trying not to be too obvious

[Liplovinman]

I'm certain I'm not the only one who has spotted someone in a crowd, on the street, in line while buying gas or anytime someone catches your eye. What creative excuses or manuevers have you used to get a closer look, longer look or just find a way to permit the experience to last.

Just happened at a car wash - sat behind a woman who was dangling her shoe from her toe - the back of her glittered blue thong peeking above her low cut jeans. She never turned around, but the fact that she stood up first and then bent down to pick up her bag and purse had me thinking she knew the 6 other men waiting were all glued to her ass.

 

[WolfsButterfly]

Once, I was at a small concert bar and there was this guy across the room, I don't know what it was about him but he caught my attention and I was trying to subtly take his picture. He caught me lol, I never did speak to him that night but I still have his picture

 

[L8tnIt]

Being the Bouncer/Security Officer at one spot, I am smack in the middle of two esteemed colleges. This means that the very attractive and alluring women from both schools will frequent my establishment.
And I am paid to watch everybody...

Fortunately, I can use a classic stand-by to *ahem* 'appreciate the view'- I wear perscription,mirrorshade glasses. Even at night, because the DJ will have strobe lights flashing

 

[Noor]

Why not be obvious? I smile, walk over and say hi.

If you can make small talk in a receiving line you can do it with strangers.

Introduce yourself and see what happens, if they start talking fine, if not tell them it was nice to meet/chat with them and walk away.

 

[Liplovinman]

Why not be obvious? I smile, walk over and say hi.

If you can make small talk in a receiving line you can do it with strangers.

Introduce yourself and see what happens, if they start talking fine, if not tell them it was nice to meet/chat with them and walk away.

There are times that the direct approach works without issue, still others where it might be intrusive or the voyuer takkes over.

 

[Noor]

There are times that the direct approach works without issue, still others where it might be intrusive or the voyuer takkes over.

I am almost zero percent voyeur so it's hard to relate. for me its all about interaction, no interaction, no interest.

 

[Liplovinman]

thank you to those ladies who responded and acknowledged their desires to dress provocatively for men. Just as many made mention of needing interaction, so I guess the playing field is divided.

 

[Noor]

thank you to those ladies who responded and acknowledged their desires to dress provocatively for men. Just as many made mention of needing interaction, so I guess the playing field is divided.

Are you implying that some of us desire to dress provocatively for men but don't acknowledge it?

 

[Liplovinman]

Sharing comments maae privately with the thread, before it fades away.

 

[Scentofawoman]

I always people watch. I can't help it. When I get caught now I smile or wink. I can't take it further in real life. A lot of time hubby will catch me and tell me to quit flirting.

As for dressing, I dress for me and my mood. If I feel sexy that day my clothes will reflect it. If men happen to appreciate my mood, consider it a gift.

 

[Liplovinman]

Appreciate the comment

 

[Liplovinman]

there is a certain someone I would like to oogle...