Tuesdays with Needfull

[tagurit_113]

This one is for everyone.

Question 5: What would you say is the thing about you that most captivates others?

My quirky sense of humor and a little bit of goofiness. And for the few that see beyond that it's the compassion, caring, and loyalty.

 

[tagurit_113]

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[Sensualdreamer]

You've interviewed me before but I'll try to remember to lurk like a good litster would.

 

[Needfull Thing]

Good answers all. By the way these questions are also open to the guys. I think thats it till next week. See yall Tuesday.

 

[Adrraiya]

Good answers all. By the way these questions are also open to the guys. I think thats it till next week. See yall Tuesday.

Sorry honey that I am late... for it isn't Tuesday & then there was the whole confusion of waking up thinking Wednesday was actually Thursday.... and durn I am so lost!!! but I promised you I would answer your questions... so here goes

First Question: What brought you to Literotica and why do you keep coming back?

I came to Literotica looking to inspire myself to get back to writing. I used to write erotic short stories and vignettes (not sure of my spelling) and was even published in a very small pamphlet like "book" that had a sampling of a few different erotic writers. It had a target audience & because of this any work submitted had to be based on the one-on-one experiences of a married couple (it was being marketed as a "Christian" alternative to "My Secret Garden")... so all the stories had to be based on monogamous marrieds.... the publisher managed to get it marketed into some of the Christian book stores.... but it didn't sell well & in most markets was demanded to be taken off the shelves because of the sexual nature of the stories.

I had submitted when I was 19... I was a prolific erotic writer from the age of 18 until 24. Then a horrific event happened to me....

I have recovered nearly all of me over time that was lost in that event... but the one thing I could never seem to get back to doing... .was my writing.... so I got on the internet looking for stories to try to kick-start me back to writing. I found Lit @ 3 years ago, I created a user name and began to look around.... but then I got wrapped up in other things happening around me & forgot all about it... then about @ 2 years ago, I ran across Lit again, created a user name... but then couldn't recall what I had created..... so, one more time & I created the user name that I currently have.... after digging around the stories some more, I found the boards and began chatting on the boards.... never really went back to the stories. Occasionally, I will meet someone interesting on the boards and/or in PM and will read a story they wrote to get to know more about them (for example, I read one of Sensual Dreamers when I saw she posted on some of the same boards as me)

Why do I come back? I have made a few friends here & this is where we say hello (sorta like swinging by the local pub after work)

and I like to help people.... so, I post on experiences that I have had in the hopes that I can help someone with something... so many times, I have posted on a board & gotten several PMs from people who are able to use at least a little of what I have said or have otherwise been helped by my input (even if the only help was that they now know they aren't alone in their experience)... so I have opened up all the depths of who I am & what I have experienced because it seems that there are many lurkers who benefit



Question 2:And what is it that has captured you about this place, what formed and fuels your addiction?

The people, especially the people whom I have been able to help, even on some small level & the new friends


Third Question: What sort of personality makes you tingly?

Intelligence, Wit, Sense of Humor, Sensitive to Others, Sees Life Beyond Just Oneself


Question 4: When you are drawn to someone, how does it feel? Is it a physical thing, or all in the mind?

I can be drawn to a person for various reasons.... some have nothing to do with physicality. Usually, when I am drawn to a person.... it is neither in the mind or of the body.... it is an awareness within my higher self.....

Something from a deeper place (ie: higher self and/or higher power)

In your case, I was drawn by your AV, your dark hair, darker colored eyes, and deeply soulful expression...... my eyes saw you as attractive & sexy... (at the time was your AV, is now your profile pic)

you didn't even know that at the time because we had never spoken.

and, I was to chicken to say or do anything about it... you were tall, dark, handsome, and much younger.... I didn't stand a chance against girls your age, so I didn't even try ----- and then something about my being drawn to you must have drawn you to me.... because I about fell out of my chair when you PMd me... and you were polite & didn't make the intro about anything to do with sex (such a rare PM).... so I decided to take the opportunity to make conversation... (and see how that worked?!?)

How did it feel? a little bit giddy that you (whom I secretly admired) even wanted to say hello to me


Question 5: What would you say is the thing about you that most captivates others?

I would like to think my mind, the ways I express myself, and my willingness to be an open book for the sake of helping others.... but most men will tell you it's my boobs and very long hair... and very few men find my blunt directness attractive.



Sorry for the long read.... I have difficulty formulating short answers.

Much Love, A