Trying the other flavors?

[SexyKitten1974]

Hi there!

I'm new here and had a question. I want to find out if I like being dominated, but am not sure how to do that. I am just coming out of a marriage where I wanted my husband to be more "dominant" but it never worked out well. I don't know if that's because I'm not really into it, or because he was (sorry to say) just not good at it.

I don't even know what I'm curious about is called. I don't like pain. But I want someone to tell me what to do. Whenever I go to any board or thread that sounds like that, it's all people who are tied up and being spanked -- that's not what I'm looking for. I just want someone to be super alpha with me.

Advice? Thoughts? Help?

 

[Scentofawoman]

Hi there!

I'm new here and had a question. I want to find out if I like being dominated, but am not sure how to do that. I am just coming out of a marriage where I wanted my husband to be more "dominant" but it never worked out well. I don't know if that's because I'm not really into it, or because he was (sorry to say) just not good at it.

I don't even know what I'm curious about is called. I don't like pain. But I want someone to tell me what to do. Whenever I go to any board or thread that sounds like that, it's all people who are tied up and being spanked -- that's not what I'm looking for. I just want someone to be super alpha with me.

Advice? Thoughts? Help?

Hi! Welcome to Lit. There are many different levels to what kind of information you want. I suggest reading around the different threads like the BDSM, or the Fetish threads.
Word of advice. There are a lot of great men on Lit. Also a lot of creeps. Just do your research and keep an open mind.

Good luck!

 

[cliteatingman]

Hi there!

I'm new here and had a question. I want to find out if I like being dominated, but am not sure how to do that. I am just coming out of a marriage where I wanted my husband to be more "dominant" but it never worked out well. I don't know if that's because I'm not really into it, or because he was (sorry to say) just not good at it.

I don't even know what I'm curious about is called. I don't like pain. But I want someone to tell me what to do. Whenever I go to any board or thread that sounds like that, it's all people who are tied up and being spanked -- that's not what I'm looking for. I just want someone to be super alpha with me.

Advice? Thoughts? Help?

Just get on your knees and do anything I say!!

 

[Ellafun]

Read. A lot. On these boards. Especially on the BDSM threads. Take advice from people like CutieMouse, StellaOmega, DesertSlave and several other very knowledgable folks on those threads. *

My advice for you? Turn off your PM's. You're going to get about 100 invitations before you fall asleep tonight. Good luck, and welcome to Lit!


*apologies to those I didn't mention by name...there are many wise Litsters in the BDSM threads, and I don't mean to overlook anyone...these are the three that popped into my head immediately, that's all.