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[meandwife82]

Cramping during G-Spot Massage?

Help! My wife and I have been trying this technique and although she says that it feels good, and her reactions definitely back it up, it never quite results in an orgasm. The experiences have always been good, but usually are just part of the journey to a good evening of love making and multiple "clitoral" orgasms. However, Saturday while I was massaging her g-spot and holding a bullet style vibe on her clit, she began to experience a sharp pain in her side, just above her hip bone. Needless to say this put an immediate stop to everything! This pain continued in what she described as similar to menstrual cramps though the day Sunday, at varying intervals. She said that they were not a contracting feel, but more of a cramp. This has us both a bit worried of trying this again. We have been massaging her g-spot regularly for the past 6 months or so with no ill effects, until now. Has anyone had this happen to them?

 

[LivelyLilly]

Help! My wife and I have been trying this technique and although she says that it feels good, and her reactions definitely back it up, it never quite results in an orgasm. The experiences have always been good, but usually are just part of the journey to a good evening of love making and multiple "clitoral" orgasms. However, Saturday while I was massaging her g-spot and holding a bullet style vibe on her clit, she began to experience a sharp pain in her side, just above her hip bone. Needless to say this put an immediate stop to everything! This pain continued in what she described as similar to menstrual cramps though the day Sunday, at varying intervals. She said that they were not a contracting feel, but more of a cramp. This has us both a bit worried of trying this again. We have been massaging her g-spot regularly for the past 6 months or so with no ill effects, until now. Has anyone had this happen to them?

I believe that when the uterus is involved that there is some sort of cramping feel; this is what happened to me the last time I tried it. I also feel the same way as your wife; however, the contraction/cramp was more localized in the vaginal area, not above my hip bone. Perhaps, the neural pathway that was stimulated in your wife involved more of her abdomen. I also experienced light "menstrual-like" cramps the following day, which also subsided. Did you do anything differently the last time? Perhaps, this holds the clue. Even though she didn't experience ill effects previously, she may want to ask her doctor about the cramping. I had an experience once where g-spot play triggered an earlier-than-expected menstrual cycle; maybe this is what happened in this case. She may want to monitor her responses to g-spot play during varying times of her cycle. All the best, Lilly

 

[LivelyLilly]

On the Path Towards G-Spot Orgasm

Hey guys, thanks for your encouragement. I have now gotten to the point where my g-spot is quivering. If memory serves me correctly, if I keep going, then I should be able to obtain a g-spot orgasm. It kept feeling really good, and then I gave up due to time constraints. Apparently, this is the sequence of steps with my closest girlfriend. Any hints to expedite this process, lol?

 

[Mr.G]

Re:

A few questions below and answers as best I can.

How long do you have to keep the wine in?? or how long before the body wants the wine out? A wine enema???? I had read this was dangerous???

The wine can come out soon after. The alcohol is absorbed quickly. I made a point of describing the absorption as much more efficient and direct than via the stomach and the digestive breakdown of the sugars etc. That obviously does NOT happen when it is introduced directly into the intestines. THAT is why you have to be very careful how much goes in. Experiment with VERY slight amounts perhaps to gauge HER reaction, speed and degree of intoxication. What could make a person sick and or VERY drunk if ingested could kill them if introduced through the rectum so use some commons sense. If she gets hammered with 3 or 4 glasses of wine try half that initially. DON'T USE hard liquor. That could damage the mucous walls and kill too many of the helpful friendly bugs we have living in there to help with digestion.

She said that they were not a contracting feel, but more of a cramp.

Perhaps a visit to her gyn would be advisable. Unless you were being extremely rigorous in your poking/rubbing it shouldn't result in an ongoing cramp. The cramp could be nothing but a reaction to her position on the bed or it could indicate something more serious - neither of which we could diagnose via this thread.

Any hints to expedite this process, lol?

Nope. Not really. Keep trying but don't focus on that if it's not happening. Mix it in with other stuff, keep her horny, give her G a little tickle whenever she is orgasming on your tongue!! That way the body will associate the two and hopefully, one day soon, trigger it all by itself.

I wish all women could orgasm almost immediately from this technique but some can't and I don't have the answer to that. Many couples play and it just happens. Others play and it doesn't happen. Of course some women can orgasm from having their ear lobe sucked and others need an industrial vibrator working their clit for 2 hours. Some have blue eyes and others have brown. Some big titties and others not so big. WALLOW in the differences. Learn as best you can what she loves you to do. Play with her BRAIN as much as her body. If you are together for awhile the TWO will merge and that is when you truly launch the moonrockets - when you are doing physically what she has fantasized about you doing in real life. It takes time sometimes so just enjoy learning and hopefully you WILL reach your EUREEEKA moment!!

 

[LivelyLilly]

The Quest for the G-Spot Orgasm Continues

Thanks, Mr. G, for your speedy feedback and encouragement; it is appreciated. As a results-oriented individual, it would be my preference for me to achieve a g-gasm on my first try. Having said that, as it did not happen, I did read some of your posts in which you described "teasing it out".

Of course, you're right; that most of the fun is in the journey and not in the destination perse. I tried it again tonight (persistent little devil, am I) by placing a "dolphinger", or "finger shaped gel dolphin" toy on my finger and inserting my finger in my vagina. I made sure to press the "dolphin" or gel-coated bullet against my g-spot while rubbing my clitoris with my other hand.

I got to the point where my g-spot felt really great and subsequently had an amazing lengthy clitoral orgasm where my contractions went on for at least twice as long as usual. These contractions felt more like the push up ones rather than the push out ones, so I'm assuming that I achieved a clitoral orgasm and not a blended orgasm. One of my girlfriends who has blended clitoral and vaginal orgasms calls them "brutal". I wish I could come like her; I'd like to be brutalized now and then, lol!

I just wanted you to know that I've utilized Psyche's advice as well as your advice, to relax and enjoy the moment and not concentrate so intensely, and things are moving in the right direction.

Keep up the good work, Lilly

 

[ValleyO]

Could someone please make a video?

 

[LivelyLilly]

Hey, doesn't anyone have some valuable feedback to post or is everyone busy with their taxes? Looking forward to perspectives, viewpoints, and opinions, lol!

 

[LivelyLilly]

Hey ValleyO:

What elements would you find most helpful in a video? Please provide the details and there may be some you tube videos that may fit the bill.

Lilly

 

[ValleyO]

How many of you would buy a video of 'the Technique?'

Or would you prefer to buy a book?

Or both?

 

[LivelyLilly]

Hey Mr. G:

I think you have a business proposition, lol!

Lilly

 

[Mr.G]

... workin on it.

SCratching beard ... ok a 3 day growth ... not really a BEARD - yet.

I've bin working on this on and off for a few years now. I have some "fans" who are pressuring me (in a nice way) to get on with it. There are some ewetoob vids out there and one or two excellent ones but a book would just add some fuel to the fire. So many people do NOT know anything about this. So many people have tried once and nothing happened and they gave up. On the other hand many people have tried this and discovered how wonderful it can be for a couple. A book even if it didn't sell all that well would add a few couples to the later category and then they could pass it on to their friends and parents and eventually many many more would be enjoying this.

Once again I'd like to point out that this technique in all its variations will ADD to your fun and pleasure quotient. It can be a "just G-Gasms" thing but if you add it to all the other stuff you do to give her pleasure then it just raises the pleasure through the stratosphere. If you JUST do this it can seem like a bit of an experiment or mlab work sometimes so make sure the EMOTIONALISM is there - always because in the end that is what she'll feel after the waves of orgasms have subsided. Those are the feelings that will make her feel like she is the most beautiful, horniest, best loved woman on the planet and that is when her partner will feel the same.

ok ... back to work here .... tap tap tap

 

[eldeseomepuede]

Absolut Success

Hi guys, just to tell you that I had amazing results with "the technic".
1sr time she told me something like " You are an expert".
She confess that that one night (I only put my thumb in her G Spot and rub a lot) she felt like I turned on a switch (forever).
On other encounters I start to explain her about that feeling "like peeing". and after a few months she gave me 30 O in a single night. We were in a hotel, with 2 beds, and we left one of them totally soaked. She can't believe it. The more she drinks (water) more easy she came.
I have one year doing it and I think it's a gift for everyone involved.
For the girls is a new experience, way beyond the limits of known pleasure and a strong emotional experience. (She said she is different now).
For us (the boys), It's like "well, I made her really happy and asking for more, and I can do that". As I explain her, girls can get the confirmation of her giving pleasure with our ejaculation. Now, I can get the same feeling with her. It's amazing.
The power of the moment it's phenomenal.

And her fluid is full of energy... If you are sensitive to the energy of elements, try to rest over a soaked bed. It's powerful. really.

Thanks to the forum, and Mr. G.

PS: Sorry , English it's not my language.

 

[newideas]

Any one run iinto the problem of an impatient lover that just loves the cock. She just gets off on me but I tell her I think we should try this longer because of the testimonials.

 

[josephanthony69]

Lilly - soo good to see this thread kept alive!! one of the greatest i have ever read/tried!!

Hey, doesn't anyone have some valuable feedback to post or is everyone busy with their taxes? Looking forward to perspectives, viewpoints, and opinions, lol!

 

[Cattypuss]

she felt like I turned on a switch (forever)..

Yep, that was my experince too, and in fact I used the exact same expression.

The man who first did this to me has unleashed a monster permanently lol.

 

[LivelyLilly]

I would like my monster unleashed. I now get a-m-a-z-i-n-g clitoral orgasms now because of g-spot stimulation, I get ass-gasms, I squirt, I get nice soft fuzzy vibrations internally, but no switch has been turned on.

Cattypuss and Eldeseomepuede, any hints, as to what worked in your specific situations?

Thanks, Josephanthony69 for your wonderful words. Hopefully, in my next post, it will not just be the thread that is being kept alive, but my g-gasms. I promise to report back as new sensations are being experienced. I, too, enjoy this thread immensely.

Lilly

 

[Mr.G]

Yup!

" Like a switch was flicked on ..." and "Before this sex / making love was ALL about him. Now it's about me (too) and I can't get enough. It's like I'm addicted."

I SOOO wish I could flip everybody's switch or that those switches would always flip to the ON position when they are with their partners. It obviously doesn't happen all the time or with everybody. It does seem to increase vaginal sensitivity and make vag orgasms as well as anal orgasms (for you pervs outs there) MUCH easier / faster to achieve and usually MUCH more intense when they do happen.

You have to enjoy ALL the sensations, the increased awareness of your body and all it's reactions and at different times in different situations - variety being one HOT spice!! Hopefully the switch WILL flip ON and soon but if it isn't it still sounds like your sex life has improved and your self confidence in these matters sexual have improved.

Ya. I have.

Any one run iinto the problem of an impatient lover that just loves the cock.

Don't forget that some women are hugely turned on by YOUR reaction. That isn't to suggest they don't get off on their own but they have learned and trained their bods to react - orgasm even - just when you do. Knowing that it is easy to understand her concentration on you getting off. You MAY find however as some of the other ladies have suggested that once she is shown how this technique works and the almost unlimited number of orgasms SHE can have then it will be about HER too.

Talk to he too. Many guys are aware that some women will do just about anything to get him off but that is so it STOPS. She is not enjoying it and knows as soon as you come it is over for her. The object here is to determine she is getting off on you getting off and not just wanting you to cum so she can go to sleep. If it is the later you need to do a LOT more work to achieve the level of satisfaction you need to make her happy. If she is simply getting off on you then keep working on the Technique. Don't concentrate on it and don't make it a "requirement" for her pleasure. Adapt. Work it into your routine. Perhaps the best way for that is start playing with the G while you're munching her. We (I) have sometimes forgotten to do this or avoided doing both at the same time because a lover is particularly active and you fear her breaking your nose as she begins to G-Gasms while your nose is still within a foot of her pubic bone.

Thank you ALL again for sharing and keeping this thread not just alive but an invaluable source for so many couples wishing to improve their love lives. Throughout this thread so many of us have rooted like giddy cheer-leaders for those still hoping to achieve Girvana. Passing on hints and advice and even tolerating the occasional retard who shows up here not understanding what this thread is really all about.
Be well. Stay safe, my friends.

 

[LivelyLilly]

Mr. G: I appreciate your wonderful words of wisdom. I only wish that some of the other members would be as diligent as you in replying to the questions put to them, besides sharing their own stories.

 

[Cattypuss]

I would like my monster unleashed. I now get a-m-a-z-i-n-g clitoral orgasms now because of g-spot stimulation, I get ass-gasms, I squirt, I get nice soft fuzzy vibrations internally, but no switch has been turned on.

Cattypuss and Eldeseomepuede, any hints, as to what worked in your specific situations?

Lilly

To be honest I've always just tended to lie back and let him do his thing. And he is sensitive to my reactions and I guess he modifies what he does accordingly. It all just came very naturally to be honest. I just lie back with my legs apart and he does whatever it is he does with his fingers/cock.

Not something I've done, but have you thought of maybe getting a g-spot vibe or g-spot dildo so you can experiment yourself?

 

[LivelyLilly]

Thanks for the suggestion. I've tried a g-spot vibe, but not the glass curved dildo, but it seems to slip past the spot, and I always have to move it back into place. Also, my g-spot doesn't feel as strongly stimulated as when my man does it. How does the build-up feel for you? I get very hot and quivery, and it's pleasant, but that's about it. My uterus doesn't rhythmically contract; I just feel an urge to bear down and then I squirt. It's all so civilized and not wild at all, so I'm thinking maybe my legs aren't spread wide enough. Feedback?

 

[Cattypuss]

Thanks for the suggestion. I've tried a g-spot vibe, but not the glass curved dildo, but it seems to slip past the spot, and I always have to move it back into place. Also, my g-spot doesn't feel as strongly stimulated as when my man does it. How does the build-up feel for you? I get very hot and quivery, and it's pleasant, but that's about it. My uterus doesn't rhythmically contract; I just feel an urge to bear down and then I squirt. It's all so civilized and not wild at all, so I'm thinking maybe my legs aren't spread wide enough. Feedback?

I'd say it feels pretty much as you described except when I do squirt it feels incredibly intense and orgasmic. I also find these orgasms very physically tiring (something I tend only to notice afterwards though!)

 

[LivelyLilly]

Thanks Cattypuss: I originally heard that sometimes people squirt after or during orgasm, but then I read this post and some people squirt before they orgasm. Maybe I haven't reached the point of no return. How does it feel right before you orgasm? How do you know you are going to orgasm? What kinds of thoughts or concentrating on the sensations do you do to get you past the point of no return? Does your g-spot start to poke out and quiver? I think that I must be stopping short of orgasm (or my orgasms are very weak) and yes, it is very physically tiring--the bearing down and continual squirting. I usually stop when I totally wet the bed. I enjoy the squirting and have been doing kegel exercises all my life, so it would seem that the orgasms that g-spot stimulation results in would be strong, not weak. Any comments or lending of a "helping hand"?

 

[Cattypuss]

I think I've given you all the info I can - I've tried to think of ways to describe how I feel when I'm about to orgasm but the only way I can find to describe it is that I feel like I'm about to orgasm! At that point I don't know what my g-spot is or isn't doing because I'm away in la-la land. I'm not thinking about anything - I don't tend to think about much during sex of any kind - I just tend to relax and go with the flow (no pun intended)

 

[LivelyLilly]

Thanks for your timely and helpful feedback. My problem is that I think too much during sex, lol! When I am alone, I keep stimulating my g-spot and continually squirting. After a while, after about 50 to 70 minutes, it gets repetitive, so I find something else to do. I am waiting for that transcendental moment, but it never comes (pardon the pun).

 

[Cattypuss]

Maybe you should ask Santa for one of these -

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9030