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[LivelyLilly]

OMG! My man didn't stop this time, and I felt deep contractions! It almost felt like having a baby, only way more pleasurable. You guys were right--I stopped when things were getting intense and I was thinking way too much about it. Today. I went with the flow; thanks for the encouragement. Success after two months of wanting to do it!

 

[LivelyLilly]

Because this is all very new for me, do you have any advice on how I can activate the spot again and also, how I can continue for longer? I couldn't take any more after only a couple of minutes. Also, I'd like to try it on myself, but I somehow can't bear the intensity and stop too soon. I look forward to your replies.

 

[Cattypuss]

Activate it again the same way as last time and as for stamina, well you'll just need to build it! Or maybe he should tie you to the bed so you can't escape.

I don't bother trying to give myself g-spot Os - I let him do it. When I'm alone I make do with my clit lol.

 

[LivelyLilly]

Good ideas all, Cattypuss! Yes, I told him not to stop unless I uttered a "safe word". Unfortunately, because my mind was in la-la-land, I couldn't remember the "safe word" and the action continued. Yes, I will have to build up my stamina--it's probably because I'm not used to it. I heard that if the g-spot gets activated enough, mere clitoral stimulation can result in g-spot O's. Your thoughts?

 

[Cattypuss]

Good ideas all, Cattypuss! Yes, I told him not to stop unless I uttered a "safe word". Unfortunately, because my mind was in la-la-land, I couldn't remember the "safe word" and the action continued. Yes, I will have to build up my stamina--it's probably because I'm not used to it. I heard that if the g-spot gets activated enough, mere clitoral stimulation can result in g-spot O's. Your thoughts?

I have had a g-spot O from nipple stimulation!

 

[LivelyLilly]

cool!

 

[Mr.G]

Interesting association. I've had little experience with this and found it fascinating. Men work SOOO hard to make their woman orgasm and even then sometimes it just doesn't happen ... WHEREAS .... when she is super turned on licking an ear lobe, sucking a nipple ... almost ANYTHING can give her an orgasm.

How 'bout some more feedback on this. Ladies. If you are capable of orgasm(s) from stimulation other than clit or vag how do you describe them. Is it mostly clitoral feeling orgasm. GSpot feeling orgasm or deep vag orgasm. The psychology working in tandem with neural physiology would be amazing to MAP and if we could produce a method of doing this .. WOW!! SO many possibilities when the mind (love usually) is in the right place, huh?

 

[borednornyhouse]

Mr G you are so right! The psychology of the brinis an amazing thing!

Although for me I'm not so sure about the 'being in love' notion. My best g-orgasms have been when I care absoloutley zero for the gentleman going the work. i.e - when he is fuck buddy and I simply want him for my pleasure. When i have an emotional attachement I find it harder to just give into it all. Wierd huh? I think the sluttiness of fucking someone just becuase I want a good hard fuck and not because I like him helps turn me on too.

 

[LivelyLilly]

Mr G you are so right! The psychology of the brinis an amazing thing!

Although for me I'm not so sure about the 'being in love' notion. My best g-orgasms have been when I care absoloutley zero for the gentleman going the work. i.e - when he is fuck buddy and I simply want him for my pleasure. When i have an emotional attachement I find it harder to just give into it all. Wierd huh? I think the sluttiness of fucking someone just becuase I want a good hard fuck and not because I like him helps turn me on too.

I guess it means that there are "different strokes for different folks". While I agree that the power of the mind is incredible, I can only have a g-gasm with someone I trust implicitly, explicitly, and everything in between. If I can't trust the other person, I will be unable to surrender, to give up control, and to go with the flow. This is because one is opening up oneself to an incredibly emotional albeit physical experience. It's just not the same with someone with whom I don't have a bond. With respect to having a g-gasm with nipple stimulation, just yesterday, when my nipple was gently tweaked, I felt subtle contractions inside my vagina--more g-spot like rather than clitoral. I think I'm on the way to activation, but not quite there. Any more tips for me besides "practice makes perfect", lol?

 

[Pyewacket]

Hi

I'm really new to this (g-spot and posting on forums) so please forgive mistakes.

I've been thinking about posting but it was the whole thing about love and trust that pushed me in. My partner is an amazing lover but he does not love me (he's also brutally honest). I think I'm like LivelyLilly. After an orgasm I just want/need a connection. We have been playing with having a g-spot orgasm and I think we came close the other day. While I did not squirt - I usually do when he penetrates me from behind while I'm lying flat on my tummy - it was the most intense sensation. He was using his thumb and I could feel his body next to me and he was talking to me.... It was so intimate that it made me well up.

I keep trying to be just a "piece" but after cumming I lose the toughness. Love the intimacy and the act of sex - it would be better for me with love but I'll keep trying without it.

Also - I squirt but don't orgasm - is it just a matter of time? Any advice would be good.

 

[LivelyLilly]

I'm so glad, Pyewacket, that you shared your wonderful thoughts with us. Yes, a connection or bond is key because of the trust factor. Since I trust my man, I am able to let him try anything on me, and thus was able to finally achieve a g-gasm; with a previous lover, I was not. You don't necessarily need to love someone to trust them, but it does improve the experience. If you let that intense sensation build, it results in a g-gasm; at least, that's what happened to me. At first, I couldn't tolerate the intensity so I had to stop before g-gasm, but over time, I went longer and longer, until I crested over. Still, I am amazed by the women who have the stamina to keep on going.

 

[LivelyLilly]

I also meant to say that it is not essential for your partner to love you for you to experience g-gasms, but it improves the experience. With respect to getting g-gasm, you must keep allowing your man to stimulate you. You may feel intense sensations--so intense that you may want to stop--this is precisely the moment to keep on going. You can stop and start if you feel the need, but then your man will need to restimulate you to get you back up to the level which you achieved before, so it's better not to take a break if you can help it. I'm pretty new at this too, so I look forward to the advice that the experts have for us.

 

[Pyewacket]

how long?

I'm hoping to see my partner tomorrow. Would anyone be able to hazard a guess as to how long it might take for me to O via the G - if we work really hard ?

If we only have an hour or two I don't want to lose my self in something that needs a few hours. We will give it a try regardless of time but there are lots of other things to do too. I don't like to rush, I find that with a creative partner 4 - 6 hours can go by and it seem like a moment.

 

[LivelyLilly]

The first time I did it, we spent 4 hours together. Although the steady climb to g-spot orgasm was 45 minutes. I hear some people are able to come in a couple of minutes, so it depends. Everybody is different. Good luck, Lilly.

 

[TheMysticMan]

Wow, can't wait to try this! Too bad I've just seperated from the girl who would LOVE it! But I'm sure I will find someone else as explorational as her sometime.

I've also been finding the whole love-sex discussion very interesting so thanks for posting your thoughts and experience Lilly and co.

 

[LivelyLilly]

Mystic Man: I hope that you do too.

 

[LivelyLilly]

Wow, can't wait to try this! Too bad I've just seperated from the girl who would LOVE it! But I'm sure I will find someone else as explorational as her sometime.

I've also been finding the whole love-sex discussion very interesting so thanks for posting your thoughts and experience Lilly and co.

Thanks Mystic Man. It's very interesting, which only goes to show that the brain is the biggest sex organ, lol! Also, variety is the spice of life, so what works for one may not necessarily work for the other. One should keep on trying and enjoy the path travelled, not only the destination. Sorry if I sound cliched, but this has been my experience, but I'd love to hear everyone's pov. Any takers?

 

[TheMysticMan]

Thanks Mystic Man. It's very interesting, which only goes to show that the brain is the biggest sex organ, lol! Also, variety is the spice of life, so what works for one may not necessarily work for the other. One should keep on trying and enjoy the path travelled, not only the destination. Sorry if I sound cliched, but this has been my experience, but I'd love to hear everyone's pov. Any takers?

Meh, clichés are there for a reason. It's very true.

And I love to see your using the word 'one', I am fully in favour of it's revival in modern dialogue. It can avoid so many offensive missunderstandings.
It pains me when people use it in the wrong context to impersonate a posh English person, e.g. "One would like a scone", just complicates the issue even further.

Haha, anyway, back on topic - I think there is a lot to be said for both sex within love, and loveless sex. They can both be great, just in different ways. I can't decide if I like loveydovey or meaningless slutty sex more. But yeah, if I was a girl I would probably not be able to have an orgasm like that with someone I didn't trust. I'm soooooo jealous of you girls and your orgasms, but I won't start another rant.

 

[LivelyLilly]

Very astute observations, Mystic Man. Okay, I have another question. What is the difference between a vaginal orgasm and a g-spot orgasm? For me there is no difference, but I'm thinking that there are additional spots like the "cul-de-sac"/"A-spot" that have laid deeply untapped within me. Any thoughts?

 

[Mr.G]

It just helps

Some women can naturally orgasm during intercourse. Some of course can't or it happens but it is rare. Those BTW are the MAJORITY. Most women have trouble orgasming from regular intercourse and need either direct clitoral stim or a more directed stimulation of some part of the vag.

Of course a woman should be able to answer this better than I can because she is FEEELING it as it happens however ... as some women - the ones who can and do cum easily from intercourse - build to an orgasm it seems unlikely that they are thinking to themselves "O O O that's my Aspot!!" or similar. It is happening. It's feeling better and better and an orgasm or three is just around the corner.

What I believe the *Technique* provides is a way to train the vag and the G or A spots in particular to become more sensitive to ANYTHING that is stimulating the area. Whether it's a thumb, a toy or her lover's erection, after the technique has been suckcessful and she and her lover have discovered the ability to orgasm over and over again the entire area becomes hyper-sensitive. Oxytocin in produced and the sensitivity lasts until the next round. It seems to build and as it does she just becomes hornier and hornier and her ability to cum arrives much quicker and easier than before.

I'm a huge fan of the GSPOT Technique but once achieved don't forget that even that can get tired if that's ALL you do. Intercourse, fingers, toys ... everything your imagination can cum up with. Positions, foods, lighting, water anything to enhance and
make things different and new. Explore and savor each and every moment. Give - take and share. I'm still researching this and is only ONE observation of how I've seen ladies react - immediately and later when it became a common thing. The proper stimulation of the G spot didn't just add the ability to cum until the cows came home (if she couldn't before) what it does is enhance the entire response and because of that orgasms during JUST intercourse seems to happen faster, easier and more intensely.

 

[TheMysticMan]

God, I need to find a woman again, SOON! This is just unbearable!

 

[LivelyLilly]

Mr. G: Your observations are right on the mark. Speaking from experience, I am not one of the women who cums naturally during intercourse, or I would have been doing so for the last 28 years. Having said that, ever since I have been following your post and getting g-spot attention, I have noticed more sensation in that area as well as greatly-improved clitoral orgasms (almost blended-like in feeling). However, as we discussed before what is most important is the mind-set; the woman needs to be open-minded and trust the experience. I bought the g-spot book in 1982, but was satisfied for the past 28 years with multiple clitoral orgasms. Only by talking, reading, and altering my mind-set was I able to experience this previously-untapped ecstacy. It's still new to me, and rather intense...but as they say, I'm going with the flow.

 

[Dr_Love]

Just want to say that this is a fantastic, informative thread and "spot" on from my experience. Thanks for putting it together Mr. G!
I am not a real physician as my name would imply, however I have a decent understanding of the female anatomy. It is hard to believe that the female body and orgasm are still such a mystery for modern science. I have become quite familiar with stimulating a woman's G Spot, however I have been looking into the A Spot theory. I believe that there is something to it as well, but much more experimenting will be necessary.
Another mystery is female ejaculation or squirting. I think I can speak for the vast majority of men out there. We love this and find it to be incredibly erotic! I just want to throw that out there because it seems so many women are embarrassed by this. Don't be. It is hot and a bit of an ego stroke for us men when we can bring you to this state of arousal. Again, much more experimenting will have to take place for me.
Final thoughts. Isn't it interesting that many of you on this thread are experimenting and learning more about the female orgasm than all of our science has been able to. Not only is it interesting, the experimenting is A LOT of fun!!

 

[TheMysticMan]

Just want to say that this is a fantastic, informative thread and "spot" on from my experience. Thanks for putting it together Mr. G!
I am not a real physician as my name would imply, however I have a decent understanding of the female anatomy. It is hard to believe that the female body and orgasm are still such a mystery for modern science. I have become quite familiar with stimulating a woman's G Spot, however I have been looking into the A Spot theory. I believe that there is something to it as well, but much more experimenting will be necessary.
Another mystery is female ejaculation or squirting. I think I can speak for the vast majority of men out there. We love this and find it to be incredibly erotic! I just want to throw that out there because it seems so many women are embarrassed by this. Don't be. It is hot and a bit of an ego stroke for us men when we can bring you to this state of arousal. Again, much more experimenting will have to take place for me.
Final thoughts. Isn't it interesting that many of you on this thread are experimenting and learning more about the female orgasm than all of our science has been able to. Not only is it interesting, the experimenting is A LOT of fun!!

I actually know a doctor named Dr Love. So I wouldn't be too certain. And she specialises in STI's! Haha.

 

[in4more]

We almost always incorporate the g-spot orgasms in our lovemaking sessions. I love to go down on my wife and I'll get her going with a little clit licking and some tongue fucking then slide my fingers in and go directly to her g-spot. It doesn't take long for her to orgasm this way and I especially like when she squirts and comes in my mouth. She doesn't cum in gushers, but I definately get a mouthful of cum when she has a g-spot orgasm.

The other night I used a g-spot vibe on her for the first time just to see if she'd like it. She doesn't masturbate and has never used a vibe before. After I got her ready with some oral, I turned it on on a slow setting and slowly slid it in. As she adjusted to it and I started moving it in and out as I licked her clit, she became more aroused and I started making the curved end hit her g-spot. I alternated holding it there and moving it in and out and she just closed her eyes and enjoyed the sensations. I could tell she was about to come so I continued licking her clit and she had her first g-spot orgasm of ther session and rewarded my mouth with her sweet cum. Instead of me stopping, I continued to slowly move the vibe in and out and within about a minuite, she was having another one. This continued for a few more times and she said she couldn't take it anymore, so I pulled the vibe out and went down on her untill she came again.

The best part about all of this was as after she climbed on top and we began to have sex, she continued to have "mini g-spot orgasms" every couple of minuites as she fucked me. She was dripping wet like a faucet and I could feel her cum running down between my legs. After a few minuites, she said she couldn't keep going, so I rolled her over and continued to fuck her and she continued to have several orgasms. She usually doesn't orgasm from just fucking, so this was really hot.

The point of all of this is that if you take the time to help your partner reach a g-spot orgasm or two before you begin to fuck, not only will it be easier for her to have multiple orgasms and even maybe orgasm from fucking if she usually doesn't, the whole experience will be more pleasurable for your both. Hope this helps some of you.