Transsexuals

[TransJason]

Thats interesting as I have met a number of MTFs like yourself. I find that I cant get my head round it as I feel gender dysmorphia is the caused due to the body not being in line with the mind...but your saying that your penis isnt a problem...but doesnt it affirm male identity ???..or are you a transgendered transsexual...? transgender isnt the same as transsexual diagnosis.

from a gay man once long ago diagnosed as transsexual ....

??

 

[tusculumpioneer]

tranny attraction

YES, attracted to the fantasy of a woman's body with a cock attached...what's the big freakin' deal?

 

[Trannygirl]

I find that I cant get my head round it as I feel gender dysmorphia is the caused due to the body not being in line with the mind...but your saying that your penis isnt a problem...but doesnt it affirm male identity ?

I suppose it does, but it's not like I'm even going to forget that I used to be a boy. It's just that right now, at this stage, I'd rather have natural genitals than man-made ones. But I still got breasts, and facial feminization surgery. So it's not inconcievable that I'll take the plunge someday.

 

[TransJason]

aarrrr I see. yes thats what a few FTM friends have said , a few dont want surgery due to the fear of it and would rather just keep what works and others just see what the T has done to their bits and bobs and see that as quiet enough for the time being, and will eventually have the surgery, although they all pack. Also my US friedns cant all afoord to have the surgery, so thats another consideration...they all want a will though !

 

[M's girl]

YES, attracted to the fantasy of a woman's body with a cock attached...what's the big freakin' deal?

Well..... (and I have not read EVERY post here, but I did read the initial question, then some reactions, including Caitlin's letter through Etoile) ...

The freakin' deal is that transgendered people (is that the right phrase?) often struggle with the fact that they feel like another gender than what their bodies are showing. They struggle. They are NOT comfortable with that fact and wish they were what they think they should be, hence, lose the penis or so.

I imagine there are exceptions, but what makes you think THEY are comfortable flaunting what they got while they can't wait to get rid of it

 

[ze4592]

I'm just curious:

Are any of you attracted to transsexuals? What about those who have not fully transitioned (ie, have breasts and a penis)?

Has anyone ever been with a transsexual? What was it like?

Is anyone out there (as in, anyone reading this) a transsexual?


Being Bi, I can't think of a better way to satisfy my urges... you have the best of both worlds with a transsexual.. though I've never been with one, I'm enamored on the idea, and fantasize about it regularly.

Bi man here. I know what you mean about the best of both worlds. It is really very erotic to be on your back, gazing at your feminine lover's face and boobs while she fucks you slowly

And don't get started about playing with breasts while sucking a cock....

 

[Nordic man]

is gender related to what physical bodyparts one has attached to their body at the moment? I'm sure we all know women who are more "male" then many men they know. And we all know men who are more "female" then many women.

Having said that I remember the night my date told me that she was in the process of transitition from in her words "physical male to physical female" she was scared how I would react. I kind of knew because she had been hinting at it for several weeks, like asking me about cross dressing, etc. Yet that night she met me at a place to eat where she drove herself. She told me afterwards she was scared and wanted a safety outlet. I could understand that.

I will admit it took me awhile to see her as the women she was before she told me that. But I did. I will admit it was very nice that we got to spend some time in the hot tub just being together in that way before becoming physically more intimate.

That was my experience.

 

[Kumani]

I think that it will be best as I will be satisfying bothg urges. My love of breasts and the fact that I like dick too.

So I see it as getting the best of both worlds when you are bi.

But is there any transsexuals out there that will like to have a girl as more than a shopping partner but as a lover?

I'm form Canada, Montreal specifically.

Give me a wink.

 

[Tymeless]

i am in the process of starting my transitioning i'm definately into women as a mtf to be maybe i should send you a wink .

 

[Kumani]

hey tymless we should definetley get to know each other.
drop me a pm sometime.

 

[sam-s]

Very interesting stuff here. I've been enlightened to say the least. Haven't
been with one personally. But maybe one day. Thought about it, though.
If I did, it'd have to be because of the person, rather than the curiousity.

 

[Bredon]

Digging up this old thread--

Its interesting that no one wants to have a fantasy about a transman an FTM....unless its pre op....

Actually I do-- pre and post op. Who else?

And yes, it's ok to fetishize, and to fantasize, but no, it's not ok to speak about "those people" and wanting to "try one", where it clearly shows that it's all about the freak show thrill, and believing that you are somewhat more human than transsexuals.
Would anyone dare to openly write that way about lets say, asian poeple? I know many people have fantasies about "asian women", but would they actually dare to write (or even think) something like that on here? In 2006? Get evolved, hurts only a bit.

Thanks a bunch
Bredon

 

[curious476]

I like

Ive only been with 2 Shemales but it was exciting. I really prefer females but I luv the humilation of giving into certain perversions suck a sucking cock but I dont really care for the unfeminine aspect. Humiliation is a big turnon for me and I would probably be just as happy in a bath house sucking cock as long as I didnt have to look some guy in the eyes.

 

[gargouille]

I hope this makes sense. I'm a bit short of coffee today so bear with me.

But is there any transsexuals out there that will like to have a girl as more than a shopping partner but as a lover?

Yes there are. I don't like men in a sexual sense. I never have. It was very confusing for my friends and loved ones when I began transitioning. There's a myth out there that we are all into men, and it was assumed that I would have bottom surgery as well as top surgery. I never did.

Thats interesting as I have met a number of MTFs like yourself. I find that I cant get my head round it as I feel gender dysmorphia is the caused due to the body not being in line with the mind...but your saying that your penis isnt a problem...but doesnt it affirm male identity ???..or are you a transgendered transsexual...? transgender isnt the same as transsexual diagnosis.

from a gay man once long ago diagnosed as transsexual ....

??

Gender dysphoria is not always about the cock. I was definitely gender dysphoric. I knew that I was not a man. I wanted nothing to do with GI Joe and everything to do with Betty Crocker. I knew that I was not totally a heterosexual female either. When I began the process of gender discernment (as my very wise psychiatrist put it) I discovered that the gender/sexual identity I am closest to is that of a lesbian. I felt like a woman, but I loved penetrative love-making, being the penetrator, not necessarily the penetratee. (Several years down the road, I've discovered the joy of both positions.) I'm a weird cross between butch and high femme with very dominant tendencies.


It came down to three choices. Live unhappily as a man and cross-dress in secret and live a life of quiet desperation. Or get complete SRS surgery and hormones, become a lesbian when I grew up, and then do strap on sex for the rest of my life. Which didn't sound really enjoyable to me. Especially when I spoke to some of my lesbian role models who told me that they frequently wished they had a "real cock" to use with their girlfriends and sweethearts. The final choice was top surgery, light hormones (I was genetically fortunate in that I required little body work to become more feminine.) and searching for a woman who would accept me as I am. I took the third option and it has been difficult. IF I would have been attracted to males and willing to embrace the whole "shemale surprise/drag queen with implants" persona, I would have maybe not spent as much time alone. Or I could have gone all the way surgically and then dealt with strap-on sex, which can be wonderful but is frequently unsatisfying. It has taken years before I found a girl who loves and wants all of me. We are very new in our relationship but at this point, I have to tell you, she was well worth the wait.

So I guess in answer to Jason's question, for some of us, it's really NOT about the cock. I think I have a combination of several things going on with me: a strong enough feminine sense of myself that my penis doesn't bother me and an inner butch that enjoys the ability to express hymself, and a confident, sexy woman who doesn't have issues with her penis.

Aside from the whole "let's treat transpersons as sexual oddities and fetish objects" thing, I think my lack of penicular identity is part of what makes me lose patience with some of these guys who are obsessing over us. I don't obsess about my cock. It's there, and I use when I want to and ignore it when I don't. It's actually a small part of my sexual identity and it bugs me that some guys view it as one half of my sexual identity. Some men seem to concentrate on a transsexual's tits and cock much in the way they concentrate a womans tit's and ass. My penis is a sexual tool (or toy) if you will. Sometimes I use it, sometimes I don't.

Oh and jason, the fantasy of an FTM male? My girl has those. Post op and pre op and all inbetween.

 

[Bredon]

gargouille--

I took the third option and it has been difficult. IF I would have been attracted to males and willing to embrace the whole "shemale surprise/drag queen with implants" persona, I would have maybe not spent as much time alone. Or I could have gone all the way surgically and then dealt with strap-on sex, which can be wonderful but is frequently unsatisfying. It has taken years before I found a girl who loves and wants all of me. We are very new in our relationship but at this point, I have to tell you, she was well worth the wait.

I have taken that same option but the other way around, and yes, it's not easy.
I haven't started hormones so far because I'm afraid that I have to do the surgery then (which I don't want), because of health issues. I'm gald tohear that you have found your girl.

Bredon

 

[bigcolors]

Orgasms

While watching a Discovery Health program about M to F and F to M, I was left with a few questions...they said after the final surgery (M to F) that you can still feel orgasm...does it feel like the same orgasm that was had as a male or does it now feel like a female orgasm????
And another thing they didn't mention is with a F to M transition what is the final transition for them???? What is below the waist now????

 

[naughtyinsilk]

I have dated a post op MTF transexual in the past, and have got a number of friends who are MTF transexuals. The one thing that they all have in common is that they have all ended up in relationships post op with other women.
This is normally down to the way they were treated by men prior to having the surgery.

I dislkike the freakshow element that most men have in their minds when it comes to transexuals, people who think that they are sex toys, rather than people with feelings, needs and desires.

My transexual ex lover is still after all these years my best friend, I never treated her any different to any other girlfriend, and loved her for who she was.
If I was single again, I would certainly have no problem dating another transexual but that would be on the basis that she is a woman. Once people have had there surgery, they are either a guy or a girl, in my opinion a transexual is somebody who is trying to discover their identity and going through the necessary but soul and mind wrenching process to correct natures mistake. Once they have achieved their desired sex, they are a part of that sex for the rest of their life.

I believe and I would hope that most intelligent, caring people agree with me that transexuals whether MTF or FTM deserve bucket loads of respect and love, they are just girls and boys like the rest of us, who want love cuddles and someone special to spend the rest of their lives with.

Anyone here who wants to talk in confidence about this subject is always welcome to PM or MSN me.

 

[Tymeless]

that is very well posted naughty!

 

[naughtyinsilk]

that is very well posted naughty!

I can only talk from experience, but hopefully in a non macho, and intelligent way.

I just wish people would treat others the same way they would like to be treated.

Alas there are some people out there, who's brains have sufocated from having their heads stuck so far up there own asses.

 

[Tymeless]

I can only talk from experience, but hopefully in a non macho, and intelligent way.

I just wish people would treat others the same way they would like to be treated.

Alas there are some people out there, who's brains have sufocated from having their heads stuck so far up there own asses.

LOL!!!!

 

[BedtimeStories77]

Okay, I see this is an old thread that is still active... For those of you who jump from board to board at times, there is a thread in the Playground called "Shemale Junky". It has great support and frequent visitors from both men and women, myself being one of them. It also has many beautiful pictures in it.

I prefer shemales, beautiful women with nice tits on them and a delicious cock.

 

[Nimbikarana]

When I ran our group in Australia...

Can I ask for more info? Does the group still exist, and in what town?

 

[YoungMNGuy]

transexuals disturb me. not the people, but the idea. i just can't wrap my brain around the whole concept. it makes no sense to me.

but it's their lives. they can do as they please.

Same here, not to be disrespectful but I consider myself pretty open sexually and accepting, but that's one thing I don't think I'll ever be able to understand.

 

[Gi_Venus]

I have dated a post op MTF transexual in the past, and have got a number of friends who are MTF transexuals. The one thing that they all have in common is that they have all ended up in relationships post op with other women.
This is normally down to the way they were treated by men prior to having the surgery.

I dislkike the freakshow element that most men have in their minds when it comes to transexuals, people who think that they are sex toys, rather than people with feelings, needs and desires.

My transexual ex lover is still after all these years my best friend, I never treated her any different to any other girlfriend, and loved her for who she was.
If I was single again, I would certainly have no problem dating another transexual but that would be on the basis that she is a woman. Once people have had there surgery, they are either a guy or a girl, in my opinion a transexual is somebody who is trying to discover their identity and going through the necessary but soul and mind wrenching process to correct natures mistake. Once they have achieved their desired sex, they are a part of that sex for the rest of their life.

I believe and I would hope that most intelligent, caring people agree with me that transexuals whether MTF or FTM deserve bucket loads of respect and love, they are just girls and boys like the rest of us, who want love cuddles and someone special to spend the rest of their lives with.

Anyone here who wants to talk in confidence about this subject is always welcome to PM or MSN me.

Smile I liked you before I read this post.....now I love you

Gianna

 

[naughtyinsilk]

Smile I liked you before I read this post.....now I love you

Gianna

*blush*

I love you too honey