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LivelyLilly
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Hey in4more: Thanks for sharing. That sounds like good advice. I have tried it, and while my intercourse orgasms are not g-spot, I certainly can see the possibilities. Do any of you have other thoughts to share on this topic?
Mr.G
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Oxytocin
I wonder if they've done a study on multiple massive GSpot orgasms and related it to people NOT wanting to engage in war-like behavior. I mean how many people who have just experienced giving a lover or having a lover give them 20 - 50 - 70 orgasms want to immediately jump up, grab a gun and start shooting folk. Naw. I didn't think so.
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Love Hormone Could Also Lead to War
By Jeremy Hsu, LiveScience Senior Writer
posted: 10 June 2010 02:02 pm
http://www.livescience.com/culture/love-hormone-also-leads-to-war-100610.html
The so-called love hormone, oxytocin, may spur both self-sacrifice and defensive aggression among warriors.
A brain hormone that fosters fuzzy feelings between mothers and children may also goad soldiers to launch preemptive strikes in defense of their comrades, according to new research.
Oxytocin has received much attention for boosting social bonding and cooperation, but it also appears to trigger defensive aggression against outsiders who might threaten an individual's social group, psychologists say. That indicates the hormone has a much more complex role in social dynamics than just encouraging humans to make love and not war.
"Our study shows that oxytocin not only plays a role in modulating cooperation and benevolence, but also in driving aggression," said Carsten De Dreu, a social psychologist at the University of Amsterdam in the Netherlands.
De Dreu took special interest in parochial altruism, in which people self-sacrifice for the sake of their group or defensively hurt competing groups. He and his colleagues have now fingered oxytocin as a likely neurobiological mechanism that drives how humans regulate intergroup conflict.Some animal studies had shown that oxytocin encourages protectionist behavior, but this marks the first study to illustrate a similar effect in humans. De Dreu and his colleagues had reasoned that this "dark side" of cooperation makes sense from an adaptive, evolutionary perspective of competing groups.
"We were interested in seeing where oxytocin's 'niceness' breaks down," De Dreu told LiveScience.
Fearing the worst
To study the dark side of oxytocin, the Dutch researchers ran three experiments based on financial games that represented variations on the classic prisoner's dilemma scenario. The games pitted self-interest against the overall interest of each three-person group, and also added the possibility of hurting a competing three-person group. Individuals could either keep a certain sum of money or put it into a group pool in which the individual got less but the whole group benefited more.
Male volunteers who took a whiff of oxytocin through a nasal spray tended to act more in the interests of the group (sharing their money) rather than selfishly, unsurprisingly. They also tended to make choices that benefited their group but did not hurt outsiders during the first experiment.
The second experiment showed that oxytocin affected people regardless of their natural tendencies to cooperate.
But the real twist came during the third experiment involving 79 males, who took either oxytocin or a placebo. Rather than having a certain amount of money to spend, the group decision-makers simply chose whether to cooperate or not cooperate with an outsider group.
That choice led to four possible outcomes, depending on what the outsider group also chose. The two groups received a moderate reward if they both cooperated and a lesser reward if they both chose to not cooperate. But if an outsider group chose to not cooperate, the in-group was better off also not cooperating. Cooperating with outsiders who had chosen not to cooperate led to the worst-case scenario.
Decision-makers under the influence of oxytocin acted protectively by not cooperating with an opposing group, as researchers had predicted. Such noncooperation in the third experiment was considered a preemptive strike or defensive aggression, because the group acted to protect itself against possible harm from the outsiders.
The third experiment also showed that oxytocin encouraged defensive aggression against outsider groups when there was greater fear of such groups, De Dreu explained. Researchers manipulated the fear factor by increasing the financial hurt that outsiders could inflict upon a group.
Similarly, the third experiment also tested the greed factor by giving the in-group more rewards if it acted competitively against outsiders. But the results showed that oxytocin did not encourage such offensive aggression, in which a group would "hurt" another group without having been provoked, aimed only at winning more rewards.
Not all love and peace
Researchers cautioned that the findings only apply to males so far, given that no females participated in the experiments. But the results may have relevance to understanding male-dominated conflicts, ranging from prehistoric hunter-gatherer skirmishes to .
"The most important practical implication is that we should stop treating oxytocin as a panacea for distrust and conflict," De Dreu pointed out.
In other words, giving oxytocin to everyone in the world won't necessarily usher in a new era of peace and prosperity. It might even spur more paranoia and conflict between different groups or nations.
"Giving soldiers oxytocin might make them more cooperative towards their comrades, even willing to self-sacrifice," De Dreu said. "But it should [also] make them more likely to launch a preemptive strike against the competing army, with conflict-escalation being the most likely consequence."
Next up, De Dreu and his colleagues have begun studying whether oxytocin enhances motivations to protect the group, protect the individual within the group, or more broadly to protect the weak and vulnerable.
The study will be published in the June 10 issue of the journal Science.
I wonder if they've done a study on multiple massive GSpot orgasms and related it to people NOT wanting to engage in war-like behavior. I mean how many people who have just experienced giving a lover or having a lover give them 20 - 50 - 70 orgasms want to immediately jump up, grab a gun and start shooting folk. Naw. I didn't think so.
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Love Hormone Could Also Lead to War
By Jeremy Hsu, LiveScience Senior Writer
posted: 10 June 2010 02:02 pm
http://www.livescience.com/culture/love-hormone-also-leads-to-war-100610.html
The so-called love hormone, oxytocin, may spur both self-sacrifice and defensive aggression among warriors.
A brain hormone that fosters fuzzy feelings between mothers and children may also goad soldiers to launch preemptive strikes in defense of their comrades, according to new research.
Oxytocin has received much attention for boosting social bonding and cooperation, but it also appears to trigger defensive aggression against outsiders who might threaten an individual's social group, psychologists say. That indicates the hormone has a much more complex role in social dynamics than just encouraging humans to make love and not war.
"Our study shows that oxytocin not only plays a role in modulating cooperation and benevolence, but also in driving aggression," said Carsten De Dreu, a social psychologist at the University of Amsterdam in the Netherlands.
De Dreu took special interest in parochial altruism, in which people self-sacrifice for the sake of their group or defensively hurt competing groups. He and his colleagues have now fingered oxytocin as a likely neurobiological mechanism that drives how humans regulate intergroup conflict.Some animal studies had shown that oxytocin encourages protectionist behavior, but this marks the first study to illustrate a similar effect in humans. De Dreu and his colleagues had reasoned that this "dark side" of cooperation makes sense from an adaptive, evolutionary perspective of competing groups.
"We were interested in seeing where oxytocin's 'niceness' breaks down," De Dreu told LiveScience.
Fearing the worst
To study the dark side of oxytocin, the Dutch researchers ran three experiments based on financial games that represented variations on the classic prisoner's dilemma scenario. The games pitted self-interest against the overall interest of each three-person group, and also added the possibility of hurting a competing three-person group. Individuals could either keep a certain sum of money or put it into a group pool in which the individual got less but the whole group benefited more.
Male volunteers who took a whiff of oxytocin through a nasal spray tended to act more in the interests of the group (sharing their money) rather than selfishly, unsurprisingly. They also tended to make choices that benefited their group but did not hurt outsiders during the first experiment.
The second experiment showed that oxytocin affected people regardless of their natural tendencies to cooperate.
But the real twist came during the third experiment involving 79 males, who took either oxytocin or a placebo. Rather than having a certain amount of money to spend, the group decision-makers simply chose whether to cooperate or not cooperate with an outsider group.
That choice led to four possible outcomes, depending on what the outsider group also chose. The two groups received a moderate reward if they both cooperated and a lesser reward if they both chose to not cooperate. But if an outsider group chose to not cooperate, the in-group was better off also not cooperating. Cooperating with outsiders who had chosen not to cooperate led to the worst-case scenario.
Decision-makers under the influence of oxytocin acted protectively by not cooperating with an opposing group, as researchers had predicted. Such noncooperation in the third experiment was considered a preemptive strike or defensive aggression, because the group acted to protect itself against possible harm from the outsiders.
The third experiment also showed that oxytocin encouraged defensive aggression against outsider groups when there was greater fear of such groups, De Dreu explained. Researchers manipulated the fear factor by increasing the financial hurt that outsiders could inflict upon a group.
Similarly, the third experiment also tested the greed factor by giving the in-group more rewards if it acted competitively against outsiders. But the results showed that oxytocin did not encourage such offensive aggression, in which a group would "hurt" another group without having been provoked, aimed only at winning more rewards.
Not all love and peace
Researchers cautioned that the findings only apply to males so far, given that no females participated in the experiments. But the results may have relevance to understanding male-dominated conflicts, ranging from prehistoric hunter-gatherer skirmishes to .
"The most important practical implication is that we should stop treating oxytocin as a panacea for distrust and conflict," De Dreu pointed out.
In other words, giving oxytocin to everyone in the world won't necessarily usher in a new era of peace and prosperity. It might even spur more paranoia and conflict between different groups or nations.
"Giving soldiers oxytocin might make them more cooperative towards their comrades, even willing to self-sacrifice," De Dreu said. "But it should [also] make them more likely to launch a preemptive strike against the competing army, with conflict-escalation being the most likely consequence."
Next up, De Dreu and his colleagues have begun studying whether oxytocin enhances motivations to protect the group, protect the individual within the group, or more broadly to protect the weak and vulnerable.
The study will be published in the June 10 issue of the journal Science.
there seems to be a question about whether the g-spot exists or not - maybe there's a difference between purely clitoral orgasm and more all-encompassing vaginal orgasm?
in4more
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Well, there's no question my wife squirts when I stimulate her where the g-spot is supposed to exist so I'd say that there is confirmation that it does exist. It's definately a different type of orgasm.
I think there's a trust issue and that some women need to relax and let go to enjoy the feelings and experience something different that they may be used to. It took a while to get my wife to relax enough and enjoy the sensations, but now that she knows the payoff, she loves being aroused to the point where she comes so hard from a g-spot orgasm. I sometimes have to get her to let me continue so she can have multiples, but the sex is so much better when she continues to climax multiple times as we actually have intercourse that I love doing it. And I also love the fact that she actually squirts in my mouth as I go down while I stimulate her g-spot and clitoris as she comes.
And it doesn't hurt your confidence level as a man to know you're giving your partner so much pleasure.
I'm enjoying the journey
My partner and I continue to try for the G-gasm but no luck yet. Has anyone found that it helps for the woman to come first? I didn't come the other day and as he stimulated my spot, with his thumb, (between sensations) I wondered if me coming first would have helped.
I think we are both excited at the prospect but as I squirt buckets without an orgasm when he hits my g-spot from behind with his penis (no O necessary for that) I love our sex life now. As ever I'll take tips, tricks, etc. I love my partner's willingness to try to give me this and the trying, oh the trying...
I can't believe at our age we might find a whole new country!
My partner and I continue to try for the G-gasm but no luck yet. Has anyone found that it helps for the woman to come first? I didn't come the other day and as he stimulated my spot, with his thumb, (between sensations) I wondered if me coming first would have helped.
I think we are both excited at the prospect but as I squirt buckets without an orgasm when he hits my g-spot from behind with his penis (no O necessary for that) I love our sex life now. As ever I'll take tips, tricks, etc. I love my partner's willingness to try to give me this and the trying, oh the trying...
I can't believe at our age we might find a whole new country!
LivelyLilly
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Yes, Pyewacket. You are exactly correct. It helps to have one or two clitoral orgasms first so that the arousal level is higher by the time you are ready to try for a G-gasm. Also, the G-spot responds well to firm pressure, which is more pleasurable once you are aroused. Prior to that, firm pressure on the G-spot might be a little too rough and the G-spot and surrounding area might be more sensitive. If it is too sensitive, then you may feel like stopping short of G-gasm. I also can squirt buckets without having a G-gasm, so the two events are not necessarily simultaneous; at least not in my experience, anyways. Good luck and keep on trying, Lilly
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A little "bump" goes a long way
Just bringing this thread back up to page one.
Newbies, got to first page and discover what you've been missing.
Just bringing this thread back up to page one.
Newbies, got to first page and discover what you've been missing.
titaniumcream
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It's so funny how different women can be with this. Physically... some have a tiny G-spot, much thinner and sometimes hard to feel the exact location from the rest of her folds and flesh in there. Others, just meaty and thick G-spot. And obviously you have to adjust respectively between the two. Chances are you have to start out gentler and easier on the ones with thin and "seemingly more fragile" patches of flesh. While usually you have to start out with a little more force with those who possess a thicker, meatier G-spot. Either way... it is just delightful! 
And no offense to any of the women that have a hard time achieving this... but I'm glad that each and every one that I've been with go NUTS for this technique. I will say that I taught myself this technique before this thread's existence. But I've thoroughly enjoyed seeing someone put it all down in words, as well as all the comments and variations that have been posted.
I must add, though... and I can't remember if this has been posted here in this thread since I don't want to re-read the entire thing years later... but I've found that it really does make a difference, and REALLY helps to have strong hands. The action that is needed, and screamed for!!, requires some power over time from your finger and hand muscles. So guys... make sure you do some hand strengthening if you're having a problem giving her your all. As you may or may not already know, women usually REALLY rely on you maintaining your rythm until they're done. So getting fatigued and slowly or GOD FORBID stopping before you're allowed to... well... it can truly mean the difference between you being a hero and a zero. Ladies... back me up on this!
And lastly... I've found no greater joy in life than to have a beautifully, blabbering and gushing woman say to me, "Holy fuck.... ::: pant... pant... pant :::... What the fuck did you do to me??" ...right before I perform the "mystery" again.
Damn. I'm getting worked up just writing this!
And no offense to any of the women that have a hard time achieving this... but I'm glad that each and every one that I've been with go NUTS for this technique. I will say that I taught myself this technique before this thread's existence. But I've thoroughly enjoyed seeing someone put it all down in words, as well as all the comments and variations that have been posted.
I must add, though... and I can't remember if this has been posted here in this thread since I don't want to re-read the entire thing years later... but I've found that it really does make a difference, and REALLY helps to have strong hands. The action that is needed, and screamed for!!, requires some power over time from your finger and hand muscles. So guys... make sure you do some hand strengthening if you're having a problem giving her your all.
As you may or may not already know, women usually REALLY rely on you maintaining your rythm until they're done. So getting fatigued and slowly or GOD FORBID stopping before you're allowed to... well... it can truly mean the difference between you being a hero and a zero. Ladies... back me up on this! And lastly... I've found no greater joy in life than to have a beautifully, blabbering and gushing woman say to me, "Holy fuck.... ::: pant... pant... pant :::... What the fuck did you do to me??"
...right before I perform the "mystery" again. Damn. I'm getting worked up just writing this!
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Jut popping back to share some info with my fellow voluminous squirters.
I have been looking for a long time for something to protect the mattress that isn't ridiculously expensive and isn't really unsexy, and that IS machine washable and tumble-dryable.
Finally, after a lot of money spent on things that claimed to be totally waterproof but in fact were not (I squirt a LOT in a session), I have found the perfect thing - we like it so much that my man is getting one to keep at his house too.
http://www.hippychick.com/index.cfm...duct_id/145/subject/mattress_protector_double
I have been looking for a long time for something to protect the mattress that isn't ridiculously expensive and isn't really unsexy, and that IS machine washable and tumble-dryable.
Finally, after a lot of money spent on things that claimed to be totally waterproof but in fact were not (I squirt a LOT in a session), I have found the perfect thing - we like it so much that my man is getting one to keep at his house too.
http://www.hippychick.com/index.cfm...duct_id/145/subject/mattress_protector_double
titaniumcream
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Nice.
But what I've found works best, if the position works for her, is to be giving her oral, or in a 69, or her sitting on/over my face when she cums... and I catch and drink up every bit of her! I take pride in not letting a drop get away. And at least with my last partner, the more it turned me on and the more I drank and devoured her, the more and stronger she came. Getting into those seemingly endless and upward cycles is just mind-blowing! B)
But what I've found works best, if the position works for her, is to be giving her oral, or in a 69, or her sitting on/over my face when she cums... and I catch and drink up every bit of her!
I take pride in not letting a drop get away. And at least with my last partner, the more it turned me on and the more I drank and devoured her, the more and stronger she came. Getting into those seemingly endless and upward cycles is just mind-blowing! B)
Mr.G
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As women are all different I'll just add that the above advice depends on the woman. If she IS multi-orgasmic then I agree. Work her up with a few first and keep her firing with increased G stimulation and she should transition into G-Gasms from multiple clitorals.
If on the other hand she is normally a one shot a night deal she will both physically and psychologically shut off / down after one and it will be difficult at that point to get her fired up again especially if you are using a new technique and she is experiencing a hole new sensation. SO my advice there would be to build her up over a period of time, DO NOT let her orgasm and keep stimulating her G while keeping her right on the edge of cuming from what ever normal means this is achieved.
Titaniumcream ... I mention I think in my first post about being very very careful if you do this while she is riding yo face. Most of the women I have seen experiencing massive G-gasms are completely out of control. Their hips are spasming and rocking so violently that you're liable to have your nose rammed into your brain. NOT a good position for you to leave her in, lemmie tellya. ""Officer, I swear it happened like this ... see I was on his face and ..."" Just sayin, my friends. Whatever turns her on the most. Just be careful because killing you, I'm sure, is NOT in her plans for next weekend. Once she knows you can do this for her every night she will likely consider you a keeper not an involuntary manslaughter victim.
DUANER!! Hey buddy. Long time no see. How are you? I hope well. Thanks for the bump.
titaniumcream
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I had noticed that bit, Mr. G. Lol. And you are very correct. Thing is... what I forgot to mention is that I know it's coming (pun intended), and I hang on like a cowboy on a bucking bronco! I get my face in there, hug her hips, and enjoy the ride. B) I mentioned not allowing a drop get away, right? This is the only way to achieve this. Lol.
I get my face in there, hug her hips, and enjoy the ride. B) I mentioned not allowing a drop get away, right? This is the only way to achieve this. Lol.LivelyLilly
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"As women are all different I'll just add that the above advice depends on the woman. If she IS multi-orgasmic then I agree. Work her up with a few first and keep her firing with increased G stimulation and she should transition into G-Gasms from multiple clitorals."
Mr. G is quite correct. I was speaking from experience as a multi-orgasmic (clitorally) woman, so in my post, I discussed what worked for me. Before becoming multi-orgasmic (clitorally), coming clitorally would have spelt the end of my desire to try for G-gasm. Now I can G-gasm, but only once and only after 2 or 3 clitoral orgasms. Funny, that! I enjoy reading the forums to learn tricks, tips, and techniques that I can use to expand my orgasmic repertoire. Thank you to all of you for making this possible.
Mr. G is quite correct. I was speaking from experience as a multi-orgasmic (clitorally) woman, so in my post, I discussed what worked for me. Before becoming multi-orgasmic (clitorally), coming clitorally would have spelt the end of my desire to try for G-gasm. Now I can G-gasm, but only once and only after 2 or 3 clitoral orgasms. Funny, that! I enjoy reading the forums to learn tricks, tips, and techniques that I can use to expand my orgasmic repertoire. Thank you to all of you for making this possible.
LivelyLilly
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Hey all: Is everyone having an orgasmic summer? Anyways, in the spirit of sharing, I just wanted to state that I have started obtaining multiple g-gasms, each one better than the last. For those who advised me (Mr. G et al.), you were right on the money! Relaxation, breathing, and "going with the flow" all helped immensely. Enough about me, I want to hear your stories...anyone?
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Some of these are obvious.
Others are icing - all good. Some comments from me in * *
Nothing specific but some good advice on improving sex in a general way. These are the MUST knows aimed mostly AT women
I think the G-Gasm(s) Technique is kinda like the PHd of sex and the GREAT thing is you don't need to have a high IQ. A willingness to let go, to trust and to seek the never-ending O is all it takes.
27 Things Every Woman Should Know to Have Better Sex
http://www.realbeauty.com/health/fi...-every-woman-should-know-to-have-better-sex-4
Lock on the bedroom door? Check. Lustful twinkle in your eye? Check. The must-haves for better sex are pretty simple. The must-knows are right here. Read on for the bedroom wisdom you can't live without.
1. Every woman has a surefire happy-making position — find yours.By all means, try new things, mix it up, find an alternate use for your baby's exersaucer when she's asleep if it adds to the variety — but figure out your no-fail move or position so you know you can always have an orgasm when you need one.
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2. That position may change.Maybe in your misspent youth you were all about acrobatics and funky props, but now you strive for a deep connection with your guy. (Or maybe it's the other way around!) What you crave, both physically and emotionally, can shift over time, says Mary Jane Minkin, M.D., a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Yale School of Medicine. Pay attention to what you're feeling (or not feeling) and adapt to your new normal.
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3. He doesn't have a flaw-o-meter.That would be you scanning your body for an errant pudge or a dimple in the wrong place. "During sexual arousal, men are experiencing such a neurochemical cocktail rush, they're really just caught up in the intoxication of it all," says REDBOOK Love Network expert and sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First. In other words, he's too overwhelmed with joy to notice your "flaws." Put aside your body angst and you'll soon be having as much fun as he is.
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4. Sex in a soft, clean, comfy bed is underrated.You're supposed to want to do it on the kitchen floor, in the airplane bathroom, and hanging from your light fixtures. Bah! There's no shame in enjoying your good sheets.
** or the forest floor, the kitchen island, a deserted beach, the top of your car at midnight, the couch ... wherever - whenever.**
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5. Sex clichés are clichés for a reason: They work. Get a hotel room. Have date night. Take a bubble bath. For God's sake, buy some scented candles already!
** even better have a collection of edibles**
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6. Everyone else is not having more (or better) sex than you are.There is no "normal" amount we should all aspire to, no magic number of times per month that signifies your relationship is hunky-dory. There's only one question you need to answer: Are you having enough sex for you?
** resounding ""NO!!"" **
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7. Asking for what you want is worth the embarrassment.What's a brief awkward moment of sounding like one of those women at the end of a 900 number compared to, well, getting what you need?
**Really. The basis of anything more than an exciting one night stand is COMMUNICATION. She doesn't know your fantasies unless you discuss them together. If your fantasy includes other species, blood, homicides, poo ... my advice is just STFU and keep it a fantasy otherwise who knows? maybe she has the same one - think of the fun if that happens!**
8. You need transition time into sex. Look at all the people who want a piece of you — your kid, your client, the guy who's supposed to be renovating your kitchen. So don't expect to make the leap from corporate exec or general contractor or mommy-on-the-spot to sex goddess without a little time to reassemble yourself. When you're done with the dinner dishes, take a shower — alone! — or read a book. Better yet, get your guy to do the dishes. After that, you might want to give him some action, after all.
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9. The more sex you have, the more you want. It's simple: Delicious recent memo ries make you want to reenact the fun. But the reverse is also often true — if you go too long without, you forget how much you like it.
** discussed this often. The more oxytocin produced the more you WANT to produce!**
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10. Masturbating isn't just for dry spells. First of all, it's plain fun, and second, when was the last time you disappointed yourself? Not to mention the fact that more frequent orgasms will keep you craving partner play, too.
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11. Worrying about your orgasm is the best way to chase it away. When your mind is roiling, It's not happening ... concentrate ... he'll think he failed ... what's wrong with me? you're thinking, not feeling. Focus on the lovely physical sensations instead and soon you won't be able to think straight — in a good way.
** relax - enjoy - don't concentrate on just one thing even if it's repeated G-Gasms**
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12. Planned sex can be even better than spontaneous sex. Anticipation as foreplay. Think about it.
** I AM !! **
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13. Yes, you can give him a hand. Touching yourself to speed up your happy ending is not only allowed, it's appreciated, especially when your guy has had his neck in an awkward position for the better part of an hour.
** Show and tell. Some guys are quick learners**
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14. He doesn't need you to know any fancy techniques. "There are many paths to male orgasm," says Kerner. As long as you pay attention to his reactions, refrain from inflicting pain (unless invited to) and don't do anything involving teeth (again, unless he asks), you won't hear any complaints.
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15. Sometimes what your body lusts for most is sleep. An "off" night or a dry spell doesn't mean your relationship is tanking. It usually means you have children or a demanding job or you need to be alone in your head. Go ahead, take the night off.
16. But sometimes "Just do it" really does work. If you wait to be struck with a spontaneous urge to tear his clothes off, you may be waiting a very long time. But if you simply decide to give it a go, your body (and your desire) will often catch up.
** MOST guys will love this. You really should know this by now**
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17. Kegels are key. These exercises strengthen your pubococcygeal (PC) muscles, a.k.a. your pelvic floor muscles, giving you more control during sex and intensifying orgasm, says Minkin. To do them, squeeze as if you're holding back urine, then release.
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18. Your birth control method is not till death do us part. You need to reevaluate your pregnancy-prevention method at least twice in your adult life, says Minkin: when you go from wild woman to a mutually monogamous relationship, and after you have children. Not only does your body change post-baby, but your habits may change, too (making you a less reliable Pill taker, for example).
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19. Doggie-style can be fun — really! It can make you feel a bit raunchy — and that's a good thing. It just suffers from bad PR. Let's change the name — like how the marketing people changed prunes to "dried plums." Hands-free sex? Getting the backstory? Taking the bull by the horns? Heck, call it Loretta, but try it.
** Oooo how adventurous? This sounds like Cosmo. dum!**
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20. Pain during intercourse is not normal. Occasional discomfort may just mean that you're tense or haven't had enough foreplay, but if sex hurts often, see your doctor. "It could be as simple as a low-grade urinary tract infection," says Minkin. Whatever it is, you don't have to suffer.
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21. The way your vagina looks, however, is perfectly normal. And no, we don't have to see it to know that.
** In other words don't just fuck it. Neck with it. Make love with it. Make HER feel like
it is just one of the things that makes her beautiful!!**
22. Props are your friends. Vibrators, fun feathers, unusually shaped pillows — you name it, someone has probably patented it. At the very least, these tools will make you laugh, which can be its own turn-on.
** Goats, etc ... pass!**
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23. Sex is how he shows love. It's an age-old problem: We gals need to feel cozy and loving to want to have sex, and guys need to have sex to access those cozy and loving feelings. "A lot of guys don't have many outlets for communication, and for them sex is a powerful form of emotional expression," says Kerner. Remember that the next time he wants to have make-up sex before you've really made up — to him, sex is a peace offering and a gift of love, all in one.
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24. No matter how badly you want to cuddle and fall asleep, you gotta get up and pee after sex. Why? So you don't get a urinary tract infection.
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25. He'll be snoring by the time you return from the bathroom. The buildup to his ejaculation involves a lot of muscular tension, explains Kerner. When the wave has subsided, he relaxes and sleep-inducing hormones are released. In short, he can't help it.
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26. It's okay to simply take. Consider how you feel when you perform a one-way act on your guy — you get a certain pleasure out of that, right? Don't deny him the same joy.
** Take. Give. In a good relationship there is NO difference. That should be a gimmie**
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27. Sex gets better with AGE.
**Umm yes and no. Frequency, intensity NO. Joy, affection, satisfaction - YES very much.**
Now lets get back to the PHd research. How are the G-Gasms cuming?
Others are icing - all good. Some comments from me in * *
Nothing specific but some good advice on improving sex in a general way. These are the MUST knows aimed mostly AT women
I think the G-Gasm(s) Technique is kinda like the PHd of sex and the GREAT thing is you don't need to have a high IQ. A willingness to let go, to trust and to seek the never-ending O is all it takes.
27 Things Every Woman Should Know to Have Better Sex
http://www.realbeauty.com/health/fi...-every-woman-should-know-to-have-better-sex-4
Lock on the bedroom door? Check. Lustful twinkle in your eye? Check. The must-haves for better sex are pretty simple. The must-knows are right here. Read on for the bedroom wisdom you can't live without.
1. Every woman has a surefire happy-making position — find yours.By all means, try new things, mix it up, find an alternate use for your baby's exersaucer when she's asleep if it adds to the variety — but figure out your no-fail move or position so you know you can always have an orgasm when you need one.
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2. That position may change.Maybe in your misspent youth you were all about acrobatics and funky props, but now you strive for a deep connection with your guy. (Or maybe it's the other way around!) What you crave, both physically and emotionally, can shift over time, says Mary Jane Minkin, M.D., a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Yale School of Medicine. Pay attention to what you're feeling (or not feeling) and adapt to your new normal.
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3. He doesn't have a flaw-o-meter.That would be you scanning your body for an errant pudge or a dimple in the wrong place. "During sexual arousal, men are experiencing such a neurochemical cocktail rush, they're really just caught up in the intoxication of it all," says REDBOOK Love Network expert and sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First. In other words, he's too overwhelmed with joy to notice your "flaws." Put aside your body angst and you'll soon be having as much fun as he is.
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4. Sex in a soft, clean, comfy bed is underrated.You're supposed to want to do it on the kitchen floor, in the airplane bathroom, and hanging from your light fixtures. Bah! There's no shame in enjoying your good sheets.
** or the forest floor, the kitchen island, a deserted beach, the top of your car at midnight, the couch ... wherever - whenever.**
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5. Sex clichés are clichés for a reason: They work. Get a hotel room. Have date night. Take a bubble bath. For God's sake, buy some scented candles already!
** even better have a collection of edibles**
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6. Everyone else is not having more (or better) sex than you are.There is no "normal" amount we should all aspire to, no magic number of times per month that signifies your relationship is hunky-dory. There's only one question you need to answer: Are you having enough sex for you?
** resounding ""NO!!"" **
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7. Asking for what you want is worth the embarrassment.What's a brief awkward moment of sounding like one of those women at the end of a 900 number compared to, well, getting what you need?
**Really. The basis of anything more than an exciting one night stand is COMMUNICATION. She doesn't know your fantasies unless you discuss them together. If your fantasy includes other species, blood, homicides, poo ... my advice is just STFU and keep it a fantasy otherwise who knows? maybe she has the same one - think of the fun if that happens!**
8. You need transition time into sex. Look at all the people who want a piece of you — your kid, your client, the guy who's supposed to be renovating your kitchen. So don't expect to make the leap from corporate exec or general contractor or mommy-on-the-spot to sex goddess without a little time to reassemble yourself. When you're done with the dinner dishes, take a shower — alone! — or read a book. Better yet, get your guy to do the dishes. After that, you might want to give him some action, after all.
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9. The more sex you have, the more you want. It's simple: Delicious recent memo ries make you want to reenact the fun. But the reverse is also often true — if you go too long without, you forget how much you like it.
** discussed this often. The more oxytocin produced the more you WANT to produce!**
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10. Masturbating isn't just for dry spells. First of all, it's plain fun, and second, when was the last time you disappointed yourself? Not to mention the fact that more frequent orgasms will keep you craving partner play, too.
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11. Worrying about your orgasm is the best way to chase it away. When your mind is roiling, It's not happening ... concentrate ... he'll think he failed ... what's wrong with me? you're thinking, not feeling. Focus on the lovely physical sensations instead and soon you won't be able to think straight — in a good way.
** relax - enjoy - don't concentrate on just one thing even if it's repeated G-Gasms**
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12. Planned sex can be even better than spontaneous sex. Anticipation as foreplay. Think about it.
** I AM !! **
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13. Yes, you can give him a hand. Touching yourself to speed up your happy ending is not only allowed, it's appreciated, especially when your guy has had his neck in an awkward position for the better part of an hour.
** Show and tell. Some guys are quick learners**
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14. He doesn't need you to know any fancy techniques. "There are many paths to male orgasm," says Kerner. As long as you pay attention to his reactions, refrain from inflicting pain (unless invited to) and don't do anything involving teeth (again, unless he asks), you won't hear any complaints.
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15. Sometimes what your body lusts for most is sleep. An "off" night or a dry spell doesn't mean your relationship is tanking. It usually means you have children or a demanding job or you need to be alone in your head. Go ahead, take the night off.
16. But sometimes "Just do it" really does work. If you wait to be struck with a spontaneous urge to tear his clothes off, you may be waiting a very long time. But if you simply decide to give it a go, your body (and your desire) will often catch up.
** MOST guys will love this. You really should know this by now**
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17. Kegels are key. These exercises strengthen your pubococcygeal (PC) muscles, a.k.a. your pelvic floor muscles, giving you more control during sex and intensifying orgasm, says Minkin. To do them, squeeze as if you're holding back urine, then release.
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18. Your birth control method is not till death do us part. You need to reevaluate your pregnancy-prevention method at least twice in your adult life, says Minkin: when you go from wild woman to a mutually monogamous relationship, and after you have children. Not only does your body change post-baby, but your habits may change, too (making you a less reliable Pill taker, for example).
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19. Doggie-style can be fun — really! It can make you feel a bit raunchy — and that's a good thing. It just suffers from bad PR. Let's change the name — like how the marketing people changed prunes to "dried plums." Hands-free sex? Getting the backstory? Taking the bull by the horns? Heck, call it Loretta, but try it.
** Oooo how adventurous? This sounds like Cosmo. dum!**
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20. Pain during intercourse is not normal. Occasional discomfort may just mean that you're tense or haven't had enough foreplay, but if sex hurts often, see your doctor. "It could be as simple as a low-grade urinary tract infection," says Minkin. Whatever it is, you don't have to suffer.
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21. The way your vagina looks, however, is perfectly normal. And no, we don't have to see it to know that.
** In other words don't just fuck it. Neck with it. Make love with it. Make HER feel like
it is just one of the things that makes her beautiful!!**
22. Props are your friends. Vibrators, fun feathers, unusually shaped pillows — you name it, someone has probably patented it. At the very least, these tools will make you laugh, which can be its own turn-on.
** Goats, etc ... pass!**
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23. Sex is how he shows love. It's an age-old problem: We gals need to feel cozy and loving to want to have sex, and guys need to have sex to access those cozy and loving feelings. "A lot of guys don't have many outlets for communication, and for them sex is a powerful form of emotional expression," says Kerner. Remember that the next time he wants to have make-up sex before you've really made up — to him, sex is a peace offering and a gift of love, all in one.
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24. No matter how badly you want to cuddle and fall asleep, you gotta get up and pee after sex. Why? So you don't get a urinary tract infection.
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25. He'll be snoring by the time you return from the bathroom. The buildup to his ejaculation involves a lot of muscular tension, explains Kerner. When the wave has subsided, he relaxes and sleep-inducing hormones are released. In short, he can't help it.
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26. It's okay to simply take. Consider how you feel when you perform a one-way act on your guy — you get a certain pleasure out of that, right? Don't deny him the same joy.
** Take. Give. In a good relationship there is NO difference. That should be a gimmie**
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27. Sex gets better with AGE.
**Umm yes and no. Frequency, intensity NO. Joy, affection, satisfaction - YES very much.**
Now lets get back to the PHd research. How are the G-Gasms cuming?
Technique Qu
AAh mR G ... the man who just keeps on giving.
INTRO
WEll i have experimented with a fair few girls and i have to say i am getting the hang of this technique with fairly consistent results. But i wont deny its taken a fair while and a lot of persistence given my lack of a regular partner...
Last week ... this poor girl had about 20 violent orgasms (her reckoning not mine) and i stopped when she started getting a bit ragged- you know the "please stop, no continue, but really stop" comment.
I have found too that firm pressure on the lower stomach (or with a broad hand - pressure on clit/stomach can further enhance the experience.)
THE PROBLEM
But i can only seem to work the technique well when the girl is lying face down - usually over a bolster/pillow.
Face up i never seem to hit the right spot and normally cause discomfort. WIth my hands down there for so long you'd have thought i'd have worked out what bits do what.... but it would appear sadly not.
My consideration is face down its less personal than it would be if we could look at each other (well before the eyes go cross-eyed in any case)
Any Solutions? THe guy on red tube seems to be able to get it right
ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS/COMMENTS
Other points you may want to comment on;
- my wrist gets sore and tired
-my thumb gets sore and tired (as i get more into it i tend to add several fingers/whole hand as the sensitivity of the sensitive area gets broader)
- i find whilst you need to build up once the lady is really going you can get quite violent in action - and this seems to cause a more vigorous reaction .. though pauses and soft touches in the midst of this can be very very effective too as you play the cycles.
- finally whilst the results are spectacular feel its something that should not be regularly the MAIN EVENT in intercourse - as it gets to be more like an impersonal massage rather than a communion/joining of bodies/minds etc.
AAh mR G ... the man who just keeps on giving.
INTRO
WEll i have experimented with a fair few girls and i have to say i am getting the hang of this technique with fairly consistent results. But i wont deny its taken a fair while and a lot of persistence given my lack of a regular partner...
Last week ... this poor girl had about 20 violent orgasms (her reckoning not mine) and i stopped when she started getting a bit ragged- you know the "please stop, no continue, but really stop" comment.
I have found too that firm pressure on the lower stomach (or with a broad hand - pressure on clit/stomach can further enhance the experience.)
THE PROBLEM
But i can only seem to work the technique well when the girl is lying face down - usually over a bolster/pillow.
Face up i never seem to hit the right spot and normally cause discomfort. WIth my hands down there for so long you'd have thought i'd have worked out what bits do what.... but it would appear sadly not.
My consideration is face down its less personal than it would be if we could look at each other (well before the eyes go cross-eyed in any case)
Any Solutions? THe guy on red tube seems to be able to get it right
ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS/COMMENTS
Other points you may want to comment on;
- my wrist gets sore and tired
-my thumb gets sore and tired (as i get more into it i tend to add several fingers/whole hand as the sensitivity of the sensitive area gets broader)
- i find whilst you need to build up once the lady is really going you can get quite violent in action - and this seems to cause a more vigorous reaction .. though pauses and soft touches in the midst of this can be very very effective too as you play the cycles.
- finally whilst the results are spectacular feel its something that should not be regularly the MAIN EVENT in intercourse - as it gets to be more like an impersonal massage rather than a communion/joining of bodies/minds etc.
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HI some comments ...
Yup, whether with intercourse or digital if one presses in on the area in the middle of the abdomen right above the pubic bone then you are pushing her G towards whatever is happening in her vag.
See #1 in the post above. If it works with her face down that may be THE position for her. If it works go with it. You'll likely find that turning her over or on her side will work too - eventually.
Ya, it can be a little impersonal behind and below her. Use your mouth a lot. Bite her neck, nibble her bum and thighs while she's G-gasming. It will add a personal feel to it so that you are not JUST making her cum like you've got some infernal REMOTE button.
Change hands/arms
I found that changes in pressure, direction, speed ALL contributed to a slightly different feeling to her G-Gasms. Obviously the fast furious and almost brutally hard will bring on the most intense O's. Use your judgment. Slow down after one or two of those and give her a few slow, passionate, loving ones. They won't make her as crazy but they will leave her feeling that you are still making LOVE to her - not just making her cum / go crazy.
Work on the different positions. You may find that after a dozen slow build-up G-gasms it is VERY easy for her to climb on and ride you to a new series of orgasms. There is NOTHING IMHO as intimate and demonstrative of loving a woman than to give her a good close intimate tongue-lashing. Most women will tell you that there is nothing that makes them feel as good as a tongue and a pair of lips from a lover sucking hungrily on their clit and lips.
It's funny, isn't it? We strive to make them cum using everything we know and it is intimate. We stumble on a technique which allows us to give them as many massive G's and O's as she can handle - sometimes a few more even and the LOVING partner becomes concerned that the act is now a tad too "clinical." It's true and if you ever MAKE her cum like this it can be a real power trip and THAT can feel clinical for both of you. Bin there. Dun that and was sorry for it. Even with the unlimited G's and O's you can give her or make her have it is obvious that when it is done in a LOVING and highly intimately charged way it is far more satisfying for both of you.
What I suggest is to try moving her from face down to over on her side while keeping her G-Gasming. Once on her side she may have to readjust slightly but if you try that over and over again it should work. Try not to lose the spot and if you do it slowly while she is cuming she won't lose the feel. Try the "spoon" position from behind while she's on her side and you are behind and curled around her bum. This is a good position to switch from thumb to fingers (cum hither) and then continue her turning so that she is almost sitting in your lap. If you can keep her G-Gasming when she is sitting in your lap, your fingers are still on her G and you can deeply kiss her and nibble on her breasts I believe THAT will give you the intimacy you crave while still giving her those O's. All you have to do at that point is lie back and have her ride you too but I've found her sitting in my lap and kissing while she is cuming to be incredibly erotic and intimate.
Hope this helps. Whatever you do make sure you use your imagination and make things different and exciting. Change positions, timing, locations, toys, lighting ... they will ALL contribute to an ongoing sense of adventure and intimacy and not just leave her feeling like an automaton with you holding that remote. Best ....
Yup, whether with intercourse or digital if one presses in on the area in the middle of the abdomen right above the pubic bone then you are pushing her G towards whatever is happening in her vag.
See #1 in the post above. If it works with her face down that may be THE position for her. If it works go with it. You'll likely find that turning her over or on her side will work too - eventually.
Ya, it can be a little impersonal behind and below her. Use your mouth a lot. Bite her neck, nibble her bum and thighs while she's G-gasming. It will add a personal feel to it so that you are not JUST making her cum like you've got some infernal REMOTE button.
Change hands/arms
I found that changes in pressure, direction, speed ALL contributed to a slightly different feeling to her G-Gasms. Obviously the fast furious and almost brutally hard will bring on the most intense O's. Use your judgment. Slow down after one or two of those and give her a few slow, passionate, loving ones. They won't make her as crazy but they will leave her feeling that you are still making LOVE to her - not just making her cum / go crazy.
Work on the different positions. You may find that after a dozen slow build-up G-gasms it is VERY easy for her to climb on and ride you to a new series of orgasms. There is NOTHING IMHO as intimate and demonstrative of loving a woman than to give her a good close intimate tongue-lashing. Most women will tell you that there is nothing that makes them feel as good as a tongue and a pair of lips from a lover sucking hungrily on their clit and lips.
It's funny, isn't it? We strive to make them cum using everything we know and it is intimate. We stumble on a technique which allows us to give them as many massive G's and O's as she can handle - sometimes a few more even and the LOVING partner becomes concerned that the act is now a tad too "clinical." It's true and if you ever MAKE her cum like this it can be a real power trip and THAT can feel clinical for both of you. Bin there. Dun that and was sorry for it. Even with the unlimited G's and O's you can give her or make her have it is obvious that when it is done in a LOVING and highly intimately charged way it is far more satisfying for both of you.
What I suggest is to try moving her from face down to over on her side while keeping her G-Gasming. Once on her side she may have to readjust slightly but if you try that over and over again it should work. Try not to lose the spot and if you do it slowly while she is cuming she won't lose the feel. Try the "spoon" position from behind while she's on her side and you are behind and curled around her bum. This is a good position to switch from thumb to fingers (cum hither) and then continue her turning so that she is almost sitting in your lap. If you can keep her G-Gasming when she is sitting in your lap, your fingers are still on her G and you can deeply kiss her and nibble on her breasts I believe THAT will give you the intimacy you crave while still giving her those O's. All you have to do at that point is lie back and have her ride you too but I've found her sitting in my lap and kissing while she is cuming to be incredibly erotic and intimate.
Hope this helps. Whatever you do make sure you use your imagination and make things different and exciting. Change positions, timing, locations, toys, lighting ... they will ALL contribute to an ongoing sense of adventure and intimacy and not just leave her feeling like an automaton with you holding that remote. Best ....
great thoughtful and intelligent response. funny how we are mostly all on the same journey. pity they dont put this stuff in the school syllabus. speaking to a highly trained phsician friend and the bloke had no clue- just what do they teach these guys in medical school . Have a great weekend.
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The same journey ...
It's true. I wish my journey wasn't interrupted the way it was. Sue and I were having such a blast with this. It really is THE most incredible feeling to be able to give your woman this amount and degree of intense pleasure. If there is plenty of love in the relationship then it can be done (referring to your earlier post) with all the intensity and NOT feel clinical or like you have a remote. It does feel better though when you can change positions and be more face2face intimate. I hope that works for you.
We have had many discussions in these pages about who knows this and who doesn't. There have been articles written by sex experts and psychologists (some I've posted in here) claiming the GSpot/ASpot are simply fabrications made up by some women to make others feel inadequate. Some women have criticized me for claiming to know more about their bodies than they did. I've never made that claim but I do know GSpots and if a woman has never been shown there is a very good chance she has NOT discovered it all by herself.
I do believe it should be taught in schools and sex ed and sex improvement courses. I guess because it does not work for everybody, instantly many feel it would make some feel sub-female or inadequate in some way. Many things in life come (cum?) only after a technique has been perfected and for some this is what happens with GSPOT manipulation. Trust has to be established. A woman has to be prepared to relinquish ALL control of her body to her partner. Some will react almost instantly. Other need time and a partner who will start slow, run the engine up to the red line over and over again, fine tune the process and eventually MOST women can achieve this. Once they do it is a cinch to do it again and for many / most G-Gasms can be achieved from a cold start to WhooOPPPEE in around TWO MINUTES.... unless she is anticipating it and horny as hell - then figure on about 10 SECONDS. Fun. Empowering (for BOTH of you). Produces massive quantities of oxytocin and self confidence.
WE know this. Our women KNOW this. It is just a matter of time before this and similar techniques are as widely known and accepted as all the other things more associated with foreplay and getting her "ready" for intercourse or orgasms. This just takes it to a hole (sic) new level and in a whole new time-span with a whole new intensity.
You too. A safe and enjoyable weekend.
It's true. I wish my journey wasn't interrupted the way it was. Sue and I were having such a blast with this. It really is THE most incredible feeling to be able to give your woman this amount and degree of intense pleasure. If there is plenty of love in the relationship then it can be done (referring to your earlier post) with all the intensity and NOT feel clinical or like you have a remote. It does feel better though when you can change positions and be more face2face intimate. I hope that works for you.
We have had many discussions in these pages about who knows this and who doesn't. There have been articles written by sex experts and psychologists (some I've posted in here) claiming the GSpot/ASpot are simply fabrications made up by some women to make others feel inadequate. Some women have criticized me for claiming to know more about their bodies than they did. I've never made that claim but I do know GSpots and if a woman has never been shown there is a very good chance she has NOT discovered it all by herself.
I do believe it should be taught in schools and sex ed and sex improvement courses. I guess because it does not work for everybody, instantly many feel it would make some feel sub-female or inadequate in some way. Many things in life come (cum?) only after a technique has been perfected and for some this is what happens with GSPOT manipulation. Trust has to be established. A woman has to be prepared to relinquish ALL control of her body to her partner. Some will react almost instantly. Other need time and a partner who will start slow, run the engine up to the red line over and over again, fine tune the process and eventually MOST women can achieve this. Once they do it is a cinch to do it again and for many / most G-Gasms can be achieved from a cold start to WhooOPPPEE in around TWO MINUTES.... unless she is anticipating it and horny as hell - then figure on about 10 SECONDS. Fun. Empowering (for BOTH of you). Produces massive quantities of oxytocin and self confidence.
WE know this. Our women KNOW this. It is just a matter of time before this and similar techniques are as widely known and accepted as all the other things more associated with foreplay and getting her "ready" for intercourse or orgasms. This just takes it to a hole (sic) new level and in a whole new time-span with a whole new intensity.
You too. A safe and enjoyable weekend.
Powerful beyond words
How wonderful that the O's just keep getting more and more powerful. And when I squirt with a G-gasm, that is such a rush!! My legs get wobbly and my whole body is just pulsing for days. I feel my muscles tightening as if they are re-living the experience for a couple of days afterwards. Awesome beyond words.
How wonderful that the O's just keep getting more and more powerful. And when I squirt with a G-gasm, that is such a rush!! My legs get wobbly and my whole body is just pulsing for days. I feel my muscles tightening as if they are re-living the experience for a couple of days afterwards. Awesome beyond words.
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Hi ValleyO: It's great that you've just started experiencing this. After being plagued by weak internal orgasms, I used the advice on this forum to get G-gasms, and it worked!. My experience is that the O's are like rolling waves, each with increasingly successive force. I squirt about two-three times first before I G-gasm, and the act of squirting releases the G-gasm. My muscles tighten so hard I feel like I am imploding...sometimes at inopportune moments. Awesome beyond words? Maybe. Awesome, definitely. They're almost as good as my all-over body orgasms, which combine anal, uterine, clitoral, g-spot, and leg/arm muscle convulsions.
