"..THANK YOU!!, so very much...from someone who right now, needs to "receive".

*jumps off me soapbox*

 

[The_Dragon_Tamer]

Hello DT, my friend!

I'd like to take a minute and put my 2 cents in...and give you all a glimpse from someone on the other side of the fence, if you will.

There may be some of you here that know my story. for those of you who don't, bear with me while I recap a bit.

A fairly recent seperation(which left me in financial disaster), the loss of my home, no child support...combined with a major back problem that requires another surgery (I'm still recovering from the last one) has left me without my job. Due to the fact that I can't get off of medical leave, and my disability has run out, I was terminated. I have been forced to depend on other means to keep a roof over my daughters head and food on the table. Awhile back, a thread was started for me by someone I have never met in person....asking for help in the form of monetary gifts, prayers, cards and good wishes. The contributations that have come in, along with all the emotional support has literally kept me going!! You see, I have always been on the "giving" side...now the tables have turned and I am "receiving"
While the embarassment of my situation was extremely hard to bear, especially being as heavily medicated as I am... the kind words, thoughts and well wishes from the Lit members involved meant more to me than any of you can imagine!! To know that there are caring people out there, ones I've never even met, has been overwhelming!! It has made me feel like a whole person again! It has made me feel still productive, and much less of a failure...and to be safe in those thoughts once again, means the world to me. So, to all you people who "give"..THANK YOU!!, so very much...from someone who right now, needs to "receive".

*jumps off me soapbox*

Fair Jazey my good friend, I know it is hard. When used to "giving" to others it almost seems wrong when you are the one "receiving". You and I are several of the same medications so I know your predicament in this area as well. I am happy to hear that you are willing to be on the receiving end. I hope that during this holiday season, people will open up their hearts to you and help out in anyway that they can. I was lucky, and on the day of the sale 12/3 I was able to save the house. It would not have been possible without friends of mine in certain government agencies. My wish for you is that you and your daughter have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. A New Year that may find you restored back to the active person that you are. As you know this is not possible for me. My friend, I know the address is posted but there were a couple of diffferent addresses listed. If you would be so kind as to send it to me or post it to me on this thread, I would greatly appreciate it. May your days be filled with happiness, friendship and not pain and suffering. Take care of yourself my friend, you are always in my thoughts.

 

[jazey_43]

Fair Jazey my good friend, I know it is hard. When used to "giving" to others it almost seems wrong when you are the one "receiving". You and I are several of the same medications so I know your predicament in this area as well. I am happy to hear that you are willing to be on the receiving end. I hope that during this holiday season, people will open up their hearts to you and help out in anyway that they can. I was lucky, and on the day of the sale 12/3 I was able to save the house. It would not have been possible without friends of mine in certain government agencies. My wish for you is that you and your daughter have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. A New Year that may find you restored back to the active person that you are. As you know this is not possible for me. My friend, I know the address is posted but there were a couple of diffferent addresses listed. If you would be so kind as to send it to me or post it to me on this thread, I would greatly appreciate it. May your days be filled with happiness, friendship and not pain and suffering. Take care of yourself my friend, you are always in my thoughts.

Thank you Tamer....and the same to you, my dear friend!!

Jazey Westcott
P.O. Box 124
Butler, WI., 53007-0124

 

[Woodmiester]

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{{{{{Woody}}}}}

Long time no see my friend, I hope all is well for you!!!

|||||||| Cipher ||||||||D

yes it has been, we need to catch up soon, damn RL sure gets in the way huh

Hope things are still looking up for you

 

[Woodmiester]

Jazey I saw that thread and and like now I wish I were able to help, but as with many, far to many right now I seem to live paycheck to paycheck and my sons mother has 2 terminal conditions going on now that makes getting out of this hole seem impossible bu should I be able to I'd like to help in the future, and I wish you a speedy recovery.

 

[Cipher]

Woody,
Indeed, things are going well for me. I hope things get better for you, remember it wasn't too long ago that i was going through a hell of my own. It was rough. I'm greatful that one day i bounced back and i faught RL head on. I'm not "winning" per se, but i'm getting there. You will too my friend!


Jazey,
Hey babygirl, I wanted to tell you that for a year and a half i struggled to find a job, i went to interview after interview and got nowhere. I know that your circumstances are alot different, but at one time, i had zero dollars. I went from being Miss. Independent and helping others to going to needing help my damnself. I know what you're going through, sometimes you don't know what to do. I had help from my parents, without them, sometimes i don't know how else i would've kept a roof over my own head. Sometimes getting out of bed took all the strength i could muster. I guess what i'm trying to say is, that after the storm, a calm does come. It took me a very long time to realize that. I work now, not a big-paying job like i once had. But it buys me food, gas in the car, and keeps me somewhat afloat. I'm content and on rare occasion, happy.
You and i have spoken about getting together, and i would still like to do that. If i can be of any help in the near future, you know how to find me.

Be well all of you,

*J*

 

[Icey*Fire]

Thank you Woodmiester for starting this thread,,,I loved the other one you had started a while back and posted on it many times, but it just disappeared it seems.

I wish with all my heart that I could help more people, especially jazey. My heart goes out to you and all the others in time of need. I am without a job at the moment, have been for months now. I lost my vehicle and it seems I run in a circle trying to find a job that I could get to. I live 3 miles outside of town so that is kind of hard.

We are having no christmas this year at all. I have decorated my home with lots of decorations but will have no tree and no presents. But that is not the most important thing in our life right now. Some of you may have seen my posts on the hug a day thread about the countdown for my son, and some of you may have guessed the reason for it. He has been in federal prison for the last 5 years and is being released on Jan. 5th. All this time we have had to send him money for things, and at times we had none to send him. And now we must come up with a new wardrobe for him when he is released as everything he had was stolen when he was arrested. I cry every night wondering where on earth I am going to get the money to buy these things for him, he does not even have a jacket to wear. But somehow some way I will do it. And just the thought that he is going to finally be free is the greatest thing in our life. It is now down to 29 days.

When I painted the Christmas ornaments for the ones on here that wanted them, it was my way of sharing what little that I could. I would have done more, but I used every one that I had. And I loved doing it. I love to share the things that I paint, it keeps me busy. At this point it is about the only way I can share with anyone.

I wish each and every one of you a happy holiday season,, you will be in my heart and prayers. I see the pain and suffering that some have and I give thanks for the things that I do have. I have good health and a home. And all three of my sons are healthy and strong.

If there is anything that I can do for anyone I will be glad to do it. And I thank all of you for sharing your time with me.

And now on to finding something bright and happy to post...

 

[Cipher]

Thank you Woodmiester for starting this thread,,,I loved the other one you had started a while back and posted on it many times, but it just disappeared it seems.

I wish with all my heart that I could help more people, especially jazey. My heart goes out to you and all the others in time of need. I am without a job at the moment, have been for months now. I lost my vehicle and it seems I run in a circle trying to find a job that I could get to. I live 3 miles outside of town so that is kind of hard.

We are having no christmas this year at all. I have decorated my home with lots of decorations but will have no tree and no presents. But that is not the most important thing in our life right now. Some of you may have seen my posts on the hug a day thread about the countdown for my son, and some of you may have guessed the reason for it. He has been in federal prison for the last 5 years and is being released on Jan. 5th. All this time we have had to send him money for things, and at times we had none to send him. And now we must come up with a new wardrobe for him when he is released as everything he had was stolen when he was arrested. I cry every night wondering where on earth I am going to get the money to buy these things for him, he does not even have a jacket to wear. But somehow some way I will do it. And just the thought that he is going to finally be free is the greatest thing in our life. It is now down to 29 days.

When I painted the Christmas ornaments for the ones on here that wanted them, it was my way of sharing what little that I could. I would have done more, but I used every one that I had. And I loved doing it. I love to share the things that I paint, it keeps me busy. At this point it is about the only way I can share with anyone.

I wish each and every one of you a happy holiday season,, you will be in my heart and prayers. I see the pain and suffering that some have and I give thanks for the things that I do have. I have good health and a home. And all three of my sons are healthy and strong.

If there is anything that I can do for anyone I will be glad to do it. And I thank all of you for sharing your time with me.

And now on to finding something bright and happy to post...

Icey,
I didn't do christmas last year because i had no heart for it, i could hardly stomach it. This year with my little job, i could afford to get something for my parents, my sister, and neice and nephew. It's not about presents, you're right. But this is my way of saying "Thanks" for helping me when i needed it. Sometimes all we have is hope and realization that somewhere, someone is alot worse off. I'm greatful for the little i have, and the little i can share. Things will get better for all of us one day.

 

[Icey*Fire]

Icey,
I didn't do christmas last year because i had no heart for it, i could hardly stomach it. This year with my little job, i could afford to get something for my parents, my sister, and neice and nephew. It's not about presents, you're right. But this is my way of saying "Thanks" for helping me when i needed it. Sometimes all we have is hope and realization that somewhere, someone is alot worse off. I'm greatful for the little i have, and the little i can share. Things will get better for all of us one day.

Thank you Cipher, and I agree with all my heart that things will get better. The main thing is to keep our heads up till that time arrives.
http://www.paint-by-number.com/crafthouse/praying_hands_sm.jpg

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by The_Dragon_Tamer
Hello Fair One, it has been a long time since we talked. We really enjoyed it best four years, other than the war and spending a lot of time in Rihad, Saudi Arabia and then Kuwwait. Desert Shield, Desert Storm and Proven Comfort. Did you buy any handmade carpets over there?

Yes too long...it's nice to see your presence again.

I am indeed fortunate to have two Turkish rugs...one a gift from my parents...the other I got when I was in Istanbul exactly a year ago. *Wishing I was there now visiting my friends*

 

[wicked woman]

~ A Friend Like You ~

There's lots of things
With which I'm blessed,
My problems have been few,
But of all, this one's the best-
To have a friend like you.

In times of trouble
Friends will say,
"Just ask, I'll help you through it."
But, you don't wait for me to ask,
You just get up and do it!

And I can think
of nothing more
That I could wisely do,
Than know a friend,
And be a friend,
And have a friend like you.


- Author Unknown

 

[wicked woman]

Break Down Those Walls

Went for a walk had questions in my mind
Wanted to run from my troubles leave them all behind;
Although, running never solved anything for me
I've ran for years trying to be free;


Running I've learned doesn't help me at all
It only seems to build up stronger high walls;
I used to think that keeping up walls was good
I could never get hurt, or be misunderstood;

Now I see my thinking was all wrong
I have to break down those high walls and try to be strong;
These walls were a way of protection for me
Didn't want the hurt to show, or others to see;


The hardest thing in breaking down these walls
Every situation I've been through my heart still recalls;
The suffering, sorrow and pain
Until I face things I'll go through it again;


Lord, I pray You give me the wisdom to work it all out
I pray You strengthen me and help me not to doubt;
Lord, I know not what to say or do
With all these walls I've built how do I break through;

I know I've built them in times of despair
I pray that I remain in Your tender loving care;
Lord, lift me up from the state I'm in
Help me to stand up and start over again;


I seek Your face, Your strength, and Wisdom to
Lord, help me I pray to break down those walls and start new;
I thank you Lord for hearing my prayer
I pray for those who have walls built up to beware;

I pray this poem touches their hearts
And that you grant them a new start.


~Karen A. Kotze~

 

[jazey_43]

Jazey I saw that thread and and like now I wish I were able to help, but as with many, far to many right now I seem to live paycheck to paycheck and my sons mother has 2 terminal conditions going on now that makes getting out of this hole seem impossible bu should I be able to I'd like to help in the future, and I wish you a speedy recovery.

Oh Honey, just your offer of wanting to help is MORE than enough!! You starting this thread, and giving me a chance to meet more wonderful people is more than enough. It's like I said, all the well wishes from people I have yet to meet means more than you'll ever comprehend...and thats what counts sweetie....sometimes the kind words are worth more than a bundle of money. I thank you from the bottom of my heart...*hugs*



Cipher....girl, THANK YOU for sharing that story...gives me some hope..and thats what I need right now. Sometimes when I wake up in the morning, and I just can't move, I start to figure whats the point...then I hear my beautiful daughter walk into my room to kiss me goodbye and I force myself out of bed and head straight for my pain pills...after that I start to feel a little better and things don't seem quite as bad. I have a longass haul before I can even think about going back to work. Theres talk of another surgery to place rods in my back and a spinal cage around the affected discs. I'm trying to avoid that at all costs. I know a little about the hopelessness you felt...and it warms my heart to know you've come out of it unscathed and sharing such a beautiful spirit...and for that I thank ya Toots!! And ya know, I'm ready to do lunch anytime kiddo! We'll need to ask Kayte to join us, then I can ask her to pick me up. I've had to hang up my keys till I'm off of the Oxycontins and percodan. So let me know when you're ready. And Thanks hon...*snuzzles ya silly*



Icy...you HANG IN THERE baby!!!!! I will keep you and your family in my thoughts...and in my prayers. And you're right...somehow, some way, you always seem to end up having your needs met. I'd like to help with the jacket problem if I can. My son has coats and jackets he doesn't even wear, I'm sure. If it will help any, I'd be more than happy to get them from him and mail it out to you. He's 24 and medium build. So if theres anything I can do to help, please let me know sweetheart. And in the meantime..you stay positive!!! Things will turn around for us all!!..*hugs ya tight*

 

[Guest]

Light a candle

 

[jazey_43]

Light a candle

jasmine....Thank you for this..what an absolutely FANTASTIC link. Go check this out guys..it's awesome!!

 

[Guest]

jasmine....Thank you for this..what an absolutely FANTASTIC link. Go check this out guys..it's awesome!!

You're welcome jazey
I'm glad to share with all of you !

 

[Joey3308]

Kinda makes ya stop and think...
http://www.bostonblueyes.com/images/hands.jpg

 

[Woodmiester]

You're welcome jazey
I'm glad to share with all of you !

That's a really nice site SunShine
http://www.imgmag.com/images/jasmine/KBImages/1candle.JPG

 

[Cipher]

{{{ Woody}}}

That was really nice of you to do for all of us.

I'm sure you'll have the strength to be there for your son, you'll be amazed at what you'll be able to do for him and with him.
You've got friends here that will be here for you every step of the way.

,
*J*

 

[Woodmiester]

scuffs toe in dirt <snow>

weren't nuffin

 

[Guest]

{{{{Woody}}}}
Cipher's right.. you'll find the right words, you always do !! It'll be okay

We'll be here to help in any way we can.

*waves to everyone*

 

[Icey*Fire]

Thank you Woody..what a very nice thing to do.
Hugs for you

 

[Icey*Fire]

"Hugging is the ideal gift. Great for any occasion, fun to give and receive, shows you care, comes with its own wrapping and, of course, is fully returnable. Hugging is practically perfect. No batteries to wear out, inflation-proof, nonfattening, no monthly payments, theft-proof and nontaxable."

What a nice gift for all...a Hug...