Transsexuals

[Queersetti]

ORyoko, thanks for your post. I hope you will stick around.

 

[j269]

UK TS lover

Hi

Just found this post - I fantasise about M2F transexuals alot. I guess I consider myself bi, but I don't fancy guys, only their cocks. Wheras I love womens bodys, so a female body with a penis is probably my ideal. I'd love to get on my knees and give a blowjob, then turn around and be taken.

Mmm, I'm as stiff as a log just writing about it. Anybody in the UK like to contact me ?

 

[amsubone]

Great thread!! Really helping me to think. thanks

 

[Etoile]

0Ryoko, thanks for the post! I'm glad I was wrong (er, that might have been another thread) about there not being any Ts around here. I'm sorry to hear what you had to go through, and I wish you luck on your plan to transition again. Have you been seeing a therapist this whole time, or do you have to start that part of the process again too?

 

[0Ryoko]

Sorry for the delay, real life and all that.

C--glad that you could generate that kind of atmosphere. I was going to a support group back in the beginning, along with my regular trips to the therapist. It was a good bunch of people, but they have moved on now.

j--you'll have to find yourself someone who isn't on the full hormones, once those babies kick in jr doesn't want to work that often anymore. However, the mileage may vary, I knew of a couple of Ts who said they didn't have that problem until the end. *snip*

E--that was another thread I happened to see it in my passing through here. Thanks for the luck, I'll need it. As for therapists, no, not really. I needed one way back when and then I saw another once I started 'mones again, but that only took two trips. Due to the fact that I have my head on straight (so to speak, I guess ), I could schedule my surgery and have my letters in no time. My own personal goals and limited money flow (come on tech market, pick back up) are the only things holding me back.

My goals are to lose the weight, get back on 'mones again (loss of job and benefits not too long ago), finish the face clearing and save up for the surgeries. It was sort of a blessing about losing the benefits and going off 'mones the second time, I was "filling" out rather quickly and it was starting to show and it's hard to do layers in the summer time.

I learned a lot about myself and about people going through all of this. Even those who read me and said they'd pray for my soul rounded out the experience and added to my knowledge of society. I always had (and still do) the problem of not understanding the people around me and why they do the things they do. Many think I'm crazy and I just tell them that if I had more money they'd have to use the word eccentric.

Storms are starting to roll through, better go before everything cuts out.

"When everything is going wrong
And you can't see the point of going on
Nothing in life is set in stone
There's nothing that can't be turned around"

 

[Memphisto]

Okay, wow. Did not think people would get deep on me with this.

Rather Obviously, I am into PEOPLE more than their equipment. In the end, it's the soul of the person that matters, male, female, or in between.

However. When there's porn, there's porn. Some people enjoy the straight, some the gay, some the trans. I rather enjoy watching trans porn, and to be perfectly shallow (understanding that I've said what I've said about the soul), I WOULD like to experience sex with a transsexual. Not only for the body, but for the experiences, and how they affect the way that person makes love.

It's just a kink of mine. It was supposed to be a light topic, folks.

I have to agree with you there. The fact is that we all are supposed to love the person, yadda yadda yadda...

But the other fact is that lusting, pornography, and blind objectification kinda of go hand in hand.

It's an enlightening thread, particularly because of your input, ORyoko... to be honest I've learned more from you than I ever really wanted to know about the process, the emotions, etc..

But when I'm masturbating and fantasizing, it's basically about the thrill of being with someone who could appear as a beautiful woman, but have a big cock as well.

Let's not lose sight of the difference between a loving relationship with someone finding their gender balance and a good old fashioned lust vibe towards something naughty and different.

I think for many guys that TG porn can be a bit of a gateway to discovering hidden and repressed desires. At least it was for me. I'm sorry if I've objectified anyone by getting hot to T porn, but I've enjoyed it and learned a few things about myself along the way.

EDITED for grammar's sake.

 

[Etoile]

There are people out there with huge breasts and huge cocks, but I usually only see them advertising in the back of the Village Voice, in the shemale section. They do exist for fantasy-fulfillment, but the actual TG experience is much more complex.

 

[Memphisto]

There are people out there with huge breasts and huge cocks, but I usually only see them advertising in the back of the Village Voice, in the shemale section. They do exist for fantasy-fulfillment, but the actual TG experience is much more complex.

Huh... and to think I was under the misconception they were all in Brazil.

In all seriousness, I'm sure that the reality is much, much more complex than my fantasies. But reality tends to be like that for most anything.

 

[rjp44]

i've often fantasized

about a romp in bed with a mtf pre-op transexual or intersexed person....the thought of enjoying a woman's body with the ability to screw me with the "real thing" rather than pegging has led to some great orgasms while masturbating. There is one club in New Orleans that had a site up with pics of many of the entertainers, and they were beautiful women with nice male equipment...yummm!

 

[human_male]

I'd be curious, if I liked her and got on with her and everything.

 

[TransJason]

When theres a thread on transsexxuals its about transwomen MTFs,..or rather its a she-male that people are after. Pre op with full working tackel who have had a boob job and no hormones (after hormones the sex drive diminishes which is waht most MTFs are desperate to lower).

Its interesting that no one wants to have a fantasy about a transman an FTM....unless its pre op....

 

[amsubone]

God forbid we can't objectify one another a little.

I think everyone in the world *should* have a dick and a great B or C cup. If I had my way.

I've been in relationships where, yes, my FTM pal or MTF pal definitely wanted to be viewed as the "destination gender" I'm very able to make that leap, it's no problem.

More appealing to me are a couple of people I've been with, and I include myself where gender is a more fluid, playful, ambiguous thing, and for me that was really erotic and intriguing.

My fiance has experience with various lowish-dose hormones (premarin), not in a desire to transition, but desiring to reach an in-between state that he's comfortable with, a kind of androgyny that he is after. It is very much a pursuit of physical characterisitcs (hairlessness, slight breast development) that he finds pleasing for himself. Luckily, I find them as pleasing, objectification has its perks.

Have you ever looked at nekkid pics of female body builders? This works for me, much to my surprise. It's such a genderfuck, and rather close to your best of both worlds concept.

Well said! YOur fiance is a blessed person to have you.

 

[curious476]

Trannies

It may sound strange because I do not consider myself gay but I am very attracted to a very fem trannie. I have always been curious about sucking cock but I am just not turned on by hairy-assed guys. I have been with two trannies and neither was what I had hoped for. One could't get an erection and the other tried to cram her cock down my throat. Neither gave me what I wanted. I keep wanting to try again.

 

[josilv]

TS'ism

Transexualism IS the best of both worlds, especially when you can easily move back and forth, although I pray for the day when that will not be necessary and I never have to remove my lipstick.

 

[curiousben]

transsexuals

Hi, I am very curious about transsexuals! I get very excited fantasizing about being submissive sexually to a trans. or pretty cd. I am confused about cd's and transvestites. Are they one and the same? I find this discussion board fascinating!

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Depends on the tranny in question. If she's hot, she's hot, even with such an unusual combination of anatomy. I've seen several tranny babes whom appeal to me.

 

[TransJason]

Being transsexual is not the best of both words as you wish to be only one gender...now transgenderism is what you mean I think, as thats when people slide between the genders. and its enjoyable for them. A transsexual does not want to do that at all, and just wants their bodies re assigned to the gender that their brain tells them they are...

I am all for and support transgenderism but I wish there was a clear cut understanding with people that it is not Transsexualism as that is a medical condition....LGBT the T is transgender not transsexual which means gender dysphoria, an unhappy state to be in.

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

Good God, this is an old topic. Heh.

Hi, I am very curious about transsexuals! I get very excited fantasizing about being submissive sexually to a trans. or pretty cd. I am confused about cd's and transvestites. Are they one and the same? I find this discussion board fascinating!

A transsexual is a person who feels like they were born with the wrong body, that the parts don't match their personality. A transvestite (or crossdresser) is a person who gets a thrill out of dressing as the other gender every once in a while, but doesn't actually desire a permanent change.

I'm fascinated by the transgender process, and have always wondered what it would be like to meet some of these people in real life to better understand them.

 

[Wolfman1982]

I'm fascinated by the transgender process, and have always wondered what it would be like to meet some of these people in real life to better understand them.

one of my best female friends is a MTF transsexual, and well I have learned alot about things, by being her support, and reading this board, since now I know , thanks to Stephany, that calling a TS a *bad word coming* shemale, then you are in reality calling the TS a whore/prostitute. And lots of other things, have I learned from here, and my relationship (friendship) with my female friend has become better, thanks to this part of lit board

And well I love my TS female friend, but not as in girlfriend/boyfriend kind of way. But in the way, she is a person, that I deeply care about, and she is my friend

aka. I love her, and she is my friend

 

[chad29yrold]

Very curious about transsexual!

I dont really consider myself bi...because I dont think I could ever have a relationship with a man and Ive never been attracted to a guy...it's just I have always fantasized about cocks, cum etc... A transsexual is the ultimate for me I think. A beautiful woman with a extra "toy" to play with. I cant imagine the ecstacy a man would enjoy with a beautiful T Girl. Especially if she was well endowed...yummy.

 

[DustyWolfe]

When theres a thread on transsexxuals its about transwomen MTFs,..or rather its a she-male that people are after. Pre op with full working tackel who have had a boob job and no hormones (after hormones the sex drive diminishes which is waht most MTFs are desperate to lower).

Its interesting that no one wants to have a fantasy about a transman an FTM....unless its pre op....

Heh... and any fantasy involving pre-op transmen is most likely misguided right? I can't help but wonder that the lack of desire comes from the lack of knowledge. Or at least to a small extent. FtMs by and large are an invisible community. We tend to "pass" more easily than MtFs do for the most part which is nice, but they were gifted with a better bottom surgery. I'm pre-op and due to ovarian issues was put on estrogen back in college which caused me to be fairly large chested (this was back when I didn't know what was wrong with me, I just thought I was a freak and didn't know what transgendered was) yet I'm passing pretty well with just some light binding. Imagine how easy it will be once I can save up and have top surgery

So... where do you stand on the Buck Angel debate? If you aren't aware of it let me know and I will fill you in.

 

[TransJason]

He's juat a varient of FTMs..I have had the whole SRS done, and could never think of not having a penis..it was something that was missing and now I have a functioning member it feels totally right and I have relaxed psychologically, the gender dysphoris is no more.

He is also unique as I havent ever seen a FTM porn star before, although you can google a tonne of pro op MTFs...or rather guys who are using thats status to earn a lot of money...they also arent on hormones becuase they can still get erectins and the genitals are shrunken.

Buck is happy with his body as it is, but I do think he gives a wrong idea about FTMs in one way, as to be honest I dont like to sexualise the status, its not a sexuality.

Trans in the transsexual way is a transition in the body, as the mind is one gender where as trans in the transgender way is mind & sexuality, so a transsexual could be transgendered etc but not necessarily, most arent !

 

[Wolfman1982]

TransJason: I think of transsexuals in this way. Those women, who feel they are men, those people I would call men, all the way. Even though they are biologically female. Those men who feel they are female, those I will call women, even though they are biologically male. And I respect , love, and cherish them, the way they are. And not in any other way.

Meaning, I can love a person for who they are, and if I am allowed to make a little joke (inspired by one of the first American Survivor shite tv series) "in a nonhomosexual way" (joke) but screw it, I am bi(if I am not, then I am just a "strange straight" man), why should I say it that way ? other than, I love humour in every possible way, as long the person doesn´t mean what they say in "jest".

So Jason, I call you male, since that is what you are

And the same goes to DustyWolfe.

 

[Hooper_X]

Passable well hung male to female transsexuals are visually interesting, but I wouldn't want to have a sexual relationship with one. That having been said, for a time in the late 90s I had something of a boy/girl-crush on Angel Dumott Schunard.

 

[Trannygirl]

I live as a woman, think and feel as a woman, am legally considered a woman, and have had much surgery to look like the woman I am. I am, however, quite happy with my penis for now. So I guess I just wanted to correct what's been said a few times that transexuals feel like they were born with the wrong genitals. It's not about the junk, it's about the identity.

You may feel free to call me "the best of both worlds", if you like.